When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the end

oreooreooreos · 2021-10-27T16:07:00+00:00

Oh my god why can’t he just leave her in peace? What a fragile piece of shit.

DinkyDoo531 · 2021-10-27T16:35:15+00:00

He seems to be following her to her damn car. Tf is wrong with this guy.

Dudes like this is why I’m actually nervous rejected men in public because I’m afraid they might have a gun or something and try to hurt me.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-10-27T17:33:03+00:00

Another example of males being more emotional

ladylabrys · 2021-10-27T16:49:44+00:00

When men destroy your property, slam doors, throw things, etc, the message is: this is what I could do to you .

It's a threat and it often precedes assault/ domestic violence. (Source: "why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft)

Women are told we need to reject men "gently" but also we need to "be more firm". Unfortunately, both come with consequences. It's a trap.

Averyhvw · 2021-10-27T15:58:58+00:00

All the cry babies on the dating subs, this is why you MUST be ghosted.

Honestly, lack of hearing is the best defense. Just pretend you don’t hear them because you’re distracted. Then zoom away as quickly as possible.

Softrito · 2021-10-27T17:13:16+00:00

Did they arrest this guy? Btw thank you for this video, great motivation to get my boxing gloves back on.

Nonsluttymen · 2021-10-27T15:13:03+00:00

Don’t engage or: https://youtu.be/QXAa99LHWwg

At least she caught the guy with testicles for brains on camera. This video should be posted everywhere. Being a woman is actually the worst.

give_mefries · 2021-10-27T15:17:24+00:00

Okay this is fucking scary. We can’t do mundane shit without getting harassed. More than dating, I worry about what to say when rejecting men.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-10-27T16:19:50+00:00

WALK AWAY

Don't keep giving them responses. This is why I shop with earphones in. Even if I do hear them I just pretend I don't keep walking. At most I sort of grunt in their direction and then turn away and never look back and walk off.

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2021-10-27T15:56:26+00:00

Lunatic males.

say10s-exwife · 2021-10-27T14:55:26+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with men

Feministtiktok · 2021-10-27T17:06:15+00:00

I had a feeling he was going to either take a picture of her car’s license plate or something to follow her or key her car but damn he really destroyed it.

I sometimes pretend I don’t know English. And if you can, girl I’d fake knowing sign language and pretend I’m deaf. But always make it obvious you have pepper spray because it makes men think twice before trying to assault you because they know they’re less of an easy target. None of this is her fault at all but I wish she had pretended not to be able to hear or understand English or something just for her own safety. Women go through so much, and men are so violent towards us that just saying “no” is not a safe option.

funky_worms · 2021-10-27T16:56:46+00:00

UGH what the actual fuck. I hope he got arrested for this. Also, in the first 15 or so seconds after he said “snapchat? twitter?” he also asked her if she had onlyfans. 🤢 I fr hate this so much. depraved

Davina33 · 2021-10-27T16:36:45+00:00

What the fuck!

tiavarga · 2021-10-27T17:28:36+00:00

And that’s when you call the cops and get the idiot arrested.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-27T17:50:31+00:00

Wtf with men. He’s a psycho, just move on dude

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2021-10-27T14:57:55+00:00

This is why I made my post yesterday, please read it through. Rejecting men should be done in a safe space.

Merryprankstress · 2021-10-27T15:23:25+00:00

And this is why I'm strapped. Motherfuckers can try me.

deadinsidelol69 · 2021-10-27T17:07:21+00:00

I ignore men in public. I don't listen, I don't respond, nothing. Just in case some douche doesn't get the message, I do carry a weapon in my truck at all times.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-10-27T17:52:14+00:00

What a petulant man child! Psychopath!

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-10-27T18:17:53+00:00

This is why I carry pepperspray and a taser

NitzMitzTrix · 2021-10-27T23:50:49+00:00

What the FUCK?! Sexual harrassment AND destruction of property, which as another comment pointed out is a veiled threat of violence?! Hope the scrote does jail time.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-10-27T18:27:22+00:00

Men are literally unhinged walking time bombs. Good lord women should never have to interact with as many volatile crybabies as we do. “Logical superior” sex needs a lot of bubba time and naps.

muffy2008 · 2021-10-27T19:41:42+00:00

If something like this happens to you, get in your car and lock the doors and drive away as fast as possible. Unfortunately, the fact he only hurt her car, is actually one of the better case scenarios. You should say you have a boyfriend, get in your car, and leave.

Also, unfortunately, men respect “I have a boyfriend/ I’m married”, much more than they respect “I’m not interested/ I’m good”.

nothingt0say · 2021-10-28T01:50:08+00:00

Where is the go fund me to buy this queen a tank??? 😡

londochig · 2021-10-27T16:43:47+00:00

Men take rejection personally. This is why I always say I am a lesbian and I have a wife. It's a measure to keep myself safe from aggressive men. They have the audacity to try to make you cheat on your bf if you claim you have one. Or they will ask you if you can be friends. They never ask for my friendship when I tell them I like women. They leave me alone at that point.

shockingupdate · 2021-10-27T19:13:52+00:00

The worst part about this for me is that I don’t believe there was any one right way for her to handle this; he would have circled her car and attacked like a hungry shark even if she’d ignored him. She did the only thing she could, which was to protect herself and her dog by staying on the opposite side of the car from him.

__kamikaze__ · 2021-10-27T23:20:28+00:00

I was low key hoping the dog would attack him at the end

Valentcat · 2021-10-27T18:17:03+00:00

I actually think this is staged for insurance or views, because she previously had another video with the same guy in it, sitting in her car, and she deleted it when someone pointed it out.

That does not change the fact that this happens often, and most (if not all) women have a firsthand experience similar to this. If it is staged, this pisses me off so much. If not, hope this guy has been arrested.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-10-28T03:02:59+00:00

I hope she called the cops. She ran into an incel in the wild.

I hope she called the cops and pressed charges. This is UNACCEPTABLE

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-10-27T20:06:39+00:00

He should be charged with a hate crime for that. He’s also a total psycho and shouldn’t be allowed to wander the streets.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-10-27T21:51:11+00:00

I was hoping her dog was going to bite him.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-10-27T21:46:18+00:00

I hope she got his license plate.

waddamelone · 2021-10-27T21:53:04+00:00

WHAT THE ACTUAL F^(&:@?! I’m so disturbed. Everytime I think it cannot get any worse, men prove that they indeed can make everything much worser.

Chicahua · 2021-10-27T18:08:17+00:00

He could’ve got his ass run over and he would’ve deserved it.

the-worst- · 2021-10-27T20:07:19+00:00

Please PLEASE tell me she updated and either got him arrested or sued his ass for those damages... destroying someone else's personal property is a crime.

And like... what woman wants to be flirted with after dark when she is grocery shopping? He's delusional.

jingks_ · 2021-10-27T16:15:41+00:00

This is legit scary, and I’ve had men react aggressively upon rejection too, but I am almost positive this video is fake. There’s no way a shopping cart caused that kind of damage.

Edit: those doors are made of galvanized steel y’all

MilitantPERF · 2021-10-28T05:49:09+00:00

And this isn't just some rare occurrence of manchild or incel rage...ANY male can act this way. Too many other women still don't get that.

nothingt0say · 2021-10-28T01:46:57+00:00

Disgusting rapist piece of shit.

When that dog is not longer a puppy?? People wont have the nerve. I keep a 70 lb Pitt by my side when I am out of doors. And don't even think of coming IN my apartment without an invite!!!

GothPope · 2021-10-28T07:26:06+00:00

Men will call you emotional and then act like this. They're delusional.

PinkestMango · 2021-10-28T15:03:46+00:00

Well she has him on tape :)))

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-10-28T09:40:50+00:00

I really wanted him to try and pat the dog and get bitten 😑

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-10-28T11:06:36+00:00

I was hoping the dog was going to attack him.

What a piece of shit.

Witchy-Woods · 2021-10-28T13:09:59+00:00

My heart stopped when he asked "is this your car?" ... men scare me so much. That must be so expensive to fix, thankfully it wasn't anything worse.

Greedy_Ad954 · 2021-10-28T14:44:19+00:00

She should have released the hound

PicoPicoMio · 2021-10-28T18:05:40+00:00

What an emotional troll. He even had the audacity to suggest she had an OnlyFans. Ugh.

alli4202 · 2022-02-23T21:09:14+00:00

What a psycho. That’s on camera.. turn his ass in

Title	When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the end
Author	piscesdrip
Upvotes	1260
Comments	135
Date	October 27, 2021 2:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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