This is the truth. This is the central reason why more and more gen z men struggle with women. They are boring uninteresting people. Observe who attracts the most women? Men who are devoted to their purpose and their mission, who have ample connections and host extravagant parties and show up and have lives they invite women into. More and more men have lives of stagnation and passivity - familiarity - wake up, work, gym, scrolling or listening to music, scrolling forums, gambling, drinking in private etc. They do not have interesting stories to tell or hobbies they are intensely dedicated to, they have no great talents.

It is much more common in my observation to see women have rich lives wit different goals and hobbies and commitment to art and literature, and rich inner universes, while far more men lack substance.

One of the reasons I believe the men of the red pill are so hyper fixated on status and appearance is because they know deep down they have nothing to offer internally. They are empty, shallow, uninteresting people and so they compensate by cultivating a facade of grandiosity and sophistication. The same with the looksmaxing community - curating a persona of hyper productivity based on appearance while offering nothing to captivate people under the surface.