N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-08-04T12:49:17+00:00

Question for those who say getting a high N-count is important to them. What is the N that would be considered high enough for you. At what number would you say “that’s cool, I’m at about where I’m satisfied with my n-count now” Like what’s that real number look like?

I’ve asked this question I’m two previous weekly N threads and so far have not gotten any answers except 1 guy why said “I just want to get to one!!”

So: what’s a satisfactory number for all the dudes who are looking to “rack up a body count”?

SadCahita · 2024-08-04T04:56:47+00:00

I would rather die young than spending decades of my life committed to a high n count woman, even if she lies about it. Saying "we can just lie tee hee" makes you look horrible and only reinforces the negative stereotype men have about women in general as not trusty people who you need to use before they use you.

mobjack · 2024-08-04T04:47:22+00:00

Life is better if you get over your insecurities over n counts.

Be confident in your own ability to please a woman instead of worrying about their past.

Proudvow · 2024-08-04T01:20:46+00:00

Promiscuous women leave some men out of the fun, then wonder why those specific men aren't big fans of them after the fact.

Makes no sense!

However you may feel about promiscuous men, at least they ain't leaving any women out.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-08-03T22:50:12+00:00

🎶🎶My n-count brings all the boys to the yard🎶🎶

🎶🎶And they're like "it's better than yours"🎶🎶

🎶🎶Damn right, it's better than yours🎶🎶

🎶🎶I could teach you, but I'd have to charge🎶🎶

Coloursoft · 2024-08-03T22:26:53+00:00

Q4A I suppose, because why tf not. Are there any people here who actually appreciate sluts in some fashion? It could be something as simple as "hell yeah, she deepthroats" or "damn right, he's more likely to eat ass" to that being your thing because you like to host orgies.

We see a lot of posts and comments admonishing sluts, and just as many saying to shut tf about sluts because they're not hurting anyone. So let's see if we have the other extreme!

Redpill-mind · 2024-08-03T21:10:43+00:00

It's not about the sex but the genuine desire, if she's making you wait It's not that she ain't into sex

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-08-03T19:57:19+00:00

Its common sense. Do not ever commit to a woman that has a high n count. But as a guy just learn to fuck well and you can get these chicks to want to commit. Most guys are horrible in bed. Perfect missionary, doggy and her on top and you're good, but never commit.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2024-08-03T18:55:43+00:00

Every time I see a topic about n-count, I am interested in one question... In addition, wanting the same values regarding intimacy and intimacy (I regard casual sex as an extremely dubious activity that causes me negativity, although I don’t hate people who do this) but... Is it bad to be insecure about your partner's sexual past? Or experience retrospective jealousy? That is, I, like most other people, am average, and although I’m definitely not a scoundrel in terms of appearance (I even had cases in my life when girls themselves invited me on dates), my main character flaw is introversion. But I understand that I am definitely not Alain Delon and naturally I understand that simply from the point of view of probability, a potential slutty in the past girl most likely saw a more attractive guy then me and, moreover, communicated with him or make with him relationship/sex. So I seriously ask, what's wrong with being insecure in this regard?

ComfortableJeans · 2024-08-03T18:07:13+00:00

I feel like sex is pretty important and meaningful to me. When I've been propostioned by women in the past, whether it's in bars or friends asking me to stay the night at theirs, I've never taken any up on it because I just can't imagine enjoying sex with someone who I don't have a deeper emotional connection with. Sex with someone I don't feel that way about is just very unappealing.

It's a very intimate thing that I don't want to just have with just anybody.

I'm 30 now, and I've only slept with two women. And had three adult relationships. (I didn't want to sleep with one until I knew I really loved her.)

I don't know if it's insecurity, or whatever, but the thought of being with someone that doesn't share those same feelings and values around sex is just an emotional dead end for me.

I don't think of them as bad people, we can be friends, but anything beyond that becomes a brick wall. Like trying to fall in love with a male friend. It's just not going to happen.

People should be free to do what they want, it doesn't make them immoral villains. But it is a limiter for me. Though I understand a lot of people here seem to feel differently.

This study around sexual behaviour that would suggest that the true median was around 6 sexual partners. It doesn't REALLY cut down the numbers that much.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf

Well, between 4-8, anyway.

You could even go as far as to say that this was done in 2002, and note how people are repoting having less sex than previous generations these days. I'd hazard a guess that MOST women aren't getting ran through by chad after chad anyway. I wouldn't be surprised to find out most people come out to something like, a median of 4 partners lifetime, or something now. And everyone's perceptions are being skewed by a small number of really slutty people and internet people.

Honestly, in normal life, I still see a lot of people talking down about more sluttier people. Particularly with girls I've known. More so than the men, honestly. I don't think it's nearly as accpted as people make it out to be online.

Kind of related, but I don't know what it is about millennial women, but when I've spoken to girls I've known and stuff like this comes up, they always call the girl in question a sloot instead of a slut.

Just a wierd thing I've noticed.

Also, I don't think sluttier women really have a hard time settling down. I know a girl who was sleeping with tens of boys when I knew her, get addicted to coke, got stuck in rehab, got knocked up by someone while she was in there and didn't know who the father was because she was getting fucked by so many different men, became a single mother and STILL found someone to marry her. Even with a second child by a father who vanished later on.

I don't know if that says something bad about men, or women, or both, or neither, but it's worth considering.

Maybe also worth considering that a lot of the more sexually open women I used to know are in relationships now, but not what I'd call happy ones. Not a lot of faithfulness, quite a bit of abuse, some of it really horrible and depressing. I've got a few horror stories about those.

But it's all anecdotal nonsense anyway. We should all just pick a post we agree with and convince ourselves that it's the only right one.

Obviously it's mine. But feel free to pick another one.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2024-08-03T17:38:38+00:00

How do you truly know a woman’s body count if shes not obvious with it and doesn’t sleep with men who know each other or are in the same circles? Inb4 “we can just tell” explain how.

Corbast7 · 2024-08-03T17:35:32+00:00

Anecdote but most of the women I know who used to be more promiscuous in their early 20s are now in happy, long term committed relationships now in their late 20s. Most men I know irl don’t have puritanical beliefs like many men do on here.

I think all the “women with high n count end up rejected and miserable” is just online echo chamber brain rot 🤷‍♀️

hearyoume14 · 2024-08-03T17:27:43+00:00

People have different values.

Here’s a question: If the promiscuity is due to Truama/truma, mental illness and/or other mental/emotional issues does that change your perspective? Not saying YOU have to date her but does that change how you view here? Maybe more of a pity or sympathy?

I went the complete opposite way and thought liking sex was a sign of severe mental illness until I was 25 so it does depend on the person.

I have seen, and men here have confirmed, that relationships/sex with these sorts is different and mostly not in a good way.

workrateis20 · 2024-08-03T17:22:42+00:00

High n count women are just like junk/ fast food in human form.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-08-03T17:16:44+00:00

Women try to show them not caring about a high n count in a man is a virtue when it's not . Women do care about n count in a man if it's low ( only with ugly women) or 0

attendquoi · 2024-08-03T16:57:01+00:00

Men who worry about body count should realize that they aren't men who promiscuous women want any way. We aren't going to change our behavior or regret our past for them.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-08-03T16:52:10+00:00

Female women with high n counts are just so unappealing in so many different ways.

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-08-03T16:28:40+00:00

What I've learned on PPD:

No men here have ever been laid
Number 1 is true except for the husbands of the women here who are all Chads
Pump and dumps don't ever happen because women can backwards rationalize a pump and dump
High bodycount women can get married (but still probably fantasize about better lovers)

AngeCruelle · 2024-08-03T16:28:40+00:00

My BF had zero romantic experience at 25 when we met, AMA

ScarletRedShadow · 2024-08-03T16:25:15+00:00

I think the only people who care about N counts are incels or religious folk

Gullible_Amoeba6488 · 2024-08-03T16:24:07+00:00

Bodycount for me is one of the biggest dealbreakers. I value sex differently and it makes 0 sense for me to settle for a woman with a N count who has slept around a ton.

For me personally I'd rather date an average woman with a low count than an extremely attractive woman with a high count.

Keep in mind I'm not some bitter incel. I have plenty of options but am waiting for a woman who hasn't slept around. Id honestly rather date abroad and be a passport bro than settle on this.

As far as what's a high count? Id say anything more than 15 is an absolute dealbreaker but that's even pushing it. Id say 10 would be more reasonable but knowing how much women sleep around these days, I can't be too unreasonable.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-08-03T16:10:19+00:00

Women who sleep with a lot of men are gross and usually damaged in some capacity.

Men who sleep with a lot of attractive women are impressive and must have something valuable going for them.

ktdotnova · 2024-08-05T18:45:36+00:00

Why are women so defiant against MALE PREFERENCE? Are men not allowed to have preferences? My body. My life. My choice.

It's not my fault you let 15+ guys have sex with you with no commitment, no first dates... just DoorDash pussy because like he was just sooooo hottttt and successfulll. You made your bed. Now sleep in it.

his_purple_majesty · 2024-08-05T21:18:35+00:00

Is this really something people need to talk about on a weekly basis?

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-08-03T16:08:05+00:00

N-counts are this thing trad cucks are obsessed with because they spend all day thinking about other men’s penises and women’s sexuality is met with disgust. Because they keep thinking other men’s big giant dripping penises next to their shriveled white q-tip.

Do they always envision and black one or a big white one? Maybe they’ll comment on which one they imagine.

And they imagine her mouth may have had a bigger penis, so they clutch their pearls on that one too.

It’s funny, because their own ncount studies show virgins cheat and divorce too. Albeit at slightly lower rates. Of course they compare Amish girls locked in basements to college girls who enjoy sex.

Ncounts are just weak religious cucks explanation for why they have intense disgust about sex. Most of them, being trad spaghetti monster -cucks (or whatever), can’t even masturbate without feeling fear and shame.

Pretty pathetic. Fist, because they’re pretending to treat every relationship as marriage, which is an excuse to want 14 year old virgins, which is stupid, because marriage is over for anyone man with a room temperature intelligence, not that religious cucks notice, since they’re trad cucks, and second, they’re literally terrified of women’s sexuality.

All the other cjckery around trad cuck studies are just that. Nonsense.

It’s just the lies and excuses they give to be terrified of women.

grillopie · 2024-08-05T01:44:57+00:00

Exclusively going after virgins in your mid to late 20s can be dangerous. you wont meet all that many, let alone date them. once you do date them, youre going to feel so much pressure to lock her down despite other faults (like maybe an extremely low libido), since that will likely be the last virgin you date.

If you still insist on focusing on this attribute, youre going to need to be creative as fuck. take account of the virgins in their 20s on this sub. some have anxiety, others are extreme traditionalists, others are kinda quirky, and some detest men. these people dont meet a lot of new people; theyre often a part of communities that are insular and difficult for outsiders to wedge into. But maybe theres some hope. you could stumble upon someone who has struggled with anxiety, but managed to work through it recently. maybe youll chance upon the quirky girl who just never came upon an opportunity she was interested in.

IMO here are some traits to look for and avoid: Dont bother with the traditionalists or religious ones, unless youre from the same sect. dont try to join the sect as an adult. youll have no connections, and youll probably just flounder as the core members in the group start pairing up.

Im guessing dating apps wont be ideal either, but worth trying.

Youre best bet is going after the type that had personal circumstances deter dating. maybe someone who is dealing with social anxiety, or a personal tragedy in their young adult years. look for people who have goals. perhaps their goals distracted them. look for people who are going through graduate education in fields dominated by women. Maybe theyre new around. look for people who immigrated in high school, or later, preferably from a country that doesnt have the hugest community in your area.

virgins into their 20s are going to lean introverted. you need to be outgoing. even if youre introverted by nature, you must take the lead to meet an adult virgin. scrape together an outgoing persona to at least get the interaction started. dont think about stupid red pill or pua bullshit. clearly, thats not whats going to do it for you. if that type of thing worked on her, she wouldnt still be a virgin in her 20s. what is an abnormally risk averse person interested in? SAFETY. In every sense. you need to be the safe choice.

offer social safety; dont be the type her parents or friends would shame her for. whatever her social circle values is what youll need. education? prestige? just money? overt romantic gestures she can show off on social media? whatever it is, you need it.

offer economic safety; dont be poor, dont be the type that has boom or bust wealth.

offer physical safety. my guess is a little chivalry type shit will be appreciated on dates, but much more importantly, dont live in a scary neighborhood, or at least, communicate how much you value not being in a remotely scary neighborhood, and have a plan to leave if you happen to be living there now.

offer emotional safety. this one is going to vary, but you basically need to mirror her values on relationships.

this sounds a lot like a “nice guy,” but the safety element has nothing to do with your persona. you could be hypermasculine and still be the safe choice in many pragmatic ways.

its not going to be easy, and youll need to think through what type of person is likely to be a virgin, and what type of person that type of person would go for.

Aware-Statement-162 · 2024-08-05T14:28:05+00:00

Most guys I know don't want a high n count woman

ktdotnova · 2024-08-05T18:56:54+00:00

At the end of the day, why being high-n count as a woman is radioactive toxicity is because of the implementations behind it. Surely, you aren't messing with men on your own level. You are willingly getting used for sex by men out of your league and being tossed aside for the next high value man to have his turn. Rinse and repeat. Why would any self respecting man want to pick you up as a future partner? Note I said self respecting... Yes, you'd get some chump who can't do any better and is happy to have any woman's warmth in his life, but that's not someone (the guy with no options) you'd respect deep down inside.

gigrabbit · 2024-08-06T22:21:01+00:00

dismissing a girl for ncount is only privilege high-value men can have. Assuming you're not religious, if you're average you taking the best you can get or stay sexless

Maractop · 2024-08-07T02:58:36+00:00

Its well known how much women dislike bi-sexual men. They will judge men based off their past with other men with no issue but when men do the same its an problem. How do they rationalize this?

shadowrangerfs · 2024-08-11T21:14:43+00:00

A little comedy to lighten the mood.

If They Made Guided Meditations for Dudes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DtQchshBkc

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YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-08-03T16:49:40+00:00

A female women’s n-count shows a lot about her character.

OriginalThought171 · 2024-08-04T20:46:10+00:00

An n-count between √2 and 𝝅 is bad

Vernon_Mansae · 2024-08-05T01:33:02+00:00

Alexander Grace says Zoomer/Millenial women average 10 easy by 21

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zA6EsH-zBJc&pp=ygUdUHJvbWlzY3VvdXMgd2lmZSBkZWFkYmVkIHJvb20%3D

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-08-05T16:31:59+00:00

Here let's try a fun game for the whiteknights

Do you want a high bodycount woman, you can only respond with yes or no.

silverhippo15 · 2024-08-05T16:39:35+00:00

I prefer girls whose n counts are about half of mine. Hard pass on virgins.

Higher_Standard548 · 2024-08-06T05:19:06+00:00

meh to each their own, theres plenty of guys who have engaged into prostitution, bisexual experiences etc who would happily date a high n woman, they also have a past they wanna hide of their own so they pretty are enough open minded to date them, i dont think they ll die alone.

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-08-07T15:21:21+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/w1iqe2bme9hd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=deeed290e0c486c1e093114b0a175a0a4631ac25

Still care about your body count

Junius-Julius · 2024-08-07T19:03:16+00:00

My body count is 0.

MeetingClean5596 · 2024-08-08T02:14:12+00:00

What women don't realise about men not liking high N-counts in women is that it really isn't (ultimately) about physical effects or some horrible self-loathing thing about the male sex organ being corrupting or whatever (although I absolutely can understand why someone might get that impression).

What it's ultimately about is insecurity. And I don't say this to criticise men for feeling this way, but in their defence. If a woman has been with ten or more men, the chances that one of those men is much better at sex, much more physically attractive is very high, and it goes up massively with every digit. Women can say that men should "just get over" this thought and be more secure about it, but it's just not reasonable. It's like guys in relationships watching a lot of porn featuring 10/10 young women with model-tier bodies. Men can say it's just entertainment and doesn't change the fact that they love their girlfriends and wives, but women just can't help being insecure about it.

Women just can't spend their youth having fun with all kinds of different hot guys, say they've changed what they're looking for when they settle down and not expect guys to be insecure about it.

Overall, I think the term "insecurity" has been thoughtlessly turned into a term of ridicule, when in truth feeling insecure is both part of being human and sometimes is quite understandable.

MeetingClean5596 · 2024-08-08T13:29:46+00:00

Imagine you go into a Toyota dealership, and you're looking for a new ride (har har). What you want most is to buy the 2024 new model, so you can drive it out of the dealership yourself, rip the plastic off the seats, enjoy that perfect new car smell. TBH, even a 2024 model that has been used is still valuable, and costs a pretty penny as a result: but it's still depreciated as soon as it's been driven off the premises.

An unsold 2023, 2022, or even 2021 model is still close to perfect, and commands a premium if it's never been owned. Not quite the same premium as the 2024 model.

But there comes a point at which you would actually rather the car had been owned before, or at least has been driven around and inspected inside and out, just so you have the assurance everything's still working and ticking over. You'd positively balk at the idea of buying a ten year old Corolla that had been sitting around at the dealer. Moisture and other environmental factors could be causing damage, and it's actually bad for a car to sit around on the lot without being driven. You do want the new model so you can be the one to drive it all over the place first yourself, but still.

https://preview.redd.it/usouaxumzfhd1.jpeg?width=273&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=afce3def665fdffec2ce2cdcccccfb18d3f33302

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2024-08-09T03:40:40+00:00

I feel like virginity is the singular most important characteristic for me if I'm considering marriage. Like, the most beautiful woman on the planet could be available to me but I won't take to marriage if she's not a virgin.

At the end of the day, I think it's good that I understand what I want, it makes the process a lot easier then just pretending I don't care when I do.

K4matayon · 2024-08-12T09:19:57+00:00

the looks thread has been up for two days and it's still not pinned instead this is still going wtf is happening

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