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razormachine · 2022-01-14T01:30:15+00:00

Mods are asleep!

Post your boob pics!

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-13T22:52:08+00:00

Dammit. My post (about a study in incels) hit the shit post filter 😡

CatoftheBanals · 2022-01-13T22:51:40+00:00

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zyramain69 · 2022-01-12T22:29:40+00:00

Shout out to my strong masculine birth giving men 💪

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-01-13T00:04:49+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/s2c9xd/all_i_have_to_give_to_anyone_is_pure_indifference/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Then some poor sap gets this “mature” “experienced” woman/queen who knows what she wants.

I wonder if she still thinks body count doesn’t matter after all her trauma/baggage.

ChadThundagaCock · 2022-01-13T02:15:41+00:00

Currently trying to clean up my emails as a New You ears resolution. I was subscribed to a dating newsletter from a PUA type of company for a while after I bought one product from them which was actually a good investment about approaching. However, they just emailed me claiming “scientific studies show women really do like guys with dad bods more”.

I just unsubscribed. One less extra form of information dump being thrown at me. Simplicity is sometimes best, which is why TRP is so popular among those in the know.

CatoftheBanals · 2022-01-13T03:46:09+00:00

Here's all you need to know about men and women:

A small percentage of men are indeed seen as desirable by women. In the real world, this is very obvious simply by looking and listening, it's almost impossible to overlook unless one makes a concerted effort to overlook it
Women, rather lazily, protect the lies about their sexual tastes, to maintain a working society, and many men eat it up due to having no direct experience with women's sexuality
Most men are either subconsciously or consciously aware of this sexual disparity and have direct experience with seeing this happen
Most men deny this out of sheer self-instinct to preserve their just world fallacy
Other men deny this in an attempt to preserve their fragile acceptance into society, so that they can socially survive, and earn money
Most men convince themselves that women can instead be bought, leading to a wealth hoarding culture
Many men wind up with women who resent them, either through demeaning language ("my hubby," "oh, this celeb is so hot"), weight gain, infidelity, or literal cuckolding
Some men go right wing in an attempt to create a control locus over society with them at the center
Some men get involved with religious coping mechanisms that deny the male sexuality in an attempt to combat women's freedom of sexual choice
Some engage in potentially violent displays of masculinity, such as joining war efforts, or crime
Some go left in an attempt to destroy society in hopes of "revenge"
Some men go gay / trans, with no real viable options left, though this may be affected by high numbers of men being molested by their fathers who are also deprived of sex
Some term to predatory acts, many of children (e.g., EDP445)
Cuckolding becomes seen as a normal, healthy fetish, rather than an expression of sexual desperation within a marriage
Molestation of children by sexually deprived men skyrockets

cryptothrow2 · 2022-01-13T10:59:46+00:00

For RP men, how do you take advantage of the epiphany/settling/boomerang stage if you aren't willing to settle/commit but are Beta?

nessaea-blue · 2022-01-12T22:02:35+00:00

prima

TheBookOfSeil · 2022-01-12T22:04:27+00:00

<sup>Everyone who posts comments after this one is gae</sup>

lulll · 2022-01-12T22:09:52+00:00

its rainin men hallelujah its rainin men

CFinCanada · 2022-01-12T22:33:33+00:00

Q4All: is this song extremely catchy or am I going deaf? https://youtu.be/wlvdwhfiixE

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-13T00:00:40+00:00

Is OnlyFans competitive or is it like a gold rush where every girl who signs up has the ability to be successful?

For example, it seems that every job market is over saturated, but I have this impression that if you do SW online and post regularly it’s like guaranteed to be lucrative.

Is that true, or is there some competition where some people do better than others?

Slipthe · 2022-01-13T04:53:24+00:00

Man it's a crime that I can't listen to music during work. It really brings me joy to dance in my chair and sing lol.

I work with audio and video too often that I can't just jam out.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-13T05:54:58+00:00

Not being an insomniac tonight so I just took an Ambien. Sorry in advance if i'm nice to you.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-01-13T11:25:32+00:00

If the OP behind that "what can average women do to become attractive" post is actually genuine, then it's fascinating to see a legitimate femcel on here!

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lulll · 2022-01-13T01:07:26+00:00

if you feel like being creeped out listen to this

afaik thats the only recording we have of a castrato singer

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-01-13T22:44:35+00:00

I was having an argument with someone just now. I was saying that if a woman uses large dildos in her vagina regularly (bigger than most penises), her vagina would not be able to feel a dick properly anymore. The guy I was arguing with said that was nonsense, because a vagina is just a muscle that stretches and it will return to its normal tightness afterwards.

Who is right here?

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-13T22:35:28+00:00

u/angels-fan - I’ll be in SLC at the end of the month

Any restaurants or bars I need to see?

poppy_blu · 2022-01-13T21:53:25+00:00

Can we please stop asking the same questions over and over in Q4W posts just to dismiss every woman who answers as a liar?

E-2-butene · 2022-01-13T00:33:35+00:00

I think my favorite thing to see on Reddit is when someone who is clearly educated on a subject correctly summarizes the academic consensus on a controversial issue…

And then they get massively downvoted with everyone screaming “REEEE, this idiot has no idea what he’s talking about!!!!”

Makes me laugh every time.

trail22 · 2022-01-12T22:40:58+00:00

Its weird getting older because you realize that you arent going to be the person you though you would be nor live the life you though you would live.

WritingWithSpears · 2022-01-12T22:12:23+00:00

How many lurkers here using this sub to get their fill of entertaining and unhinged dating/sex takes after reddit banned all the incel subs?

CFinCanada · 2022-01-12T22:32:15+00:00

Reminds me of that Purge Weekend thread about "men need women to avoid fucking each other to death."

Seems that woman overlooked the various other ways men would kill each other in the absence of women. Like murder by gaming: https://nypost.com/2022/01/12/tiktok-star-rory-teasley-dead-after-alleged-fight-over-video-game/

figuringMylife · 2022-01-13T00:12:35+00:00

anyone else just love this sub but so exhausted? i take a break, come back and its so fun to read but i can’t tell if some of the people are serious?

i love men and i know there are good ones but sometimes i just want to date women. deep sigh

John_Oakman · 2022-01-13T00:52:57+00:00

It's not a punishment if the ones being punished sees it as an absolute win.

For example:

Certain women: fuckbois are only good for flings, they're basically just living dildos.

Misogynists: doesn't matter, had sex.

or

Certain middle age men: I'll never wife up a hoe.

The ladies in question: I don't want be trapped in a relationship with the likes of you to begin with!

And of course as a corollary, it's not a perk if the receiving side sees it as a punishment.

Willow-girl · 2022-01-13T12:28:20+00:00

Yesterday I didn't do so well. I pulled an extra shift subbing at night for another custodian who called off. At some point, I looked at the clock and realized it was just about the time I used to start milking the cows, and I just lost it. Luckily I was working by myself, because I swear I mopped that room with my tears.

I just want my old life back, y'know?

nessaea-blue · 2022-01-12T22:14:11+00:00

met a guy today, well off investment banker, smart guy and great conversationalist. In his late forties, so he has that old man chub and he was average height, but otherwise not bad looking.

His wife? Pretty dumb, no career, and quite unattractive.

I wonder why he chose her

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-01-12T22:15:44+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen I give you the final boss of online dating

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-01-12T22:16:37+00:00

Y’all hear about Drake and hot sauce?

https://wegotthiscovered.com/music/drake-hot-sauce-condom-instagram-model-allegation/

These hoes are mad lol

empresa_josefina · 2022-01-12T22:56:04+00:00

I have basically stopped making any effort to date. I used to have premium subscriptions to every dating app, I would ask women out and plan dates based around their interests, etc. In 2021 I was spending almost $150 a week at the peak on dates and dating apps, and this includes periods where I was seeing someone exclusively and taking them out around town.

None of these women cared much about my interests, with one exception out of a dozen they were mediocre in bed, and my life was not enriched in any meaningful way. Over the summer I did a trip to Europe and had ONS with a few Euro club girls that I then shacked up with. More memorable than boring texting and dating with alpha widowed 6s in my city.

From now on I am not lifting a finger.

Before I get called an incel, etc., I make six figures working in finance, I am 6'2", 13% bodyfat, and overall a swell guy.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-01-13T01:57:12+00:00

Unpopular opinion: a hot woman in her 30s is hotter than a hot woman in her 20s.

NarniaFox · 2022-01-13T07:43:17+00:00

"Women were happier when they were housewives! And now they're all depressed and take antidepressants"

I'd guess that it's better to take antidepressants rather than meth:

According to FDA manufacturer surveys, by 1962, US production reached an estimated 80000 kg of amphetamine salts, corresponding to consumption of 43 standard 10-mg doses per person per year on a total-population basis. Thus, in amphetamine alone, the United States in the early 1960s was using nearly as much psychotropic medication as the 65 doses per person per year in the present decade that social critics today find so extraordinary.

...

Taking the sample in these studies as representative (as the investigators intended), between 2% and 3% of the total population must have received amphetamines by prescription in the course of a year. This, together with the 0.2% of the general population identified as “habituated or addicted,” implies a dependency rate among past-year medical amphetamine users of 6.7% to 10%

...

The largest age group among the medical users were those aged 36 to 45 years, and 85% of all amphetamine patients were women.39 Even making the simplifying assumption that weight loss prescriptions were entirely for women and taking into account that women seek medical attention more often than men, these figures indicate that per doctor visit around 1960, a woman was twice as likely as a man to receive an amphetamine prescription to adjust her mental state—much like minor tranquilizers in the same period

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2377281/

Edit: also lobotomy

The use of the procedure increased dramatically from the early 1940s and into the 1950s; by 1951, almost 20,000 lobotomies had been performed in the United States and proportionally more in the United Kingdom.[6] More lobotomies were performed on women than on men: a 1951 study found that nearly 60% of American lobotomy patients were women, and limited data shows that 74% of lobotomies in Ontario from 1948 to 1952 were performed on female patients.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lobotomy

It wasn’t just Freeman and Watts. A comprehensive survey of US psychiatric facilities between 1949 and 1951 found that most patients lobotomized by doctors were women. At a time when women were expected to be calm, cooperative and attentive to domestic affairs, definitions of mental illness were as culturally bound as their treatments. A surgery that rendered female patients docile and compliant, but well enough to return to and care for their homes, had many proponents before the drug chlorpromazine, the first “major” tranquilizer, became available in 1954.

Chlorpromazine’s success launched our modern psychopharmcologic era, anointing drugs as the treatment of choice in asylum and outpatient psychiatry. Tellingly, prescribing patterns reinforced earlier tropes. By 1968, the “minor” tranquilizer Valium (diazepam), marketed as an antidote for socially dysfunctional women — the excessively ambitious, the visually unkempt, the unmarried and the menopausal misfits — was the best-selling drug in the world as well as one prescribed overwhelmingly to women

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5962395/

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-01-13T12:25:11+00:00

If you think the dating market is the way it is because women are inherently bad or wrong, you're equally as fucking deluded as bluepillers who think women are inherently wonderful

To think that men wouldn't behave in a similar way given the same options is just lying to yourself and WAY overestimating men as a whole.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-01-12T22:10:31+00:00

Man, women are so fickle on OLD. I had one match respond that she was interested and down to chat but I didn’t respond last night. I look today and poof, she’s gone lol

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2022-01-12T22:28:13+00:00

I feel like all Onlyfans creators brag they are in the top (1%, 5%, 0.5%, etc.) With how many state it I feel like most are lying about it lmao.

You can't all be top 1%.

Cant_stop_wont_st0p · 2022-01-12T22:53:11+00:00

giga chad, that dude is so bad how the fuck he so rad? he make me so mad

so strong, 12 inch dong smashes girls like a gong puffed out chest king kong

and women, drop they thong keep it up, my life won't be too long what the fuck I do wrong this the fucking theme song yea

(verse 1: incel)

lost another stacy giga chad erased me

every time she sees me She sees the subhumanity

Stacy's fucking vanity descent into insanity

I blame it on my family for making me so ugly

Every time I"m forced to leave my house to get some tendies Hop into my mom's car and drive right down to wendy's

at the drive-thru window, a female head appears oh no! it's stacy, confirming all my fears

next thing you know giga chad is at the window stacy's got her tit's out, it's time to do her job - blow

and you know giga chad just looked at me and smiled the razor sharp jawline of his I reviled

(verse 2: gigachad) Fuck around with me? for real G?

Im the true giga chad you a fucking lame lad

my dick gets hard at the thought of a thot get got, seven shot must've hurt alot

i bench over 375 so dope this freestyle was fucking live

you a cuck a fucking smuck good luck with your endeavor

imma live forever fucking bitches is whatever

you an incel, with a limp dick that no chick ever lick

staying click click on your porn death of a man that i mourn

yea maybe being incel was how you was born

elliot rodger the second i'd ask how you doing but its bad i reckon bitch mother fucker getting cucked by a chad stacey snapchat i fucking add

chilikettlechips · 2022-01-13T05:11:45+00:00

Men got fetishes for everything so Q4W, how widespread is women fetishizing manlets?

CimZim · 2022-01-13T21:33:21+00:00

TIL that being excited to find someone who agrees with you about something you find ridiculous, and talking about it in the comments with them = circlejerking 😲 I had always thought it involved ego stroking/acting superior to another group.

Slipthe · 2022-01-12T22:19:26+00:00

A conclusion to the formerly-unemployed roommate!

He moved his ass out! Left a dirty room behind, but whatever. I'd rather he just leave my house instead of staying behind to incompetently clean. He isn't gonna be hearing from me for a long time.

angels-fan · 2022-01-13T00:13:11+00:00

When you go to play some WoW but your pc decides now is a good time to run an hour long Windows update.

🤦‍♂️

empresa_josefina · 2022-01-13T20:54:07+00:00

In a previous comment I said that maybe 10% of women were good in bed and most were mediocre. I got pushback from some female users so I thought I would elaborate. I am 31M and I have lost count but I am probably in the 70-80 partner range (gigachad??)

First a physical description of me, I'm 6'2", 6.25" length, 5.5" girth. That's a bit above avg in length but quite above average in girth.

Most women are terrible communicators in bed. A good chunk are "anti-communicators," they actually get uncomfortable if you ask how something feels or otherwise tall about the sex act. They expect you to "just get it." I treat sex like a massage, I apply pressure until I get a response then I focus on that area, so that allows me to stroke in a way she enjoys. But imagine being a masseuse and the client refusing to tell you what spot is sore, expecting you to "just figure it out?"

Another group actually don't know what they enjoy. I thought this was a question of experience but even certified party girls I met at a club might have their first orgasm with me. I guess the previous Chads truly did not care.

A small group will just communicate directly and tell you if the pressure is right or now, if a position is not comfortable, etc. This group also will discuss what they enjoyed post-coital, which is great because it can be hard to communicate what felt best during the act.

So far I have only judged the woman's passive contribution to my active role. In the two areas where a woman could be active, it's typically disappointing.

In positions where the woman is active like cowgirl, they usually botch the angle and bend my Johnson or constantly make it slip out. As a guy I think a lot about whether I should add a pillow under her hips if she's shorter or use the edge of the bed; I find that typical partners will just try their usual method and if it fails we switch positions to one where I am active.

The last active role near and dear to my heart, BJs. I was a teen in the early 00s and my first gf was a head monster so I guess I am Stacy-widowed in this department? Less than 10% of partners are good. My girth is a challenge for smaller girls so that group struggles. Another segment don't understand how you should adjust if the man is circumcised. An even more disappointing group either use too little pressure or there's a lot of teeth (these overlap with the smaller women). However the good ones stand out in my memory. I have never pumped and dumped a girl who was solid in this department, they all became FWBs or LTRs.

My advice to women: be able and willing to talk about what you liked during a session in a non-confrontational way. Ask your partner what he likes and apply the adjustments. Think of you and your partner as teammates on a sailboat trying to reach a destinated (great sex life): you each are handling different parts of the boat, but you ultimately are working together as a team.

superincongruent · 2022-01-13T20:38:55+00:00

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angels-fan · 2022-01-13T20:30:46+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/antiwork/comments/s330jf/so_my_best_friend_just_got_this_email_what_the/

Is there some kind of Trading Places kind of bet to see who can come up with the most unrealistic and obvious bullshit story that makes it to /r/all from the antiwork sub?

purplish_possum · 2022-01-13T19:46:03+00:00

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LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-13T19:28:24+00:00

Q4M: How does a perfect date look to you?

goneaway2thewind · 2022-01-13T19:05:04+00:00

Random question, what type of device do you primarily use for PPD/Reddit? Mobile, PC, Tablet?

lulll · 2022-01-13T18:48:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/s2yg0k/is_it_weird_to_ask_about_what_city_you_live_in/

this is why men need to just stop with online dating. this is a somewhat typical experience, they'll match with you just to get their rocks off by attacking the guy in some way for no real reason. its so disgusting

GridReXX · 2022-01-13T18:41:27+00:00

I did enjoy some of the men’s advice, but unfortunately this was a Q4W. I’ve never had to nuke a thread like this.

Guys, why don’t you reply to the AutoMod in Q4Ws? You can still provide insightful commentary. You just have to reply under the AutoMod.

I do this all the time when I agree with a CMV.

angels-fan · 2022-01-13T18:32:15+00:00

One of my co-worker's 6 week old baby just died of covid.

I'm sick to my stomach.

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2022-01-13T18:29:04+00:00

Women who are highly attractive but struggle with dating (retaining a man), understand that you are probably crazy or are a massive bitch.

That is all for this PSA.

Slipthe · 2022-01-13T18:06:03+00:00

I really wish there were more role models that represented 'the divine feminine' without a political angle.

There's so much pushback against femininity and women's gender roles that I'm just looking for that equilibrium of someone who is extremely feminine but not clinging to traditionalism.

angels-fan · 2022-01-13T17:43:34+00:00

Why is it so fucking hard for the women here to understand that beta bux exists?

"Oh yeah? If women are only sexually attracted to the top 20%, then why do I see ugly guys with girlfriends?? Checkmate red pill!!"

Well no shit. They settled because they couldn't get Chad to commit. This is RP 101.

figuringMylife · 2022-01-13T17:03:43+00:00

Q4M; Those of you who don’t want to get married, are you staying childfree? Do you not want families at all? Are you happy dying alone with no family surrounding you?

Those of you who have a problem with marriage because of “divorce rape” and no sex, do you blame men for their choice in women?

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-01-13T16:29:46+00:00

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death_by_1000_cats · 2022-01-13T16:17:42+00:00

Never ever ever buy a Kia. Absolute dogshit company.

razormachine · 2022-01-13T16:13:02+00:00

I accidentally ate my tooth, aaaand I couldn't make myself puke.

I practically fingerfucked my throat and my gagging effect is gone, completely gone.

Anyway google says I will poop it in 36 hours.

ObviouslyAnAltAct · 2022-01-13T16:02:29+00:00

I'm just wondering how a lot of you younger, more bitter fellas out there deal with your bitterness and not hate all women as a whole. I went through that phase myself 15+ years ago. But the internet and access to data and gender relations philosophy (red pill, blue pill, etc) was very limited and this sort of content didn't really exist outside of limited social circles most people didn't even know were around. So I'm wondering what some of your younger dudes do to prevent the "red pill rage" from taking over your thoughts. Obviously for some it has, but others have a healthier mindset about it. So I'm just curious in my old man ways

Slipthe · 2022-01-13T15:52:23+00:00

I swear every Q4Women has 10x the amount of dudes commenting on it and ignoring the flair vs Q4Men which rarely have women responding and ignoring the flair.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-01-13T15:32:23+00:00

Whereareallthegoodmen is so disappointing.

Like the idea of making fun of women who expect a laundry list of unrealistic standards whilst offering nothing themselves sure does sound fun. However, 90% of the posts are just "LOOK!! A WOMAN WITH A KID ON A DATING APP!! AND SHE HAS A TATTOO!!! 😡"

Like I get it, I wouldn't want to date a single mother at my age either. Doesn't mean that they are worthy of mockery on such a grand scale.

And my word the ridiculous assumptions these guys make. They assume every single woman on there has been fucking an army of 6'3 Chads even when there's zero indication of it from their dating profile (even the ones that don't have the "I've had my fun" line get met with these accusations). At that point, you're just projecting your own insecurities and worries.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-01-13T01:11:25+00:00

I don’t understand why FDS women get so upset about “low effort” dates. Walks in the woods, coffee, etc. It’s some of my favorite things and fancy restaurants make me uncomfortable.

E-2-butene · 2022-01-13T15:26:52+00:00

So, I just typed in “Reddit Purple pill debate” into google, and the top search recommendation was “Reddit female dating strategy.”

Wtf google? Is this just me? I don’t think I’ve ever typed that search term in before.

E-2-butene · 2022-01-13T15:20:34+00:00

With all of these “will women tolerate men doing X” questions lately, I really think we need to reintroduce (I believe) /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin’s concept of “masculinity tokens.”

The long and short of it is that doing masculine things around a girl you are dating lets you “save up” masculinity tokens, meaning you have sufficiently demonstrated your masculinity such that “feminine” behavior don’t change her fundamental view of you.

Doing things like crying or showing weakess “spends” these tokens, but as long as you still have plenty in the bank, you’re fine. However, if you overspend, she will eventually stop seeing you as a masculine guy and lose respect, even if she used to respect you in the past.

Can you cry or get sick without your girl losing respect for you? Depends. Do you have enough coins saved up for that withdrawal?

chilikettlechips · 2022-01-13T15:13:06+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/science/comments/s2w9o3/researchers_studying_incel_activity_on_social/

Discuss: Does economic inequality, poverty, lack of social mobility result in more incelery? Science says yes. and

Q4W: will you support a UBI to help the incels?

Mark_Freed · 2022-01-13T14:59:33+00:00

We are so fucked that it’s not even funny. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/01/17/the-great-siberian-thaw

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-01-13T14:31:49+00:00

If I were to give one absolute dating rule regardless of moral implication, I'd say to never date anyone with BPD. Look at the symptoms, it's basically just "Abusive Partner Syndrome".

Sure, there's people with BPD who have their shit together, but frankly in my experience, it's not worth the risk.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-01-13T14:22:44+00:00

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annabeelongx · 2022-01-13T13:47:31+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdMTmGy6/

What happened was horrible, and the guy who ghosted her was a piece of shit. However, I don’t understand why obese people complain about not getting dates when literally the problem is looking at them in the mirror the whole time.

lulll · 2022-01-13T13:35:00+00:00

why are women so socially violent and why does everyone give them a pass for it

CFinCanada · 2022-01-13T13:04:23+00:00

Apparently, women who have been checking feet to tell if he has a big D have been checking out the wrong body part all along.

Men with big noses have the biggest dicks: https://www.yourtango.com/2014203454/dating-love-reasons-date-guy-big-nose

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-01-13T12:54:47+00:00

r/Fatlogic is a funny ass sub. I never heard the term “fatphobia” until now lol.

A lot of former fat people on that sub have stated one of the hardest parts is your social circle hating on you and discouraging you from even trying. Again misery loves company and It’s like that in dating.

I remember a PUA guy said the first piece of advice he was given was to Ditch his loser friends because they are holding him back. Dudes who get no ass hang out with other guys who don’t get ass and it becomes a big circle jerk of misery where not getting laid is normalized as ok.

CFinCanada · 2022-01-13T12:53:01+00:00

Literally not a day goes by that I don't feel sorry for women who are in old-fashioned marriages.

In today's example, man deemed 'the asshole' berates ill wife for not being on-call maid: https://www.yourtango.com/entertainment/man-tells-stay-home-wife-its-embarrassing-his-friends-saw-his-home-mess

This guy is the same age as my man, and I already know he would be the one to clean the place up if he was having friends over.

Please explain how this woman is not trapped.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-01-13T10:38:32+00:00

What do you think of the idea that much, if not most, of any extraordinary gender disequilibrium we currently face is caused by a failure of men to properly adapt to the massive changes in female conditions, behavior and desires that we have seen over the past 50 years, with technology being the primary driver?

This is to say that there is a path towards much greater harmony that does not require men to work harder or be 'better', or even to go against male nature, but rather to just better adapt their efforts to a new age?

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	January 12, 2022 10:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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