Daily Community Chat Megathread

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-17T20:25:25+00:00

I offered someone $10k if she could get me a date within a week on the apps and she's not even willing to try because she knows how shitty dating is for men but she refuses to admit it 🤣

If it's so easy for a man to get a date, she could have just made the easiest $10k she'll ever make. Oh well, I can only help people so much.

Maffioze · 2023-09-17T20:08:48+00:00

Pasta pesto has to much oil. It tastes nice but it is really heavy on the stomach.

Maractop · 2023-09-17T20:08:04+00:00

What is the difference between doing something with intention vs expectation specifically in dating? If im dating with the inention to find a gf/wife what is the difference between doing it with the expectation of it happening? They sound pretty similar tbh. Like intending to pass a test at school vs expecting to pass it. Arent the two kind of the same?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-17T20:04:29+00:00

Skinny women with no ass shouldn't be allowed to twerk!

UN should declare skinny ass women twerking a crime against humanity!

A terrorist act!

I had a skinny ass twerking in front of my face, and all I could think was... how nice would it be to not exist.

One day Aliens are going to see some skinny woman twerking, and they will destroy Earth.

Maffioze · 2023-09-17T19:44:35+00:00

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Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-17T19:43:41+00:00

Men should be emotionally unavailable, always. Why? -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16kz9ho/how_to_respectfully_safely_reject_a_guy_whos_come/

eye_fuck · 2023-09-17T19:35:47+00:00

me and who

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DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-17T19:35:42+00:00

The best part about being pregnant is eating whatever the hell you want for 8 months and not worrying about it.

mrrelaf · 2023-09-17T19:28:16+00:00

Sundays as an adult are basically just for house chores, grocery shopping and meal prepping

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-17T19:08:11+00:00

Tattoos are hot, but only if they're good. Bad tattoos are a no-no.

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-09-17T19:06:16+00:00

Bro wasn't ready for the NFL linebacker

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-17T19:03:07+00:00

If I say I don’t like tattoos on a women will I get a striptease too?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-17T19:02:51+00:00

Challenge for the men of PPD! Stop automatically assuming two things:

That women are lying (subconsciously or consciously)
That you understand women’s desires and beliefs better than individual women themselves!

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-17T18:50:13+00:00

Q4All: You know what's time for...

Did you workout last week?

potoricco · 2023-09-17T18:46:12+00:00

Honestly hate feeling like my effort is being wasted and taken for granted. I’m helping my brother prepare for an exam and, at the age of 13 in 8th grade he hasn’t memorized multiplication facts for some reason. He can multiply but has to write it out or count on his fingers it’s so tedious when the exam he’s taking has algebra questions on it and is timed. I put him on a math fluency/memorization program I used in elementary school called Xtramath, I paid 2 fucking dollars for it. It’s boring yes but is painfully easy and forces you to memorize

All I ask for from him is using it for 20 minutes a day and when I asked him to use it today he started bitching and moaning, this is the same person that wants me to help him and do all the work for him. Like why even bother? Why should I help someone who won’t help themselves. But if I let him fail it’s my fault. Welcome to the life of being an oldest daughter 😇

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-17T18:45:14+00:00

I'd like to be tall enough to tower over all my ex boyfriends. Maybe I should get leg lengthening surgery 🤔

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-17T18:40:47+00:00

Q4M: Would you prefer a woman who is entirely loyal and loves you, but you cannot have sex, or a woman who does not love you and simply uses you for sex?

Im curious.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T18:32:53+00:00

My mom said she's going to work on my birthday. I'm mad now and sad

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-17T18:29:16+00:00

Q4a: Do you believe there’s someone out there for everyone (“the one” or “the ones”)? Is there someone for you? Why is that someone hard to find for some people?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-17T18:28:30+00:00

New week:

-Health:

Adjusted calories in diet to account for TDEE variance. First step: Remove pb from shake and keep rest of calories the same.

-Women:

-Date scheduled for today.

-Russian date may be a dud (no comms for a while) but valuable learning lesson around speed. Scheduled the date a bit too far out. If she comes around great, but the machine stops for no one.

-Talking to a veterinarian to gauge interest with plans to pitch date.

-Social:

-New event this weekend. 176 RSVP’s.

-Setup live music event with one of our members

-Onboard new organizers

How are you guys looking this week? Any big plans you’re working on?

DuetLearner · 2023-09-17T17:58:56+00:00

What's wrong with being a basic dude who likes fantasy football, video games, and gambling?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-17T17:44:23+00:00

I keep seeing the name JNRoberts come up, I have no idea who he is, I'm guessing he's not the motorcycle racer. Who is this dude?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-17T17:38:33+00:00

Is there a powder or something I can add to my smoothies to make them caffeinated or like an energy drink?

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-17T17:36:16+00:00

Y'all ever think we focus way too much on negativity and it's consuming the little happiness we have?

potoricco · 2023-09-17T17:28:58+00:00

Rewatching queen charlotte :)😍🥰

baiser_vole · 2023-09-17T17:21:52+00:00

My future daughter is going to learn both the ballet and jiu jitsu.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-17T17:14:29+00:00

Bro, this sub has too many gamers. I thought red and purple pullers hated vide games

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-17T17:05:34+00:00

There's really nothing in the world more cringe, awful, and destructive than conspiracy theorists.

They genuinely cause every single issue that we see as a society.

Whether it be leftist conspiracy theorists who go "Omg the elites are exploiting the poor proletariat and tricking them into being homophobic through propaganda so that their class interests don't unite!"

Or right wing conspiracy theorists screaming "Oh my god the evil elites are exploiting people and tricking them into voting for baby eating pedophiles and the destruction of their own nation'

There is no issue that exists, none, that isn't caused by conspiracy theorists.

Housing costs? Can't be fixed because conspiracy theorists think either

The elite are keeping apartments empty because ????? (left wing)
The elite are intenetionally making owning a home impossible to make way for 15 minute cities (right wing)

to inflation

The elites are greedy and it's causing #Greeedflation
The elites are trying to destroy our currency to make us all into slaves

It's all conspiracy theorists all the way down. We just need to make sure that all conspiracy theorists can't vote. The good thing is conspiracy theorists (the average American) often self sort themselves out from voting by going "Voting won't change anything". So that's a good thing. The problem is too many conspiracy theorists still vote which is why convincing people that elections are completely rigged is so essential for us to create a technocratic efficient well functioning government. If Republicans lose in 24 they probably won't ever vote again because it's so rigged. And then we just need to focus on destroying leftist faith in voting. And then finally we will be rid of conspiracy theorists influencing policy.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-17T17:00:42+00:00

I never understood the point of putting your kids on social media but blocking out their faces. I just wouldn’t put them at all at that point

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-17T16:50:07+00:00

If you make completely factual comments on any of the toxic femininity subreddits, you will be attacked and called an in*el or pe*ophile for not going along with the herd mentality. Anyone who disagrees with the hive mind will be ejected from the hive, facts be damned.

The hatred toward men is insane, but it's totally normalized and only getting worse.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T16:49:21+00:00

My mom is studying to become a nurse practictioner and it’s so life consuming, she’s always busy and never has time for anything anymorea , she might not be available on my birthday. But its for the best though I guess. No one wants unmotivated people taking care of them

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-17T16:47:37+00:00

I think there is a significant lack in understanding basic human truths when it comes to game. For example when I was a teenager one thing I would do is what I referred to as a "call back" which comes from comedy. Basically, one fundamental truth I knew was if you ask a girl to tell you about her day, it shows that you're interested in her and not just her body. Then, what you have to do is make a mental note of some of these things she shared with you and bring it up later in the conversation, sometimes in the form of a joke or something.

Of course, I presume the red pill would classify this as simp behavior, but it worked better for me than any red pill advice.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-09-17T16:41:11+00:00

Q4M: Is it wrong for women to be stay at home mothers in 2023? Should she contribute financially and do the home care and child raising as a women?

Most women in the 80's, 90's 2000's did full time jobs and did all the cooking, cleaning, childcare, grocery shopping, appointment making ect. So how can men be expected to marry women that don't do everything like their mothers did?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-17T16:30:47+00:00

I get super annoyed when I hear people complain that high test levels cause aggression and violence. It's simply not true.

The problem isn't high test levels. The problem is test levels that have changed quickly.

If you're cruising at 1200-1500 you're not going to be any more angry than your average dude at 300-500.

However that transition period from 500->1500 is going to piss people off.

Source: Myself. The one time I ever got into a fight (I fucking broke him) was when I was starting steroids and my test levels were increasing significantly.

And of course an actual source is this

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3693622/#:~:text=It%20has%20been%20shown%20by,associated%20with%20eliciting%20aggressive%20behavior.

Aggression research in human studies has revealed an interesting property of testosterone dynamics, its rapid fluctuations provoking reactive aggression in response to stimuli. It has been shown by competition paradigms in the laboratory, that short term fluctuations of testosterone were associated with eliciting aggressive behavior. These findings indicate two important features of testosterone physiology, a) changes in testosterone levels may be more important than baseline values in relation to aggressive behavior, b) and more significantly, testosterone by its rapid increase in response to a variety of stimuli, both physical and mental, is entitled to hold a position in the group of stress hormones

And

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31785281/

Baseline testosterone shared a weak but significant association with aggression (r = 0.054, 95% CIs [0.028, 0.080]), an effect that was stronger and significant in men (r = 0.071, 95% CIs [0.041, 0.101]), but not women (r = 0.002, 95% CIs [-0.041, 0.044]). Changes in T were positively correlated with aggression (r = 0.108, 95% CIs [0.041, 0.174]), an effect that was also stronger and significant in men (r = 0.162, 95% CIs [0.076, 0.246]), but not women (r = 0.010, 95% CIs [-0.090, 0.109]). The causal effects of testosterone on human aggression were weaker yet, and not statistically significant (r = 0.046, 95% CIs [-0.015, 0.108])

So basically,

An increase in testosterone increases aggression.

However having a higher base level of testosterone (that has not recently increased) does not cause aggression.

So why is roid rage a thing? Because people who do roids tend to cycle. Someone who has been blasting 500mg of testosterone and has levels around 3500-4000 for years is not any more aggressive (maybe a bit) than your average person. The problem is they cycle on and off of Testosterone.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-17T16:01:10+00:00

PPD women, does a man playing video games give you the ick?

baiser_vole · 2023-09-17T15:59:33+00:00

I think game is usually what creates the spark as long as the guy passes the looks bar.

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social_mules_alt · 2023-09-17T06:03:23+00:00

First

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-17T06:06:13+00:00

One thing I've never understood is when a woman says that she didn't feel a spark and doesn't want to continue, only to get annoyed and angry when you say "Yeah I have to agree I didn't feel anything either"

Like that's literally the outcome you wanted, why all of a sudden are you mad?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-17T07:33:26+00:00

I’ve temporarily discontinued my day drinking project in favor of mango lassi drinking…the fresh fruit as in Thailand is so stinking good 😊

BeautifulThoughtes · 2023-09-17T07:55:22+00:00

Would you have pursued a relationship with your current partner if they didn't have a nose?

If not, you are so shallow that a few inches of missing cartilage is more important to you than who your partner is as a person 😃

Have a great day!

Sillysheila · 2023-09-17T08:06:46+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/OIN6nxjMse

From a subreddit I’m a part of…what do you all think?

Some of the comments genuinely bothered me to be honest because they acted like lying for 18 years is not a big deal. I’m not one of those people that thinks any woman that isn’t a pure virgin is bad, but I think lying is bad.

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-17T09:21:34+00:00

You know, I think one of the worst responses to “would you still love me if I was a worm?” is also hands down one of the funniest:

“I’d love you more if you were a worm!”

No_Weather6880 · 2023-09-17T09:26:19+00:00

Some of the chicks I go on dates with ask "have you heard about these incels?" and I go "Yes, yes I have".

Ylduts · 2023-09-17T09:50:57+00:00

‘Free the nipple’, ‘I should be able to sleep around’, modern feminists are fighting to become the men they’ve always hated. Are you Fuckbois or Feminists?

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-17T09:57:16+00:00

"Did your parents drop you on the head when you were a child?" Comment that got me temporarily banned.

",We should put down all Republicans" - Comment that only got removed.

Bravo mods!

Ylduts · 2023-09-17T10:14:05+00:00

Why can a woman say ‘deeper’ during fun times but men can’t say ‘tighter’? One is offensive and the other isn’t yet both are physical limitations?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-17T10:35:02+00:00

Bitch I'm back from my coma

Ylduts · 2023-09-17T10:40:44+00:00

I don’t understand why American men continue to marry. You get a subpar woman who can take half whenever she wants. If kids are involved she gets 50/50 off the bat and you must fight for it. What rationale person would sign up for a contract like that?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-17T10:46:34+00:00

Thinking that dating problems (hard time finding a partner) are mostly due to gender differences or standards or something is misguided and failing to see full picture.

Hard time finding a partner is sibling to hard time finding friends and they both have same root parent. Which is changing lifestyle that now involves more and more time being alone, less physically social and online both for work and leisure.

The most natural and working way to find both friends and partner is to spend a lot of time together doing same activity (think school, college, work, hobbie clubs etc) which is what people do less than in the past, obviously.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-17T11:00:12+00:00

The world as it is now is set up in a way that anyone can succeed in whatever endeavours they choose, there's no excuse to be a victim anymore.

The only reason you call yourself a victim is because you THINK you're a victim, there's so many resources out there set up for you to do something with your life yet you go "Nooooooooo it's too harddddddddd"

Enjoy a mediocre life where you don't come close to reaching the best version of yourself.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-17T11:13:13+00:00

Question for passport Bros : https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtrxGRkMRZv/?igshid=NzZhOTFlYzFmZQ== do you want a traditional woman and would you be happy with providing for her?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-17T11:25:23+00:00

It never began for most of us men (https://imgur.com/a/FnCXhmp)

But women will also become womenlet femcel and tall-stacychad as they age (https://imgur.com/a/YTyROeW)

Ylduts · 2023-09-17T11:27:11+00:00

Green bubbles, these people always seem to be a bit off, anecdotal? 😁

RatchedAngle · 2023-09-17T11:28:18+00:00

Do men legitimately not realize how goofy you look when you comment on hot girls’ pictures?

This is the main reason why women get upset about their men following other girls on Instagram and liking their pictures.

There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to a hot woman. We understand how testosterone works. But why do you need to announce it every single time?

I had a friend post about breast cancer awareness and some guy commented “haha I can get behind that I love boobies.”

Yeah no shit. Of course you love boobies.

I remember talking to a guy once, he was trying to flirt. Ended up asking me out. He asked me what the last song was I listened to and I said it was Katy Perry’s “I kissed a girl.” His immediate response was, “I fucked a girl, haha.”

What was the goal of him saying that? Did he think I’d be more attracted to him knowing he fucked a girl? Did he think it was a funny joke? Did he think it was a good transition into further conversation?

You know when you’re talking to someone who’s mildly autistic and it’s kinda painful because they will constantly find ways to redirect the conversation back to them and their special interests?

That’s how it feels talking to overly-horny men. The conversation always turns back to sex. If he sees a hot woman, he will tell you how hot she is (as if you didn’t already know).

“Dude she’s so hot” I know I’m bisexual. I see her.

“Like I would totally fuck her” yup, you are a male with testosterone.

You can’t even click on a thread with a woman in it because it devolves into men debating whether they would fuck her or not.

And then men get mad when they’re seen as sex-crazed idiots.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-17T11:34:53+00:00

meme : https://imgur.com/a/czTRa3F

afk_row · 2023-09-17T11:55:34+00:00

This shit is so unbelievably cringe it legit made me feel more suicidal than I usually am https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/z7oram/she_said_no_joey/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-17T11:58:32+00:00

The bar for what constitutes sexual harassment is so much higher than red pillers make it out to be. Either that or I'm chad, but I doubt that.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T12:15:39+00:00

One of the dumbest subreddits of all times

r/Mensrights

Men: Enforce and uphold patriarchy for thousands of years, create entire religions and belief systems to justify misogyny

Women: Maybe I don’t want to be subject to that anymore

Men: Waaaaah!!!!! But what about us poor men!!! Won’t anyone think about us victims!!! Women bad

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-17T12:23:27+00:00

Today I have learned that “high n-count” women are incapable of performing traditional wifely duties so I’d better stop cooking, doing laundry, and running errands for my boyfriend!

social_mules_alt · 2023-09-17T12:44:34+00:00

Why in the fuck is r/Somolia showing up in my feed? Do better with your recommendations, reddit.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-17T12:51:11+00:00

Thoughts on my first ever embroidery project?

(The lizard thing is supposed to be a diplocaulus)

https://preview.redd.it/2nciur7nbtob1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c7be7e062c2d38d4d61791d7eb3128cab698d85c

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-17T13:16:37+00:00

What’s the Male tramp stamp

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-17T13:17:12+00:00

I also thought it was interesting how advertising cigarettes is heavily regulated and illegal but other things aren’t

Willow-girl · 2023-09-17T13:21:27+00:00

Had a yard sale yesterday! We did OK money-wise but the real fun was in seeing people's reaction to our farm. One lady memorably said that my garden "made her heart happy."

I remember when I was 20 and working for an animal shelter, I did a transport to a couple of wildlife rehabilitators who were so kind as to give me a tour of their facility (basically, a house they had built themselves, far back in a swamp). It opened my eyes to the possibilities for my own life and set my feet on the path ...

Nice to think that 40 years later, maybe I can be that person for somebody else ...

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-17T13:26:06+00:00

Would the world be better if men and women swapped minds?

hannahg000 · 2023-09-17T13:28:12+00:00

when i was 12 i used to be obsessed with true crime and serial killers. but now i can hardly stomach it. it’s like i’ve become more sensitive as i’ve gotten older.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-17T13:34:03+00:00

Friendly reminder, go hug your parents.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-17T13:38:02+00:00

Post wall women need help coping with the fact that men like younger women.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/16kmwdy/support_groups_for_women_who_cant_accept_mens/

potoricco · 2023-09-17T13:41:59+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/5snufr0rjtob1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cac45cebd90ca094b511af071222e7ae443ab75e

I have church I’m wearing a dress where the hemline (?) stops at the same place and my dad says I can’t wear it. I even stopped wearing SKIRTS in general because he has a problem with EVERYTHING I wear that shows even .0000000001 centimeters of my legs

I honestly dress pretty MODESTLY this really makes me feel like meat and really disgusting

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-17T13:49:59+00:00

A little positivity mindset exercise for people, when you first wake up, go for a 20 minute walk, this oxygenates the brain which leads to more focus, think of three things on this walk:

- What are you grateful for?

- What are you looking forward to today?

- What are you committed to achieving in the long term?

As much as people say positivity training is crap, it's proven that the more you think about things that make you happy, the happier you'll become. Walk through every door with the mindset of "time to bring the joy"

scwizard · 2023-09-17T13:58:51+00:00

i live in sweden

We've recently been thought that the whole concept of a hymen is a myth. I remember when i was a kid there was some talk about hymens and that they were not a "sign" of weather a girl was a virgin or not. Nowadays kids are taught that the hymen is a myth

Teaching kids that hymens are mythical and don't really exist is very bluepilled and in character for Sweden. It's also scientifically inaccurate.

relish5k · 2023-09-17T14:11:36+00:00

All of these “what is spark / spark does not exist” posts are major tells

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-17T14:53:11+00:00

On my date Monday with this girl she asked me about my bodycount and I was a little embarrassed that it was as high as it was relative to hers so I lied and downplayed it. Hers is 1 (1 boyfriend of 3 years). When I downplayed my number I could see she got visibly relieved which sucked.

Karma is gonna get me in the future and I’m gonna get beta cucked + get brootal starfish sex. I’m seeing her in 2 hours and my conscious is telling me to come clean as quickly as possible, but my heart tells me it doesn’t matter anyway since the likelihood of this being a long term thing being so small

nexkell · 2023-09-17T15:26:51+00:00

Men on Reddit don’t love tall women because they don’t love women

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16ku4di/russell_brand_rape_and_abuse_allegations/

Now Russell is a bad guy.

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-17T20:30:32+00:00

My children… they’re beautiful…

Maffioze · 2023-09-17T20:34:41+00:00

Both the most best and worst aspects of humanity are created by competition. Since men are more competitive than women, the same could be said for men.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-17T20:39:07+00:00

Know your worth, then add tax !

Kween !

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-17T20:46:23+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw3E2TVuNzY/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-17T20:56:11+00:00

The plight of dating as a man is that any woman you talk to who has basic personal hygiene (healthy 19-21 BMI, basic minimal makeup, etc) will have dozens of options. She will be talking to multiple men, random orbiters, and constantly be hit on everywhere. When you meet her for the first time, you are just be treated as one of her dozens of options and can't hold her attention. At every point in dating process, you have to worry about her meeting yet another guy who you have to compete with and who could steal her away from you. And if you're average, it's by definition statistically likely many of those men will be better than you. There are very few women with a sane number of options who you won't be competing with tens of other men for.

Women have it too easy in comparison. Any woman with a healthy body (19-21 BMI) can easily find a decent, upper middle class man who she can monopolize the attention of. She'll be one of the few or even the only woman he's talking to. Even if he's talking to other woman, she'll likely be the best woman by a wide margin by just having a healthy body. Women can easily have the undivided attention of men. Women can have it all. Women can find love. Women

Lovers691 · 2023-09-17T20:57:30+00:00

Never settle for less kings, find a woman that will let you rest in your masculinity.

Barneysparky · 2023-09-17T20:58:43+00:00

Screen shot you last conversation.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T20:59:09+00:00

I still can’t believe that Candada and Canadian people exist like. We literally have america 2.0 right above us + with French people🇫🇷🥖 and NO ONE is saying anything??? Why

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-09-17T21:02:22+00:00

Some men will literally leave the woman that gave them a chance once they get the confidence and another woman shows interest.

giving the nice guy a chance does not mean you will have a successful relationship. Giving the average or below average guy a chance doesn’t mean that he won’t cheat, leave or not appreciate a woman if another woman shows interest.

There have been many instances where “below average” or “average” men met a woman who invested a lot of time and energy in fixing how he looked/dress who started acting like a jerk the second he got some glances his way.

Men here constantly say how men’s cheating isn’t the same as women’s cheating. And men will cheat just because they had opportunities and could cheat. If that’s true AND preselection is a real thing, then it doesn’t matter which guys women date, because most men will want to cheat/sleep with other women no matter how long it took them to get an actual partner.

So what benefit does dating a below average or average man pose to women?

SianOiseau · 2023-09-17T21:09:34+00:00

This sounds fucking exhausting.

Good thing husband and I rarely have arguments about chores. He has higher standards and we both learnt to cater to each other - I do more than I think is necessary and he doesn't mind occasionally left dishes or laundry.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-17T21:10:22+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/v4xyl05nsvob1.jpeg?width=584&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1d9766e45222a1f012b32b92af2f000e85e985b

This is your daily reminder to touch grass.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-17T21:12:48+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxGHiAvIUjA/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

True lmfao

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-17T21:15:30+00:00

Man I wish the bars around here weren't infamous for people getting roofed there.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-17T21:50:04+00:00

I don't get blackpillers obsession with square chin.

Sure Henry Cavill has that brick of a chin which makes him look like a manly man ape, which is hot and masculine... but.

There are sooooooooooooo many hot actors which have normal chins!

Keanu Reeves, Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Idris Elba, Jason Momoa, Ryan Reynolds, Bradley Cooper, Jason Statham, Ryan Gosling, Hugh Jackman, Alexander Skarsgård, Colin Farrell, Ewan McGregor, Tom Hardy...

Most hot male actors do not have bricks for chin, they have perfectly normal rounded chins.

It is obvious that blackpillers find these chins much hotter then women do.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T21:52:33+00:00

I WISH I HAD A SISTER AUHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-17T21:54:48+00:00

First?

potoricco · 2023-09-17T22:03:37+00:00

I hate laughing at stupid shit but what the actual fuck💀😹💀💀

afk_row · 2023-09-17T22:08:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/16lcx7o/is_dating_an_ai_for_experience_pathetic/k11n689/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Ay yo someone message her.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-17T22:24:16+00:00

After getting feedback on my calorie intake, it turns out the TDEE calculator I've been using was way too generous.

Primarily, I overshot the activity factor. Got feedback from a fitness trainer, and it helped me tweak my numbers by about ~375 calories/day.

With new projections, I'll be at 14% bodyfat by 3/14/24. Won't be a perfect road, but we'll get there one day at a time.

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-09-17T23:02:51+00:00

Deep down, women in their 30s who are still single are pathetic. Just simply pathetic.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-17T23:09:32+00:00

Friendly reminder, Tomboys rock!

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-17T23:18:07+00:00

If males find a wider range of women attractive, why are they so against dating down? Red pill says women are hypergamous so dating/marrying down will actually work in the males favor.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-17T23:29:49+00:00

CMV : If a woman wears jeans like this, she's a certified hoe.

https://blog.makersvalley.net/hubfs/mike-von-aQ3k0zfLyEE-unsplash-1-2-1.jpeg

Instant disqualifier.

potoricco · 2023-09-17T23:34:11+00:00

I love how you can just casually find pirated movies on tiktok😭 How is this legal

https://preview.redd.it/wqk4c00diwob1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5af4b5a103f28d9199cf9831cb0daecb545d723f

y2kjanelle · 2023-09-17T23:59:07+00:00

bummed I’m spending the weekend w/o my bf 😭but he just bought me a bunch of clothes for comfort so it’s okay🥳

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-17T23:59:08+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxJCpEPPihM/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

saraimarsena · 2023-09-18T00:01:48+00:00

it’s wild, apparently my ex is in a group chat talking about how i’m the “girl of his life”. how he misses me.

we broke up 2 years ago, im in a relationship, i live with my boyfriend that i technically left him for. it’s interesting cuz he was pretty shitty to me when we were together. had the typical “alpha” personality as y’all would describe it.

maybe it’s j my personal experience but i know a lot of men who have a girl that they were never able to get over and let go of, whether it be a former girlfriend or a BM

Dusttyy · 2023-09-18T00:10:14+00:00

As a male, I think I’m starting to realize women have it just as bad, if not worse, than men when it comes to dating. I feel like the only men that put in any effort are usually fuckboy types. They may do their best to vet them, but a lot of men peacock—gloating or even faking accomplishments, while also hiding their flaws.

And I don’t think women approaching men is a solution. There are A LOT of toxic incels who took the black pill and are probably worse than the fuckboys. Fuckboys might break their heart, but at least they won’t murder or stalk them.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-18T00:14:31+00:00

Eat ass

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-18T00:19:22+00:00

Friendly reminder: Men you can be accused of SA that apparently happened 20 years ago with no evidence by a woman because she is upset with you. There will also be accusations from "anonymous" people who won't show their face and have an AI generated voice

throwaway32418908 · 2023-09-18T00:21:29+00:00

Unpopular opinion: women in relationships should not expose more skin than what their men are okay with them showing off. It is perfectly fine to dissuade our girls from doing anything that could result in other men lusting and/or hitting on them.

Gust-Of · 2023-09-18T00:23:30+00:00

Why younger women are more desireable, aside from the physical features.

CMV: Mature and attractive women get taken off the market early into stable relationships.

If an older mature and attractive woman were to be single, it would be because she's a widow, or an abuse survivor (baggage).

It has an assumption baked in, which is that promiscuous women are not considered for relationships.

I feel like this view is simplistic, but I can't argue against it atm, so I would like to hear your perspectives.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-18T00:36:16+00:00

One main reason people are so mad about dating issues,its because society puts enormous pressure into "be with someone",to the point that many people think their failures if they ain't with someone because of this

potoricco · 2023-09-18T00:39:37+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/9u1i3rextwob1.jpeg?width=694&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b60909894b0fc4e14d30a31f34939cb5181e21bf

i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him i need him 😍😍🥰

Gust-Of · 2023-09-18T00:56:15+00:00

1 advice for getting into relationships: put yourself out there, spend time together in mixed platonic social circles and you will hit it off with someone.

Yet somehow men get shamed for being uncomfortable with their women participating in the aforementioned.

sine120 · 2023-09-18T00:56:57+00:00

CMV: Grandmas are based and redpilled. My grandma-in-law constantly judges women for how they act and how they dress/ present, and men for their behavior and ability to provide. Being shut shamed by grandma is bad news for you.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T01:04:56+00:00

If she's a dancer of any kind - > certified hoe.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T01:08:38+00:00

Why do Reddit users hate positivity?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-18T01:08:50+00:00

CMV: The only thing the internet changed was that it made people want to fuck and interact with humans less. People believe the same things. They behave largely the same way. Just less fucking and social interactions.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T01:19:16+00:00

When it comes to right wing beliefs, I do think they get it right when it comes to family and the individual need, right wing families in my experience are usually just nicer people, they raise better kids, and the parents usually have better jobs and careers.

When it comes to the general community that's where I disagree with the right wing, like I side, it's a very individual focus.

potoricco · 2023-09-18T01:26:36+00:00

Im deadass gonna take a few days break from Reddit and all social media after 6 am tomorrow, I am tired of seeing depravity, anti female hatred, and negativity 😀 Social media is supposed to be my escape from misogyny not my reminder 😀

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-18T01:27:13+00:00

If you don't want to be accused of lying, stop resorting to personal stories to back up your argument.

It is your fault.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T01:29:26+00:00

I'm drunk

I spent 400 dollars on steak + drinks + steak fritters + barbeque shrimp (not shrimp, that thing that is like shrimp but isn't but I forget the name of)

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-18T01:34:00+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/facepalm/s/lSZa6qoaER

Which one of you chads is this

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-18T01:36:35+00:00

is overall shorts/knee socks too immature looking. this kind of fit is so cute though...

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T01:54:20+00:00

There's a lot of talk about how the good ones get snatched up fast. But I also see a lot of people who are very aware of their limited options pair up fast because they know they dont have many options

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-18T01:58:02+00:00

https://www.upworthy.com/homeless-shelters-for-women-with-teen-boys

absolutely disgusting.

boys are in many ways treated like adult men from the time they start high school, but at the same time people argue that college age women are "like children", despite the fact that men literally mature slower than women physically and mentally.

potoricco · 2023-09-18T01:58:46+00:00

And certain people here are fucking mean as well

meteorness123 · 2023-09-18T02:00:35+00:00

25 year old women look way better than 20 year olds and its not even close

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T02:02:01+00:00

I think "Getting Over It with Bennet Foley" is one of the most important games ever made and the only game I would recommend to people who don't game.

If you don't wnat to play the game, which will take literally up to 30 hours to beat you should at least listen to the commentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IO6ouSMm7Uc&t=450s

Sillysheila · 2023-09-18T02:06:34+00:00

Wondering what everyone’s thoughts are on buy now pay later. Was thinking about it this morning after listening to a news clip on it.

Personally I hate buy now pay later. I think it’s encouraging financial irresponsibility and most young people now are basically broke. They’re the target audience of this stuff so it makes it even worse.

If you can’t afford non-essential things unless you pay for them in six month instalments, you probably just can’t afford them period.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-18T02:20:35+00:00

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=t8KzcP16-mw&list=RDAMVMt8KzcP16-mw

This song is extremely important and you should listen to it

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T02:24:42+00:00

So many of you would benefit from just sitting in an your room in silence staring at the wall for 10 minutes, it's a bad thing if you can't allow yourself to sit in boredom or awkward silence.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-18T02:31:43+00:00

Q4A: is there any mental illness that is a hard no for a relationship?

dela_man10 · 2023-09-18T03:31:30+00:00

Lol it’s funny how Americans make a big deal of paying. Firstly I want to say that any woman that insists that you take her out to dinner is probably not all that into you. Secondly I’d like to say that if you go 50/50 or make a big fuss out of paying for dinner you’re probably too broke to be dating especially past a certain point in life. Firstly stop asking out 100 random women on dates. Ask the one you really like and make sure that she actually is interested in you as a person before taking her out on a date. Actually call and have a conversation with her. Alternatively ask out women you meet through social activities and friend groups. Stop swiping. Those women are on dating apps for a reason and it’s probably not good.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-18T03:37:47+00:00

I wonder whether we'll see some laws against including kids from early ages into their parents' social medias pages that they money from.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-18T05:03:48+00:00

I’ve decided to go to Bangkok in a couple of weeks to reestablish bio identical hormone therapy. I’m hoping that it helps as much as the Dr. I had in the US who completely saved me after having all of my female organs removed through hysterectomy a couple of years ago. I miss my estrogen, progesterone and testosterone…along with my sanity.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-18T06:26:13+00:00

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RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-18T23:46:12+00:00

Partner and I are getting back into DbD again and it's actually loads of fun.

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1 advice for getting into relationships: put yourself out there, spend time together in mixed platonic social circles and you will hit it off with someone.