Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.

eveloe · 2021-03-14T20:10:43+00:00

I had a couple book me

The husband broke down and said there is barely any intimacy.

So he coerced his wife into sleeping with a prostitute and it’s still not enough?! Fuck that guy I hope he’s still crying.

This is the dumbest professional I’ve ever heard of. She’s living a fantasy if she can be convinced by a man whose wife she just had a threesome with that he’s in a dead bedroom. Talk about a sucker.

gutsandgorey · 2021-03-14T18:14:37+00:00

Oh my gosh I saw this post! I was so pissed off. A majority of men on that sub are assholes and their wives won’t sleep with them because of it. I saw another post of a man who thought rubbing his wife’s back for seconds and taking a viagra should have been enough to get her going. When she said no he basically told her he wanted an open relationship or they were going to get a divorce. He had also been cheating on her for years. I really don’t care to hear men’s dead bedroom stories because 9/10 it’s about their entitlement and lack of self awareness when it comes to their man child behavior.

buzzkillyall · 2021-03-14T19:36:36+00:00

I was extremely affectionate with my ex. At first. Until the years of escalating verbal and emotional abuse changed me into someone who flinched from him and avoided him. And he would demand a hug, only hours after insulting, berating, and raging at me, with no apology, of course.

I have no doubt that he complained to people about how I had changed.

Poor affection-starved men. So sad.

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-14T18:40:46+00:00

When men cheat: “But it meant nothing, it was just sex “

When men don’t get as much sex as they want out of their relationship: “ But I feel loved through sex, it fulfills an emotional need that can’t be fulfilled otherwise”

So which is it ?

ASmallGardenFairy · 2021-03-14T19:03:15+00:00

Wow. I was in “dead bedroom” but because he was addicted to porn and masturbation, while sitting on his ass 24/7 playing video games. Yet I’m the abusive one because I won’t suck his dick after doing the all the emotional labor, household chores and contribute the majority of finances. Lmao

InaneObservations · 2021-03-14T19:16:31+00:00

She's a prostitute, advertising.

Oh really, the woman whose career is giving men an extramarital fantasy outlet is posting about how she wakes up every day, so glad to be able to provide her service?

"For only $2000/day, the price of a Disney vacation, you too can help save a poor, abused man from his responsibilities as a husband and father who's sick of hugging his icky old wife and dumb kids (in the arrrrrms ooooof an aaaaangelll)..."

thanks, Sally Strumpet

starlight_sequence · 2021-03-14T18:06:54+00:00

I wonder how much resentment those women have been holding onto over doing all of the childcare, domestic labor, taking on the mental load, and generally feeling unappreciated by their husbands.

But gee, I wonder why they aren't readily available for intimacy.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2021-03-14T20:05:40+00:00

She’s fishing for new clients.

mitskiismygf · 2021-03-14T18:59:37+00:00

this is definitely some incel roleplaying

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-03-14T19:24:55+00:00

Simple:

If they are so unhappy with their partner, they why don't they just....leave?

Set those women free instead of milking them for free maid, caretaker, etc services.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-03-14T19:12:10+00:00

This woman is a terrible escort if she actually believes any of these sob stories.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-03-14T19:08:33+00:00

Dead bedrooms = men who don’t care about their wife’s emotional well-being. I don’t ever feel an ounce of sympathy for men with dead bedrooms.

Maybe they should try not having dead hearts.

Carpedictum · 2021-03-14T19:08:59+00:00

I mean... Maybe if they stopped seeing escorts? Or are you their first time? 😂

n3rdgir7 · 2021-03-14T19:47:34+00:00

If men need affection why don't they hug each other and be actual friends instead of being such giant homophobes

pinkcityscape · 2021-03-14T18:14:38+00:00

I don’t expect her to say anything different these men are her source of income

randomgirlimok · 2021-03-14T22:11:23+00:00

“My wife got fat after she had kids so my love for her faded””feel sorry for me”

ItsFreezen · 2021-03-14T21:11:13+00:00

News Flash. There lying to you.

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-14T18:25:51+00:00

Imagine this being your “husband”... Yeah I’d rather die alone.

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-14T18:43:07+00:00

Yeah poor men. Boohoo these poor men. We all know the evil harpies over at dead room are not even trying. It is not like everything single one of those women have tried and over time became burned out for being a mom. Maid. Nanny. Housekeeper etc. While these disgusting scrotes sit on their ass all day wanking to porn. But no. It is always these poor men. Booohooo his evil wife is not loving him. Boooo 😭😭😭😭 but now he finally found an escort to understand and hear his sob story.

It is like the cheaters. They wives are always evil women and they are just poor innocent men who sticks their dicks in 19 year olds because of how evil their wives is!!!!! Its not like they are sociopathic narcs.

Will someone please think of the men!!!!! /s

🤢🤢🤢🤢

Saitschik · 2021-03-14T20:13:15+00:00

Men don't go to escorts to look for love. She should know that. That they use every woman they come around for emotional labour and to trash talk their wife doesn't mean anything other than they are entitled assholes and their dead bedroom is no surprise.

howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-14T20:27:01+00:00

I just want all the cheating men out there, who are happy to risk HIV and spreading that to their wives a HUGE HUG. Yep, they're the real victims here -_-

elementalvirago · 2021-03-14T18:03:33+00:00

Yeah honey and all the guys in prison are innocent cuz they said they are.

coldfoot23 · 2021-03-14T18:25:09+00:00

Lmfao this is so pathetic

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-14T20:33:15+00:00

Maybe their wives don’t sleep with them because they fuck hookers? Just a thought

jasmine-blossom · 2021-03-14T22:04:34+00:00

My bf had a dead bedroom for five years. For five years, bc his wife has a medical problem, he was not having sex. He did not cheat on her, he did not guilt her, and he would never feel comfortable going to a prostitute, even with his wife’s permission bc he does not feel right about having sex with someone who is not fully consenting. He’s a charming, handsome man with a high sex drive, yet he was able to avoid lowering himself to what these other men and some women advocate for. It’s not inevitable that a man cheat when he is not having sex at home, even when the lack of sex life is 100% not his fault at all. Good men find a solution with their wives or if the wife is unwilling to find a solution, then divorce is an option. They don’t cheat, and they don’t go to prostitutes.

2021-03-14T22:10:32+00:00

Is this fanfiction? Feels like Reddit fanfiction.

ChocoBananza · 2021-03-14T18:28:42+00:00

Another male scrote’s fantasy.

I’m sure that prostitutes are these wonderful, empathetic, magical beings, which are doing their jobs for the love of it, and charity. They lay awake at nights just thinking about these poor, poor men that crave basic intimacy so much that they HAD to buy them. I’m surprised that the post doesn’t say anything about wives’ cheating on them for years, and that it was that man’s first time wandering outside of marriage. Of course, just for hugging and cuddling purposes.

Sure...

the-worst- · 2021-03-14T18:44:48+00:00

A large ammount of married men that see no sexual action are also:

Not participating in child care

Refuse to do chores

Makes the wife grocery shop

Never takes her out on dates or buys her gifts anymore

Has no reaction if she breaks down crying

Will refuse to help eith anything, even if their wife is clearly exhausted

Feel sex is owed to them even if they did no form of foreplay (no kissing, cuddling, or buildup. This also applies to helping her with her daily tasks since that is actually a super attractive thing to do).

Many of these men will also only try helping their wife for ONE DAY or just ONE WEEK after YEARS of not helping her, and will just give up after and say "choreplay doesn't work!" When anyone suggests he CONTINUE doing his part of the work.

Men who go to escorts to "feel loved" are often the same ones who do NOTHING to make their wifes feel loved either! Why should she have to give him love if he never gives love BACK to her?

Nah sis, these men don't at all deserve to be happy. They wouldn't be able to find a new woman if they did leave for not being sexually satisfied.

likearealreptile · 2021-03-14T19:26:38+00:00

🤨

Lady you are treated like a cum rag and an emotional support vag. Those men need therapy, not expensive infidelity. A man will never work on his shit by jizzing into you. Please do fucking not.

Abderral · 2021-03-14T19:59:00+00:00

Yeah, I am sure these men need her service so they can pretend that a total stranger who knows nothing about them, can give them some affection.

They know deep down how shitty they are and how undeserving of real love that comes from people knowing THEM in and out, they are. They know that they are a failure in all aspects and they just want someone new who they can fool and pretend to be good people in front of.

throwaway715123 · 2021-03-14T20:26:18+00:00

I hope she has the same amount of sympathy for the poor wives that have been cheated on and been kept on the dark.But nope. Apparently male's validation and filthy money is more important to her. I have no sympathy for sex worker like her,she deliberately chooses to throw other women under the bus.

_laufaeson · 2021-03-14T21:06:08+00:00

I’m getting out of a marriage with a dead bedroom. I miss sex, but life was too exhausting to feel up to being intimate with him. He didn’t make me feel valued and loved. I am so glad I’m moving on.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-03-14T22:17:26+00:00

Men create their own dead bedroom by treating their wives like shit. They do it to theirselves when they become another child to their partner. They do it to theirselves when they cheat and abuse the woman into being unable to leave. And this pickme prostitute and many like her panders to these lv/nvm.

eatchickpeas · 2021-03-14T22:11:15+00:00

so much is wrong with this. if you are MARRIED TO A WOMAN the only person you should be sleeping with IS HER. i dont think using sex services is great. he chose to be married and have children, he accepted the possibility that he might not enjoy being with his partner but he still has to RAISE the children HE participated IN BRINGING INTO THE WORLD. you dont get to run off with another woman and leave your wife and kids JUST BECAUSE YOU ARENT GETTING THE SEX OR INTIMACY YOU WANT

imagine if the mother left her family just so she could have better sex, she would be crucified by every man alive. men arent willing to go through the effort of foreplay, making their partners feel special etc. men want and expect their wives to act like pornstars in the bedroom, always willing and ready. im so done lol

iaintgonnacallyou · 2021-03-14T23:20:49+00:00

The men who complain about their dead bedrooms are the same men that emotionally abuse their wives but expect her to fuck him anyways because that’s what they’d do. Men could hate your guts and wish you dead, but would still have sex with you.

A lot of these dead bedroom men do hate their wives but still demand her to touch their dicks, then place the blame on her when she refuses to be coerced.

It’s almost like being treated like shit by your (not so) significant other severely affects your libido?! Who woulda thunk?

Carpedictum · 2021-03-14T19:03:01+00:00

What’s a HLM?

MadamLeFay · 2021-03-14T22:50:45+00:00

I also believe this was written by a dude, but...

Maybe his bedroom is dead because his wife knows he's paying for sex elsewhere?

2021-03-14T23:35:24+00:00

Holy fucking shit, men can do no wrong in most people's eyes.

Maybe, just MAYBE there's a reason his wife isn't fucking him, probably because he's a POS. But hey, lets blame the wife for not spreading her legs enough, eugh. I hate people.

Mysterious_Midnight7 · 2021-03-14T21:57:31+00:00

Only a final boss pickme would automatically jump to blame the woman in the relationship and not even bother to contemplate that this loser's behavior caused her to lose attraction to him. The fact that he's willing to pay a prostitute for sex says enough as it is

greenshadownymph · 2021-03-15T01:57:01+00:00

Men who want to cheat tell such BS stories where they act like the victim. My Very Christian Aunt found out her Very Christian husband had been cheating on her for years, and had convinced his Very Christian mistress that it was okay because his wife had stopped having sex with him. In fact his wife had sex with him every night because she felt it was her Christian Duty, so he was just lying about it to get easy sex and sympathy from someone else.

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-03-14T20:30:52+00:00

Yet prostitutes die on average by their mid 30’s more often than not due to murder by these HVM who’s wives are just so awful for not wanting to fuck them so they pay to rape another woman. If these johns were so amazing why do most of them admit they wouldn’t care if the prostitutes were there against their will or underaged?

pickadaisy · 2021-03-14T18:39:29+00:00

I don’t even have to imagine. I felt this way as a mistress. Men lie and manipulate to anyone who will listen. I later realized who those men really were — but yeah, the manipulation from them goes in every damn direction. They are depraved and will take the easiest route to get their needs met.

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2021-03-14T18:37:50+00:00

Lol. I'm sure....

doc-2-be · 2021-03-14T22:43:39+00:00

Why does it seem like a man wrote this 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

capricious_robot · 2021-03-14T23:08:54+00:00

While this isn't exactly the same situation, my brother in law who has 4 kids with my sister, isn't a cheater or frequenter of prostitutes, LOVES to play the victim. Every time I see him without her, he goes on these tirades about how terrible she is, blames so much of what is wrong in their relationship on her and is always looking to get my sympathy vote. Like, dude I know you well enough to see how much you neg, hurl blame, shame, and guilt like grenades over the stupidest things, and continue to laugh at the same misogynistic jokes you've been spouting off for a decade. Those jokes are dried up and you're no damn victim. Know your audience. If you want to try and act like you're this beaten down man and are looking for someone to feel sorry for you, maybe go make a friend. I'll never turn on my sister, I've seen how he manipulates and plays petty games, I've also been on the receiving end all too often. I hate that those kids have to grow up under that influence. Men love to feel pity from women but will never admit to how they caused their own suffering. I could write a trilogy with numerous spin-offs.

2021-03-15T00:44:54+00:00

So according to this woman all men want is a hug and someone to talk to? What’s he paying a prostitute for then? 🙄

Platipus6 · 2021-03-14T21:55:16+00:00

I get a huge vibe of undiagnosed ADHD from the males on db. They use the dopamine from porn and sex as a crutch to regulate their dopamine.

A regular poster and frequent whiner has 4 kids and his wife must be losing her mind being badgered for sex by a disorganized, unreliable 'partner'.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-14T21:58:48+00:00

Why are so many women this naive? I've even seen it with women twice my age. I don't understand it. Women are villianized by other women so easily it's wild.

relationship_reddit · 2021-03-15T00:42:32+00:00

I would feel sympathy for them too, if it wasn't almost always their fault.

I was in a dead bedroom relationship for years. When we weren't doing sexual activities, he was sitting in his chair playing video games the entire time he was home. I would even ask him to just come hang out with my while I cooked so I wouldn't be alone, and I would give up a couple minutes in, and tell him he could just go back to playing because he would just stand there and stare and ask "Well what am I supposed to do?" Whenever I had him come grocery shopping with me, he would get agitated and complain when I didn't basically speed run through the store. He wouldnt shower for day, and always left skid marks in his underwear.

When we were doing sexual activities, which was rare, 9 times out of 10, it was me sucking his dick (I'm not sure if it was because he felt self conscious about his performance or because he was fat and had no stamina, but I just did it to get him off my back). Actual sex consisted of me sucking his dick to get him ready, but him almost never returning the favor and putting it in dry. Then we would have awful, unenthusiastic sex, where I basically just served as a human fleshlight, and it would end in him getting off and then never getting me off. Oral for me was extremely rare. As far as other physical affection like hugging, it was almost always me initiating it.

I'm sure that most of the time it is the woman's choice to not have sex, but why is that? Is it because we're sadistic witches who get off on denying our loving partners physical affection, or is it because after cooking by ourselves, cleaning by ourselves, taking care of the kids by ourselves, getting no romance, and being given extremely unsatisfying sex, we have zero desire to have sex with them?

mtan15 · 2021-03-15T00:43:40+00:00

Ass#=£¥ husband isn't getting laid, goes to a hooker and plays the victim and justifies his cheating ... poor husband. 🤮

thenyashoulda · 2021-03-15T03:48:35+00:00

Oh yeah, guys are always seeking out prostitutes for hugs

I’d say a good 75% like to follow it up with a trip to baskin Robins

CrazyPaine · 2021-03-15T05:13:13+00:00

The amount of times my ex said we needed to have an open relationship because of our dead sex life with the continuous porn that he watched, waving his pp near my vicinity asking "Can you do something about this?", being abusive as well as being sexually coercive to me, and wanting free therapy. I honestly hated that shit so much. Funny how he didn't want no open relationship though because of his insecurity and jealousy was an all time high but because of our sex life was knocking on death's door.

That love shit died out real quick, I was basically a punching bag and so sick of tired of that. I was tired of being used an object for him to consume daily while he did nothing to contribute to it just consumed and consumed until one day I couldn't take it anymore.

At times, I feel that majority of men will overwhelmed a woman to do the emotional, financial, physical, sexual and mental care for them until a woman collapses in on herself. Men will break down a woman over time until she's a shell of herself. It's so sad, pathetic, maddening and fucking abusive as fuck.

CynicalSucculent · 2021-03-14T23:42:58+00:00

Damn it smell like pickme in here

ScrotonimoStilton · 2021-03-14T22:55:45+00:00

Imagine being so bad at this game that you actually believe what your clients tell you.

How empowered is this queen? Used as they please not only like a cum dumpster, but also as a disingenuous emotional dumpster as well.

She is so powerful that what she is doing is literally just being a warm talking body for the comfort of men. Who is really holding the power in this dynamic?

I hope she levels up quickly and has the chance to leave this hellish "work" schedule.

zombieeezzz · 2021-03-14T21:46:06+00:00

What sub was this on? And what does HLM stand for?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-15T01:49:36+00:00

Prostitution propaganda. Was this even written by a woman? What a load of shit!

randowordgenerator · 2021-03-15T02:42:54+00:00

OMG troll radar off the chart

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-03-15T06:44:22+00:00

Abusive men who erode their relationships always pull this line of bull. And PickMes, being PickMes, eat it up, secretly vowing to never commit the same unseemly behaviors as the ex, like...

--Standing her ground in arguments.

--Checking his phone for signs of cheating after developing an STD.

--Saying no to painful and degrading sex positions.

--Going to her friends and family for support when he mistreats her.

--Calling the cops when he won't let her leave.

--Having basic self esteem, principles, standards, self respect and boundaries.

I can remember reaching critical mass on ex-gf/wife bashing years ago. I didn't realize I'd been pushed to the brink and just snapped out of the blue at the next guy who bitched about his ex being "crazy." I delivered a blunt one liner and I heard he held a grudge over it for a decade.

I also maxed out on women repeating the shade their partners spew about the partners' exes. I'd just given birth and a woman I worked with repeated-- in a hushed and scandalized tone-- her new boyfriend's jabs at his ex-wife-- that the woman would lock herself in the bathroom when she got migraines while the kids pounded on the door. I snapped, "Well where is he while this happens? The corner bar?"

It probably wasn't a good idea to say this to the board president's daughter lol. But enough is enough..

frauleinzweig · 2021-03-14T21:41:27+00:00

Dead bedroom is such a joke. Recently, there was one guy who was proud to tell that now that he responds a little bit more to his wife's sexual preferences, dead is not so dead anymore. Yea, news flash, baby.

AimiHanibal · 2021-03-15T07:25:23+00:00

Couldn’t be me 😌💅🏻

GoldandGlowing · 2021-03-15T01:03:16+00:00

The clown jumped out and juggled for em. Lord have mercy

throwawaynevermindit · 2021-03-15T00:03:55+00:00

Tbh a lot of SW have such poor self-esteem and self-respect that they really, really cling to the idea that they're "helping" the men that see them. It makes them feel needed/good at something.

Of course in reality the men don't NEED anything from them, they WANT to fuck, and throw themselves pity parties to justify their mistreatment of their wives (chronic cheating is abuse yo) and extract some free emotional labor from the SW. The SW herself is a paid enabler of male bullshit - if these men don't feel loved or feel bad about themselves they need to spend the money they're spending to fuck 23 year old prostitutes on THERAPY with a qualified professional. Needless to say, seeing prostitutes has very little in common with THERAPY and is not a replacement for THERAPY... one thing fixes problems (ideally) the other just tends to give them a field of expression and reinforce them.

Having the emotional issues of middle-aged men piled onto them on top of having to choke back their instincts to let the dudes into their bodies is gonna leave the SWs needing even more therapy themselves.

Maybe she needs money and this is marketing. 🥴

NiBBasBeCrazy · 2021-03-15T01:06:41+00:00

Wow...pickmeisha supreme. Disgusting!

Title	Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.
Author	Onextto0
Upvotes	585
Comments	139
Date	March 14, 2021 5:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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