Weekly Community Chat Megathread

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-01-12T14:41:11+00:00

Are there any actual RP guys here anymore? I read TRP stuff like maybe 5 years ago and felt they were pretty close to correct, just not quite 100% with AWALT but most didn't treat it as a dogmatic thing, but a caution. Now it seems to be mostly blackpill and incels taking the strongest aspects of TRP on womens behavior while ignoring the dating, self improvement etc.

No one is "spinning plates" here that I've seen, they are too busy complaining they weren't born attractive.

badgersonice · 2021-01-13T21:43:16+00:00

Why are so many men in denial about who does most of the parenting? Even if both spouses work full time, the woman STILL usually does most of the parenting AND most of the housework. I literally see it everywhere and even my own family was like this.

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-15T10:35:41+00:00

I find the phenomenon of men asking for sympathy but totally being unsympathetic in return kinda mad. You can’t expect ppl to take you seriously if all you do is spew vitriol at everyone but expect us to hold your hand.

Like how can you victim blame & then in the same sentence turn around & tell me what a victim you are. Make it make sense.

GridReXX · 2021-01-11T23:13:42+00:00

There’s a new dating app catered towards neurodiversiry but particularly autists: https://www.forbes.com/sites/stevenaquino/2021/01/07/hiki-is-reimagining-what-it-means-to-be-a-dating-app-with-neurodiversity-and-connectedness/

I hope it attracts male and female users but I’m doubtful it’ll attract enough female users :( hopefully I’m wrong!

That said, the founders are Black American and black men tend to know how to overcompensate for quirks more so than other cultures.

I just googled the founder who I believe is on the spectrum as well. He’s very facially attractive (IMO) and grooms/dresses well. This is for /u/MyLadySupporter who has never encountered an aspie cute man in his life and believes socially awkward physically attractive men don’t exist.

solemn_aside · 2021-01-18T18:21:13+00:00

This is one of the funniest stories I've read in a while

Had my sidess in orbit for a couple minutes

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-18T17:07:00+00:00

So guys I dumped the fwb.

Gonna be kinda wierd it’s been around 4 months since we’ve been seeing eachother, but I’m deffo not over mr spacechicken yet so best leave things. Wanna be single for a while.

moneygang4life · 2021-01-18T16:46:00+00:00

Some of you will never believe it but i have decided that i like hookup culture. Still will never have a long term monogamous relationship with a nonvirgin tho.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-11T21:02:02+00:00

I swear to god, I am this close 🤌 to giving up vodka completely. But then what would I change my flair to?

poppy_blu · 2021-01-11T22:34:36+00:00

Men - What exactly is so sexy about a woman swinging on a pole? I don’t get it. Or is that just a movie cliche?

Mimoxs · 2021-01-12T01:54:23+00:00

100% off topic but I started rewatching Naruto, which I haven't seen in years, so I just started over. I completely forgot how the first episodes of OG naruto is literally just the virgin Naruto vs the Chad Sasuke lmaooo

Also realized that this means I've been sexually attracted to Kakashi for 3/4 of my life. Good to know my taste is still immaculate

angels-fan · 2021-01-12T05:38:46+00:00

I just want to say that the ESL folks here are truly amazing at English!

I can rarely tell that they are from another country.

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-12T05:54:26+00:00

Been watching servant (watch it if u haven’t it’s surprisingly gd!) with ex and started to notice the sheer amount of baby scenes are making me broody. So much so that I found myself practically humping ex’s leg & asking for our own Bebe. Any cure for this aside from getting my own rugrat?

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-12T16:30:51+00:00

Alright here is a thought experiment.

Forget everything you know about women

Now base your opinion of women solely on their public personas.

Now consider that in private women cum from getting slapped in the face and spit on while being called a whore during psuedo-rape.

Pretty jarring right?

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-13T04:09:15+00:00

The responses to this question are fascinating.

People really do love lying on the internet

NarniaFox · 2021-01-14T14:04:15+00:00

There are people who make it clear that they have a problem. It can be their self-esteem, mental issues, their attitude towards dating or the other gender or whatever. And some people just reek of these problems and you can easily tell that dating them would be a huge mistake and they'd turn your life into mess, because their problems would become your problems. So for most people it would be beneficial to deal with their problems first and after that start looking for a date. But for some reason lots of them want to do it backwards and get offended that other people don't really want to deal with them.

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-14T17:39:54+00:00

If you wanna be a **** do it here where everyone can see. Gonna start posting all the pms I get from my posts here.

https://imgur.com/gallery/QB7p68I

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-11T21:04:50+00:00

First

2021-01-11T21:31:29+00:00

one week "N-count megathread" is so unnecessary, new topic in every 2 days would be better idea...

YouSaidChicken · 2021-01-11T21:44:40+00:00

Pregnant women are gross unless it was a baby they didn't want.

skystar86 · 2021-01-12T01:22:29+00:00

Trump won't go away. People have their flags banners and stop the steal signs. Remember when the left said not my president for Trump? We are gonna see the same for Biden.

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-12T04:59:32+00:00

"Children of non-partnered mothers receive much less parental care— perhaps 40 percent less—than other children...one-third of American mothers with children under age 18 in their household do not have a partner living with them"

Study Tweet

wekacuck · 2021-01-12T22:10:42+00:00

A whole taxonomy of Trumpist right-wing manhood could be developed from the Internet investigations, wanted posters and arrest affidavits now trickling out in the wake of last week’s riot at the Capitol. En masse, the photos show a conglomeration of weird beards, ammo and camo, and looks-like-somebody-got-a-Bass-Pro-gift-card-for-Christmas raging White masculinity.

Perspective | Trumpist masculinity reaches its high water mark

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/capitol-riot-zip-tie-guy-men-trump-masculinity/2021/01/12/486a516e-5447-11eb-a08b-f1381ef3d207_story.html

reluctantly_red · 2021-01-13T21:29:32+00:00

I'm not a pacifist. I agree there may be times when revolution is appropriate. However, it's never appropriate in a more or less functional democracy.

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-14T07:21:41+00:00

Was hanging out with ex & my friends last night. Boy was that a fkn mistake, he ended up groping my closest friend who he previously cheated on me with. I just sat there having Vietnam esk flashbacks. Totally not over the hell he put me through. It’s ok tho my self hatred will only push me to improve my looks (the only thing men care about)

md8716 · 2021-01-14T09:08:05+00:00

One of the most important lessons I learned about judging someone's character was seeing their willingness to take responsibility for their past baggage.

I think they call it an internal locus of control. Whereas shifting blame to others and always being a victim is a red flag.

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-14T18:55:42+00:00

The vast majority of alleged rapes go unpunished legally. This is because the vast majority of alleged rapes are unproven. This is the system working as intended, and how things should be. A person should not be convicted of any alleged offense if there is not evidence supporting the claim which proves it beyond a reasonable doubt. The vast majority of alleged rape victims do not have this level of evidence.

FrequentPangolin · 2021-01-14T21:50:38+00:00

Seems like Armie Hammer actually is an abuser. From his ex. Inb4 people say she's lying.

angels-fan · 2021-01-14T22:22:08+00:00

Do most cultures treat rape as the absolute worst crime that can be committed, even above murder, and the worst crime to be a victim of? Or is that more of a western thing?

GridReXX · 2021-01-14T22:34:28+00:00

Remember to add flairs to your posts!

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Remember!

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-15T12:45:37+00:00

Don’t match with me on OLD trying to sell a service or product lol. I’m gonna delete you out of general principle now matter what you are trying to push. Same thing with sliding in my DM’s

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-15T19:04:29+00:00

Thought experiment:

If there was an indicator above women's heads, only visible to men, (and there was no way for women to figure out), that told men which women there was a 100% chance they would never have sex with them, how different would society be? In this hypothetical it is impossible to change her mind.

I think a large amount of women's power in society comes from women creating the illusion that its within the realm of possibility (if everything went perfectly, even if the possibility is extremely low and there is something currently making it impossible like having a boyfriend). So if men knew for sure they would never fuck, far less men would simp/interact with women in general and women would have far less leverage.

[deleted] · 2021-01-18T16:12:34+00:00

Many Red Pillers seemed like failed tradcons. They romanticize the "trad-life" and constantly criticize women who don't follow traditionalism, yet they do NOTHING to obtain that kind of life for themselves. Most of them are non-religious and just as degenerate as the people they criticize.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-18T15:23:14+00:00

I just tried to post this, but it got taken down because feminism. Which is fair. But I still think it’s worth talking about, so here is my post:

I feel like I’ve seen an uptick in some of the men here complaining about how “feminists” are constantly advocating to “kill all men” while drinking their green tea from “male tears” mugs, and complaining about how “men are trash,” etc etc

Honestly, guys who are complaining about this, have you taken a step back and wondered why you’re “constantly” seeing this? I’m a 40 year old, very girly woman, and I literally never see this stuff come through my social media

It’s because some of you are so obsessed with reading about this gender stuff/hate reading self-described “feminists” that you’ve totally fucked your SM algorithms - it’s pumping this crap to the top of your timeline because it knows it’s your kryptonite

If you log into Twitter or IG or Tik Tok or whatever, and all you’re seeing is this sort of stuff ... You may want to take a step back. You’re completely skewing your perception of reality, no one is talking like this IRL

(Also, “feminism” is not what some bitter 18 year old going through her first breakup is complaining about online, but that’s a different conversation)

ThroneofTime · 2021-01-12T20:00:41+00:00

Question for the men struggling: have you tried getting rid of your yee yee ass haircuts?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-13T11:20:16+00:00

You know how like in the job market there are people with decent to good resumes who don’t get the job because they bomb the interview? Anyone who has been involved in hiring knows this. Well It’s like that in dating. You have guys who are good “on paper” but they never get the girl because they don’t know how to close the deal or don’t make attempts.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-11T21:36:20+00:00

I don’t really think “Women cheat better” it’s just that side dudes aren’t trying to be the number one like the side chick/mistress at the same rate. It’s WAAAAY easier to get away with it when the person your cheating with doesn’t want you outside of sex. A lot of times when the woman is on the side she wants to be the main girl, she might say all the right things in the moment but being your number 1 is the eventual goal.

I remember having an affair at 19 with an older married woman who worked at my bank. First Woman to openly throw it at me too. I wasn’t trying to take her from her husband, I just wanted my dick sucked twice a week lol. I’m getting the perks of the relationship(sex) while having to deal with none of the headaches she gives her husband at home. Like bro you can have her.

LeJacquelope · 2021-01-12T17:16:39+00:00

I'm making a list of restaurants that I see with people dining inside during the pandemic and sharing it around. I wish there was a national database for these scofflaws.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-13T19:34:49+00:00

A conversation I just had with a law person

“Your ex-husband is looking at a year in jail, more than a grand in fines, a suspended license for no more than 90 days, and a mandatory IID for a year. But as he’s a white middle aged man with a good job, he’ll likely get probation, the IID, and maybe $250 in fines”

What in the actual fuck. He could have killed someone, and he’s getting off bc he’s the right color, age, and gender? With a certain work history?

On a personal level, this makes my life easier in a few ways. And while I don’t think he has any chance at getting sober except jail, I’m glad he doesn’t have to go through that. But it was just bizarre how freely they admitted that he’ll skate by because he’s the “right” type of person

_mwk · 2021-01-13T22:20:56+00:00

every day I wake up angrier at this pandemic

MajesticMaple · 2021-01-13T23:37:27+00:00

I found a tiktok hashtag/series basically showcases the same thing as r/whereareallthegoodmen except with the gender swapped. Dudes with high standards who don't offer much. It's #manofthehour, here's an example. They shit on a lot of conservative dudes too, which is like how WAATGM shits on feminists.

funlightmandarin · 2021-01-14T02:02:05+00:00

Hot take before I head to bed:

If you can't argue your controversial point with sexist implications without also supplying the numbers for the opposite sex and/or the complete source material (ie. not hiding behind a paywall/shady-ass sources) for comparison and a thorough read-through, your use of sources is most likely biased and dishonest, your argument is most likely weak because of cherry-picked data and you're most likely arguing in bad faith. 🥰

Shit on both sexes equally! ❤ It's the only rational thing to do!

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-14T02:31:25+00:00

People here really need to take a chill pill once in a while.

It's just Reddit lol

TheJim66 · 2021-01-14T06:06:56+00:00

Every time I want to kill off a few brain cells, I read a Q4W thread. You bitches have some hot takes!

boomcheese44 · 2021-01-15T00:47:57+00:00

A 70 year old man hit on me today. Gross.

screamingIn2_theVoid · 2021-01-15T23:22:41+00:00

Yay, I'm out of PPD jail. I guess I'll just block people without telling them to go fuck themselves.

It really is hard to be civil with so many folks defending the acts of traitors.

needquickie · 2021-01-12T05:49:11+00:00

Why are people acting as if the low birth rates are primarily women's fault? If anything, women are more likely to want children than men. Many men have to be "persuaded" by their wives/girlfriends to give in and have a kid.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-12T17:40:03+00:00

Welp, another friend has the Rona. This vaccine needs to roll out widely already

GridReXX · 2021-01-13T21:45:09+00:00

Yay! Trump gets two asterisks next to his name in the history books. Very special for him!

NarniaFox · 2021-01-15T03:14:33+00:00

I really really like how a pro-birther here just ended our discussion after saying this:

Of course there are alternatives, like waiting for the sixth month and practice C-section, clean, quick and a lot less risky than an abortion and with way less physical and psychological sequels. Then you put the kid on vital support and let him grow up. I read once that a kid of four months and a half survived a similar process.

Hey but you know why, "some people" don't like C-sections (which are, actually, an abortive practice in fact) because when you were about to abort s kid of six months and then the kid is born alive she/he's suddenly human, and that proves abortion is a shitty thing to do and the ones that wanted to abort the kid where just killers.

I'm not sure what's more hilarious or sad - his "knowledges" on the topic or his inability to accept that he's wrong.

poppy_blu · 2021-01-15T18:28:41+00:00

The US is 4% of the total world population but 20% of all Covid deaths.

PPD_IS_CANCER · 2021-01-12T02:40:01+00:00

I was bullshitting about an IQ filter on this sub before, but honestly I think it would be incredibly useful. That and an income/class filter.

Edit: Before more people keep prodding, I should say that I don't actually care that much for this idea. I was bringing it up in a "imagine if we had this, that would be awesome..." sort of way, rather than "I am requesting that we should have this...".

skystar86 · 2021-01-12T06:18:14+00:00

So what show do you think transports you back to the 90s and 90s vibes most? I'm researching the show Rescue 911 and I'm instantly transported into childhood. Not the emergencies but the vibes and general environment.

passepar2t · 2021-01-12T08:19:23+00:00

I'm out of weed and the guy is out of town on vacation until the 20th, the lazy git.

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-12T09:16:06+00:00

Thoughts guys?

See anything weird there?

Young_Zarathustra · 2021-01-13T05:36:12+00:00

Keep telling the poor and stupid hicks that their poor and stupid voices mean less, and justify it by giving them thought tank abstractions.

Delegitimize any poor and stupid thought they have by arming the country clubbers with the same ivory tower bullshit they eat up to remind themselves how not poor and not stupid they are.

Have Don Lemon go on television and make fun of the poor and stupid for not knowing where Ukraine is, and in the next breath talk about how "you have to understand crime from x group of people because of poor inner city schooling."

We've went so far forward the only thing left is to take a victory lap by dunking on the poor and stupid.

passepar2t · 2021-01-13T12:13:35+00:00

I have the covids. Wack.

reluctantly_red · 2021-01-13T13:17:37+00:00

I really have to respect the political-theatric prowess of Tulsi Gabbard. Balancing the left-wing populist discourse with some Tucker Carlson-styled right wing pandering, but remains fairly likeable everything considered. Marianne Williamson remains my favourite political figure in American politics, though.

Now, to my vague question: what are your experiences with being mindful of gender differences in communication and/or rhetorics? Is it cynical and ultimately counter-productive to try to play within these bounds if you think they're unfair?

I've noticed that women benefit (in terms of coming off as trustworthy and competent) from some communication styles where men conversely risk being seen as less competent or trustworthy— and vice versa with other styles of rhetoric and/or communication.

wub1234 · 2021-01-13T18:49:11+00:00

Amazon really are cunts with their Amazon Prime bullshit.

It's bad enough that inscrutable bald-headed cunt has taken over the world.

I shouldn't use them in the first place, I know.

Are you sure you want to cancel Amazon Prime? Are you sure you don't want the benefits of Amazon Prime? Are you really willing...

Just fuck off! I didn't fucking mean to sign up for the piece of shit in the first place.

reluctantly_red · 2021-01-13T20:14:17+00:00

Sometimes what's right and what isn't is crystal clear. Recent events being a great example. Moral relativism is bull shit.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-14T11:30:29+00:00

I always thought the whole stigma of dating people on the “rebound” was funny. A lot of guys would be like l can’t date a girl on the “rebound” but I never saw that play out in real life. For example if Margot robbie just broke up with her husband last weekend and wanted to blow you, no dude would be like “nah I’m gonna have to decline, I don’t want to be the rebound guy”. Hell men ACTIVELY try to break women up just so they can fuck them right after. The follow up always “well the relationship is gonna be short lived”, well yeah that’s most relationships/hookups lol.

Also if we’re gonna keep it real and this might be a blow to some dudes ego but many of the women you will be sexually successful with in your lifetime we’re going through some shit when they met you. Maybe not a recent breakup but something, had low self esteem, were depressed wanted validation etc. You just happened to be in the right place right time.

_mwk · 2021-01-14T22:00:56+00:00

Daily Wisdom:

When you seek revenge, you dig two graves. One for your target..... And one for yourself

It sounds wiser, when spoken in Chinese

_mwk · 2021-01-14T23:48:24+00:00

What's everyone's favorite band? All time or at the moment.

Mine all time is Belmont, atm is Issues.

QuenchlessGato · 2021-01-15T01:02:28+00:00

Reddit overlords banned femcel subs for whatever reason. 😕

What a shame, I really enjoyed reading them.

passepar2t · 2021-01-15T14:13:40+00:00

I can't smell anything, lmao.

Nose has resigned

SheSeesSounds · 2021-01-15T17:59:52+00:00

Is there a post about "who" has built/litigated the current divorce system and its biases/assumptions, "who" is in office with power to modify the l system, and why that "who" hasn't updated said system? I'm starting to believe the "who" isn't as simple as 80% men/ 20% women lawmaker decisionmaking. Could it be that lawmakers are creating/enforcing laws against their own interest?

CanisLupisAutism · 2021-01-15T22:28:11+00:00

So I came across someone from my past on FB last night. She has not aged well, looks or basically getting anywhere in life.

So I spent a good bit of time pondering what I saw in her when I was younger. The curse of lockdown, too much free which results in thinking.

So yeah, I decided my younger year fantasies were just that, fantasies.

Then I dreamt I was fucking her.

Why the hell did I dream of her. Just why.

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-18T15:14:55+00:00

Q4M: How would you feel if you had an long term SO and you found out before you met she had sex with a celebrity? Lets say it was someone like Ryan Gosling or Chris Hemsworth, and it was just a one night stand.

Would you care? Would you feel validated knowing youre with a girl that was desireable enough to fuck a celebrity? Would you feel preemptively cucked or that she was alpha widowed and that youll never be able to live up to him? Would you break up with her? Or would it just fall out of your mind soon after?

solemn_aside · 2021-01-18T13:38:01+00:00

the mind jolts and blacking out has slowed down recently. Thanks to the yung boi on here that said I have Lupus I literally do I think lol. Do your yoga friends.

Update 2: I bought 1,000 MaidSafeCoin today. See you in heaven kiddos.

_mwk · 2021-01-18T09:57:19+00:00

did anyone here watch bridgerton ?

what's your opinion on the "attempted conception" scene ? rape or not ?

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-01-18T09:45:43+00:00

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spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-18T07:06:39+00:00

Any good political youtubers you guys can recommend?

Interested in both sides as long as it’s not Jordan Peterson

Some of mine are: innuendo studios, Lindsay Ellis (before she got on the jk hate train), shoe on head, contra (but only sometimes) Shaun & hbomber guy. Half these aren’t v serious channels & I watch them for entertainment :)

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NinjaOfTheSouth · 2021-01-11T21:30:34+00:00

Who has Snapchat on here🤔

mensahi41 · 2021-01-11T21:42:19+00:00

Who was the better style?

Style

Nema or Paul? I'm going with Paul. He is clear imo

FrequentPangolin · 2021-01-11T23:35:32+00:00

Should Armie Hammer respond to the allegations or just hope it goes away?

brojuststfu · 2021-01-12T14:23:59+00:00

I rewatched Oldboy last month. In that movie, it’s said that people start to hallucinate ants when they’re lonely.

Been seeing an ant here and there in my room for the past week, they’re definitely real though. Not sure if it’s a sign that I’m lonely or that I should stop eating in my room lmao.

Also, The Last Waltz from that movie’s OST is really good

2021-01-12T23:32:42+00:00

The people on the light side are asleep right now. And they are dreaming about the dark side. Because the more you try to repress the dark side, the stronger it gets, until it finds its own way to the surface. I sleep well. I dream of angels and sponge cake and panda bears. I don’t see the dark side until I open my eyes.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-01-13T10:55:19+00:00

Is being normal the hottest thing (especially to women)?

They say don't be a pushover, be assertive, be an individual etc. But the thing is attractive men are usually very conformist; nothing special about them. Plain mannerisms, opinions, conformists to the core. Getting a tattoo, being woke, drinking/doing drugs; you're not unique if everybody else is doing what you do.

But maybe it is hip to be square (as Huey Lewis elucidates in his acclaimed song). People who fit in, surprise sirprise fit their dicks into pussy because likeability is king.

Sure you can be an individualist assertive redpiller and autistically screech feminism is cancer. But unless he's blessed with model good looks he might as well be gay.

Be a conformist to attract women, it's hip to be square.

FrequentPangolin · 2021-01-13T22:19:13+00:00

Trump destroyed the GOP just like he destroyed the USFL. Actually he pretty much destroyed every business he was a part of.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-01-14T02:50:54+00:00

What does it mean when parts of your body go cold and you black out every night? I went to doctor but he just went on google and told me to come back if it keeps happening.

Less_Detail · 2021-01-14T09:59:05+00:00

What is the ultimate blue pilled movie friends,HIMYM or the office? Edit: show

pre-DrChad · 2021-01-14T20:05:39+00:00

Can a man ask questions for men or no?

geyges · 2021-01-14T22:51:13+00:00

Once upon a time, I fell in love.

She was a co-worker, and her name was Brandy.

Tall, slender and with long flowing brunette locks and big, hazel eyes, she looked like she had jumped out from a retro 1950's pinup calendar. She was gorgeous.

I thought I wouldn't stand a chance with her. She was sooooo out of my league.

Still, I grew some balls and asked her for a date on a Saturday night. To my joy (and disbelief), she agreed.

I went all out, man. Stretch limos, fresh roses, candlelight dinner, you name it.

I even paid a fiddle player $30 to serenade her while she wined and dined. No joke!

At the end of the date, I told her that she was my "eternal love" and I would "live and die" for her.

(God knows why, but I thought it was a good idea at that time.)

And as I tried to kiss her, she turned away with an unmistakable look of sheer disgust on her face.

The following week when I saw her at work, she had turned into a different person completely.

She tried her best to avoid me. Whenever I bumped into her, she would pretend to look elsewhere.

Confused and desperate, I tried calling her a couple of times. She never picked up.

Then, after a couple of hours, she texted:

"Stop calling me."

It hurt.

But, that was not the end of my story. Not yet.

Two weeks after that incident, I happened to arrive at the office early at 7am.

I had wanted to see my 60-year old boss Duncan, and I didn't know what was going through my mind when I went into his room without knocking.

And then, right there, I saw it.

Brandy was on Duncan's lap.

She only had her bra on. He had his trousers off.

I'll leave the rest to your imagination.

PickleLine · 2021-01-15T04:20:23+00:00

Dating as a man is like applying to jobs and interviewing. Send 300 applications and only get contacted for a few interviews where you go through hours of grueling questions, problems and stress tests.

Dating as a woman is like gorging on cake.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-01-12T02:12:41+00:00

I dont know who does the polling or whose decision weighs more heavily on this but if looks aren't the most important thing for women, then why do all of the "Sexiest Man of the Year/Alive" dudes always just happen to be physically attractive and some flavor of a celebrity?

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-12T04:22:27+00:00

Salt daddy chronicles continued:

So the girl I was talking about seeing soon in my last post. Things did not go smoothly AT ALL. She was very pleasant on text but completely different in person. An hour before meeting she tried to cancel saying she had a headache. Long story short I talked her out of it, heres the messages:

http://imgur.com/gallery/NdXexSB

So she shows up to the hotel. Walks in the room. Im doing my typical modus operandi. I have all the lights but one turned off, the blinds closed, the covers on the bed pulled back. I try to funnel women into the bed asap.

She comes in, she says she is feeling a little bit nervous. I pushed ahead anyways, started taking off my clothes. She kind of freaked out and opened up the blinds. Raising her voice, telling me shes not a prostitute. So I calm her down, she sits down on the bed and I get on it only wearing my shirt.

We talk for a bit and I do damage control and apologize to her, all while my dick is in full view of her. She accuses me of being a scammer and throws shit test after shit test. She is acting extremely bitchy. I basically tell her, I offered her what I offered her, payment comes at the end of the month, Im not gunna force her to do anything and if she wants to leave she can. My game is tight the whole time, telling her everything I know she wants to hear, telling her I want to get to know her but obviously im attracted to her and I want sex too, all the while giving off a dgaf vibe that Im not gunna beg her and dont care if she leaves. She decides to stay, gets more and more calm until I say "What would you do if I tried to kiss you right now?". She says "Id probably let you". So I go for it and its game from there. We had sex twice.

She acted like such an uptight princess the whole time. Im not gunna feel bad about ghosting this one.

Kaisha001 · 2021-01-17T23:38:19+00:00

I think I have an online stalker, since nearly every one of my posts gets downvoted, irregardless of the content, context, or even if I am agreeing or disagreeing with anyone.

I find this rather amusing TBH.

Manufacture-Insight · 2021-01-17T21:48:52+00:00

I am losing my patience, not to say my mind.

And I am supposed to think narcissistic men are desirable? OMG, So HoT aNd aLpHa

What sane woman puts up with such pretentious man child, unless she is sado masochist?

spacechicken1990 · 2021-01-17T21:06:48+00:00

CMV: PPD serves no real purpose as most people are full of shit.

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-01-17T17:27:19+00:00

Just a completely random thought I had...

Imagine being so closed off from yourself that you feel the need to bash a popular sport. Imagine having to deal with intense feelings of confusion/discomfort at your sudden arousal every time you see this sport played. Imagine having to try and rationalize this discomfort to yourself and others by saying the game is bad and that liking it is also bad. Imagine projecting your arousal onto everyone else that watches that sport in a vain attempt to avoid taking ownership of your burgeoning homosexuality.

So weird given that it's 2021 and you don't have to hide this part of yourself anymore and yet so many go to such lengths to do so... Just imagine

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-17T17:22:28+00:00

I used to ONLY approach women who gave me clear direct signs or hints of interest at bars clubs and social events, because mainly I feared rejection. It wasn’t a “bad” strategy I got laid and all but it’s limiting in terms of the net you cast.

A girl can think you’re cute but not give you a “hint”. So the last several years I just hit on any woman who I think is hot that I think I can bag. There are girls who I’ve dated smashed who never gave me any type of formal sign or indicator. These are mostly girls who I approached in non traditional settings like the last chick i smashed working retail. But I wouldn’t recommend this if you haven’t mastered the cold approach yet.

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-17T16:45:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/kyzi3m/studies_find_that_dangerous_sexual_behaviours_are/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Women who were abused more likely to be into dangerous sexual behaviors.

So when you see a pink haired feminazi sexworker on twitter screaming about how she hates men, but also wants to get punched in the face during sex by a man... there is a good chance she was raped.

The studies havent been released yet measuring the link between extremist feminism and experiencing abuse (or have they?), but surely its another water is wet moment.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-17T16:07:10+00:00

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pre-DrChad · 2021-01-17T08:52:05+00:00

Reading that thread about maybe men, I think I might be a maybe man. Anyone else in the same boat?

I think it's just that I'm slow to commit. Not that I'm stringing anyone along.

HotWheelsAndBabes · 2021-01-17T07:10:28+00:00

People who are blackpilled:

How do you get this shit to not ruin your day? Every night I just have so much free thoughts and the thought of black pill just crushes my confidence everyday.. the emotion always translates to the next day and I just cope and lash it all out on working out straight when I wake up, but the thought of it sometimes just encourages me to stop being alive??? If that makes sense. My confidence is just at an all time low

angels-fan · 2021-01-17T05:47:46+00:00

It's sad to see old high school girl friends who started smoking after high school.

Their skin is so bad!! Like, they'd still be super hot if not for the smoking.

I seriously don't get why people smoke.

Willow-girl · 2021-01-17T05:18:12+00:00

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LeJacquelope · 2021-01-17T03:34:50+00:00

Just had a plastic soda bottle literally explode in the cabinet. Temperature in the house is 67. Cabinet was ambient temperature. Nothing shaken, it's been sitting there since early yesterday. Nothing sharp, no punctures no previous leaking or leaking noises. Kids were in another room.

Impossible by the laws of physics. So I'm going with poltergeists.

solemn_aside · 2021-01-17T03:23:37+00:00

Cancel culture sucks.

There's a bunch of crazy shit ppl say all the time that annoys me but I don't go around wanting to censor them. This generation is going to create tons of extremists - the nature of social media allowing like-minded ppl to congregate, and trying to shut it down will cause ppl to flock to niche outlets and platforms furthering the divide.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-17T01:03:45+00:00

Come on, Bills. Let’s do this. u/pre-dental, where you at for this game?!

_mwk · 2021-01-17T00:04:08+00:00

the guy im talking to rn does this super attractive thing when we text, he texts back super quickly in the first messages and right when i feel fully engaged in the convo, he takes longer and longer to text back until it's hours and it makes me want to chase him so badly

so def work on your texting game

Cybercunt2069 · 2021-01-16T23:42:30+00:00

I actually installed instagram during this covid bullshit and browsing it is absolutely depressing. All those stacies and giga chads, fuck all that.

Manufacture-Insight · 2021-01-16T22:34:29+00:00

The place I had in mind is out of discussion, might be sold before our day. The more I am hearing news or my family's opinions on the matter, the more I do not want a wedding at all and I wished they just did not attend. They are continuously criticizing our choices, compared to my fiance's family that have been all but supportive without nagging us for why we decided so.

My dear family:

I do not care to hear how many weddings you attended for my own sake, I did not ask for that.

I do not want to hear about the money we could get from a big wedding, our wedding is about sharing the joy with our guests, to be part of our special moments.

I do not want to hear how my generation is not as traditional as yours.

YoMamas_azz · 2021-01-16T21:12:54+00:00

Words like "neurotic, feminine, insecure" etc are mostly words used by women to try to manipulate men into serving the female imperative by attacking their masculinity. Men care so much about their masculinity because it is a very important aspect of determining their worth and value in society. Socially as well as sexually. Women know this so they launch attacks at men who are not meeting the traditional standard of masculinity, which in large part is focused around how men can benefit women and children, to shame them into compliance.

PickUpScientist · 2021-01-16T20:53:35+00:00

It is a disgrace to grow old through sheer carelessness before seeing what manner of man you may become by developing your bodily strength and beauty to their highest limit.

— Socrates (Greek Philospher/OG Looksmaxer)

wekacuck · 2021-01-16T20:19:35+00:00

Thoughts on this?

Most people define sexy people as “hot,” “titillating,” “seductive,” and highly focused on sexual desirability and conquest. The media underscores these thoughts, sexualizing those who behave in provocative, exciting, and tantalizing behaviors.

But there are some people who, even devoid of those traditional attributes, are still considered very sexy by the people who have been, or currently are, in relationships with them. These truly sexy people are not necessarily physically attractive, nor young, nor even seductive. Yet, are able to consistently attract desirable partners throughout their lifetimes.

The article then goes on to list and describe 10 traits the author has observed over 40 years. There's some overlap with many of the RP strategies.

They Know How to “Invite” and “Let Go”

They Are Not Attached to Outcome

They Are Just a Little “Out of Reach”

They Are Mischievous

They Are Physically and Emotionally Alive

They are “Safe” Hunters

They Are Content Within Themselves

They “Get” the Other

They Can’t Be “Bought”

They Can’t Be Trapped

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/202101/sexy-actually

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-16T20:10:26+00:00

Cheese is disgusting, I don’t know how people like it. And cheese plates are BS excuses for dessert, I become enraged when I see those

screamingIn2_theVoid · 2021-01-16T17:37:16+00:00

Shower thought: I've been consuming Manosphere content since I was a kid in the '70's, reading mama's Playboys. The Playboy Advisor was in line with current Manosphere thinking, though not nearly as toxic.

passepar2t · 2021-01-16T16:04:55+00:00

There's nice weather and perfect powdery snow outside and I'm stuck indoors because I'm sick. Sad passepar2t.

funlightmandarin · 2021-01-16T15:13:46+00:00

Did I just experience some kind of rite of passage in the reddit-verse? 🤔

I'm actually oddly proud.

Edit: apparantly I broke an advice rule ("don't advice OP to leave their partner"), but.. I don't see where in my comment I recommended OP to leave.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-16T14:10:19+00:00

I remember the porn star Teanna Trump did an interview said that when she was in HS she would travel to college campuses and fuck athletes/frat guys at parties, this is at 14,15,16 years old too lol. She would lie about her age and tell the guys she was 18 and they wouldn’t ask for any type of receipts just take her word for it.

She said she fucked a famous basketball player at 16. People claim it’s clippers star Paul George but Teanna didn’t say his name directly. Basically she met up with him years later and was like “yo how hold do you think I am? When we hooked up I was actually 16”. The dude was starting to get a lil nervous but then she was like nah don’t worry I’m not gonna expose you you’re a nice guy u I just wanted you to know. That shit is crazy, cause that’s statutory rape.

NarniaFox · 2021-01-16T13:25:17+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4CmygfgK7C8&ab_channel=AnnaAkana

Planning is cool and I can relate to getting over excited over planning something.

dawsincreek · 2021-01-16T10:58:51+00:00

Anyone have that link to the study that shows that men are less likely or are more hesitant to marry a woman who outearns him?

Less_Detail · 2021-01-16T10:47:02+00:00

What the TRP won't tell you :The other side of 20/80 rule 80 percent of men are attracted to 20% percent of woman but they settle for rest.

poppy_blu · 2021-01-16T05:27:38+00:00

Stop projecting male thinking onto women.

Men idolize sexually successful men. Women are not attracted to men because they’re sexually successful. Men who are sexually successful are so because they are attractive to women. We do not get turned on by your n count.

funlightmandarin · 2021-01-11T23:01:04+00:00

For those in relationships, what things do your partner do that you think is absolutely adorable?

My partner keeps a stash of emergency Pringles for when I get cranky. 🥰

Edit: your partners are so adorable 🥰🥰🥰

Extremely__Moderate · 2021-01-12T15:39:36+00:00

Friendly reminder, if you weren’t born attractive, you need to make good money and/or have a large social circle if you want mating prospects.

pre-DrChad · 2021-01-15T21:32:10+00:00

So the responses by men to my post was actually pretty interesting

Men here often talk about and glorify casual sex so much, yet when I make a post about how the sexual revolution helped men attain casual sex, all of a sudden every man here is relationship oriented? Men here often talk about how they don't want to be providers, how they want sex without having to to do husband duties (commitment), but then they are against the sexual revolution which allowed this to happen.

Hmmm, very interesting indeed...

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-01-12T12:10:20+00:00

If a girl turns you down at work it’s not because “she doesn’t date coworkers”, it’s because she thinks you’re ugly. You see it all the time

“Kevin you’re a nice guy and all but I don’t date people at work. I like to keep it professional ya know?”

Kevin believes this and then 2 weeks later he finds out she’s smashing some dude from HR lol. People are fucking like rabbits at work at all levels from Wendy’s to white collar corporate. One of my greatest flings ever was one girl I was knocking down in retail.

angels-fan · 2021-01-13T19:04:27+00:00

I propose a new law.

Any car salesman that pressures a woman into buying a car she REALLY didn't want should be charged with fraud.

The woman has to show enthusiastic consent for buying the car, otherwise he pressured her and we all know that women can't say no when pressured.

Seems only fair.

Note this doesn't apply to men.

GridReXX · 2021-01-13T22:57:00+00:00

Outside of the military, men who use "females" and "female" to refer to women NEVER use "males" or "male" to refer to men.

*squints*

Why is that? hm.

That's what I thought!

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-01-14T01:21:14+00:00

I just can’t with TRPers/black pillers sometimes. A man being accused of rape today in the US is not the same thing as a woman in 1693 being accused of being a witch in Salem, Mass

Fucking hell, why do TRPers not push back on this insanity? This shit is what gives you guys a bad name

LeJacquelope · 2021-01-16T02:28:02+00:00

God dammit. I hate when women use their gender to trick men.

Except today. Except for women like this. These women are true American patriots.

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