The inconsistency arises when men express disdain for the idea of being a provider to a woman who isn't interested in them sexually, yet they themselves desire relationships with younger, more attractive women and are willing to financially support them in exchange for companionship. For example, passport bros often older and overweight, pursue younger, attractive women. It doesn't really seem to faze them that the women may not be genuinely attracted to them and that they are essentially financing their lifestyle.

The disdain men have for this relationship dynamic only seems to arise when the woman is closer to his age or when their looks are more evenly matched.