Daily Community Chat Megathread

angels-fan · 2021-12-22T01:20:46+00:00

Labor is a lot more painful than I was expecting but the end result is our healthy baby boy.

2021-12-23T03:24:12+00:00

How does one come to terms with being a loser? I'm 30 (M) and it won't get any easier. I missed out on a lot due to major illness, and depression. I'm fixated on lost time. I've only had one partner. It all weighs heavily on me. I'm behind in my career/academia too. Often ashamed of leaving the house, honestly.

2021-12-22T01:22:42+00:00

Hey bb u up wyd

Republican senator texted Joe Manchin about joining GOP

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-12-22T03:26:54+00:00

Do you think most humans enjoy seeing others fail?

Creation_Soul · 2021-12-22T11:18:20+00:00

I have never posted during a purge. AMA.

evanstown21 · 2021-12-22T12:22:38+00:00

Q4A: what was your favorite gift you got someone this year?

evanstown21 · 2021-12-23T01:54:13+00:00

You walk into a woman/man’s bedroom/library and see their bookshelf. What are green flag books? Red flag books?

Willow-girl · 2021-12-23T01:45:18+00:00

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nessaea-blue · 2021-12-23T01:26:49+00:00

it's kinda interesting to read about everyone's childhood in that post. Most defining time in a person's life imo yet i didn't notice a particular pattern like OP did between the users i deem sane and the type of childhood they had.

lulll · 2021-12-23T00:24:40+00:00

french toast > waffles > pancakes

TheLoneMushroom · 2021-12-22T01:37:47+00:00

This stupid song has been stuck in my head for days especially in the morning and at night. Someone help.

Aclopolipse · 2021-12-22T03:29:34+00:00

lol Fox News abolished testing option and now requires it's workers to be vaccinated.

Coverage by right-biased media sources: 0%

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-22T04:01:06+00:00

Weed makes it SO much easier to get into social circles and find people to connect with in a post-school environment

It's a really good excuse to hang out with people and end up connecting with folk who you'd never have even met otherwise

Weedmaxx bros!

(I'm halfway joking, as of course it is somewhat circumstantial)

brojuststfu · 2021-12-22T05:34:08+00:00

Man, I miss saying absurd things and seeing people’s reactions 😪

I’m very humble, I’m probably the most humble person I know

CFinCanada · 2021-12-22T11:17:01+00:00

Will there be a NYE purge, I wonder? Fingers crossed!

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-12-22T23:40:44+00:00

Ghosting, breadcrumbing :

These tactics of maintaining unclear relationships and prolonging break-ups all produce what I call stable ambiguity; too afraid to be alone, but unwilling to fully engage in intimacy building — a holding pattern that affirms the undefined nature of the relationship, which has a mix of comforting consistency AND the freedom of blurred lines

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-12-22T23:07:58+00:00

Just found out that one of my favorite silly beach read books was actually made into a movie with a stellar cast - Sharon Stone, Christopher Walken, Rosie Perez, Alicia Silverstone, and more - and the studio (thinking it was a slam dunk) gave it to a producer as his directorial debut

It was apparently so horrible that it showed once at a film festival, and has been shelved ever since

Wtf, studio. Give a slam dunk to an established director and enjoy the rave reviews

ScholarMore5267 · 2021-12-22T22:37:54+00:00

Now that I am unbanned, time for year in review! I learned a lot this year. More than quadrupled the number of dates and sexual experience I had. Still as virgin as Isaac Newton though. Talked with women. Accepted the fact I might not win in the game that is modern dating, and that's ok. Smoked weed for the first time and chilled out. I had an edgy black pill phase that I'm done with for good. Turned off politics for good. Got over my mental issues, somewhat. Turns out getting hammered and high is a pretty good medicine. Going to get my first tattoo to celebrate beating depression and suicidal thoughts. Deleted my social media and dating apps. Went to bars on my own and meeting friends and trying to meet people. Made some long term goals. Life is short, can't waste it! Anyway, see y'all in 2022. It's like Hotel California, you can check out any time you'd like, but...

lessfaterrday · 2021-12-22T01:07:33+00:00

Some high school senior at the gym went up to me and told me I looked like I put on a lot of muscle since last year 😭. It was really unexpected but nice!

It feels good to be reminded that you’re doing something right.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-12-22T02:46:59+00:00

It's really sad how greedy oligarchs and politicians will destroy everyone else's lives for a slight convenience gain in their own favor.

We've come to a point where 100k is really just a step above entry level. 100k is barely middle class even in a VHCOL city now.

Work harder slave!

... And for less

kittenated · 2021-12-22T13:17:23+00:00

So I've cut my hair kind of like this. Cutting off long hair is so much fun, you feel as if you head had become extremely light and it's a delightful experience. And now washing, drying and brushing take just no time.

angels-fan · 2021-12-22T01:29:19+00:00

Since when is Metallicas Black album considered classic rock??

Fuck I'm old.

angels-fan · 2021-12-22T01:00:21+00:00

First

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2021-12-22T01:05:27+00:00

Remember everyone sexual strategy is amoral until someone does something I don't like. Then there's morality to it again.

mmpro55 · 2021-12-22T01:24:43+00:00

An 8 y.o. girl passed school graduation exams this year. It's really impressive if you don't know her family's history and how exactly she passed these exams. She didn't pass them well, just close to the passing scores, her father teaches her at home as well as her 6 siblings. They live in a one room apartment, kids don't socialize with anyone besides their siblings. Parents opened home kindergarten that only their kids attend and get money from the state for it.

She's getting her Bachelor's degree in Psychology now and it's clear for everyone besides her parents that a kid shouldn't study Freud or how people's sexuality works when she's just 9. And now the story continues, her father got into a physical fight over her bad mark for an exam, he broke professor's hand.

Her parents are clearly unwell.

2021-12-22T05:07:02+00:00

It’s very hard to resist the urge to let people know how wrong they were and or how right you were.

I like Reddit and this subreddit specifically because I can remove that asshole filter and not feel bad about it! Thanks guys!

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2021-12-22T06:09:17+00:00

I am back after a 30 day ban, allow me to ruin my mental health once again

CFinCanada · 2021-12-22T02:18:18+00:00

So I'm doing some xmas shopping and head into Victoria's Secret to get my wife some things like PJ's which can be nice and family friendly there.

But I forgot they went all "body positive"

It was hilariously bad. Ugly model photos, not just overweight but just ugly, like women I'd swipe left on (thats what you kids say right), and a good number of fat manikins.

This isn't going to save them from being out competed but its a sad death throe.

I'm going to start a male version and see how that goes.

I should also add my wife is a small to medium depending on what it is, almost all I found was L and XL. I'm going to pretend they were just sold out of smalls and mediums and not that they don't carry them.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-22T05:07:34+00:00

I'm double dipping again.

I sometimes forget about how fundamentally different my perspective is from most guys here.

My age shows itself a lot I noticed. Being in school, college, and/or working in an environment where workplace relations aren't nearly as frowned upon is an advantage unlike any other in dating

There's just something about constantly being in the same space as someone else and also having the option to date them

Being a full-time working adult in a more professional setting strikingly changes the dynamic compared to someone in my position

Slipthe · 2021-12-22T22:03:17+00:00

Lieutenant getting grinded on by a rookie cop.

Everyone sees a picture of his wife and they are like, "Oh I see why he was into it." His wife looks like she could be his mom.

undersupervixen · 2021-12-22T21:41:24+00:00

So my wife said something cute and funny to me and I can't share it without looking like a bigger douche nozzle than usual. Just PPD things.

nemma88 · 2021-12-22T20:50:24+00:00

Chad makes it into the new matrix movie as the other guy.

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-12-22T20:37:50+00:00

If starting right now men lost sexual interest in women, what would happen? I can tell you that there would be a lot of anger from the female side, an extreme level, when they realise that men will no longer act as a host for their parasitic ways. All the female gaslighting in the world wouldn’t work once mens minds are free

geometersbane · 2021-12-22T20:02:06+00:00

Virgins are so fucking boring. Give me the sluts all day. At least they’re open to the idea of being paraded around in a collar and leash.

lulll · 2021-12-22T19:52:30+00:00

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totes-not-angels-fan · 2021-12-22T19:45:09+00:00

Lol

Just got permabanned (again) from Reddit for "inciting violence" for saying we should exterminate all pitbulls.

poppy_blu · 2021-12-22T19:25:05+00:00

Just had a pre-Christmas massage and facial. Heaven on earth. Maybe even better than sex.

ashpr0ulx · 2021-12-22T19:10:48+00:00

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nemporisso · 2021-12-22T18:46:48+00:00

My childhood neighbor's adult daughter committed suicide. Her husband left her for her best friend. I cannot imagine the grief. It feels senseless and hopeless.

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-12-22T18:42:09+00:00

Something I do In December is write down all the lessons I learned throughout the year. Since this is a dating/relationship sub:

What is a lesson you learned this year in your dating/relationship life?

sine120 · 2021-12-22T18:29:55+00:00

So I'm curious what y'all think:

Say there exists an LTR where one person is cheating on the other, the other person does not know. As long as both partners are currently happy with the arrangement and the secret has not gotten out, how would you overall rate the relationship, 1-10? 10 being sounds great, you see no problems here, 1 being there's a nuke about to go off, find a secure bunker to hide.

purplish_possum · 2021-12-22T18:07:15+00:00

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autistictheory · 2021-12-22T17:56:53+00:00

Q4W: Where can someone go thats not a total sausage party? I'm noticing even 10:1 guy:girl ratio in some places.

Do women even go outside what the fuck.

I don't mean like yoga class where its reverse and maybe 1 guy with 10 girls. just something that is more even ratio.

ToughAnswers · 2021-12-22T17:50:35+00:00

Elon Musk pokes fun at the metaverse, trashing the idea that anyone wants to strap a screen to their face the entire day

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-22T17:43:28+00:00

I’m flying out tmr, whats y’all worst experience on a plane? I remember someone said one time they had their seat right in front of the bathroom and the whole time people were taking shits left and right 🤣🤣

NiceGuyNumber4 · 2021-12-22T17:09:30+00:00

My wife always goes full mom mode TG-XMass and we have no extrasexular activities planned. Not even NYE. Being vanilla is sooo boring.

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-22T16:48:00+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vCShcro1FA

Anyone else remember this scene from Furious 7?

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-12-22T16:47:34+00:00

It’s a top feeling to nut in a woman and ruthlessly ghost her forever. The emotional fallout she experiences brings more pleasure than sex

nessaea-blue · 2021-12-22T16:40:03+00:00

My old account got banned for no reason.

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2021-12-22T16:33:15+00:00

Me sitting at my office desk minding my own business.
-My brain “hey remember that cringe thing you said at the party 7 years ago”

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-22T16:15:42+00:00

https://s2.r29static.com/bin/entry/7c3/123,239,1754,1754/x,80/1625291/image.jpg

What do you rate this guy?

jax006 · 2021-12-22T15:58:11+00:00

1 week into cutting and it's nice cause I can see my abs again, but sucks not hitting lift numbers I was hitting just 2 weeks ago. Life is ghey

Ecocavalry · 2021-12-22T15:30:51+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/rlyesm/my_girlfriend_ignored_my_warnings_and_either

The bf deserves better and should dump her asap. Discuss.

-passepar2t- · 2021-12-22T15:25:39+00:00

There's something to the pheromone theory of attraction. I was waiting for my elevator, a girl came out looking above average but with an absolutely withering, harried, it's-winter-I-got-too-much-shit-on-my-plate-fuck-you look on her face that she flashed me as she hurried past. Internally, I was like okay jeez. Then I entered the elevator and the blend of subtle fragrance she left behind made the crush center of my brain lurch. It was like Odysseus coming home or something. I think she might be my neurochemical soulmate.

FizzleMateriel · 2021-12-22T15:24:41+00:00

“Women don’t enter relationships with men they’re not attracted to.”

Ok lol.

https://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/rll1xd/found_out_my_girlfriend_was_more_into_her_fwb/

Found out my girlfriend was more into her FWB sexually than me, not sure where to go from here

My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months, we have been an overall happy relationship. I used to have really strong feelings towards her but now I am not so sure. And we had been planning a future together and made plans over a year out together.

Started off with one day my brother's girlfriend face timed me a couple times when we were out, she got suspicious (later found out it was to coordinate our plans for the holiday). And then when she asked me about it she said I acted suspicious. So when I was in the bathroom I came back and it was obvious that she was looking through my phone. I told her to go ahead I have nothing to hide, I'll step away if she wants. She looked through it all, then I told her okay, let me look through yours then. She starts stuttering and getting nervous. Im like what do you have to hide? I told her if she doesn't share it after looking through my phone I am never going to trust her.

So she gives in, I tell her to leave the room. I start looking through her phone (There are no dating apps installed) but there are guys shooting her messages. I read the messages (doesn't look like she deleted them) but then scroll up and basically find out that she was having friends with benefits / hook ups while we were dating. We weren't exclusive for two months but it honestly felt like we were since we did so many things together.

Looking through the messages, there was this one guy in particular she was seeing, I looked this guy up on IG and this is your like tall pretty muscular tatted guy. And just reading the messages of her between them their energy was so sexually charged like, the way he talked to her it just seemed like she would do anything for him in bed. And to me it just really rubbed me because she isn't like that with me at all. She has a lot of limits tells me she gets sore if we have sex more than twice a week. Gives me a blow job for 30 seconds. And here she is begging to give him a bj. I know its not cheating but I honestly felt disgusted reading this. When I finished I didn't tell her I saw those messages.

I don't know what to do here. I know technically she didn't break any rules but I honestly feel like if I found out that if she had one night stand with some random guy never saw him again, I would feel better than finding out theres this guy she craved sexually so much. Whats the best thing to do here? Should I tell her what I saw? Or do I just try to move on emotionally from this?

NarniaFox · 2021-12-22T15:13:15+00:00

Just a reminder, we're all in this together!

throwaway20652064 · 2021-12-22T13:52:03+00:00

At a certain point, would you say late virginity is just as difficult for women as it is for men? Or is it always more difficult for men?

QuenchlessGato · 2021-12-22T13:40:59+00:00

It's absolutely hilarious to see people seething that despite being double vaxxed, double boosted, double masked and not visiting their dying grandfather over fear of virus, they still have not returned to "normal" and that being obedient lead to no improvement. Even the diehard covid fanatics on the coronavirus sub are starting to riot and say that they will ignore the WHO Experts' (TM) recommendations and they will go visit their families on Christmas.

Of course once the holidays are over they will go back to living in fear over "the greatest health threat our humanity ever faced".

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angels-fan · 2021-12-22T01:00:59+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/BanPitBulls/comments/rlo2jx/delivery_driver_saves_woman_and_her_tiny_dog_from/

As much as I despise pitbulls, this did not look like an attack. This looked like the pit was playing with his new friend.

What do you all think?

brojuststfu · 2021-12-22T01:08:48+00:00

Does anyone here play clash royale?

madsskayyy · 2021-12-22T06:22:17+00:00

I haven’t started my postgrad job yet but I was wondering if companies usually give you Christmas Day and the following week off before NYE??

That’s how colleges/schools tend to do it and I’ve heard practically all the holiday breaks I had as a student will be cut significantly in the real world👀

2021-12-22T01:58:07+00:00

Catchy tune

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	December 22, 2021 1:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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