Hello queens!

I was scrolling on social media and came upon a video of a guy who wanted to surprise his girlfriend whom he didn't see for an unknown amount of time. He asked her to pick the color (she picked pink), flowers (i believe she picked sunflowers), and a shop (she picked Sephora). Just a quick thought - how is this a surprise if he's basically asking her this stuff? Lmao. Then he basically filmed how he was going to these places and buying her stuff. So he goes to Victoria's Secret, picks lingerie that is purple, not pink, and says "even though this isn't pink, I can't help but think how good she would look in this". Umm. He buys flowers and then also buys eyelashes in Sephora. Cute, right? Let's unpack this, ladies, shall we?

To a brainwashed eye this may look like a dream. I mean, comments prove my point. Teens and women were going NUTS about this, commenting stuff like "is he on amazon?", "wow, I wish my bf would do that" etc etc etc. Men, on the other hand, were commenting stuff like "no need to do that and spend that much money, just make her a nice dinner and give her a massage". Do you mean to get her naked to eventually masturbate with her body and not even try to make her cum? Ugh, anyways.

What bothers me is that he gets the applause of supposedly getting her a present, when in actuality the one he's giving a present to is himself. I doubt that he knows what kind of lingerie she actually likes (this one looked kinda tacky and basic, in other words pornified), and I think that it's not the best present (at least in the early stages of a relationship). If they haven't even been intimate yet then it's the worst present ever, very pushy.

Even though she picked a pink color, he still bought purple lingerie because he couldn't help but think how hot she would look in it. Even when he "buys her a present", he still values his opinion and pleasure over hers. What his dick wants and finds hot is more important than what she likes. Again, the same goes for the lashes, I bet he likes long lashes on her. What about the flowers? They are for her, aren't they? Um, they serve here a purpose of complying her into whatever he wants to do.

Basically, his whole "present" to himself was so that he can put pink glasses on her eyes, make himself look thoughtful and caring, and get some applause from scrotes and pickmes. But what actually happened is that he wanted to make her feel like he's a catch and no one does this shit. He was "considerate" and splurged, so she better put this shit on and perform like his own personal porn star.

Very few women agreed with me in the comments, which was both refreshing and sad. So many scrotes and pickmes argued with them. "This is why men don't do shit for women anymore", "you can never be happy", "stfu you're not a relationship expert", "I dream of my bf preparing a surprise like this one for me", "there's nothing bad about a man who wants to make his gf feel hot and sexy". You get the point. This is both sad and pathetic.

A present from a HVM will be based on what YOU like. He will care about your opinion, your likes, and your dislikes. A present won't be something generic, but rather personalized and catered to satisfy YOU as an individual, not him.

I want to hear your opinion about it, ladies.

Edit: scrotes in my dms are ridiculous. Piss off. Nobody cares. Go cry because this post made your fragile ego hurt. Blocked and deleted.