N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-08-04T12:49:17+00:00

Question for those who say getting a high N-count is important to them. What is the N that would be considered high enough for you. At what number would you say “that’s cool, I’m at about where I’m satisfied with my n-count now” Like what’s that real number look like?

I’ve asked this question I’m two previous weekly N threads and so far have not gotten any answers except 1 guy why said “I just want to get to one!!”

So: what’s a satisfactory number for all the dudes who are looking to “rack up a body count”?

SadCahita · 2024-08-04T04:56:47+00:00

I would rather die young than spending decades of my life committed to a high n count woman, even if she lies about it. Saying "we can just lie tee hee" makes you look horrible and only reinforces the negative stereotype men have about women in general as not trusty people who you need to use before they use you.

mobjack · 2024-08-04T04:47:22+00:00

Life is better if you get over your insecurities over n counts.

Be confident in your own ability to please a woman instead of worrying about their past.

Proudvow · 2024-08-04T01:20:46+00:00

Promiscuous women leave some men out of the fun, then wonder why those specific men aren't big fans of them after the fact.

Makes no sense!

However you may feel about promiscuous men, at least they ain't leaving any women out.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-08-03T22:50:12+00:00

🎶🎶My n-count brings all the boys to the yard🎶🎶

🎶🎶And they're like "it's better than yours"🎶🎶

🎶🎶Damn right, it's better than yours🎶🎶

🎶🎶I could teach you, but I'd have to charge🎶🎶

Coloursoft · 2024-08-03T22:26:53+00:00

Q4A I suppose, because why tf not. Are there any people here who actually appreciate sluts in some fashion? It could be something as simple as "hell yeah, she deepthroats" or "damn right, he's more likely to eat ass" to that being your thing because you like to host orgies.

We see a lot of posts and comments admonishing sluts, and just as many saying to shut tf about sluts because they're not hurting anyone. So let's see if we have the other extreme!

Redpill-mind · 2024-08-03T21:10:43+00:00

It's not about the sex but the genuine desire, if she's making you wait It's not that she ain't into sex

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-08-03T19:57:19+00:00

Its common sense. Do not ever commit to a woman that has a high n count. But as a guy just learn to fuck well and you can get these chicks to want to commit. Most guys are horrible in bed. Perfect missionary, doggy and her on top and you're good, but never commit.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2024-08-03T18:55:43+00:00

Every time I see a topic about n-count, I am interested in one question... In addition, wanting the same values regarding intimacy and intimacy (I regard casual sex as an extremely dubious activity that causes me negativity, although I don’t hate people who do this) but... Is it bad to be insecure about your partner's sexual past? Or experience retrospective jealousy? That is, I, like most other people, am average, and although I’m definitely not a scoundrel in terms of appearance (I even had cases in my life when girls themselves invited me on dates), my main character flaw is introversion. But I understand that I am definitely not Alain Delon and naturally I understand that simply from the point of view of probability, a potential slutty in the past girl most likely saw a more attractive guy then me and, moreover, communicated with him or make with him relationship/sex. So I seriously ask, what's wrong with being insecure in this regard?

ComfortableJeans · 2024-08-03T18:07:13+00:00

I feel like sex is pretty important and meaningful to me. When I've been propostioned by women in the past, whether it's in bars or friends asking me to stay the night at theirs, I've never taken any up on it because I just can't imagine enjoying sex with someone who I don't have a deeper emotional connection with. Sex with someone I don't feel that way about is just very unappealing.

It's a very intimate thing that I don't want to just have with just anybody.

I'm 30 now, and I've only slept with two women. And had three adult relationships. (I didn't want to sleep with one until I knew I really loved her.)

I don't know if it's insecurity, or whatever, but the thought of being with someone that doesn't share those same feelings and values around sex is just an emotional dead end for me.

I don't think of them as bad people, we can be friends, but anything beyond that becomes a brick wall. Like trying to fall in love with a male friend. It's just not going to happen.

People should be free to do what they want, it doesn't make them immoral villains. But it is a limiter for me. Though I understand a lot of people here seem to feel differently.

This study around sexual behaviour that would suggest that the true median was around 6 sexual partners. It doesn't REALLY cut down the numbers that much.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf

Well, between 4-8, anyway.

You could even go as far as to say that this was done in 2002, and note how people are repoting having less sex than previous generations these days. I'd hazard a guess that MOST women aren't getting ran through by chad after chad anyway. I wouldn't be surprised to find out most people come out to something like, a median of 4 partners lifetime, or something now. And everyone's perceptions are being skewed by a small number of really slutty people and internet people.

Honestly, in normal life, I still see a lot of people talking down about more sluttier people. Particularly with girls I've known. More so than the men, honestly. I don't think it's nearly as accpted as people make it out to be online.

Kind of related, but I don't know what it is about millennial women, but when I've spoken to girls I've known and stuff like this comes up, they always call the girl in question a sloot instead of a slut.

Just a wierd thing I've noticed.

Also, I don't think sluttier women really have a hard time settling down. I know a girl who was sleeping with tens of boys when I knew her, get addicted to coke, got stuck in rehab, got knocked up by someone while she was in there and didn't know who the father was because she was getting fucked by so many different men, became a single mother and STILL found someone to marry her. Even with a second child by a father who vanished later on.

I don't know if that says something bad about men, or women, or both, or neither, but it's worth considering.

Maybe also worth considering that a lot of the more sexually open women I used to know are in relationships now, but not what I'd call happy ones. Not a lot of faithfulness, quite a bit of abuse, some of it really horrible and depressing. I've got a few horror stories about those.

But it's all anecdotal nonsense anyway. We should all just pick a post we agree with and convince ourselves that it's the only right one.

Obviously it's mine. But feel free to pick another one.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2024-08-03T17:38:38+00:00

How do you truly know a woman’s body count if shes not obvious with it and doesn’t sleep with men who know each other or are in the same circles? Inb4 “we can just tell” explain how.

Corbast7 · 2024-08-03T17:35:32+00:00

Anecdote but most of the women I know who used to be more promiscuous in their early 20s are now in happy, long term committed relationships now in their late 20s. Most men I know irl don’t have puritanical beliefs like many men do on here.

I think all the “women with high n count end up rejected and miserable” is just online echo chamber brain rot 🤷‍♀️

hearyoume14 · 2024-08-03T17:27:43+00:00

People have different values.

Here’s a question: If the promiscuity is due to Truama/truma, mental illness and/or other mental/emotional issues does that change your perspective? Not saying YOU have to date her but does that change how you view here? Maybe more of a pity or sympathy?

I went the complete opposite way and thought liking sex was a sign of severe mental illness until I was 25 so it does depend on the person.

I have seen, and men here have confirmed, that relationships/sex with these sorts is different and mostly not in a good way.

workrateis20 · 2024-08-03T17:22:42+00:00

High n count women are just like junk/ fast food in human form.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-08-03T17:16:44+00:00

Women try to show them not caring about a high n count in a man is a virtue when it's not . Women do care about n count in a man if it's low ( only with ugly women) or 0

attendquoi · 2024-08-03T16:57:01+00:00

Men who worry about body count should realize that they aren't men who promiscuous women want any way. We aren't going to change our behavior or regret our past for them.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-08-03T16:52:10+00:00

Female women with high n counts are just so unappealing in so many different ways.

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-08-03T16:28:40+00:00

What I've learned on PPD:

No men here have ever been laid
Number 1 is true except for the husbands of the women here who are all Chads
Pump and dumps don't ever happen because women can backwards rationalize a pump and dump
High bodycount women can get married (but still probably fantasize about better lovers)

AngeCruelle · 2024-08-03T16:28:40+00:00

My BF had zero romantic experience at 25 when we met, AMA

ScarletRedShadow · 2024-08-03T16:25:15+00:00

I think the only people who care about N counts are incels or religious folk

Gullible_Amoeba6488 · 2024-08-03T16:24:07+00:00

Bodycount for me is one of the biggest dealbreakers. I value sex differently and it makes 0 sense for me to settle for a woman with a N count who has slept around a ton.

For me personally I'd rather date an average woman with a low count than an extremely attractive woman with a high count.

Keep in mind I'm not some bitter incel. I have plenty of options but am waiting for a woman who hasn't slept around. Id honestly rather date abroad and be a passport bro than settle on this.

As far as what's a high count? Id say anything more than 15 is an absolute dealbreaker but that's even pushing it. Id say 10 would be more reasonable but knowing how much women sleep around these days, I can't be too unreasonable.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-08-03T16:10:19+00:00

Women who sleep with a lot of men are gross and usually damaged in some capacity.

Men who sleep with a lot of attractive women are impressive and must have something valuable going for them.

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