While it is no surprise that rich men often have an easier time getting women, naivety leads many to believe that this is the superseding factor above all-else after looks/physicals.
I'm here to remind you that it's not. Lifestyle is. There are plenty of guys who make 60K a year who lease nice apartments, cars, eat out at the best restaurants, go on nice vacations---while basically living paycheck to paycheck---to create a facade of opulence.
There is no doubt that it works on the majority of women for whatever reason at least for short-term flings.
I may make 6 figures a year in my twenties, but I have only done so by living well below my means since university and investing it; not relying on my W2 income.
This comes at a cost however. I have never taken a vacation since college, literally drive a $1000 car, rarely eat out, and live with roommates.
So despite being in the top 5% of earners my age, it does absolutely nothing as far as women are concerned, because I choose to be a skinflint.
I do not care about prestige or social status for the most part, so this drives women away.
Maybe women who are ready to settle down care solely about money from a beta provider viewpoint, but otherwise most women only care about how you spend your money, not if you have an abundance (high potential) of it.
Ironically women despise men who don't want to spend money on them while men despise women who use them for their money.
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I hear you man. I’m in my 20s and my income has been climbing quickly and 7 figures is not out of the question in a few years.
But I don’t really buy much. I don’t buy brand name clothes, I just buy clothes that fit well. I’ve driven the same car since high school because it still runs and I can watch YouTube videos to do minor repairs. Don’t pay for Netflix or cable. Haven’t taken a vacation in years.
Not gonna lie though, as I got into my mid 20s, it did kinda hurt my dating prospects. When I was in college, some LED Lights in my apartment and nice speakers in my room were enough to “impress” girls. They would love to come watch Netflix and hangout.
Now i feel like it takes fancy dinners and rides in expensive cars which I’m not a fan of.
Not too many girls want to go for a hike as I pick them up in my beat up Honda lol, seems like they want some fancy experience just so they can take pictures of it for their instagrams. Feels more like a photoshoot than a date.
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"7 figures is not out of the question in a few years"
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Yes in 3 years could be a million per year.
I’ve never had a girl tell me that she expects nice shit and most don’t know what I do.
I guess my point was, it was so much easier getting hookups/fwb a few years ago, now it’s brutal for me. When I was in college and just out of college girls would love to just come hang on a Friday night. Maybe the pandemic played a role but I’ve had a really tough time getting girls to meet up in any form the past 2 years. Granted I mostly met them from tinder so maybe tinder has changed. I don’t have many girl friends, so meeting through social circle has always been tough for me.
Just felt like girls always wanted to be “wowed” and excited to have fun. It used to be much simpler things that did the job like a bar I built in my basement in college or some cool lounge I knew of. But now it’s like in order to feel that excitement, it always needs to involve me spending large amounts of money and pretending to be someone I’m not.
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