Daily Community Chat Megathread

supa_man36 · 2021-12-12T16:07:18+00:00

I honestly don’t want to believe the red or black pill. I honestly don’t but every single interaction with women just further reinforces the things I’ve heard. I don’t believe 100% in these concepts but they seem to get a lot of things right. I approach a lot of women and meet women through friends and although there are exceptions a lot of women (significant portion) seem to be like this. It doesn’t help that women who don’t seem to fall into the AWALT category cover and lie for their friends. Anyways I’ve learnt not to expect too much from people (even basic decency).

Slipthe · 2021-12-12T19:23:29+00:00

Slightly nerdy looking guy approaches a woman: ew, what a fucking creep!

Criminal with sleeve and neck tattoos on anabolic steroids approaches a woman: OMGGG HES SO HOT. I can’t wait to have unprotected sex with him!

Why are western women like this?

MLEMisafunnyword · 2021-12-12T20:02:56+00:00

Update on 30 year old man going on date with 37 year old woman:

Date was one of the better ones of my life. Took her to the fanciest place in town, mainly just to see if she would offer to split it, and if she didn't, I would walk away. Turns out when she excused herself to the restroom she took care of the bill for us. This has never happened to me and I was/still am genuinely shocked.

We got drinks afterwards (which I paid for). Talked/made out for like three hours before I walked her to her car. We fucked in her car (even though I generally dont sleep with people on first dates). Then we talked some more, and when she was ready to drive (at this point, around 3AM) she drove me home even though I offered to get us both an uber.

Is this what women feel like after dates? 'Cause I felt like a pretty pretty princess all night. Bitch pampered me. We're doing a picnic date this weekend :)

E-2-butene · 2021-12-13T16:57:40+00:00

New daily thread or riot.

I need to say first.

dbz19 · 2021-12-13T16:51:51+00:00

Todays pro tip. Not every problem/issue in the world, or your life has an actionable solution. Sometimes you just gotta deal with the symptoms.

ItIsLikeMyOpinionMan · 2021-12-13T16:42:25+00:00

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Bandit174 · 2021-12-12T16:02:31+00:00

first?

thetruthishere_ · 2021-12-12T16:35:52+00:00

What are you up to today?

Im prepping for a shop local sale. Soon as my vinyl shows to cut my letters for my sign I go live.

dbz19 · 2021-12-12T17:05:49+00:00

Change My hecking Viewerino: There is nothing wrong with hypergamy. It's totally normal, natural, fine, expected, and you should not judge a woman for dating up, especially in terms of things like money and status. It's expected. It's totally fine for a woman to "date up" in terms of money, status, looks, etc. etc. But the reverse is also true. It's normal, natural, and fine for men to "date down" in terms of age and N count. If women can choose to only pursue men with higher income and status than her, men can choose to only pursue women who are younger and with a lower N count.

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-12-12T20:32:04+00:00

Dating has always been hard. You’re dealing with the human race- which has a lot of messed up people. The problems are all the same but the mediums in which we see the problems are different.

Back in the day, you’re lover just stopped writing to you (ghosting)

Now we just ignore text messages. I don’t think the problems in dating have changed- I do think (and the data shows) that people are more depressed/ mental health problems have risen. This will affect your dating life if you’re bringing baggage to relationships. You may be self-sabotaging… I never see THIS called out in this sub. All people do is blame the other gender….

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-12T22:42:57+00:00

Always a crazy HOA standing between me and the perfect rental property.

ThisBoringLife · 2021-12-13T16:21:30+00:00

I met with a longtime friend over the weekend, caught up with him.

He has a wife, and a kid. So, in some ways, he's in the position I wish to be in.

Yet, he's mentioned to me the issues he's had over the past few months with his wife. That, if it wasn't for his genuine love for her, would make it easy to leave with his son.

It's just some perspective to help me appreciate that the other side ain't sunshine and rainbows.

ItIsLikeMyOpinionMan · 2021-12-13T15:59:40+00:00

I have a stat for you guys: 100% of women are mind-raped without their consent. Good luck disproving that one

ItIsLikeMyOpinionMan · 2021-12-12T17:25:06+00:00

If you had to leave a note in someone's house where ONLY the men/women would find where would you put it?

For men I'd put it underneath the toilet seat, for women I'm not sure.

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-12T17:27:10+00:00

Tory Lanez made an 80s album and its fire. If this is what you oldheads were listening to then you guys are alright.

nemporisso · 2021-12-12T18:46:20+00:00

Has anyone seen surprisingly redpilled netflix original I Love You Stupid? They said some things!

yoooooooooooodaddy · 2021-12-12T21:41:22+00:00

what goes around, comes around right?

feminists have had the spotlight for a while now. and they’ve been using it like fucking children to trash talk the opposite gender and let it be known that all men ain’t shit and woman are wonderful

wtf do you think is gonna happen in 10-20 years when this current young generation grows up, after hearing this shit at school, on the TV, and everywhere they go?

men are already slowly starting to checking out of relationships with devastating effects

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/

this shits just gonna keep going in the dumpster

show men that weed, video games, and porn is better than reality, and 99% of them will check out and just choose that option

AtaCome7821 · 2021-12-13T15:31:04+00:00

Ok I'm gonna say it, this argument,

Abusers rarely show any sings of it, it’s actually quite the contrary, they tend to be very charming.

Is retarded. The only reason you wouldn't be able to vet out abusive men would be cause you don't treat all men the same.

The only way I find out who to trust and who not to trust is by giving common courtesy, sure I lose a few 100 bucks here and there but I know who I can trust and who not to because of it, I'm not going to treat a hot girl any differently than a fat girl, I'll start treating them differently once it becomes necessary, believe it or not people with principles exist, and if you keep getting together with men who beat you, you ain't one., I'm sorry.

-passepar2t- · 2021-12-13T13:10:21+00:00

It's weird. Guys talk about how opening up to women leads to disgust and I believe them 100%. But in the last few years, I've gotten to the point where I don't care if a woman feels disgust. So even if I share my weakness, my genuine lack of concern seems to give the whole thing a layer of detached stoicism that counteracts her disgust.

The other day, I was hanging out with a woman I'm seeing. I've been having some personal and professional difficulties lately (nothing insurmountable). Talking about that turned into us discussing periods in our lives where we had to deal with extreme fear and regret. I told her what my greatest fears were and how I dealt with them at the time. And it was fine. Maybe she's just a unicorn but I seriously doubt it.

-passepar2t- · 2021-12-13T12:45:01+00:00

Why do some red pillers care if blue pillers hate them? So what?

John_Oakman · 2021-12-12T16:36:02+00:00

By the next generation, which of the 2 would be considered by society (either in whole or whatever specific communities you the answerer happens to be part of) will be seen as more pathetic?

A 'professional' Onlyfans star
a life long loyal employee (still stuck in low level position) of a large international corporation.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-12T16:36:03+00:00

Just got asked if I'm a virgin for the 5th time this month.

When will the pain end?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-13T12:20:08+00:00

Also Someone said in my talking thread that success with women is more about eliminating your deficiencies rather than gaining new skills. Do you guys agree?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-13T12:15:46+00:00

I think me and my GF were like the only people under 40 in the theater for west side story lol. It was like 95% women and I would say the average age of those women was probably 55.

NarniaFox · 2021-12-13T11:04:59+00:00

Had an appointment today at doctor's office. When I was entering the cabinet, the nurse glanced at me and said "A kid? You mother should go in with you". I haven't had enough time to answer when the doctor asked where my mother was.

I'm 25 for fuck's sake.

lulll · 2021-12-13T10:49:16+00:00

this reddit recap is creepy as shit who the fuck thought this was a good idea? literally “we are watching you teehee :)”

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-13T09:29:09+00:00

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Slipthe · 2021-12-12T16:45:45+00:00

Hit me with an example of a female privilege.

Creation_Soul · 2021-12-13T07:39:10+00:00

those people that actually think that realistic sex robots are actually going to happen anytime soon are delusional. I expect anything remotely realistic taking at least 30+ years to hit the market.

IMHO the first thing i would guess would hit the market is some kind of robot pet (think of something dog/cat sized). and only after 10-20 years after that you might see actual humanoid robots.

of course this is just my speculation and I am willing to see the world prove me wrong.

catsinbananahats · 2021-12-13T07:32:22+00:00

The problem with incels is that they expect women to be like college admissions when they are really like grad school admissions.

College admissions accepts bribes (or has in the past) and selects based on diversity. You can get into a college with the bare minimum GPA.

Grad schools on the other hand look at the whole of the person but they don't accept the minimum GPAs and scores.

I'm drunk on sleep deprivation so this may all seem confusing, but long story short men think women will ever accept the bare minimum or accept them just for being men. But we don't.

janedoesouthpark · 2021-12-13T07:20:08+00:00

After having a meltdown in my Algebra 2 class that I’ve taken for the second time, I’m finally starting the process of withdrawing from high school. I need that class to graduate and I can’t pass it. I took the other required math classes at least two times before passing with a C-. I knew I wasn’t graduating on time, so now I’m just going to leave.

I feel so stupid compared to my peers. I’ve always been a slow learner and some things I just cannot comprehend. I wish I was intelligent and pretty, my life would be so much easier.

WilliamWyattD · 2021-12-13T05:04:35+00:00

When female celebrities date much younger guys, do you think it is usually more about her wanting the hottest guy she can get (stereotypical male-type sexuality), or is it about her wanting to pretend she is younger than she is (stereotypical female sexuality).

autistictheory · 2021-12-13T05:01:49+00:00

even though its a little bit tougher to get laid as a guy...

every day I wake up with gratitude knowing i'll never be a single mom.

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-13T05:00:52+00:00

Really interesting stat I came upon. Women at the end of the 2021 academic year make up nearly 60% of college students. I’m glad men are starting to wise up that if you aren’t going into STEM, then a college degree is as good as toilet paper. I suppose it’s just the cost-benefit analysis mindset most men have. The debt is not worth the piss poor career.

Glarkin42 · 2021-12-13T03:54:59+00:00

Why do women hate they idea of wearing a buttplug fox tail and ears? I don't get it. I'm literally willing to lick your crotch, where some other guy probably ejaculated before but you're incapable of putting a 3 inch plug up your butt and putting on some ears?

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-13T03:35:10+00:00

As a man I see no reason to not always be wearing a fitted polo shirt thats tucked in everywhere I go. It immediately makes you way more attractive.

creekcrystall · 2021-12-13T03:19:21+00:00

. lol why do people think white people care about our declining birth rates

the only ones who care is racist white guys whose entire identity is being white

ItIsLikeMyOpinionMan · 2021-12-12T23:07:34+00:00

CMV: CMV posts never have their opinion changed because they already decided and just wanna see what peoples' rebuttals are

dbz19 · 2021-12-12T17:20:28+00:00

Double dipping:

CMV: "Creep-shaming" is the "slut-shaming" but for men. When men get triggered at a woman exploiting the sexual market to her advantage they slut shame her, when women get triggered at men exploiting the sexual market to his advantage, they creep-shame him. When a woman decides to "discover herself" during college and has orgies with everyone in the dorm with her door open and moonlights as a sex worker and opens an onlyfans, she gets slut-shamed by men and labelled as a "slut". When a 65 year old retiree moves to a south east asian country and marries a 16 year old local where it's legal, he gets creep-shamed by women and labelled as "creepy".

SpicyRamenAddict · 2021-12-12T19:23:35+00:00

for my pc gamer bros here. I managed to snag a 3080 for msrp. feeling good right now

QuenchlessGato · 2021-12-12T21:24:46+00:00

How long until Assange gets suicided by CIA?

madsskayyy · 2021-12-12T21:26:08+00:00

My guy had to leave our vacation early for work and I stayed because I don’t waste free trips. I was at the hotel restaurant when an older guy (mid to late 40s) approached me and talked to me a bit. I thought he was hitting on me so I was a little rude and showed him my engagement ring and said “I am not single” and this man literally laughed and showed me his ring too and said neither was he💀 most embarrassing moment of my life to date

Apparently he only came to me because I was sitting alone and his wife & friends asked him to invite me to their table. The entire afternoon these men didn’t make a single inappropriate comment or pass at me, told me I reminded them of their daughters and talked about their careers.

I am going wine tasting with them tomorrow and just shocked how skeptical of men I’ve become…It’s so rare to see men that could actually be my father age wise acting that way instead of being creeps. Cheers to nice strangers🥂

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-12-13T02:28:33+00:00

Women will brag about how they “read books” in an effort to appear intelligent. Just like the fake up they wear, the push up bras etc it’s another mirage. Take a closer look at the reading material, it’s always the same: fictional novels, self help books, Michelle Obama’s autobiography and true crime. 1 in 1000 women will have read something of actual substance, like a history book (not on some feminist topic either)

creekcrystall · 2021-12-13T02:28:10+00:00

On apps where you get to put what you’re looking for on your profile (Relationship, something casual, don’t know, etc) the vast majority of male profiles is something casual. The vast majority of female profiles is a relationship. The reason why the average man can’t find women on these apps is because we’re looking for two different things

Slipthe · 2021-12-13T01:57:32+00:00

What is the origin of your reddit username?

TheJim66 · 2021-12-13T01:26:51+00:00

I just love that you guys need a definition about what "nice guy" means. A 5yo doesn't need one but apparently your hamster does. Kudos.

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-13T01:26:10+00:00

A podcast I listen to for music industry takes recently had a former thot, born again Christian woman who runs a bible podcast on to talk about dating/relationships lol. She’s 3-4 years celibate and claimed she never really liked casual sex (but partook in it multiple times) and now is strictly dating for marriage. Anyways, she asks God to help her look past finding wealth and height attractive (I shit you not lmao she said this) and ends up on somewhat of a blind date with a fan (he didn’t have many pictures of himself on IG). It turns out he was 5’4 and even though she said she had a good time she couldn’t continue when he had to tip toe to kiss her on the cheek at the end of the date lol. I felt bad for the dude only because he was a fan of her podcast so I’m sure he was listening and she knew he would be listening to saying “Omg I’m so sorry if you’re listening you’re a great guy!”.

Not even the power of god can help a manlet.

Habil13 · 2021-12-13T01:15:37+00:00

Can anyone help me, how do I give myself a flare

Bandit174 · 2021-12-13T01:00:20+00:00

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brojuststfu · 2021-12-13T00:54:56+00:00

In the spring, I thought a girl I’d seen and spoken to a few times at a store seemed interested, so I said what’s up. She said she’d give me her number if she didn’t have a boyfriend already. It was whatever, such is life.

Today, I saw her again at her place of work. I hadn’t seen her since then (at least 7-8 months ago). I could tell she recognized me so I flashed a smile and the charm a little bit but didn’t say anything. I didn’t plan on talking to her, so I just said have a nice day on my way out. But she stopped me, asked if she remembered my name right (she did), and made a comment about seeing me without a mask and my new haircut.

It was kinda nice! I think she was feeling the kid. I could be wrong, but I’m going to read it that way.

autistictheory · 2021-12-13T00:44:10+00:00

this sub with less than 100k people on it gets a similar volume of comments as subs with over a million. thats nuts.

this place is like the watering holes in africa for all the critters from across the savanah and prarie to meet except instead of animals its fucked up traumatized autists

i love it here

Orange_Paisley · 2021-12-12T16:25:27+00:00

Anne Rice died. All my Goth friends are in mourning, but how can you tell?

Prestigious698 · 2021-12-13T00:13:53+00:00

Week 2 of my OLD chronicles: I set my age parameters between 23-40. I'm faring well with mid to late twenties but doing horrible with the older men. Some (most) seem uncomfortable dating someone my age, and I even came across one 31 year old man who said he would be too nervous to be seen in public with me since I'm so young.

Anyway, what do you think ppd?

Zavier221 · 2021-12-13T00:03:54+00:00

Q4A

If you could be with your dream partner but no sex would you do it.

I mean no sexual intimacy at all

Edit: through magic you can still have biological children with that partner

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SmurfESmurferson · 2021-12-12T16:02:34+00:00

Edit: Second 💪

LackOf_Empathy · 2021-12-12T16:41:57+00:00

My fellow men, would you eat the box the first time having sex with a woman?

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-12-12T22:01:19+00:00

What does golddigging mean? I thought it meant one reason why someone is with you is because of your money. Nothing is dealt in absolutes imo where they are ONLY with you because of your money

E-2-butene · 2021-12-12T22:58:34+00:00

Don’t "men are leaders" automatically suggest women are 'the second gender' ??

angels-fan · 2021-12-12T23:40:48+00:00

Saw this on a tiktok:

3 doctors claim that Mike is their brother, however Mike claims he doesn't have any brothers. How is this possible?

I have to admit, it got me for a couple of minutes.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-12-12T17:30:00+00:00

My gay cousin brought his girlfriends over while I was chilling saying "I brought some girls over for you, so you can get out of the house for once", he's a great wingman... wingwoman?! and It was fun conversations and joking around but I wouldn't touch any of those girls with a 5 foot pole.

I admit I have to get out more but I ain't sleeping with insert derogatory term for promiscuous women.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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