Western women and shaming gold-diggers

wtknight · 2024-02-23T14:44:27+00:00

If the goal is to find a relationship that is based upon love rather than being transactional, then all these women are saying is their belief that this relationship will definitely be transactional.

Of course, if you believe that all relationships are transactional and are never based upon love, then there is no difference between a western relationship and a foreign one, and then your argument has definite merit.

Freevoulous · 2024-02-23T21:28:37+00:00

Im from Poland and noticed this when thousands of young Ukrainian women arrived here, and most were looking for a guy, both for Gold-digging purposes but also out of sheer loneliness in a new country. Polish OLD scene was fucking NUKED. Local women were livid about guys hooking up with Ukrainian chicks over them, but were powerless to stop it.

Its madness in here. Fuckboism gone wild.

dacution · 2024-02-23T14:57:26+00:00

There’s no shame in using a passport bro for his money and his passport. I might do the same thing if I were a poor woman stuck in the slums of Brazil.

Nellylocheadbean · 2024-02-23T15:31:28+00:00

I think it’s great that men are going overseas to finally get what they want. I hope it works out for them.

Maybe going overseas will give them purpose & drive.

FutureBannedAccount2 · 2024-02-23T18:22:23+00:00

Of course they’re gonna shame men for this because they lose resources. The more men who choose to date over seas the more competition they have

mike-sonko · 2024-02-23T16:52:16+00:00

Western women are lamenting that they can't find marriageable men i.e economically attractive men.

Moreover, decades ago western women married up both academically and income-wise. But currently even with the great strides women have made academically they still marry up income-wise but will marry down educationally.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-02-23T19:33:56+00:00

Thing is, it is different. Western women who are gold diggers still have a shitty attitude while Eastern women, who might be gold diggers, at least offer the man a wife experience.

Fast-Event6379 · 2024-02-23T15:22:27+00:00

This is the same thing as the Spiderman meme where 3 of them point at one another. They're women - they date men who have resources. They don't give a f*ck about you.

527east · 2024-02-23T17:34:48+00:00

Women project what they and other women do.

MayaMarmalade · 2024-02-23T20:07:57+00:00

Any western women shaming foreign women are just haters and mad at the wrong thing. So what if some of them they are prostitutes. In certain areas of the world, that may be one of their very few options.

The problem with PPBs is the fact that they capitalize on that fact. They go to countries where they know the women will spot a foreigner and approach them, with the assumption they have money. To each their own, but I’d dislike PPBs a lot less if they could just keep western women out their mouth and stop acting like this is such a huge loss to the rest of us lol

And to answer your question, it doesn’t make a woman a gold digger to date only financially stable men.. In general, women are much more content alone than men are. So to us, unless it’s adding value to our lives, what’s the point? And why can’t a women who is working expect equal pay? Lol just because some women choose to be housewives, doesn’t mean all do. Plus in this economy, it’s necessary.

Not every woman will find their match in a man that can support them 100%, not in this economy. Some will HAVE to still work. But it’s funny, studies show men feel inferior when their wife makes more than them…

So we’re gold diggers, yet most men wouldn’t even want a woman with more money than him. So which is it? It comes down to whatever works for two individuals.

So if men today find that going to another country works for them, I support that. Women could do the same thing and be pretty surprised with the new dating pool. And I’m sure in time, that will happen with how things are going in the US.

But maybe we can just stop blaming each other (men and women alike) and realize our government is who’s causing such division. Our economy is shot to hell, and everyone is suffering in SOME way. Going to another country that’s half the cost sounds like a superb idea for anyone at this point.

Uncle_Nate0 · 2024-02-23T18:20:26+00:00

Yes, it's all mindless drivel.

It's like the age gap debate. Women say that the men are predatory but then when a man says he's in one of those relationships the women just blurt out "she's just going to use you for money!" So then the *woman* is the predator now?

Comical.

FutureBannedAccount2 · 2024-02-23T16:59:04+00:00

Funny cause the posts I've seen on this topic have comments where the majority of women are concerned that gross, creepy men are going to exploit foreign women

RandomAttackHelpMe · 2024-02-23T15:16:35+00:00

Long story short, it's the game with these people. It's a lot at once. I'm not quite awake, but I will elaborate more later.

f1resnakes · 2024-02-23T20:00:43+00:00

The gold ain’t going to dig itself

sigma1932 · 2024-02-24T13:10:50+00:00

Well, for starters, they avoid the green-card issue by moving to their country permanently because their culture made them what he wants....

Makes no sense to bring them back to the culture here that will turn them into the women PPB's are trying to get away from in the first place...

SilverCartographer11 · 2024-02-25T05:51:13+00:00

Nothing makes a “western woman” more racist than the mention of foreign (usually Asian) women

sweetestpineapple · 2024-02-23T20:33:30+00:00

It’s not a direct comparison. Finding a woman who lives in abject poverty in a dangerous country and is dating you out of survival is different from a poorer woman in a rich country choosing to date someone who makes more. One situation is clearly a bit more exploitative than the other. To be fair, I think it’s kinda shitty to use people for the money without both people being on board with the arrangement (which does happen somewhat often). People have a negative reaction to passport bros because they believe there’s less of a choice involved and feel grossed out by the perceived power imbalance.

CauliflowerElegant76 · 2024-02-23T16:59:06+00:00

What you're referring to as "Western women" is a small portion of gold-diggers who marry rich men and use them for their money. The average Western woman is a woman who pays 50% of the bills. From what I notice in my day-to-day life is that most Western women have no problem splitting the bills with their partner and in most places that's the only way to survive and afford a good life, especially if you want to have a family.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-02-23T15:50:19+00:00

Nobody believes they're prostitutes or incapable of love. All you need to believe is at least a few people will do things they don't want to do if they're in a situation they're desperate to leave. If these "bros" are getting more attention in another country, I do not for one second believe it's because people in that country are inherently different or better or worse, that opens up a whole kettle of fish I don't want to discuss here. There's only one thing that's making things different to dating people from their own countries, only one reason why they would be so dramatically different as they claim.

Raileyx · 2024-02-23T14:48:05+00:00

I love passport bros. What everyone has to understand about them is that most of them aren't going through with it. It's essentially limited to a pathetic fantasy that they talk about online.

The reality is, if you're not mentally resilient enough to have a normal conversation with a woman in your own country, you're not likely to be able to do that in a foreign country either.

LillthOfBabylon · 2024-02-23T15:22:31+00:00

How is that any different from Western women

Because studies show most Western women marry men within their social class. Women only make less than men after she has children that she’s the main caretaker of.

a-person-who-lurks · 2024-02-23T15:52:56+00:00

Western women need to constatly look down on everyone outside their priviledged bubble to feel better about themselves

favabeansandwine · 2024-02-23T15:51:41+00:00

Western women are going to bitch and moan about anything that might interfere with their cornered market. I remember the outrage I caused when I let people know at one point I didn't prefer Caucasian women (being ~~one~~ Caucasian myself) and preferred dating Asian and East Indian women.

And the more outrage it caused, the more fun it was.

Karens make me laugh. And laaaaaugh and laaaaaugh.

Safinated · 2024-02-23T17:04:48+00:00

Why is wanting equal pay for the same job bad? Are we supposed to have the same job as our partners?

The point is that Westen women aren’t dependent on your money, imported wives are

one_little_victory_ · 2024-02-23T17:15:09+00:00

The gold diggers are males who benefit from the free household labor and child care of their women partners, which would cost a LOT to pay someone for.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2024-02-23T15:02:55+00:00

golddigging is extremely looked down upon in white western post feminist society, like extremely. stop watching fresh and fit

Plus-Sprinkles7852 · 2024-02-23T15:38:46+00:00

western women are very rarely without options to survive on their own

they usually have access to and awareness of opportunities to leave if the relationship is unhealthy - they are also typically better educated and informed and aware of healthy social practices surrounding boundary respect and communication in the first place and therefore less likely to continue engaging w men that might mistreat them physically or emotionally

men that prey on and exploit women in impoverished countries and gender inequal cultures are not the type of men that most women will be able to trust or respect or admire

when i say that a woman that gets w a guy based on financial stability or gain wont love him - im almost always talking about his failings as a partner and human being - not the woman who the man knowingly approached due to the power imbalance and extreme disparity between their circumstances and used money to lure her cause he had nothing else of value to offer

Vivid-Ad-9870 · 2024-02-23T15:44:37+00:00

Its classic projection.

They are mad that their retirement plans are leaving.

Lets face it the average 304s plan is to ride the carasoul and sew her wild oats with as many broke jailbird Pookie and Ray Rays that she can until shes over 30 and then gold dig some sucker so that she can be financially secure.

At least if you get golddigged by a 22 year old Fililina or Columbiana you get a better deal.

Proof_mongol9135 · 2024-02-23T15:22:41+00:00

foreign woman have better "percieved" value.

AntiFeminismAU · 2024-02-23T15:27:09+00:00

All women are hypergamous and want a man that has more money, period. Better just to save your money and go MGTOW.

SmallSituation6432 · 2024-02-23T20:13:08+00:00

I just need to make sure you are aware there is more than one job.

demand equal pay for the same job doesn't mean demand equal pay for every job. It is possible to marry someone with a higher paying different job.

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-02-24T11:44:47+00:00

Lol a western woman uses for more money and wants to prove she’s on top of the pecking order too. I don’t hang out with western women or western educated ones

waffleznstuff30 · 2024-02-23T15:37:51+00:00

I think the goal of a relationship is to find mutual compatibility and love. Not all this transactional nonsense unless you want a transactional thing then that's your business.

You want to find someone who makes your quality of life better and contributes to a better life for both of you. So you can build something together. I don't think gold digging/sugar baby what have you relationships offer that. It's prostitution with extra steps.

I think the reason why most women do not date broke men. Is because a broke man will become vindictive and insecure if his partner makes more. He becomes a real bump on the log.. "I don't have money to do this thing you want to do" "It's fine I'll spot you it will be fun my treat" "no I don't want you to do that". Like who wants to be with someone like that?!

Like at least a dude having his own shit and life together is a good start not to gold dig or like demand stuff from him. It's just he has his things together. I have my things together.

Aggravating-Oil126 · 2024-02-24T16:05:26+00:00

Western Women want everything and then look like a fucking slob at the same time

(maybe not European but North American for sure)

Lookingforlove1997 · 2024-02-23T18:43:09+00:00

It’s not different that’s why they say it. To further drive home the point that for most passport bros it’s a “you can’t fire me I quit” situation.

ta06012022 · 2024-02-23T16:47:02+00:00

Western women still delusionally want a man who makes more than them, but also demand equal pay.

Women want equal pay for the same job. No one is saying that the female cashier at McDonald's should be making the same as the male neurosurgeon. They want the female neurosurgeon to make the same as the male neurosurgeon.

Wanting equal pay for the same job while also wanting a man who makes more isn't delusional. High paying jobs are mostly in male-dominated fields. Even if women are paid the same for the same jobs, there are still plenty of higher earning men available.

GGMcThroway · 2024-02-23T23:27:06+00:00

Passport bros think that leveraging their money in the third world will net them the kind of romantic relationship they want.

Shockingly, specifically leading with your money is unlikely to net you a woman who actually cares about you.

If you don't want your romantic partner to care about you, you probably have attachment issues and should be seeking therapy anyway.

HumpsyDumpsy · 2024-02-23T19:30:26+00:00

Women love to act like foreign women are all just prostitutes who can't ever love men

Not really! Its the men who act like foreign women are basically prostitutes, because they cant find love here. So many passport bros, only motive for travelling the world is just to get some pussy, and supposedly find a wife who will be subservient to them, as if they are looking for the ultimate mail order bride. Opposed to looking into why they aren't having success w women in their homeland.

If anything, it's delusional to put a halo over Eastern women's heads, while overlooking that they too are women. It overlooks how the women outside of the west have autonomy, and value a genuine loving husband.

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2024-02-23T14:57:33+00:00

They are telling you what they do. Use a man as a cum donor and dick to ride then throws him away. Literally exactly what western women do. They sure love to roll their eyes back and feel the spirts into them, but have zero respect for us and will never make us happy.

purplish_possum · 2024-02-23T15:36:45+00:00

Now all around the world
Girls will be girls

It's the same ol', same ol' situation
It's the same ol', same ol' ball and chain

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXt5NWY5Ay0

kdk200000 · 2024-02-23T22:24:57+00:00

Thanks!

YveisGrey · 2024-02-24T05:02:17+00:00

I don’t think this is true. Many Western women aka “modern women” date men for looks not money. This is why average men are struggling. If Western women were dating for money Western men would be fine they still make more than women on average many still make enough to live decent lifestyles. But even dorky tech bros are struggling so it’s not the money.

The difference between now and 70s even 80s is American women aren’t “settling” for the nice guy with the stable job, they now want that guy to be exciting and sexually attractive.

Dudes here constantly flip flop on this, y’all complain about women getting with good looking deadbeats but then in the same breath claim that modern women only care about money. It’s obvious that isn’t the case. Trad women care about money, modern women care about how you make them feel which almost always comes down to how attractive you are (could be physical could also just be down to having masculine traits, or being charming). That is why you’re doing the passport bro thing you actually do want a woman who cares about money and not as much about how attractive you are because if you were attractive you would easily get with these so called modern women. The PB needs to leverage money because he can’t attract modern women who in all honesty probably care less about money than ever before.

philseven12 · 2024-02-24T15:25:57+00:00

going against the grain, i did the passport bro thing before it was a thing. i got nothing bad to say about western women in general. they are not that bad and almost any situation that you end up in with them can be seen coming from a mile away.

most western women dont even have game like that, dudes just operate out of desperation and lack.

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2024-02-24T20:55:08+00:00

Exactly.

If men had to choose between a 33 year old unattractive western gold digger and a 23 year old attractive foreign gold digger, clearly they'd go for the latter.

Age as of 2022	% of Women Never Married
25	74.0%
30	48.2%
35	30.0%
40	22.2%

Title	Western women and shaming gold-diggers
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