Daily Community Chat Megathread

cautionTomorrow555 · 2022-05-08T16:48:06+00:00

Glad I have some good news; Wife took a turn for the better despite needing a more intense chemo regimen, she’s still not out of the woods yet but my wife and I are no longer talking about hospice care. She is having another surgery to have her Fallopian tubes removed however, we were informed that she would not be needing a hysterectomy or another ovariectomy. Seeing her smile again, actually smiling has added another bright spot on my life after fearing I was going to lose her.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-05-08T12:55:11+00:00

A man's SMV doesn't actually increase at 30 he just attracts women who want to settle down and have children because he now has more resources.

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-08T16:25:57+00:00

Reading the abortion thread I realized some guys actually think women will start considering "will he be a good father" before sleeping with guys due to abortion getting harder.

I mean... what? since when have people acted rationally when it comes to hookups? This is emotional instinctive decisions. This is like claiming making punishments for crimes worse has a deterent effect.

Crimes of passion which are not done in cold blood, it has no effect. No one reads the law before doing the crime.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-05-08T12:53:27+00:00

I do worry that twoX is considered a "mainstream subreddit" and that new accounts used to be subscribed there by default.

It's not exactly moderate by any stretch of the imagination. Some of the women on there are absolutely mental.

Q4ALL. Are the women you find in twoX similar at all to any women you meet IRL? Are they what feminists look like around you?

dysonRing · 2022-05-08T20:51:20+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ul8tta/im_sick_of_hookup_culture_and_people_being_unable/

Girl complains about not being able to find a relationship because le evil men are emotionally unavailable. 5 days ago she posted about how excited she was about going on a date with a guy in an open relationship.

You can't make this shit up.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-08T13:28:33+00:00

Hitting the cervix is rude and toxic masculinity. That's why I only stick the head in, like a gentleman.

Chaddamhusein · 2022-05-08T15:30:18+00:00

TIL: British Physicist Alf Adams came up for the idea of the 'strained-layer quantum well laser' walking on the beach with his wife. He paused for a moment and asked her to stop talking for a moment to let him think. These lasers are now used in almost every household today in optical disc players

tells woman to shut up

makes a ground breaking technological advancement

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-08T19:09:04+00:00

Can someone please explain to me how abortion is okay but killing a pregnant woman would be considered double homicide, or feticide?

I don’t get that logic. You can’t have it both ways. Either it’s homicide or not.

HurrDurrGrr · 2022-05-08T19:21:59+00:00

Happy Mother's Day to all the MILFs of PPD 💕

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-09T11:48:25+00:00

Bible Thumpers: We can’t let THOSE PEOPLE around our kids. They’re degenerates who want to share their degeneracy with kids!

Progressives in the 2000s: HOW DARE YOU! LGBT people just want equality! You’re spreading such awful stereotypes to keep them oppressed!

Normal people: Yeah! That is such an awful stereotype. And using the “Think of the children” emotional appeal is manipulative.

Progressives now: We should talk to kids about their sexuality. show them sexually explicit content, tell them doctors don’t know shit about gender, all without the parents knowing. Also, having pageant shows for boys, having boys dancing in night clubs, have them know about doing drugs, and having them pose with naked dudes is totally cool!

Normal people: Sounds like child grooming and degeneracy.

Progressive: DON’T BE SO HOMOPHOBIC! We're challenging heteronormativity!

It's so weird that Progressives seem to have forgotten what they were fighting against in the Bush/Obama years. Now they embrace the strawman bigots gave.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-05-09T10:47:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenOver30/comments/65yj86/men_in_40s50s_what_is_normal_sexual_response/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

For those in here claiming men become more valiant and attractive in bed. I remember “dating” a way older guy and I knew he was attracted to me because he always wanted to have sex. He ate well, drank plenty of water, was a normal, healthy weight, and very sexual. He was a bit on the “floppier” side depending on the day.

decoy88 · 2022-05-09T10:43:22+00:00

This sub has a lot of users that really enjoy creating little stories in their head about how other people feel and think.

Even when the person is there to directly ask them.

hehr12 · 2022-05-08T12:31:07+00:00

I don't think women are real, now that's just my observation I do not intend anything negative. Women seem to be made up by creative imagination. Now I know people claim to be women but who made them? they tell you it's women. I think women are a conspiracy theory

detoxiccity2 · 2022-05-08T15:47:58+00:00

"When women have the economic ability through these enhanced social safety nets to leave a bad relationship and not pay a penalty—meaning they’ll still have health care, and housing, and they’ll still be able to take care of their children—that also means that women have more freedom to choose partners that will satisfy them, including in the bedroom."

In other words, women can choose the attractive guys to be with and don't have to settle for rich ugly guys... of course the rich and ugly guys have to pay for it all and any children that may result from such.

https://www.gq.com/story/better-sex-under-socialism-kristen-ghodsee-interview

I'm not saying that women should be obligated to have sex with unattractive men but likewise unattractive men should have the rights to their own money.

Just saying yall, just saying.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-05-08T18:12:08+00:00

Men of PPD: is a 20 year old woman too young to be dating a 36+ year old.

Willow-girl · 2022-05-08T12:16:37+00:00

OMG, funny. The progressive with whom I was arguing -- the one trying to calculate an inflation rate using numbers that had already been adjusted for inflation -- doubled down on his(?) mistake, insisting he was right (despite his result being widely divergent from others who have made the same calculation). "You're clearly too dumb to attempt to have an intelligent conversation with, so I'm not going to waste any more of my time on you," he said, before blocking me.

Oh well ... I tried.

I guess the take-away is that if you do a calculation and come up with a result different from everyone else, it's possible you're a stone-cold genius and have hit on something the rest missed. There's also a nonzero chance you've fucked it up, LOL.

scwizard · 2022-05-08T15:01:34+00:00

Been sleeping with my best friend for the last 10 years....never in a relationship. He had a failed move to ibiza last year and he ended up living with me

A few times I'd spotted him on dating sites and in my fragile mental state I pushed it away because 'he's living with me and in my bed, obviously he cares about me'

Friday, I found out he'd messaged another girl and told her he was living with a friend and it was great because it was free rent.

If a guy was in a situationship with a girl like this, where he was paying her rent while she was on dating sites talking to other guys, people would call him a cuck.

purplish_possum · 2022-05-08T15:36:59+00:00

Some asshole stole my Prius' catalytic converter. Not feeling LA at this point.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T20:21:16+00:00

I really regret not trying to improve my social skills with people earlier on in life. I always thought I could be happy alone and the such which led to me now having well below average social skills. This regret all hit me after that party on Friday night that I am still kinda riding the high off of lol. Socializing actually felt really good. Now I just gotta prevent myself from falling back to how I was.

dbz19 · 2022-05-08T12:42:58+00:00

Is it gay to kiss a girl who sucked your dick? Its basically like kissing your own dick.

Willow-girl · 2022-05-08T15:05:15+00:00

Sunday morning on the farm. The man left to haul hay. I have three loads of laundry on the line already; I'm cleaning house while drinking iced lattes and belting "Son of a Preacher Man" along with Dusty Springfield on the radio. (She is a much better singer than I am.)

E-2-butene · 2022-05-08T18:21:31+00:00

I want to point out a sort of logical inconsistency that I see crop up sometimes in the abortion/legal paternal surrender debate:

I take the argument against men abandoning their kids (either in terms of finances or paternal care generally) to be something akin to “it is immortal to out another person in a position that they are dependent upon your support and then also removing the support.” I, personally think this is a perfectly good argument, as men are knowingly taking the risk that they can create a child when they save sex, so they therefore have a moral obligation to take care of that child.

However, as I argued here, the form of this argument works just as well for rebutting the idea that women bodily autonomy is a sufficient justification for aborting a child in instances where we can reasonably consider a child a “person.”

Therefore, if one considered it morally wrong to be a deadbeat dad, it would be logically inconsistent to also believe that women are morally justified in aborting a pregnancy resulting from consensual sex unless you are relying on the argument that a fetus isn’t a person and not a woman’s right to bodily autonomy. But if you are, this means that abortion following consensual sex is not actually an argument about women’s rights, it’s an argument about what characteristics define a “person.”

The obvious corollary here is that any man advocating for LPS or being a deadbeat should reasonably consider abortion permissible even if the fetus is a person because he should agree that women have no obligation to provide for the fetus despite making the fetus’s life dependent on her body in the first place (which is his exact argument for abandoning his paternal duties).

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-09T10:16:43+00:00

I don't get the difference. That black girl post talked about being fetishized. I've heard asian girls complain, tall men, etc.

In my head I thought fetishized means a group of people like you sexually. You are their type, it's a kink, a narrow thing. You push their buttons, they are sensitive to this particular trait.

I'd never complain this girl fetishized me for my nerdiness would I? Is the whole goal to find someone who you can strongly turn on? Appeal to your niche...

Does it necessarily mean they don't see other aspects of you? It a girl fetishized a tall man, does his height dominate his identity for her? Is she blind to who he is as a complete picture? Idk anyone here been on the recieving end of fetishising?

decoy88 · 2022-05-08T11:24:17+00:00

What are the dangers of being very attractive/beautiful?

People cannot empathise with those they pedestalise.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-08T12:05:57+00:00

I will say being autistic is probably the worst possible detriment to dating.

At least, it's a combination of being the most common and consistently worst one to deal with

Most guys' looks aren't SO fucked up that they stand no chance, and generally, if they are, life will let you know

But with autism, it's just so easy to get it all wrong and not have a clue why or how, and there's so many ways it fucks you:

Monotone voice and disposition may be very off-putting to NTs
In fact, general disposition may seem like lack of confidence
Often a failure to understand style and grooming (or sensory issues may make certain haircuts or clothing impossible to wear)
Inability to crack jokes on the level of NTs, or just a general inability to grasp conversational humor
Exercise may be a damn near impossible thing (or so I've heard), making improving physique a difficult
If you have meltdowns, well this should be self-explanatory
And the biggest killer is definitely that flirting is basically out-of-reach without lots of hands-on experience, hell, even basic conversation is more difficult, let alone flirting

And the whole time the person may not even realize what they're doing

BTW this is not my lived experience; my autism isn't nearly that big of an issue when it comes to women, I got lucky enough that I avoided most of the troublesome symptoms, so it tends to be more like "He's kinda weird but at least he's cute/funny so it doesn't matter" (more or less others' words, not mine)

But I feel for my autistic brethren who haven't been so lucky :(

decoy88 · 2022-05-08T12:08:03+00:00

This guy is rapey. Do you think he’s rapey? I think so 100%

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/uknpvx/my_f20_boyfriend_m20_revealed_cnc_kink_after/i7ssi9x/

hehr12 · 2022-05-08T13:48:24+00:00

After days and days of talking to the walls, I'm sensing the wall are starting to move. Just last night I heard a noise from the wall. I think I'm finding my soul mate, the wall who always listens to me and it's always there for me to bang my head against it.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T14:12:41+00:00

Why is there a relationship advice sub and relationships sub? Shouldn’t there just be like, ya know, one sub for that. Seems like the topics of the questions are the same.

social_mule · 2022-05-08T14:34:34+00:00

Happy Mother's Day to all the women who chose not to abort their babies as well as the ones who chose to adopt.

pussy_destroyyer · 2022-05-08T15:29:30+00:00

Arguing with people on this subreddit is like the worst thing you can do to yourself. It’s like a breeding ground for hate and anger and frustration. And I think everyone here just needs to go outside and socialise with real people.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-08T16:14:26+00:00

I'm waiting for 1 (one) singular insecurity women have that's as important and has difficult to change as Size and height for men

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-08T17:14:42+00:00

I can't understand the logic behind incels which are against child support.

If you struggle to find a date let alone put your pepe inside of someone then the fear of getting "raped" by child support seems... irrational.

On the other hand do you want even more single moms? Even more poor single moms which are looking for sugar daddies?

Gent's we men are in competition and you are shooting yourself in the knee.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-08T17:46:52+00:00

I went out Saturday night and I noticed all the bartenders were good looking, Is this on purpose ?

scwizard · 2022-05-08T18:05:03+00:00

PSA.

"Pregnancy and babies are a consequence of sex" This is a lie.

???

"Men have a right to cum in you if they have sex with you" This is a lie.

Agree with this one.

"It's both partner's fault if she gets pregnant" This is a lie.

Wow they're actually saying it's just the man's fault.

The above is a thread from a Mormon mother explaining why 100% of unintended pregnancies are caused by men irresponsibly ejaculating in women.

Most men can learn to delay or control ejaculation. The myth of "I came I couldn't help myself" is not true for the majority of men. It's not that they can't control when they cum, they've just never bothered to develop that skill because they sees cumming inside a woman as their god-given right during sex.

https://mobile.twitter.com/designmom/status/1040363433634422784

This is so utterly bonkers.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-05-08T18:52:44+00:00

Your body, your choice, your responsibility

figuringMylife · 2022-05-08T19:25:16+00:00

for a second there i thought i was in the abortion thread. ugh.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-08T20:16:37+00:00

I’m willing to bet my left nut 90 percent of these guys are LARPing

Ylduts · 2022-05-08T11:15:46+00:00

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/

With an over correction taking place, should young men be paid more to “close the gap?” Should men have less opportunity’s and be paid less because a small percentage of men earn more?

YouAskedIt · 2022-05-08T11:37:16+00:00

Happy Mother's day to the PPD parents and l wish a happy day to everyone's mother.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-08T11:37:19+00:00

I remember that movie friends with benefits where Jamie waits 5 dates to fuck this guy, she finally does and he STILL pumps and dumps her ass lol.

“He waited so I know he’s real and likes me outside of sex” is such a flawed premise. And the other thing is, the sex could be straight up TRASH. So many girls have been like yo I wish I just smashed him the first night/week and got it over with instead of waiting a month or two waisting my time. Or better yet go back and fuck my ex boyfriend at least he knows what he’s doing and I don’t add unnecessary bodies.

Some of the best sex of all time is your ex coming back to you. It’s almost like they have something to prove

Also With that being said happy Mother’s Day To my mommy. I’m gonna set up a nice dinner for her tonight.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-08T11:57:27+00:00

How many women would you say are off the market by the age of 25 and 30 (and 35) respectively and what do you think the reason is for somebody to be 30 and still single and lastly would you agree with the notion that quality partners are snatched off early and double lastly, how do would you look for a quality partner if you're already 30 ?

Same with us men

I have my own opinion about this but I'm interested in your guys experience with this

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T12:31:17+00:00

Darwin Award- Bear edition.

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-08T13:56:41+00:00

Happy mother's day to all the thirsty mommy's

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-08T14:36:22+00:00

he will retire at 35 but won't pay for dates and I won't pay for dates AITA????

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-08T15:15:09+00:00

Now that I think about it one of my LOL moments from the women on here is whenever it gets ass in some level "would you date a red pill guy?" And the answers are overwhelmingly no, because "I don't want to date a sexist guy", "I don't date guys that hate women" , "it's toxic", etc.,

But whenever myself or another guy says not today feminists or how modern feminism is you can always count on the "that's not real feminism" brigade to show up 🤣🤣🤣

I saw the new Doctor Strange last night, liked it didn't love it I just might be over the whole Marvel thing right now idk

Anyways happy Mother's Day to all the mothers out there about to put the finishing touches on the brunch I'm making I don't know if I should put pot in the brownies or not🤔

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-08T15:32:14+00:00

One time a few years ago I’m pretty sure this cashier was flirting with me but I couldn’t hear what she was saying at all so I kept saying what and then she was like forget about it. IDK why but I just randomly thought about this and it’s making me cringe lol

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-08T15:59:27+00:00

How is 'Cracker Barrel' not racist?

AquaChip · 2022-05-08T16:04:55+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms on PPD! :)

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-08T17:44:31+00:00

https://youtu.be/-N0yXGVWS1Y Say it with me everyone

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T17:57:56+00:00

These threads always are a shit show and then end up with “be ok being alone as the top comment.” It’s funny because the title specifically says not to say that lol 😂

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-08T18:58:00+00:00

I hear it's different in the UK, but for those in the US:

Happy Mother's Day for the mothers and the people that have mothers.

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-08T19:02:06+00:00

IDGF if abortions are legal or not, I just think they should be called killing babies, or killing fetuses.

Don't give me any of that crap about a clump of human cells, all of us are clumps of human cells.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T19:10:45+00:00

How useful do you think self defense classes are for women? Seems like opinions differ on this. I’ve heard some people give differing opinions on this. I’ve seen some say that with a couple of years of training a women could beat about 80 percent of men in a fight. I think that is an awfully high number.

Unfortunately strength does play a big part in fights and technique can’t always overcome it. I will never be able to beat Dwayne Johnson in a fight no matter how much training I do.

cuckedalt · 2022-05-08T19:43:15+00:00

With Roe likely to fall, Senate Republicans weigh nationwide abortion restrictions

Mitch McConnell Acknowledges a National Abortion Ban Is “Possible” if Roe Is Overturned The top Senate Republican explained that a federal abortion ban is on the table in his most explicit comments to date about what the SCOTUS draft leak could mean going forward.

Aviadcool111 · 2022-05-08T21:01:37+00:00

Obviously there is selection bias due to the location but this is pretty funny to me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioFbTGSZnH4

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SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-08T11:01:59+00:00

OMG I am first?!!?!

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-05-08T11:11:19+00:00

Turning 21 soon. Road to greatness👏🏽

dbz19 · 2022-05-08T12:49:35+00:00

i finally gave in and ordered a dildo yesterday. I told my partner and the first thing he asked was "what size" lmao

ObviouslyAnAltAct · 2022-05-08T13:15:35+00:00

Is anyone else playing The Stanley Parable Ultra Deluxe? What a trip, lol!

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-08T15:32:40+00:00

Day 25 of music sharing. Bodo Wartke - Ja, Schatz! A comedy one. Translation of lyrics for better understanding.

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-08T19:27:58+00:00

There, expensive housing issues solved.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-08T19:43:50+00:00

Q4M: Would you date a woman who you knew followed FDS?

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-08T21:15:52+00:00

What's the stupidest pill alignment you have heard of? For me it has to be the green pill

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-05-09T09:49:22+00:00

Inflammatory opinion: dating women with a high n-count is awesome. They can tell you exactly what they like plus they can teach various tips & tricks that you have probably never even heard of. And they have interesting stories to tell to boot.

The only reason to bash on high n-count women is if you're insecure about measuring up to her previous partners.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-09T09:19:31+00:00

A big diff between TRP and most other sources of dating advice for men is that those other sources will tell you you succeeded once you get that one perfect 10 iyo who wants to be with you forever and have your babies.

TRP says no, you are not done with your journey until you know in your bones, you can find 5 girls like her (on paper) who will do the same, in a short period.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-09T09:15:25+00:00

I honestly cannot believe that BW thread is still up

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-09T08:44:59+00:00

Women who say most men don't care about n count.

Do this little social experiment: tell every guy you're interested in (or your spouse) that your count is over 400 and see how it works out for you.

It's perfect because it will "weed out guys who care about n count" just like you say

Edit: of course nobody is gonna do it. Nobody has that much conviction in their belief about n count.

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-09T07:52:03+00:00

It sucks. I went from no women to 2 lovely women and now I must let go of one. Life sucks :(

hornyjailer1 · 2022-05-09T07:43:25+00:00

Dude really asking for advice from this sub 🤣. This sub is for shitposting not listening to neurotics giving shit advice.

2022-05-09T07:41:01+00:00

now I gotta listen to a nine hr+ playlist I made a year ago to find that one song that I've been wanting to listen to. yayyy

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-09T07:25:08+00:00

Wtf if life begins after fertilization then birth control pills are murder? IVF is illegal?

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-09T07:16:57+00:00

Anyone who says "don't like the laws, move elsewhere" sounds awfully like "out of bread? Let them eat cake".

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-09T06:02:10+00:00

Never forget rule 1 of dating

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IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-05-09T05:30:47+00:00

What is with the STEM martyr complex that some people on here have?

I've encountered two guys this past week who essentially said, "No one likes STEM, but men have to make the noble sacrifice of majoring/having careers in it because it pays well and men have to make a lot of money in order to have any value in this cucked society. Women don't have to do this because they can just beta buxx, so they're free to major in bullshit like poetry."

Dude, some people like STEM. Some people have an interest in STEM fields from the time they are small children, long before they have any concept of having to make a lot of money. And if men only major in STEM for the money, and women don't have to do this and are apparently getting college degrees for shits and giggles, why are 37% of STEM undergraduates female?

If you willingly choose to go into a field you absolutely despise for $$$, rather than choosing a field that you hate less, that's on you. No one needs to be a mechanical engineer in order to have shelter and food security, and no one held a gun to your head and forced you to become a mechanical engineer. "I willingly chose to suffer, therefore I resent people who don't choose to suffer" is a stupid take, and it's the same as boomers who hate that people are going to therapy now because "back in my day we just drank heavily and purchased things we didn't need in order to fill the void!"

dbz19 · 2022-05-09T05:01:08+00:00

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-08T13:35:30+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day to the woman who gave up drinking for nine months, just to have me cause one of the most painful experiences of her life, and then afterwards be psychology tortured for the next couple of weeks when I refused to let her sleep by screaming and crying every time she tried to rest.
Apparently I wasn’t too bad, cause she did it again for my sister.
Mom’s love is at another level.

lulll · 2022-05-08T15:00:51+00:00

we have mothers day but why dont we have lets make you a mother day that day would be so much better

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-08T14:28:25+00:00

For some reason I feel like this is how u/GridRexx is like IRL 😂

scwizard · 2022-05-08T17:29:15+00:00

I'm in Australia. Opened the discussion with a guy I was casually dating. He did not agree on the bodily autonomy for women. We are now past tense cause I finished it after I got the cut of his jib. smh.

Oh no you left this guy you were "casually dating" I'm sure he's devastated.

Habil13 · 2022-05-09T04:53:58+00:00

Here's my take on "hypergamy" and the "black pill":

When dating online, it is impossible to tell what someone's personality is like (just like it's impossible to detect certain types of sarcasm through text) so the rational strategy is to just try to match up with the most attractive people possible and then vet them for a compatible personality, assuming that both good and bad personalities occur with similar incidence among attractive people and unattractive people.

In real life, you can get a feel for what someone's personality is like by just talking to them prior to dating so you can assess the whole "package" for comptability instead of focusing on attractiveness alone.

In a nutshell: picking people based on anything but looks while dating online is pointless because people lie. In real life you can pick people based on other attributes so looks become just one of the many things that are being assessed instead of being the ONLY thing.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-05-09T04:29:57+00:00

With all drama about abortion in the US, I decided to look up abortion laws in my country.

To my surprise, abortion was illegal at all stages, until 2021 when the constitution court ruled that the laws were unconstitutional. Now it’s legal up to 12 weeks.

The ruling was so surprising because all 9 judges of the court were extremely conservative and traditionalist. They were appointed by the military junta that wrote the abortion laws.

For a Buddhist country, I am also surprised that abortion is not a big contentious issue here. I guess we have a more pressing concern, like wanting to jail a celebrity monk for having consensual sex with a woman.

DaphneDK42 · 2022-05-09T03:33:32+00:00

Millennial men want 1950s housewives after they have kids

Wanting a 1950s housewife is great. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Expecting your career women to suddenly transmorph into a 1950s housewife, after she pops out a baby is silly. If you want a 1950s housewife, marry a 1950s housewife. Don't try to change a blue-haired feminist or highflying career woman into one.

Is my relationship advice for the day.

simply_fab · 2022-05-09T02:46:52+00:00

Question for guys: what’s your tinder bio say?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-05-09T02:29:26+00:00

I’m making air fried breaded pork chops and veggie kebabs with garlic bread. I am an awesome wife.

houstongradengineer · 2022-05-09T02:21:27+00:00

My new favorite thing

MisterJose · 2022-05-09T02:04:42+00:00

To this day, I'm still thrown when I'm put to some kind of either/or test from women. "It's so nice to meet a guy who is interesting in talking and getting to know me. Must guys are just trying to fuck me." Um...I want to fuck you too. But I want to fuck you in part because we got along and spent time talking. That seems so obvious to me it's hard to understand why it needs explaining.

This is eternal for me. Female friends I had, girls I knew in college, or met at parties, or online, etc. Even someplace like a strip club, there are hot girls you go over to and it's awkward AF, and other girls you wouldn't pick out of the crowd, but the chemistry is just more there. I had a great time with a girl at a club once who was probably the least attractive girl there visually, but she chatted me up at the bar and she was the winner with me by a mile. So yes, of course these things matter. And I would have thought it was good that they mattered, but it still somehow so often made me the bad guy.

Before I had the confidence to defend myself, I took so much shit for so long about this, and now it all just seems so absurd.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-09T01:42:43+00:00

This is random af but the neighbors next to my friends hunting cabin are seriously going to get themselves fucked up or killed one day if they keep thinking it’s cute to feed black bears. They just refuse to listen to other locals who tell them how dangerous that actually is.

I don’t want them to have to learn that lesson the hard way.

yeoldname · 2022-05-09T01:38:52+00:00

How does black pill reconcile with stuff like this? Born with genetic disfigurement but perfectly normal wife?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-09T01:35:53+00:00

Q4W: what gives off "fuckboy vibes"?

houstongradengineer · 2022-05-09T01:30:15+00:00

"A demand for domestic infants" was cited in the leaked Roe draft against abortion rights. That's exactly the type of reason I want a MOTHER to make this INDIVIDUAL decision instead of a bunch of old, thoughtless shills making a sweeping, universal decision. No matter what the worst reason a mother gives for abortion or childbirth, it's a better fu king reason than "a demand for domestic infants" to be molded into the image of some self-centered adults.

simply_fab · 2022-05-09T01:28:00+00:00

No matter what people tell me, a poly relationship doesn’t work and is gross. Trying to have one relationship with a person is hard enough, now that you’ve added another person it’s your relationship with person A, your relationship with person B, and the relationship between A and B you need to worry about.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-09T01:13:03+00:00

Anyone ever have success with using that so called military technique to fall asleep in two minutes? I don’t really need it, I already fall asleep very fast, but I wouldn’t mind trying to learn it.

sarkington · 2022-05-09T01:06:43+00:00

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DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-09T00:52:33+00:00

You gotta love how people go "You'll grow out of wanting meaningless sex eventually!!! You'll want a deeper connection and commitment!!!"

Will I??? I've had it before, and as great as it was, you don't get it any better as a man than having casual sex. You know you're high value when you've got multiple women who wanna fuck you.

As long as I can keep getting it, I'm going to keep doing it.

"You'll mature one day"

Wanting commitment and a family doesn't mean you've matured Janet. You can be mature and still have casual sex. I'm not going to lower myself by getting into a relationship.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-09T00:43:52+00:00

"Guys never ask about n count"

Right

So these countless threads about women getting dumped over their n counts just never happened.

These are just dumpings not even counting rejection before relationship

Blame_the_Muse · 2022-05-09T00:39:06+00:00

Scientist: Babies Might Cry At Night to Prevent Siblings

meteorness123 · 2022-05-08T23:58:21+00:00

Johny depp is a good example of what happens if you let your dick guide you. marry a woman half your age because she's a hot piece of ass, right ?

Slootando · 2022-05-08T23:37:56+00:00

Whenever a Reddit thread pops up about paternity fraud (for example), whether real or not, there's always those mask-off screeching that the cucked "father" would be the asshole if he left the kids and the mother.

"Don't punish the children," they say. While the only person at fault is the mother, which they ignore.

Continue perpetrating the fraud committed upon you while exculpating the fraudster (the mother), or you're the asshole.

The PPD user talking about "cuck culture" was right on this front, and always has been.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-05-08T22:55:12+00:00

I've said this before but my time perception is truly scaring me. I always heard time feels like it moves faster as you get older, but I am only 20 and a whole week only feels like a day at this point lol. My birthday is in about two months and I feel like my last one was only a few weeks ago.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-05-08T22:53:47+00:00

Q4W: do y’all have an equivalent of butterface for men, or is it all predicated on height?

What I mean is a guy like Adam Driver or Pete Davidson wouldn’t be considered attractive if they were 5’7 but this post this post is talking about how a woman with a nice body but unattractive face can still be considered attractive.

Is it the same for women or is height the only thing that can compensate for an ugly face?

DivineDaedra · 2022-05-08T22:20:38+00:00

Can’t believe my dog didn’t give me anything for Mother’s Day… where did I go wrong 😭

sarkington · 2022-05-08T22:06:05+00:00

I've never seen families based on polygyny work. It's really just a childish fantasy that those guys should snap out of.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-08T21:54:22+00:00

I’m grocery shopping, and there was this girl in front of me with her back turned and she was hot. I walk passed her and turn around…butterfaced as fuck and I still think she’s attractive just cause of her body.

If you’re woman and you’re not in the gym getting a banging body, something wrong with you

Take advantage

sarkington · 2022-05-08T21:34:52+00:00

who the fuck brings a baby to an orchestra

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-08T21:26:08+00:00

I didn’t know I had so many female admirers on this sub. Almost every time I get into a debate or argument with a woman here they bring up something I said months or weeks ago. I’m flattered. You don’t have to play this game of pretending to hate me to get my attention ladies 😘

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-08T11:05:34+00:00

Person A: Why are you obsessed with this topic?

Me: Because adults talking to kids about sex/sexuality (when they're not your kids and you don't have parental permission to talk to them about this) is really weird and really gross. Something a groomer would do.

Person B: Because she's an ethnicity that shall not be named on PPD that is well known to put the Taliban to shame for its intolerance and policing of heteronormativity.

Imagine thinking you're tolerant when you make awful racist statements and awful LGBT stereotypes like that.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-08T19:00:32+00:00

Weight about 173 as of right now at 5’6 but unsure whether to cut or continue bulking 🤔 Cant tell if my arms are fatceps or not https://imgur.com/a/kp72Oie

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