The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.

This week, we're all about "you did stuff with prior exes but you won't do that stuff with me". And most everyone is missing the point.

She doesn't want to tell him that he's just not all that. She used to do these things and really enjoyed them, but now that she's with the current man, she isn't attracted to him, so she makes up a story that she has decided she's "grown" and "matured" and "isn't into" "these things" anymore.

It is not about whether he wants to do those things or not. The point is that she is now with him, and does not want to do those things with him. She wants to do those things. And she would do them if she were with someone else. She doesn't want to do those things with him.

This is not about "growth" or "maturity" or "changed preferences". This is about lack of attraction. This is about her not wanting to do certain things with him.

This is not about her prior men "bullying" her into doing things she did not want to do. If that was happening, that would be called "rape", according to PPD denizens. This doesn't happen. Women don't do things they don't want to do. So if she did anal with her prior guys, she liked doing anal with those guys. Women do not do sexual things they don't want to do. If she's doing "it", she likes "it". Because, as I've learned here at PPD, women being "bullied" into doing sexual things they don't want to do is "rape", and that's illegal. So all those prior guys should be serving long prison terms. But they're not. Because their women did what they wanted to do.

Men do not care that she tried "it" once with some other guy and didn't like "it", so she won't do "it". We also do not care if "it" is something we don't like doing. The point is that she won't do "it" with the current guy because he's a beta bux or she's not really attracted to him, so she won't do "it" with him. And that is the ONLY point.

This is not about anything other than her picking a guy she doesn't want to do "certain things" with. It's not about the act. It's not about pressure. It's not about "growth", "maturity", or "changing preferences. It's about her deciding that this guy is not someone she wants to do those "certain things" with. And that is ALL that this is about.

*Automod.

EDIT: I am amazed at how hard so many of you miss the point. This is NOT about women who did giga anal once with some guy and they hate it and they never ever do it again. This is NOT about women who used to have "poor boundaries" years ago and now have better ones.

Go back and read the post again before you respond, please.