Daily Community Chat Megathread

Koipisces · 2023-01-04T04:19:26+00:00

Why is men bullying women totally accepted here but when women say anything negative about men or something back, people legit lose their shts? Some users (thankfully not all, I know the difference) here love to gaslight, and are plain hypocrites. And why only standup for your own sex? If you think something is truly wrong?

Men here hating on TwoXChromo for their “men are awful” posts while hate posting and meme posting the reverse but way worse. It’s really the hypocrisy with some men here that’s disgusting. Downvote if you’d like, I rest my case.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-05T03:22:08+00:00

So glad I got to see this post of a women being raped beaten and starved for 5 days by her bumble date right after 10 posts about how it’s a social crisis that dating apps are so hard for men and how women are evil and creul

geyges1 · 2023-01-05T03:04:43+00:00

Arguing with women on PPD:

Short, skinny guys get less girls

Not true, I knew a 5'2" guy that fucked every girl ever

He must have been rich

No he lived in the refrigerator box under the bridge actually

Well he must have had big dick or was super handsome

Nope ugly as hell with 3 inch dick, smelled like piss all the time too

So what was so attractive about him?

He was just really polite to women

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-04T04:47:59+00:00

I think the place where a lot of men go wrong when they get into the Red Pill is that they make women their sole purpose, it consumes them and stops them from actually fully dedicating themselves to self improvement.

Women aren't the goal, they're something that is supposed to come in time when you improve. You improve your life, get your money up, improve your mental health and the women are just a bonus.

geyges1 · 2023-01-04T12:08:15+00:00

We need to stop with this bullshit that women are more beautiful than men. They just lie and deceive.

When 5s pretend to be 7s

And 7s can pretend to be 9s

Our idea of female beauty becomes completely distorted. Worse yet, these same women wear this shit on their face everyday, so their idea of their value also becomes incredibly over-inflated.

ffs there are articles about how "him seeing you without makeup" is a fucking RELATIONSHIP MILESTONE these days.

And that's just their face; let me write you a fucking dissertation on how they dress, their moral relativism, shallowness, narcissism, ignorance, and intellectual bankruptcy. Let's bring these creatures back down to earth please. They're not any kind of goddesses.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-01-04T03:01:48+00:00

Most of us agree unconditional love doesn't exist in romantic relationships, right? With that in mind, why should you trust your partner will be loyal in the event* you become sick, paralyzed, run into hard times financially, etc? Why should they be loyal? Why shouldn't they just seek out something better for them when you fail to live up to your end of the deal, whether it's your fault or not?

zastale · 2023-01-04T05:10:14+00:00

Women break rules for the men they want and create rules for the men they don’t.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-04T03:22:13+00:00

Ugh... Still sorting by best.

/u/mrs_drgree, can you fix this pleeeeeease??

Lyzard96 · 2023-01-04T04:53:01+00:00

Red Pill is a cult.

CaptainObvious4000 · 2023-01-04T09:33:58+00:00

If you want a man who earns more, is taller, stronger, harder working than you, you better be significantly more physically attractive than him.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-04T03:04:44+00:00

Cord cutting is interesting because when I was a kid and I would ask my mom

“Why do we pay for 100 Channels when between the 6 people in our house we might watch 20 channels combined?”

She said that’s just the way it is.

mushroomboie · 2023-01-04T03:54:42+00:00

How is this sub different from redpill. I’ve got nothing against either sun but after looking at the recent threads, I wouldn’t be surprised if they were also on r/redpill

NICHIJOU2411 · 2023-01-04T09:43:30+00:00

I’m starting to wonder if people actually debate in this sub.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-04T04:08:12+00:00

I've realised something I want a lot is to be attractive, I'd like to be a desirable man more than I think I'd want sex. Any one else felt this?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-04T04:29:36+00:00

The comments to Dana White and his wife slapping each other has really shown me how many people hold a double standard. Seeing people go from "Never hit a woman" to "Well what did he do to deserve being slapped".

It doesn't even piss me of, just disgusts me how some people can pivot from "she has no responsibility in getting hit back" to "he has responsibility in getting hit first" and not see that as a strange mindset.

Edit: But I do find it funny the amount of men mad at women defending him.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-04T05:13:48+00:00

Its it possible that our bodies are wired to feel a certain way at certain points of the year? This is the 4th time I gotten the flu within the first week of the new year. Luckily it's not covid so thats a good thing.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-04T06:16:14+00:00

I was at a checkout and started talking to the young woman checking me out about why she would wear a vest vs a sleeved pull-over. I could see her get visibly annoyed as the conversation progressed and at the end of it I still don't feel I got a good answer.

Mark_Freed · 2023-01-04T06:35:14+00:00

I found this clip cool, note how the comments mostly all remark on the guy asking how old she was.

https://youtu.be/_ULgYgFTnAg

What do you all think?

How many men would ask this? Given a girl this hot...

In the movie it seemed like the guy was asking not cause he cared about her but because he didn't want to go to jail. Idk... If the laws was different he wouldn't give a fuck. Not sure why the comments are making him out to be some saint?

I see comments talking about how this girl is a walking red flag... I mean she seems a bit crazy sure but nothing thaaat bad? What am i missing. I don't think she would burn down houses etc.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-01-04T07:57:45+00:00

I very nearly just burned my house down. Sober. What's a homeowners insurance claim like if it's your fault?

januaryphilosopher · 2023-01-04T09:43:03+00:00

Women who hate the idea of cooking and cleaning are severely disadvantaging themselves and making themself inferior partner prospects compared to women who do those things. It’s like a guy who refuses to dress nice or wash himself. It’s like, yeah you do you, but you’re just willingly removing yourself from the dating pool.

A woman who cooks and cleans for you is always superior to a woman who doesn’t .

geyges1 · 2023-01-04T13:06:05+00:00

Q4A re: recent n count thread.

Do you include blowjobs/handjobs in your count?

I always thought it referred to PIV only.

GridReXX · 2023-01-04T13:56:50+00:00

Are tongue kissing and making out sessions (grinding, heavy petting, fondling) part of “n count”?

Why or why not? 🧐

Show your notes

JDWhiz96 · 2023-01-05T02:37:38+00:00

False accusations NEVER happen!

stjohnswyrt · 2023-01-05T02:33:57+00:00

Believe in nothing because the moment you agree to support an ideology, you will be standing besides the inevitable bad players.

-me, 2023

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-05T02:03:07+00:00

My tinder does worse in Austin then NYC. Yet nyc has hotter girls by a country mile.

Nyc might have been expensive. But it’s the easiest dating scene for dudes on the planet for dudes.

Dudes who are Ohio 4s get NYC 8s like it’s nothin.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-05T01:48:20+00:00

Girl I went to HS quit her job, lives in one of the most expensive states in the US, and is always traveling to countries in europe in exotic top of the line luxury hotels. She talks about her man but has never, EVER posted anything with him or about him whatsoever. Not in a single post, or a single ig story all year.

I know some people like to keep their relationship off of social media but there's no way this girl isn't a sugar baby just putting on a front.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-05T01:19:59+00:00

Genuinely believe that relationships between men and women are only going to get worse and that we've barely scratched the surface as to how bad it's going to get.

bossman146 · 2023-01-05T01:05:36+00:00

I see so many unattractive couples that appear to genuinely be into one another. Is it me or are people very malleable when it comes to sexual attraction? Like, if someone doesn’t value their looks, then they probably won’t care about how hot their partner is.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-04T23:59:53+00:00

Good luck to all the women who take reddit’s advice and actually approach men. If you’re not attractive he’s going to laugh in your face

Mythic_Punk · 2023-01-04T23:56:01+00:00

These cookies hit different.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-04T23:54:05+00:00

Well I finaly got covid. My lungs and chest feels like they are about to explode rn.

Preme2 · 2023-01-04T23:32:15+00:00

What is the difference between persistence and harassment? Especially if a woman is “playing hard to get”.

For context I was watching my favorite movie if all time and there is a scene where the guy likes the girl, is eventually able to meet and wants to ask her out. She initially declines but he keeps the conversation going, he asks again and she declines, then he subtly asks her out but in a more casual way. She accepts.

Should he have stopped on the first no? Or the second for that matter.

zastale · 2023-01-04T22:41:46+00:00

You can immediately tell this girl has a high body count (> 20), without having to ask. Anyone that thinks you need to explicitly ask them is beyond naive.

Edit: it’s the voice/clothing/demeanor that gives it away; not the answer to the question

Over_Noise3530 · 2023-01-04T22:31:46+00:00

I'm so sick of fuckboys pretending to be sad boys, and there's been even more of them since Christmas. It's guys that look good and you know get hoes, but they post relationship quotes and emo shit on Facebook and Instagram looking for attention. Acting like nobody loves them and they always get heartbroken. But you know the truth is some girl stopped fucking with him because he cheated, or maybe he ghosted her and is now playing the victim to get sympathy from other women. The gig is up

baresquad · 2023-01-04T22:30:08+00:00

Why are you expected to cut off all options when you start talking to someone new?

I’m a believer in single until exclusivity is discussed and established. That means still swiping on dating apps, going on dates and having sex with other people until it’s been established and agreed upon that I’m a boyfriend and vice versa.

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-01-04T21:55:07+00:00

I’m currently leaving vacation in the Caribbean to head back to the states. Im contemplating dropping my fwb to come back here and chase dick in the Caribbean.

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Patricks-Belief · 2023-01-04T03:18:39+00:00

It generally scares me there's many Men out there ok with the Reality of letting their Women get plumped by other Men aka "open relationships"

It scares because this Men who allow it are beyond mental help

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-04T03:20:33+00:00

What do you suppose would happen to a MtF trans individual that channeled in Wheel of Time? Would they go mad?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-04T03:21:25+00:00

People who are are against math are biggest anti intellectuals.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-04T03:53:24+00:00

If gender is better social construct why do people want surgery to look like the biological side they reject as being real?

EulenWatcher · 2023-01-04T04:55:44+00:00

Two of my close friends were living together for a while until they had a falling out and one moved out. They kinda hate each other and I now just hang out with them separately. I just did a pottery night with one of them and she was telling me about how the other was leaving graffiti tags near her apartment. She said she got home from Christmas with her family and found one on her mailbox which she immediately covered up. She also found one on the side of a building just down the street and on one of the nearby dumpsters. She was super mad and she's going to start putting her own tags near near her now rival's apartment.

I swear it's like cats pissing to mark territory

Willow-girl · 2023-01-04T05:50:10+00:00

Tonight my custodian co-workers accused me of being a hillbilly! I'll admit I was a bit taken aback, but -- given the subject at hand -- realized I had little choice but to concede the point.

Still ... harrumph

Mark_Freed · 2023-01-04T06:42:28+00:00

Guys guys.....

THE CIRCLE IS COMPLETE

I FINALLY SAW IT

men being compared to children in a serious way.

Red pill started it by calling women basically children

Now I'm seeing a subculture calling men basically children 😭😂😭

https://twitter.com/ilex_ulmus/status/1610461232451960833?s=19

scwizard · 2023-01-04T06:48:49+00:00

I watched a bit of the logan Paul response video to coffezilla.

And I discovered why he's so popular with teenage girls.

He's really hot and rich.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-04T08:01:21+00:00

Q4All: How do you think the world would be different if the average man had abs/ was generally muscular?

AreOut · 2023-01-04T08:42:15+00:00

Women are objectively more beautiful than men on average and that's how it should be, thus a woman in the same bracket as her man will look better than him and finding the "looksmatch" for everyone isn't possible, the same way men are stronger than women and finding the "strengthmatch" for everyone wouldn't be possible (for powerlifters like me there likely exists no stronger woman in the world if we exclude those taking a lot of testosterone and roids that don't even look like women anymore).

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-04T13:16:14+00:00

Bored so here's my tier list of "PPD RedPillers":

1: Essentially just a dating realist. They know about Redpill concepts but don't take them super seriously and don't subscribe to the wackier ideas. Generally chill and their beliefs aren't necessarily exclusive to TRP, more just "hard truths" that most people deep down know. Understands that generalisations are just that, generalisations.

2: Textbook example of "not wrong, just an arsehole". Generally believes the same things as Tier 1 but includes some of the more out there Redpill concepts. Often has a nugget of truth in their arguments but draws some bizarre conclusions from them. Shows bitterness towards women but it's more from frustration at their failings (or the failings of others) rather than outright misogyny (although is dangerously close to it). Takes generalisations too literally.

3: Straight up misogynist. Subscribes to the wackier of Redpill/Manosphere ideas and their least charitable interpretations of female behaviour, to the point that it's basically indistinguishable from Blackpill. Incapable of viewing women as people and can only view them through the lens of the most negative Manosphere views.

4: Oh boy, complete fucking Cretin. Fully blackpilled and proud of it, too far gone to see any semblance of reality. Awful misogynist, a horrible person and after just a brief reddit interaction with them you know exactly why women don't go near them. The kind of person who if they started wearing a trenchcoat to school, you'd get very worried.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-04T21:31:06+00:00

rating barometer check in

I would give her an 8/10

Notice at the bottom she says she is dealing with self esteem issues which to me shows not all women think they are 11/10 gods gift to the planet, especially the hotties.

thegamescentrifugal · 2023-01-04T20:57:11+00:00

Serious Q4Euros: Are you guys ok with being America’s ~~bitches~~ vassal states or do you not mind bc its a convenient scapegoat/bogeyman?

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-04T20:41:45+00:00

I'm going on a date with a medical doctor who's a few years older than me and owns a house in one of the top 10 most expensive cities in the country. She's a bit autistic though which is great because we both don't expect the gyrations involved in most human interaction.

What should I do with her?

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-01-04T20:39:35+00:00

OP makes a male OLD profile and gets no matches but still plays victim

Somehow her not getting a seriously relationship with chad is the same as dudes not getting anything lol

lulll · 2023-01-04T20:38:40+00:00

does a woman even love you unless she has your name tattood on her butt cheek

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-01-04T20:16:44+00:00

Daily reminder I’m glad I’m a post wall hag.

Y’all really out here against STD screenings?!?

The comments…

so what do people in hookup culture do? Fuck and pray?!

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-04T20:15:41+00:00

Regarding the post about oral sex and n-count, I saw a few people saying they’ve never done oral with someone they didn’t have full on sex with.

I think oral-only encounters are more common than folks think, especially in high school/college. Of 10 girls I’ve gotten blowjobs from but not had penetrative sex with, 4 were PIV virgins and wanted to wait for someone special, 4 I declined to have sex with for various reasons, 1 was on her period and was apparently sensitive about that, and the last one was in a closet at a party, and as such she didn’t want to go all the way.

When someone asks me what my body count is, I just ask what they count as a “body” and either give the one that includes blowjobs or the one that excludes them.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-04T20:15:34+00:00

Just got in a stupid argument with my mother and now I feel like my family would be better off if I wasnt around. I'm not hinting at suicide. Just stating that if I disappeared, while sad, i think my family would do better.

No clue what to do.

Libah05 · 2023-01-04T19:48:52+00:00

I wonder how this discussion even came to talking about STD’s.

I’ve never had a concern for STD’s before the fact.

Mythic_Punk · 2023-01-04T19:39:36+00:00

Q4A

If you had to pick between no oral sex for the rest of your life and no piv sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose? Please pretend children and reproduction is not a factor here, I'm curious about it from a sexual satisfaction perspective.

This was originally going to be just a question for women as I'm already pretty sure Ik what most men would choose, but everyone can answer.

pls state you're gender as well.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-04T19:24:30+00:00

We only have a few decades left.

Hope you enjoy the time we have remaining

purginggastonist · 2023-01-04T19:09:47+00:00

so on the topic of emotional vulnerability let me give you all a secret trick I once heard

if you want to get a women to break up with you, show her some emotional vulnerability, talk about fears, weaknesses, struggles, trauma etc

and watch how quickly she walks out the door

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1039cfo/when_is_being_vulnerableopen_too_much_for_a_man/

emotions, not even once

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-04T19:08:28+00:00

Women have nearly 2/3rds of the total student debt in the US. It’s time to take accountability and stop these cries for loan forgiveness.

1Here4Bach · 2023-01-04T18:56:00+00:00

This is the only good advice I’m giving to males on here:

I read something on Reddit that goes a little like:

“Show vulnerability in certain times, be stoic in uncertain times.”

I think that’s good advice for males to follow in order to retain the respect that your wife/girlfriend has for you.

An example of showing vulnerability in certain times would be like crying during a really sad movie.

An example of vulnerability during uncertain times would be like freaking out and crying during a hurricane. Or being too scared to check what that weird sound was in the middle of the night.

Women get turned off by the latter but not the former.

I don’t care what women say here, they WILL lose respect for you if you’re vulnerable in uncertain times. It triggers our lizard brain to ask itself if we’re sure he’s a dependable competent man who can protect our children.

What you need to be doing during uncertain times is doing everything in your power to control the situation. If it’s a hurricane you need to make sure everyone is safe, make sure there’s enough food to get you through it, make sure all the windows and doors are secure and stay calm. Your calmness will make your wife calm and her calmness will make the kids calm. If you freak out everyone freaks out.

If you really were scared during that hurricane you can cry about it later on your own and bring it up as a little joke to her. But DON’T show fear or doubt during the hurricane.

eye_fuck · 2023-01-04T18:43:44+00:00

so seems quite a lot of brats here. any subs? (woman only)

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-04T18:36:05+00:00

Hear me out: oral sex is more intimate than PIV. Here’s why:

1) You literally taste with your mouth. You don’t taste with your genitals.

2) PIV is sort of how sex is meant to “work.” Like, in terms of reproduction. Oral sex is straying from the “natural” purpose of sex; therefore it is kinkier than PIV. And kink is inherently intimate.

I will now be accepting questions

saraimarsena · 2023-01-04T18:18:12+00:00

is it pointless as a woman to keep your n count low if every man assumes that if you’re pretty, it’s higher anyway?

like if a woman purposefully decided to keep her count low to “preserve her value”, what’s the point if in the eyes of men she’s trying to attract, it’s seen as a lie regardless?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-04T18:01:46+00:00

women aren't the problem in dating. Men, namely blue pills and simps, are the real problem.

Can you blame women for expecting a guy to pay for everything and treat her like a princess when 99% of the guys she interacts with do that?

Thats why women want to silence red pill ideas, because they have a reasonable stake on making sure guys don't turn back on this treatment of women and if more guys go red pill the advantages they get in dating will be greatly reduced or even eliminated.

CMV

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-04T17:44:33+00:00

I'm unironically being asked why a man shouldn't want a dominant, masculine woman as a partner.

Dating in 2022 yall

Women forgot how to be women

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-04T17:17:03+00:00

Workout of the day- lower body/cardio

Was pressed for time and sore all over, so I did this for ~45 minutes today

ETA: ES is supposed to be “each side” but my tired dummy dumb dumb brain was being dumb

eye_fuck · 2023-01-04T17:07:02+00:00

how many women here are brats?

lulll · 2023-01-04T16:58:10+00:00

men>women

you heard it here first i take all the credit

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-04T16:25:43+00:00

hows everyones dating life going the first few days of the year?

out of 7 girls I texted just 1 said she hopes to see me this year and i'll probably ask her out next week. (The other 6: 1 didn't reply and 5 just gave neutral responses)

Preme2 · 2023-01-04T16:11:51+00:00

Rule #1 of sub management. Never unpin the daily.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-04T15:03:13+00:00

About the dick sucking n count post

I don't understand. Are there men or women who would go down on the other person just for the sake of it? Without expecting anything in return?

Do some people find it arousing? I can understand if it's your bf/gf/fwb because you like seeing them aroused, but a random person?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-04T14:54:16+00:00

Paradise and imprisonment

Love is a many-feathered bird, well isn't it

I have a mind that I am losing

At least I'm going looney with a delusion of my own choosing

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-04T14:53:14+00:00

I wonder how many times a dude Fucking a girl for the first time and thinks to himself

“YES thank god no more dry spells. This is my pussy this sumner, imma be hitting this every week”🤚

And the woman at the same time is thinking

“Damn he kinda sucks, I’m never fucking him again. Can he just finish so I can leave?”😆

Heck if doesn’t even have to be he sucks, he can be competent but it could be something like

“Hmm I thought sleeping with someone else after my BF cheated on me would make me feel better but I just feel kinda gross. He’s cool but I’m probably not gonna revisit this again”

I only say this cause we always talk about one night stands and pumping/dumping IMO the majority of times guys go into sleeping with a girl he doesn’t want it to be a one night thing. Guys get ghosted after sex way more than people realize, it’s not always him saying I don’t want her anymore

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-04T14:39:40+00:00

Never trust the following people:

Anyone who describes themselves as "brutally honest".

Guys who constantly tell "edgy" jokes.

Girls who say shit like "my confidence puts men off".

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-04T14:36:00+00:00

I am the plaster mold that they're tracing

Without the intricacies, now the clones are all basic

UnjustlyBannedTime11 · 2023-01-04T14:25:29+00:00

After some introspection, I have found that I don't actually have that much interest in women or wild kinky sex, I'm just interested in social status, validation and power it brings to a man. Is there any way to replicate the effects without engaging in it? I honestly don't care much about it, only what it can bring me.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-01-04T14:06:25+00:00

My friend has started to send me messages every time he has sex with someone. Sometimes he sends me pics or links to their social media accounts. Why?

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-04T05:51:24+00:00

I have a pudgy chick on facebook who wants to fuck me even after I posted my entire redpill worldview. She says I'm hot.

Her being pudgy isn't really the problem, she has been involuntarily committed, has BPD, schizo-shit and is currently living out of her car. I straight feel bad for her but she seems kind of insane and I'm not sure if I want to be involved with her, she even threatened arson against a public building.

That said I'm also a virgin at ~30 heh.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-01-04T07:14:28+00:00

Being a woman actually is easy mode. Woman on mademesmile was a teen mom, shitty parents, no career, marries a sugar daddy. If you have a pussy you are wasting your life away not marrying a rich man.

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