“why do I only attract” or rather “why am I attracted to” so called emotionally unavailable men is the type of obnoxiously oblivious theraphy speak women will use for what is essentially just them ending up as a side piece on some guys rooster. No, the guy you had great sex with but never asked you questions back wasn’t “emotionality unavailable” he was just there to fuck and you were to busy thinking with your lower head to grasp or refused to see it. You probably would have a greater chance finding a emotionally available guy in your friendzone, but thats not what gets you going.