Pickmes are brain dead 😑

aenema46n2 · 2021-08-22T19:00:52+00:00

So she's asking if she should be concerned (which tells me inside she is) and then also says she loves that he supports sex workers WTFFF🤡

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-08-22T19:00:05+00:00

Her boyfriend supports sex work because he enjoys jerking off to women …

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-08-22T18:58:56+00:00

"hE dOeS! I lOvE tHaT aBoUt Him!"

Why exactly? He doesn't "support" sex work, he benefits from it. Those aren't the same thing.

jupitarianrise · 2021-08-22T19:02:05+00:00

It’s the fact that men support each other (by lying to women) even when they do not know each other personally and have nothing to gain from it… impressive.

frostedgemstone · 2021-08-22T19:08:26+00:00

Ah yes, supporting sex work, such a progressive, rare, and groundbreaking quality for a man to have

LR_today · 2021-08-22T19:43:19+00:00

Is there a FDS pickmisha of the year award? I nominate her.

thatjimmylove · 2021-08-22T19:52:23+00:00

The fact that it has become normal for your boyfriend to be subscribed to multiple women's only fans or nudes/videos, and it's just thought of as okay. Imagine if women as a majority did this men would lose their minds. If he does this he is just further supporting the idea that women's sexuality is to be commodified and he's benefiting from it.

Beyond that imagine what it would do to intimacy in your relationship, although porn is terrible it is not as intimate as a platform like only fans or camming where they have direct interaction with the woman. How do they gaslight women in to thinking this is okay to accept, it's clearly infidelity. It's such an invasion of sexuality, it's so gross.

Now, imagine you have a family or something shared finances and this tool is spending your money on some other women's nude body. Then he gaslights you and says its so normal hes a man blah blah blah. I can't stomach any of this shit and the virtue signalling like " i pay for my porn im such a good guy" I can't with this.

Also the social delusion that this produces is disturbing so many men would be like " but look the girl doing it is happy" like she's performing idiot, she may not be miserable depending on her state in life but she definitely does not genuinely like you, it's like men who think strippers flirt with them.

Like and then these men turn around and degrade the women too talking about they would never want a woman who does that but see no problem jacking off to it.

I am really tired of how public sexual intimacy has become, call me a crazy feminist but I don't want to share my intimacies with the third party of porn and a cam girl. If a dude can't get himself off without that even though theres a live women with him then it's a huge turnoff ( oh and male lurkers don't equate that with your jealousy of sex toys).

_differentmentality_ · 2021-08-23T00:37:36+00:00

lmfao yes I’m sure that’s why he watches porn, to support sex workers of course

zombiessalad · 2021-08-23T03:11:08+00:00

A lot of these men who “support” aka jack off to sex workers probably won’t give an ounce of respect to them if they saw them in the street. If they were not making themselves a commodity they would find no reason to give them anything but judgement.

Jandi18 · 2021-08-22T19:39:48+00:00

Oh God! Thé bar is in hell and burnt to ashes!! There is no bar…freestyle all the way!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-08-22T20:09:23+00:00

"I love that my boyfriend gives his sexual energy to multiple other women instead of giving it all to just me like he should!" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

"I love that my boyfriend sees women as sexual objects for him to purchase" 🤡🤡🤡

"I love that my boyfriend spends his money to buy performative and insulting displays of false male-created "female sexuality" from prostitutes instead of taking me on dates and giving me his sexual best!" 🤡🤡🤡

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-08-22T21:01:48+00:00

If you love that about him why make the post in the first place?

elainejay82 · 2021-08-22T20:10:13+00:00

I like how one comment from a random on the internet makes her deny her own gut so quickly.

andwhenwillitbegin · 2021-08-22T20:35:16+00:00

I thought the response was a joke she didn’t understand! I’m reeling

Pahapan · 2021-08-23T05:44:49+00:00

This shit is so intellectually dishonest. What next? They'll be telling a woman who discovered her boyfriend is doing heroin, crack, and meth that he just supports local business and tax evasion (stick it to the man!). And if any of his dealers are PoC he gets extra bonus points for supporting PoC entrepreneurship.

Liberal feminists really can't spot a wolf in sheep's clothing. Men, capitalism, and conservativism have been twisting feminist ideals and using the façade of feminism to make their goals (which are inherently anti-woman) more palatable to women. They've really managed to make prostitution something that "woke" feminists have to publicly support (even in the context of discovering their boyfriend is a john), lest they be accused of not supporting sex workers, slut shaming, creating violent incels, etc.

extragouda · 2021-08-23T01:59:36+00:00

So... he jerks off to porn and she loves that about him? Okaaay. Talk about the bar being low.

I can stick a poster of Ryan Gosling in my room... will some guy love me for doing that?

Ugh. I don't know what to say.

Women like this will also say things like "calling a man low-value or high-value assigns men to a binary that is unfair, therefore, I disagree." So okay, don't have any values...? I mean, you do you, girl. I would rather be a high-value woman... and by that I mean a woman with values.

FSS.

Lylaeth · 2021-08-22T19:35:01+00:00

What an embarrassment…

Renrenchi · 2021-08-22T21:32:43+00:00

It's like a fucking cult. "You support sex work right? Right? You aren't a bigot right? You are open minded but you must support sex work. Have you objectified yourself today?" All these women are in for an ugly wake up call few years from now.

carmen_sandiegos_hat · 2021-08-22T19:54:57+00:00

You love human traf*icking and groom*ng?

ExistentialJelly · 2021-08-22T20:06:26+00:00

Bet he wouldn't be so supportive of sex work if it was his girlfriend, sister, or mother working in such an empowering field.

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-08-22T21:37:38+00:00

Pays for porn but I’m sure makes his girlfriend go Dutch on dates lol

08__80 · 2021-08-22T21:03:01+00:00

I hate that "supporting sex work" is the new purity test now. If you stick a toe out of line and say you'd rather these women (and men) have the option to not do sex work if they don't want to, and that it sucks that their livelihood depends on sex work, and that they don't really have a choice, and without choice, you can't have true consent, you are a monster.

BxGyrl416 · 2021-08-22T21:42:18+00:00

Why does her BF know so much about sex work? Of course he supports it.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-08-22T22:45:34+00:00

Should I be concerned? That little voice of sanity in every woman, quickly gaslit by strangers on the internet. I hope sis finds FDS and soon!

Outrageous-Knowledge · 2021-08-22T19:55:59+00:00

I really feel there’s no hope for women as a whole. I just read this:

“(Book) gets a bum rap and part of that is the fact that the hero in this book is an abusive, rapey, psychotic douchenozzle, AKA my favorite kind of hero.”

Like this is porn culture brainwashing

SpringJonesOcean · 2021-08-23T03:20:56+00:00

That was a pathetic and depressing read.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-23T06:23:43+00:00

I’m embarrassed for her.

IDontAgreeSorry · 2021-08-22T19:29:07+00:00

My guy doesn’t jerk off to other women. Love that about him 😊

And before any pick me or scrote says “yOu dOnT kNoW tHat”, yes I do. Some of us actually have trustworthy partners.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-08-23T04:28:19+00:00

Wow is she stupid

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2021-08-22T20:18:10+00:00

"Just means he supports sex work" yet he'd never support his gf being a sex worker, he'd leave

or he'd be the guy who commented "nah I'd totally date a girl who has an OnlyFans, that's OUR money now"

Men(*) wake up to sex work being degrading only when they'd be expected to objectify themselves for people to whom they're not attracted OR when they consider the hypothesis of their mother/sister/daughter/partner being a sex worker. "I totally support sex work, but I'll be damned before I let my daughter be a hoe", "I'm cool with strippers but I'd never date one", "I'd divorce my wife, that's just damaged goods", etc.

(*) Shouldn't even say just men because some women are like this too and I'm just... You claim to support sex work but "I could never be a stripper haha" yeah 'cause you know it's degrading and you wouldn't handle it in the long run. You'd have to hide it from basically anyone who's relevant in your life to avoid getting in trouble.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-08-22T22:45:58+00:00

She’s contradicting herself so hard and doesn’t even realize it 🙄

starfighter07 · 2021-08-22T20:58:21+00:00

I support sex workers too. You know, sex workers' rights to be respected, to not be abused in total impunity, to have a life beyond sex(work), beyond the trashiness of men.

Pickme women really are the level 0 of feminism.

pozzalovah · 2021-08-23T00:03:11+00:00

I love how the commenter was most probably trolling ...

Meredeen · 2021-08-23T01:13:34+00:00

The cognitive whiplash has me needing an ambulance

nyLqw24684 · 2021-08-23T11:24:37+00:00

"supports sex work" tf??? "wastes money on the internet for his dick," more like.

nymira-1 · 2021-08-22T23:59:48+00:00

Rip…

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-23T08:55:44+00:00

Thank god a random man came along and corrected her thought crime.

munissa · 2021-08-23T02:39:58+00:00

How do you tell me you’ve been manipulated, negged, gaslit and/or open to be cheated on without telling me.

honeybadgerattitude · 2021-08-22T21:50:28+00:00

Maybe we’ve got this guy all wrong and he does actually want to support sex workers? Sometimes we need to give people the benefit of the doubt. I’m passionate about supporting my own imagination. I’ll spend time going through imagination exercises in order to show my support. Usually in bed at night. The orgasms I have are just a bonus! There are no selfless good deeds after all. 😛

Maude2010 · 2021-08-23T00:38:45+00:00

He doesn’t support “sex work”. He just supports his boner.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-23T03:56:33+00:00

Be an idiot until the end 🤦🏽‍♀️

wildlife_bee · 2021-08-23T05:34:48+00:00

Ahhhh only one letter away from bi(m)boofficial

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-08-23T06:19:43+00:00

That 180 gave me whiplash.

coolstorybroseph420 · 2021-08-23T20:28:54+00:00

They sound fucking brainwashed!!!!

BigDebbie4ever · 2021-08-23T02:04:57+00:00

Unmmmmm.... what?

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-08-23T15:16:55+00:00

I read her username as "bimbo" & honestly proud of my brain for that little slip

Bella_Keira23 · 2021-08-23T02:43:52+00:00

I’m surprised she didn’t call him her “King” 🙄

Ayxmiii · 2021-08-23T15:19:36+00:00

Lmfaooooooooooooooo

kiki_do_u_luv_me · 2021-08-23T18:43:07+00:00

Yikes

ArchangelofAveroigne · 2021-08-22T22:07:10+00:00

No one can brainwash me into believing that porn / sex work is empowering for women. 95% of the guys who talk about how much they support these women would never date a girl who was having sex with other men or showing her body to other men for money. They would lose their sht if their girlfriend, wife, sister, or daughter started doing this. They would also lose their sht if their girlfriend was following male strippers / sex workers and looking at other guys' d*cks and butts all day instead of giving them physical attention. And not only that, but tall, muscular, masculine type of men who look nothing like them. "Woke" liberals can't brainwash me into their cult where capitalism is evil but men have the right to purchase sex because it empowers women. How about empowering women with education and job opportunities that involve their skills and interests? How about help for people with drug problems and mental illness? These men just don't give a damn about any of that as long as they can continue objectifying women.

DreamlikeNile · 2021-08-23T09:55:52+00:00

I reckon he supports sex work because he gets his girlfriend to run an only fans site, tidy the house, make his meals, while he jacks off to other women online and plays video games 🤡 she is self gaslighting to try and keep the relationship going and damp down her own subconscious resentment.

littleoysterz · 2021-08-23T19:17:44+00:00

she’s an onlyfans girl with 60k twitter followers..

Title	Pickmes are brain dead 😑
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Date	August 22, 2021 6:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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