My fiance totally blindsided me with the 'I don't know how I feel about us anymore' in message form after leaving abruptly late last night. He's been acting super shady for 2 weeks, no affection, working late and odd schedules, reinventing himself and some possible signs of cheating.

Instead of getting emotional I am letting this relationship go. Yes it's hard, but I will never invest 100% in someone and not get the same back. I'm picking up the rest of my things next week. No I don't need time to think about what I want. I knew I loved him and if he needs space to think about whether he loves me, he doesn't. No begging, class only and the conviction that I deserve better and I'm not settling for anything less. He can regret this and I will not.

To all my sister's out there, don't take any bullshit.