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[–]aenema46n2FDS Newbie 857 points858 points859 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
So she's asking if she should be concerned (which tells me inside she is) and then also says she loves that he supports sex workers WTFFF🤡
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 566 points567 points568 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That other woman jumped in to keep her in line "you support sex workers don't you? Don't youuuuu?" Libfems 🥴
Edit: apparently it was a man. Wow. They know what they are doing.
[–]GreytracksuitPantsFDS Newbie 117 points118 points119 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m guessing she had her own OF account
[–]hitormissmwah 63 points64 points65 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She actually does. I remember coming across her Twitter account when the first news of OF banning sex content surfaced.
[–]Previous-Focus-2013FDS Newbie 223 points224 points225 points 4 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
Didn’t want to trigger men and libfems who support fake “empowerment🤣” made by men for men’s consumption.
But you can tell she's trying to hide her MAD discomfort knowing her BF jerks to other women on diff sites
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yeah she did ask if she should be "concerned". So she basically just gaslighted herself.
[–]Previous-Focus-2013FDS Newbie 104 points105 points106 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
She got pressured to be a “cool gf” real quick 🤡
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
A lot of these women get pressured by men to be the "cool gf" by using "woke" language to manipulate them. This is like a wolf dressing up as a sheep to go hunting. This is what these so-called male allies do. They still go hunting, they just hunt differently... usually cause they're not "Chads" enough to "hunt" the regular way.
I had an ex with spaghetti arms and noodle legs and tiny hands say that he was "at an advantage" when dating because women never suspected him as he seemed "harmless"... unlike those "Chads". He said this as a joke. If I had known then what I know now, I would have run far away. He turned out to be one of the most dangerous people I know, because he was able to make women a danger to themselves.
So instead of being a dog that bites you, these guys make you bite yourself... and you live with yourself 24/7... so you'll be biting yourself all the time.
[–]p0ludnitsaFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're so right. Men want to punish you for stepping out of line so you'll be less inclined to do it again. They'll try to scare and shame you into compliance and silence. It only works because a pickme's worst fear is to be alone. She'll sell her soul and her dignity as a woman just so she won't have to spend a day by herself. If this means that pretending to be ok with her bf watching porn is what she has to do to say she's in a relationship, then she will be biting herself until the salt from her tears stings her wounds.
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish that there was a male dating strategy that was about leveling up instead of leveling women down.
I mean this, to me, is a male problem, a men's problem. It comes form generations of treating women and children as property... generations of men who think that it's okay to spank your wives the way you spank your children (ever seen those 1950s ads? Or the movie "Philadelphia Story"?). It comes from generations of men having financial and sexual power at home... and they are so used to it, they don't even know they have it.
But unless men can see that the problem is their entitlement, and pick apart the history that got us to this stage, and level up instead of just sitting in the mud and wallowing while the through gets filled by pickmes, nothing will change and smart women will simply separate from the majority of them that do not want to dismantle a system that rewards them for the lowest behavior.
I do feel bad for some pickmes, because as an empath, I definitely did have pickme behaviors in my worst relationships. It is difficult to fight against a system so ingrained that some of our mothers are telling us to perpetuate it.
Resistance must start from within.
[–]Love_life_bisou 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It has happened that "woke" /feminist men turned out to be rapists. I once read a comment in another forum where a male user commented something along the lines of "we men hate these feminist good guys because we see through them and know what they are". The commenter probably would not call themselves a feminist, and maybe doesn't even believe in equality. But that is a proof of the "men know" about other men, but may not inform women (but may not be believed). And it also proves your point, that men use feminist disguise to lure women.
In my country the chief of police (known as a feminist) was actually gangrping underage girls. I'm not kidding (he was jailed a few years and got fired, but today he has a horse stablr and go on vacations in se asia, or so I've read).
[–]Lost_Kale90FDS Apprentice 827 points828 points829 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Her boyfriend supports sex work because he enjoys jerking off to women …
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 133 points134 points135 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Which they have been doing for centuries... so it's not new or "feminist". The only thing that's changed here is the narrative: we now support men who jerk off.
It's not like they needed support for this!
[–]CoffeecatssunnydaysFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“I love that about him”
[–]Nur_tir_andaz 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂😭
[–]fckingmiraclesFDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Safe to assume he also visits ~sex workers~.
[–]AngryWahman 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any sort of sex work is a degrading business created by men to push women to the ground and trample us with patriarchy. That's why I look down on sex workers, they are too weak to fight the system.
[–]MajesticSkyPachydermFDS Newbie 811 points812 points813 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
"hE dOeS! I lOvE tHaT aBoUt Him!"
Why exactly? He doesn't "support" sex work, he benefits from it. Those aren't the same thing.
[–]Junior-Lion7893FDS Newbie 242 points243 points244 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I can’t believe she went along with this lol
This is public too!
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 287 points288 points289 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He probably spends more money on these women every month than he does her. 🥴
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's precisely why she was so easily pressured into flipping. These days, you can't publicly be against prostitution and your boyfriend paying for the services of sex workers without being dogpiled. If you find it concerning that your boyfriend pays for OnlyFans and 3 alternative sites you're controlling, sex negative, slut shaming, etc.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you’re mostly being dogpiled by fake sock puppet accounts with anime profile pictures
Go click on a popular liberal feminist tweet you will see tons of them
The incels of Silicon Valley don’t think we’ve noticed
Incels have no fucking social life so have endless hours to do this. And they wonder why people don’t want to date them LOL creeps are obsessed with taking women down and simultaneously seem puzzled why women don’t want them.
It’s all an illusion - only in woke colleges do moron women agree with this shit and it’s usually because they’re privileged and white and want to bang the drum for someone so they can get feel good points
Elsewhere in reality - most women don’t agree
[–]MajesticSkyPachydermFDS Newbie 143 points144 points145 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm almost getting secon-hand embarrassment 😳
[–]GoddessIxtabFDS Newbie 191 points192 points193 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, benefits from being a consumer, which is very different from supporter. It's such a convenient thing to say, it means nothing more than wanting easy access.
[–]fogplumFDS Newbie 235 points236 points237 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right, if I’m buying dirt cheap clothes from Shein am I supporting Chinese factory workers? No, I’m exploiting them.
[–]likearealreptileFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
YES
[–]kitnbFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So much this!
"I support sex work" = "I benefit and get enjoyment out of sex slaves and the exploitation of women and children"
FTFY
[–]W3remaidFDS Newbie 114 points115 points116 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol, right? “Support” would be donating to RAINN, or a women’s shelter. This is “reaping the benefits of”
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This: 100%
[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thats funny. Thats a trait I would detest about a dude.
Oh well, she can have him! Please keep him over there!
[–]jupitarianriseFDS Newbie 388 points389 points390 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It’s the fact that men support each other (by lying to women) even when they do not know each other personally and have nothing to gain from it… impressive.
[–]queen-wannabeFDS Newbie 182 points183 points184 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s like the equivalent of a woman telling another woman to stay away from a guy they’re dating... there’s no reason to do it, other than to be selfless and to help out another woman. They don’t know the other girl, yet they still do it. Except with men....? They do it to help another man harm a woman. Including multiple women like this man has contributed to harming, and benefiting another man who he doesn’t know.
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They're like those trolls who to go female-oriented sub reddits and try to find out who the FDS members are so that they can discredit/harass them or get gormless pickmeishas to tear them down.
We live in a society where women and men try to harm women who demand standards.
[–]queen-wannabeFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is true. Very well said, articulated. Be careful of what you say and post here, dedicated stalker(s) and incels, pickmes could piece two and two together to track you down. Be sure to anonymize the information you post on here, anywhere on Reddit outside of this sub. Or even elsewhere on the internet as advertisers gather sensitive information about you, which hackers and trolls can use, against you. Be cautious of links you click on here, anywhere else, etc. as your IP can be recorded, analyzed to get a good grasp of who, where you are. this goes without saying but also do this for men you date irl.
[–]qwaliYFDS Newbie 109 points110 points111 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If another man can get away with it then so can he, vice versa, if another man is punished for the same behaviour then there's a possibility he might be too.
Men have unwavering class consciousness, like the uber-rich, personally, I think it's the main reason male-dominated society has prevailed so long.
[–]frostedgemstoneFDS Newbie 521 points522 points523 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ah yes, supporting sex work, such a progressive, rare, and groundbreaking quality for a man to have
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 155 points156 points157 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bonus points if he fancies himself as his girlfriends manager (AKA pimp).
[–]Wild_ArtioFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣such a 🤴
[–]LR_todayPickmeisha™️ 231 points232 points233 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Is there a FDS pickmisha of the year award? I nominate her.
[–]riricideFDS Apprentice 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed, this is the cringiest thing I read in a long time. WT actual ever loving F 🤪
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple 76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Followed by cupboard cretins gf.
[–]p0ludnitsaFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
CUPBOARD CRETIN 😂😂😂
[–]sassyheatherFDS Apprentice 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did I miss something? I need a story here 😂😂😂
[–]thatjimmyloveFDS Newbie 209 points210 points211 points 4 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
The fact that it has become normal for your boyfriend to be subscribed to multiple women's only fans or nudes/videos, and it's just thought of as okay. Imagine if women as a majority did this men would lose their minds. If he does this he is just further supporting the idea that women's sexuality is to be commodified and he's benefiting from it.
Beyond that imagine what it would do to intimacy in your relationship, although porn is terrible it is not as intimate as a platform like only fans or camming where they have direct interaction with the woman. How do they gaslight women in to thinking this is okay to accept, it's clearly infidelity. It's such an invasion of sexuality, it's so gross.
Now, imagine you have a family or something shared finances and this tool is spending your money on some other women's nude body. Then he gaslights you and says its so normal hes a man blah blah blah. I can't stomach any of this shit and the virtue signalling like " i pay for my porn im such a good guy" I can't with this.
Also the social delusion that this produces is disturbing so many men would be like " but look the girl doing it is happy" like she's performing idiot, she may not be miserable depending on her state in life but she definitely does not genuinely like you, it's like men who think strippers flirt with them.
Like and then these men turn around and degrade the women too talking about they would never want a woman who does that but see no problem jacking off to it.
I am really tired of how public sexual intimacy has become, call me a crazy feminist but I don't want to share my intimacies with the third party of porn and a cam girl. If a dude can't get himself off without that even though theres a live women with him then it's a huge turnoff ( oh and male lurkers don't equate that with your jealousy of sex toys).
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 130 points131 points132 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It's not really the authenticity they're looking for, it's the performance. They love the idea that they can force women to perform sexuality and sexual desire whether they feel it or not. That's what they want.
See how petulant and enraged these men get when women express genuine sexual desire. Some of these men even get angry when their partner actually wants to have sex with them and actually orgasms and enjoys it. They feel cheated and they start to feel used even though the woman is still barely getting half of what she should. Suddenly they no longer want to have sex with their partner because deep down they hate her and I want her to always have less and always get the short end of the stick so they can feel like they are winning a competition that doesn't exist.
[–]thatjimmyloveFDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly never thought about it this way but you are so right. That's also why they get so upset that women desire orgasms they see it as misandry against them for us requiring our partners to get us off equally.
[–]honeybadgerattitudeFDS Newbie 61 points62 points63 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Woah! You’re so right! I can orgasm very easily and frequently and the jealousy of that during past relationships is now flashing before my eyes!!
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've heard that too many times now.
[–]IvyLeagueButtFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yesssss, had a partner proclaim to me that he wasn't a sex toy when I made the mistake of letting him cum and asked if he was gonna finish me off.
Also would get mad if I were having some solo action, not because he wanted to have sex, but because it was "disrespectful" in the home we shared 🙄
[–]povofmeFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly this. Thats also why their favorite sexual things are bjs and anal. It gives nothing to the women and it’s just a performance women do for them. Ultimate submissiveness
[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie 103 points104 points105 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Men are all over the internet calling it “disrespectful” for women to ooh and ahh over Kpop stars and action movie heroes. They say it was “disrespectful” for women to go see Magic Mike in theaters and would pull the bullshit “if men did this, it would be all over the news!!! Feminists would burn him at the stake!!!!”
But then when you point out that men go to strip clubs all the time, watch porn, follow naked Instagram models, and subscribe to only fans content, they move the goalpost, change the narrative, and flip the script by calling you “insecure” because “it’s so normal! eVeRyBoDy dOeS iT.”
They can barely keep a straight face with their blatant hypocrisy.
[–]thatjimmyloveFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Their role reversals are always hillarious because it is so normalized for them to already do the behaviours they are supposedly calling out in women that they don't even realize it before they open their mouth.
But genuinely imagine the reverse where the majority of women subscribed to multiple men with huge dicks and abs and full hairlines, who actually made women cum. Lol its funny to even think about. Regardless of physical attraction that wouldn't even get women off because we aren't creeps like them and would not get off on a parasocial screen relationship.
[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol right?! The idea of paying random men to send me dick pics is so hilariously stupid and unbelievable, I can’t even fully imagine it 😂
[–]thatjimmyloveFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
it's actually killing me right now lmao imaging sending a dude 100 bucks for a video of him stroking it LMAO
[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmfao yes I’m sure that’s why he watches porn, to support sex workers of course
[–]zombiessaladFDS Newbie 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A lot of these men who “support” aka jack off to sex workers probably won’t give an ounce of respect to them if they saw them in the street. If they were not making themselves a commodity they would find no reason to give them anything but judgement.
[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 73 points74 points75 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh God! Thé bar is in hell and burnt to ashes!! There is no bar…freestyle all the way!
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 299 points300 points301 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
"I love that my boyfriend gives his sexual energy to multiple other women instead of giving it all to just me like he should!" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
"I love that my boyfriend sees women as sexual objects for him to purchase" 🤡🤡🤡
"I love that my boyfriend spends his money to buy performative and insulting displays of false male-created "female sexuality" from prostitutes instead of taking me on dates and giving me his sexual best!" 🤡🤡🤡
[–]kitnbFDS Newbie 107 points108 points109 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I really wish women would wake up and recognize that this is EXACTLY what's going on.
Your trash-ass, porn-sick scrote of a bf/hubbie is obsessively pleasuring himself to other women while you get scraps, if that. Or worse, him forcing you to act out the sick sex acts he watched in porn FOR FREE.
Throw out the whole damn man, sis.
[–]p0ludnitsaFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or worse, him forcing you to act out the sick sex acts he watched in porn
When I first started seeing my ex I knew that porn was a thing, but beyond that I knew nothing of what it really contained. I told my ex I was waiting for marriage to have sex so naturally he became obsessed with talking about it and all the sexual acts he wanted me to do after we were married (lmao). It wasn't until after we broke up, having never married, and I started reading FDS that I learned that all his weird, sick requests came from the porn he was consuming. Almost everything he wanted was a porn category and I was latently horrified at the thought of him imagining me in those scenarios.
[–]lilac-hiraethFDS Newbie 71 points72 points73 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you love that about him why make the post in the first place?
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hello. This.
[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 101 points102 points103 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like how one comment from a random on the internet makes her deny her own gut so quickly.
[–]andwhenwillitbeginFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I thought the response was a joke she didn’t understand! I’m reeling
[–]BlueJeanMistressFDS Apprentice 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not a joke, sadly. I scrolled further on the thread where she claims “it’s like he was made in lab for me. I love him so much”
Eww
[–]honeybadgerattitudeFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More like she was made in a lab for him!
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This shit is so intellectually dishonest. What next? They'll be telling a woman who discovered her boyfriend is doing heroin, crack, and meth that he just supports local business and tax evasion (stick it to the man!). And if any of his dealers are PoC he gets extra bonus points for supporting PoC entrepreneurship.
Liberal feminists really can't spot a wolf in sheep's clothing. Men, capitalism, and conservativism have been twisting feminist ideals and using the façade of feminism to make their goals (which are inherently anti-woman) more palatable to women. They've really managed to make prostitution something that "woke" feminists have to publicly support (even in the context of discovering their boyfriend is a john), lest they be accused of not supporting sex workers, slut shaming, creating violent incels, etc.
[–]extragoudaFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So... he jerks off to porn and she loves that about him? Okaaay. Talk about the bar being low.
I can stick a poster of Ryan Gosling in my room... will some guy love me for doing that?
Ugh. I don't know what to say.
Women like this will also say things like "calling a man low-value or high-value assigns men to a binary that is unfair, therefore, I disagree." So okay, don't have any values...? I mean, you do you, girl. I would rather be a high-value woman... and by that I mean a woman with values.
FSS.
[–]LylaethFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What an embarrassment…
[–]RenrenchiFDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's like a fucking cult. "You support sex work right? Right? You aren't a bigot right? You are open minded but you must support sex work. Have you objectified yourself today?" All these women are in for an ugly wake up call few years from now.
[–]carmen_sandiegos_hatFDS Disciple 102 points103 points104 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You love human traf*icking and groom*ng?
[–]ExistentialJellyFDS Newbie 100 points101 points102 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Bet he wouldn't be so supportive of sex work if it was his girlfriend, sister, or mother working in such an empowering field.
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A ton of LVM are actually perfectly happy to exploit and benefit off of their girlfriends doing sex work. And enough men have bad enough relationships with their sisters and mothers that they wouldn't care.
It's the daughters that get them. Ask a "sex work supporting" man if he'd be okay with his own daughter becoming a prostitute and watch him balk. Even some LVM genuinely love their daughters and want the best for them and the ones that don't view their daughters as extensions/reflections of themselves and would be ashamed to have a daughter in sex work. They're full of shit.
[–]honeybadgerattitudeFDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s what gets me because they’re all screeching about OnlyFans and making jokes about their own mothers losing income in October and they only think it’s funny because they KNOW it’s degrading.
[–]boiledgatorade_FDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Pays for porn but I’m sure makes his girlfriend go Dutch on dates lol
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmao, is financially supporting some random woman on the internet who strips on cam for him but his worst nightmare is supposedly finding out that the woman who made vows to him, gave him children (who she then primarily raised alone), keeps house for him, plays personal therapist to him, schedules all his doctor's appointments for him, etc. is "just using him for his money", necessitating that she work full time outside the house and go 50/50 on all the bills.
[–]onceuponaseaFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ughhh 🤢🤡
[–]08__80FDS Apprentice 95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I hate that "supporting sex work" is the new purity test now. If you stick a toe out of line and say you'd rather these women (and men) have the option to not do sex work if they don't want to, and that it sucks that their livelihood depends on sex work, and that they don't really have a choice, and without choice, you can't have true consent, you are a monster.
[–]LadyKaitlynFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Even if you’re a former sex worker you can’t say your real opinion on sex work if it’s negative. You can probably guess how I know that, lol.
[–]08__80FDS Apprentice 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm so sorry. I've witnessed it with my own eyes. People will post videos of literal ex-pornstars wha are trying to explain what they went through, and people who've never lived a day of that life will be tearing those women to shreds in the comments. It's so cruel. They want to support sex workers but only if they say things they agree with. That's not how it works. Supporting sex workers means they call the shots, not you. If an ex-sex-worker says their negative opinion, you shut up and you listen.
<3<3<3
[–]LadyKaitlynFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When they say “support sex workers” they actually mean “support the good ones who act like they love being abused.” To them, sex workers who talk about their negative experiences with it aren’t real feminists and that was a hard lesson for me to learn; My opinion about it didn’t matter unless I was loving it. Which is the same way of thinking the men using me had.
[–]AbbyDean1985FDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
sWeRfS
[–]BxGyrl416FDS Newbie 43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why does her BF know so much about sex work? Of course he supports it.
[–]Noemie_MathildeFDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should I be concerned? That little voice of sanity in every woman, quickly gaslit by strangers on the internet. I hope sis finds FDS and soon!
[–]Outrageous-KnowledgeFDS Newbie 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really feel there’s no hope for women as a whole. I just read this:
“(Book) gets a bum rap and part of that is the fact that the hero in this book is an abusive, rapey, psychotic douchenozzle, AKA my favorite kind of hero.”
Like this is porn culture brainwashing
[–]SpringJonesOceanFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was a pathetic and depressing read.
[–]Newwavesupport3657FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m embarrassed for her.
[–]IDontAgreeSorryFDS Newbie 182 points183 points184 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
My guy doesn’t jerk off to other women. Love that about him 😊
And before any pick me or scrote says “yOu dOnT kNoW tHat”, yes I do. Some of us actually have trustworthy partners.
[–]sassyheatherFDS Apprentice 124 points125 points126 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Samesies ✋🏻 sex with a man who’s not porn addicted is out of this world 🤤🤤🤤
[–]muricaxoxoFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! You can tell from the way sex goes. They don't want to choke you, act out these rediculous kinks and are just into you and sex with you. And no not every man NEEEEEEDDDSSSS porn to live. Only porn addicts do 🤷♀️
[–]thicctoriaFDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Girl, same. It's so sad that people get so defensive and will claim your partner is actively LYING to you if you dare to mention that he doesn't watch porn. He respects me, he respects other women, he understands how exploitative and harmful the industry is. This should be the norm.
[–]sassyheatherFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People saying “oh he’s lying to you” are just PLAIN PROJECTING.
Just because pornsick Paul lies to his gf and pickme Patricia knows her bf is lying to her but chooses to stay and be RiDe Or DiE kInDa GiRl doesn’t mean we’re all in the same boat.
[–]anotherdamnloserFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow is she stupid
[–]Optimal_Grapefruit_5FDS Newbie 73 points74 points75 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"Just means he supports sex work" yet he'd never support his gf being a sex worker, he'd leave
or he'd be the guy who commented "nah I'd totally date a girl who has an OnlyFans, that's OUR money now"
Men(*) wake up to sex work being degrading only when they'd be expected to objectify themselves for people to whom they're not attracted OR when they consider the hypothesis of their mother/sister/daughter/partner being a sex worker. "I totally support sex work, but I'll be damned before I let my daughter be a hoe", "I'm cool with strippers but I'd never date one", "I'd divorce my wife, that's just damaged goods", etc.
(*) Shouldn't even say just men because some women are like this too and I'm just... You claim to support sex work but "I could never be a stripper haha" yeah 'cause you know it's degrading and you wouldn't handle it in the long run. You'd have to hide it from basically anyone who's relevant in your life to avoid getting in trouble.
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You claim to support sex work but "I could never be a stripper haha" yeah 'cause you know it's degrading and you wouldn't handle it in the long run.
It's akin to those women who're like, "I'm pro-choice but I could never get an abortion." Failing to realize that the only reason they feel the need to tack that on the end is because they secretly judge women who get abortions. They're secretly judging sex workers, too, but just like with abortion they want the public appearance of being a good feminist so they toe the line even if it doesn't align with their actual beliefs.
And just to clarify, I 100% support abortion and have had one myself. I just hate how people are so dishonest with themselves and others. I actually kind of appreciate those super rightwing women who so openly state their actual beliefs as opposed to the liberal women who think one thing and say another. Liberal feminism can be so fucking insidious. It's like the political personification of that frenemy who's nice to your face but talks shit behind your back.
[–]AbbyDean1985FDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Since the only fans average us like $150 a month, "our money," won't take him very far, js
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s contradicting herself so hard and doesn’t even realize it 🙄
[–]starfighter07FDS Newbie 51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I support sex workers too. You know, sex workers' rights to be respected, to not be abused in total impunity, to have a life beyond sex(work), beyond the trashiness of men.
Pickme women really are the level 0 of feminism.
[–]pozzalovahFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love how the commenter was most probably trolling ...
[–]MeredeenFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The cognitive whiplash has me needing an ambulance
[–]nyLqw24684FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"supports sex work" tf??? "wastes money on the internet for his dick," more like.
[–]nymira-1FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rip…
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank god a random man came along and corrected her thought crime.
[–]munissaFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do you tell me you’ve been manipulated, negged, gaslit and/or open to be cheated on without telling me.
[–]honeybadgerattitudeFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe we’ve got this guy all wrong and he does actually want to support sex workers? Sometimes we need to give people the benefit of the doubt. I’m passionate about supporting my own imagination. I’ll spend time going through imagination exercises in order to show my support. Usually in bed at night. The orgasms I have are just a bonus! There are no selfless good deeds after all. 😛
[–]Maude2010FDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He doesn’t support “sex work”. He just supports his boner.
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be an idiot until the end 🤦🏽♀️
[–]wildlife_beeFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahhhh only one letter away from bi(m)boofficial
[–]Fuckdoesithurt956FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That 180 gave me whiplash.
[–]coolstorybroseph420FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They sound fucking brainwashed!!!!
[–]BigDebbie4everFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unmmmmm.... what?
[–]hopeful_flounder93FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I read her username as "bimbo" & honestly proud of my brain for that little slip
[–]Specific-Composer300[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same 😂
[–]Bella_Keira23 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m surprised she didn’t call him her “King” 🙄
[–]AyxmiiiFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmfaooooooooooooooo
[–]kiki_do_u_luv_meFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yikes
[–]ArchangelofAveroigne 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No one can brainwash me into believing that porn / sex work is empowering for women. 95% of the guys who talk about how much they support these women would never date a girl who was having sex with other men or showing her body to other men for money. They would lose their sht if their girlfriend, wife, sister, or daughter started doing this. They would also lose their sht if their girlfriend was following male strippers / sex workers and looking at other guys' d*cks and butts all day instead of giving them physical attention. And not only that, but tall, muscular, masculine type of men who look nothing like them. "Woke" liberals can't brainwash me into their cult where capitalism is evil but men have the right to purchase sex because it empowers women. How about empowering women with education and job opportunities that involve their skills and interests? How about help for people with drug problems and mental illness? These men just don't give a damn about any of that as long as they can continue objectifying women.
[–]DreamlikeNile 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I reckon he supports sex work because he gets his girlfriend to run an only fans site, tidy the house, make his meals, while he jacks off to other women online and plays video games 🤡 she is self gaslighting to try and keep the relationship going and damp down her own subconscious resentment.
[–]littleoysterzFDS Newbie -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she’s an onlyfans girl with 60k twitter followers..
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