Daily Community Chat Megathread

Habil13 · 2022-02-27T22:34:45+00:00

Fun story: I went into the gym with my training partner and we were working out having a good time. I then tell him that I’ve made a new instagram page and he goes over to follow it. He sees a girl who is currently following my page, and he asks where I know her from. I tell him that she is my good friends girlfriend, and he breaks out laughing. He looks me dead in the eye, and tells me that she is the biggest hoe he knows.

The only thing flashing through my mind was this subreddit. AF/BB, N-count, Cock carousel. Obviously I don’t give a shit, but yea…

The girl is also incredibly nice, which reenforces my hypothesis that high n-count girls are nicer on average.

dbz19 · 2022-02-28T02:58:00+00:00

I respect women with high N counts. I feel a woman who has performed the act of love with other men is better suited for me because I like the fact that other men have had sex with my wife

hdksndiisn · 2022-02-28T03:58:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t30ii1/when_to_give_up/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Perfect post for PPD. How hot must this guy be for her to even be asking if she should stick around. “My boyfriend lied about being on dating apps and has two STIs should I stay with him?” Wtf!!?

1Here4Bach · 2022-02-27T19:56:51+00:00

A lot of people’s gripes on here could be summed up with “who gives a shit?“ Like no one cares how much you think hypergamy has fucked up the dating scene. For once in your life, Take responsibility for the people you decide to have relationships with and the situations you put yourself in.

Learn how to pick out bad women and avoid them. No one cares that you keep falling for women who cheat with men who make more than you. You keep going after those women with obvious red flags. If you get fooled more than once by these types of women then it’s your fault.

whyte_lotus · 2022-02-28T18:57:53+00:00

Sometimes I get the feeling people want a WW3, like they’re egging it on.

huhwhatokok · 2022-02-28T18:04:34+00:00

Men get Stacy-widowed via relationship with a girl they believe to be their “max potential”. I have a friend who is still obsessed over his ex of 7 years even though she left him to thot out. One of the reasons is because he’s certain she’s the best looks wise he’s had the chance of dating. He’ll literally take her back in a heart beat lol it’s so sad.

lulll · 2022-02-28T00:47:41+00:00

ya know what i hate jerry seinfeld and his lame ass show, his comedy sucks, hes a boomer version of adam sandler. larry david was the only funny person ever involved with that show

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-28T03:43:07+00:00

The m word for short guys should be considered a slur

John_Oakman · 2022-02-27T18:16:06+00:00

If it's unacceptable to bring up a person's past relationships then it's also unacceptable to use a redditor's posting history as a weapon.

TooHornyToFap · 2022-02-27T19:02:10+00:00

I tried trimming my beard and now I look like I'm 12 :(

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-27T21:20:59+00:00

The one thing that I seem to not fall in line with The Red Pill is, is my preference in women, TRP seems to much prefer fit/thin women while I've always found myself into curvier/chubby women, don't know why but I've always dated those types of girls and they're great.

Don't judge me they're the best cuddlers 🤣

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-02-27T22:47:00+00:00

Is what the tinder swindler did technically legal other than if he used fake IDs or something? Like if he used his real ID on planes and stuff but just didn't show the girls or whatever

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-28T00:37:36+00:00

I’ve returned from my exile 😎 Hope you all didn’t miss me too much

poppy_blu · 2022-02-28T01:19:31+00:00

Ok last one.

Why do so many men on this sub forget that people have relationships and they actually have sex in those relationships?

Why do you assume that “sex” means casual sex?

Why do you assume that when I say “have lots of healthy responsible safe fun sex” you assume I mean not in a relationship?

Like do you legit think people don’t have sex in relationships? I have come across SO many comments in the last year or so like this. I don’t get it.

Suckthepeen123 · 2022-02-28T01:26:41+00:00

I’m unbanned again. Let’s go😎 time to wreak more havoc. Although I think next time it’s going to be permanently :( best watch my mouth eh?

Murphysmongoose · 2022-02-27T18:07:37+00:00

Well I might have met and, "nexted" a real life FDS girl this week. I can't do both a somewhat long distance relationship, and bad communication.

I did offer to take her to the nicest looking restaurant google showed me in her area... Then she no reply/ghosted for a day and a half just to reply with, "So what are we doing tomorrow night?"

No, that's not going to cut it girl. You want a meal ticket, give me some feedback and conversation. Or go find your thirsty enough guy to put up with that.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-02-27T18:29:09+00:00

Hungover brunch is the move rn

figuringMylife · 2022-02-27T18:37:06+00:00

Wingman

https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/t2bth9/saw_a_duck_threesome_today

Habil13 · 2022-02-27T18:56:45+00:00

In this sub some people mistake being part of the manosphere as being redpilled

2022-02-27T19:08:00+00:00

Alcohol is a the unbeatable aphrodisiac

I have one sip and it’s over

Habil13 · 2022-02-27T22:26:34+00:00

Making a private instagram account is the best thing I’ve done this month. It’s very fun to post your life

bsmith440 · 2022-02-27T22:32:10+00:00

I was considering leaving this sub because it was just straw man arguments on both sides. When a good comment was made legitimately countering OPs argument they would double down or bring up unrelated points. But after reading through this thread it gives me hope, I think this will save the sub, its very entertaining.

dysonRing · 2022-02-28T04:33:42+00:00

Netizens of PPD help settle a hypothetical debate, because I don't think I am getting through, lets see if you stand a chance at dating Stacies.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t1kq4x/q4m_should_men_be_judged_on_their_history_too/hyqh23s/?context=3

simeneta_two · 2022-02-28T18:01:48+00:00

My husband and I still haven't figured out where we want to live permanently (I want to move to the woods/suburbs, he wants to stay in the city). I jokingly told him the other day I'll live in my suburban McMansion and he can have a condo in the city and visit on the weekends. But now I'm legitimately starting to warm up to the idea.

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LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-02-27T18:14:00+00:00

Why is Narnia’s account deleted/banned but not gimp’s? Is Narnia’s account in trouble over the Russia-Ukraine conflict or something entirely different?

lulll · 2022-02-27T20:32:52+00:00

a true chad

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-02-27T20:45:27+00:00

Anyone willing to rate my face in a dm? :)

Orange_Paisley · 2022-02-27T21:05:26+00:00

I’ve been lying to myself about not having a type. All these men at the golf course in my preferred age range and the one that catches my eye is the long haired, bearded, tattooed one in dressed in black.

dysonRing · 2022-02-27T21:06:59+00:00

I cannot believe I finally agree with FDS

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/t2wpbx/mums_unite_to_make_porn_they_are_happy_for_kids/

Feminists... what the fuck?

Kaisha001 · 2022-02-27T23:01:56+00:00

I'd like to get some insight from PPD on this situation that happened between my neighbor and I a few months ago

If a drunk person aggressively initiates sex with a sober person, and the sober person freezes and things continue to escalate, who is at fault here? Did one rape the other, did they both rape each other, was there no rape, etc?

OfCatandPagan · 2022-02-28T00:31:37+00:00

There’s an episode of Law & Order: SVU where Rose McGowan and Ryan Hurst are a couple. This was hot, and pretty sure I have a new kink now, until the last three minutes of the episode.

Suddenly less hot and I heard the Rains of Castamere playing.

MisterFlipside · 2022-02-28T17:01:47+00:00

Another Q4W (nobody answered my last one legitimately, Im allowed dammit)

How accurate is the concept of alpha widowing? Women are always seeking the best of a man, so when the one in the LTR doesnt stack up wouldnt it be right to assume the sex life is on a doomsday clock?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-02-28T16:53:55+00:00

Q4W Are you really that much more picky online compared to in real life ?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-02-28T16:35:27+00:00

Does anyone else find non-sequiturs inexplicably hilarious?

I've also learned they're a great way to defuse arguments. Even heated ones

My go-to is "I've never seen the back of my head before"

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-02-28T16:21:08+00:00

It's a shitty rainy fucking miserable gray week in Seattle. So obviously it's pho time. Since there are quite a few of us in the Seattle area:

Q4PPDSeattleites: Which restaurant makes the best Pho in this area?

I like Le's Pho Tai and Pho 99, with both being worth the drive/delivery if available. Pho Ha and Ba Bar are close runners up.

Tagging u/WestsideMoonWalker cos he generally knows his Seattle area restaurants.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-02-28T16:16:32+00:00

My dad had really bad chest pain and my mom took him to the hospital. I’m scared and hope he’s going to be ok 🙏

Slootando · 2022-02-27T18:04:37+00:00

If you’re already 🐶💊’d, now prepare yourself for the 🐘💊

Reminder that women would rather fondle animal cock than touch those of low status men.

lulll · 2022-02-27T18:18:14+00:00

women just can't stop with the serial killer shit

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You_(TV_series)

and to top it off this is a quote from the writer of the book

"I remember when I wrote You and someone first referred to Joe as a serial killer. I argued 'he's not a serial killer, he meets these terrible people and has these awful thoughts, but he's very sensitive. It's very strange to realize you have written a serial killer."

and even better

"cast someone who was sort of creepy, then the story wouldn't work; the idea is that it's a lead in a romantic comedy who works in a bookstore and a woman walks in, they have a cute meet and fall in love and live happily ever after. That's the show."

WorldWideButtCheeks · 2022-02-27T21:32:17+00:00

Being sexually objectified by your partner is like one of the BEST feelings ever. Sometimes i tease my husband on purpose by wearing something very sexy/revealing and walk around the house like "i have no idea what im doing"... Knowing full well he will follow and grope me in a matter of seconds😜

Mark_Freed · 2022-02-27T21:40:19+00:00

I was discussing divorce with my friend and it is interesting what the stats say

Nearly 70 percent of divorces in USA are initiated by women. Among college-educated women, this number jumps up to 90%. Why? Women tend to be dissatisfied, feel like husbands don't support their career success, lose their identity, and are not as scared about losing custody of kids and paying child support, alimony. In the 1920s, the average length of a marriage that ended in divorce was 6.6 years.

In 1974 it was 7.5 years; in 1990 it was 7.2 years. Today, the average length of a marriage that ends in divorce is eight years, according to several estimates, but that extra year may be due to the fact that the average divorce now takes one year to process and clear the legal system. Women also tend to want to cheat around year 6 to 10. while for men it was after 11 years.

Studies suggest that 20 percent of marriages end within the first five years and that this number increased by 12 percent within 10 years. But between 10 years and 15 years, the rate only increases about 8 percent, implying that one of the safest stages of your marriage is between years 10 and 15. Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced. Living together prior to marriage can increase the chance of getting divorced by as much as 40 percent. The risk of divorce was said to be almost doubled – 97 percent higher – when the mother went out to work but her husband made a “minimal contribution” to housework and childcare.

Habil13 · 2022-02-28T16:10:12+00:00

My post has confirmed ppd can’t read

throwaway213091345 · 2022-02-28T16:06:28+00:00

Update on the friend who makes men jump through hoops:

She never got to the second date with that guy who took her out to dinner. He offered to take her on a sunset picnic for the second date. Apparently, he wasn't cute enough and he didn't text her daily like she wants. The irony is that she said she was feeling that something was off, and that she thinks he was love bombing. I also think he's slightly more attractive than her, but she still doesn't think he's good looking enough. Everything is either too much or too little in this scenario.

So because of that whole mess, it's going to be 4 years that she hasn't managed to get a second date.

MisterFlipside · 2022-02-28T15:17:24+00:00

Q4W: How often do you catch yourself making the Apex fallacy when talking on the subject of men?

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-02-28T14:52:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sd3ee8/daily_community_chat_megathread/huadvkm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Well I lasted 33 days. Hands down the best sex ever. I might be ruined for any future guy but no regrets.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-02-28T14:44:20+00:00

I be saying some wild shit here and I never banned , those who get banned must have been on demon time foreal lol … or the mods like me 😏

BornSquirrel3272 · 2022-02-28T14:43:34+00:00

Question to those critical of age gaps. Would you still be critical of a happy and loving age gap relationship where both parties feel content?

logiauser · 2022-02-28T14:07:18+00:00

Reject a woman for being a single mother (wasn't clear about it up front), having no real career (kind of secondary), and she gets indignant about it.

What do you mean I'm not what you're looking for!!!???

LMAO. Not even worth the time investment for casual.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-02-27T18:03:24+00:00

So one time my grandma called me and my dad saying that she heard a bang and her windows broke. So we go over there and it turns out that the “bang” and “gun shots” she heard were her side swiping another car which caused the windows to break. I couldn’t stop laughing after I figured that out.

I love my grandma but Elderly people really need to retake driver tests. My dad got her the car brand new in 2017 and it has more dings and Rim damage then the car my dad has drove since 2008 😂.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-27T21:09:37+00:00

Nothing is more peaceful in my opinion than getting up at 5am, making myself a cup of coffee, sitting on the front porch and watching the sunrise.

Doing it right now and I feel so at ease with everything.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-02-28T01:05:12+00:00

Had a really nice day today again :).

sritaunicelular · 2022-02-28T01:26:59+00:00

The obsession with the N count around these places is so funny. Maybe it's because I'm about to be 37, and everyone I know (or most people anyway) in their 30s and 40s don't focus on that, but it's Just my inner circle obviously. I've never been in a relationship where I was asked "how many people" I've slept with or shamed for having experience. I've never judged a partner for their sex life (or lack thereof) if people are safe, test regularly and communicate openly, I don't see the harm. There's a lot of internalized misogyny and slut shaming /Madonna/whore-ing going on.

figuringMylife · 2022-02-28T02:10:35+00:00

you know. after being told i don’t exist because i’m still attracted to men that are 5’7 and up, am flexible with weight, and flexible with income kinda proves to me that red pill men are the ones that don’t believe men have value and believe that those characteristics are bad. shame. honestly.

Ppdstillmental · 2022-02-28T13:55:05+00:00

Recent post on r/sexworkers, from an escort.

“That being said - no, I personally would not intentionally befriend or date anyone who had a history of hiring providers. I find it to be a turn off. It’s not an ethical or moral objection (unless of course they are being unethical or immoral in the course of their choices), just grosses me out.” 😝

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/t1nf79/what_do_you_really_think_of_your_clients/

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-28T12:40:53+00:00

Someone hold me the FDSers are being mean to bald guys again 😭

Mark_Freed · 2022-02-28T11:56:04+00:00

TIL if I want to prevent legal trouble in USA I just need to record myself having sex with a prostitute. Now it is free speech and legal, I can even pay her!

Mark_Freed · 2022-02-28T11:34:50+00:00

Wonder if autists will ever organize

Even men seem to suck at making a movement when compared to women. MRA seems to be growing slower than feminism did.

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-02-28T10:25:02+00:00

What are your preferences?

I’ll go first, I’m not picky but can’t lie I’m really into boring breadwinner black brats with booties.

2022-02-28T10:21:17+00:00

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DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-28T10:14:42+00:00

Ok I have a gripe with people, y'all decide to be the biggest fucking comedians in the world the moment you see someone who goes to the gym do any form of manual labor whether it be picking up some heavy boxes or what not, and decide to be smart asses and go

"Hurr hurr guess you're getting your workout for today!!"

😐😐😐😐😐😐

Habil13 · 2022-02-28T09:48:58+00:00

Does anybody else argue for things they don’t really believe in? I’ve noticed on this subreddit that I’ve argued for stances I find interesting, but don’t really agree with.

J1ra1y4 · 2022-02-28T09:00:39+00:00

The whole "equal value" or "I deserve this kind of.." mentality was created by Women after they joined the workforce and started accumulating wealth of their own. Men generally have always accepted the idea that they may be the sole provider or they may carry most of the financial load.

dbz19 · 2022-02-28T08:53:31+00:00

Nice Guy: ”Ma’am, would you like to go out on a date with me? tips fedora”

Empowered Female: “Ewww, you’re a virgin who’s never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship? Ewww disgusting!!!”

Nice Guy: “Thank you for your honesty ma’am, I see that we have different moral systems and value different things, and are thus incompatible.”

Empowered Female: “Did you just judge me on my sexual history???!!! STOP SLUT SHAMING ME!!!!”

LackOf_Empathy · 2022-02-27T18:17:13+00:00

Men that say they are the prize but have a below-average SMV need a reality check.

sritaunicelular · 2022-02-28T01:30:37+00:00

Best thing I've read in a while:

"honestly the best marketing scheme in history is men successfully getting away with calling women the "more emotional" gender for like, EONS, because they've rebranded anger as Not An Emotion" -Claire Willett

Murphysmongoose · 2022-02-27T18:07:05+00:00

Girls.... Don't be dumb about posting your body pics. You can't post tiddy shots, and also be mad at men sexually objectifying you.

I think I bailed yesterday on putting my dick on crazy, or at least drama. The girl (no exaggeration) has her boobs center frame of her profile pic, but half her face cut off. Come on girl.

We were talking normal type convo about food, and non sexual interest when she posted a pic of her center frame boobs again, with her tongue hanging out. Of course that inspired me to send her a somewhat sexual looking photo as a spoof joke, and she took offense; like, "Where did you get this convo turning sexual just because I just posted my tiddies at you. Grrr... Men."

FTR... I've playfully sent the same types of things to other women, and 10/10- well 9/10 have said they literally lol'd and sent me the, "I'm dead" emojis and such. This girl is just one of those looking to be mad and offended.

Girls... If you highlight and post your boobs and butts, it will bring out that dog side of us. You can't wish away our wiring anymore than we can. You can't have it both ways, either put your tiddies and ass in the center shot of the pic- and accept we're going to, "feel some type of sexual way" or quit sexually objectifying yourself, and being mad at us for it.

redditthrowaway1478 · 2022-02-27T19:20:03+00:00

Has anyone been able to get in contact with our long time Russian member of PPD, u/Narniafox?

I reached out to ask if she was ok, and she confirmed she was but that was the last thing I heard before her account mysteriously got deleted

poppy_blu · 2022-02-28T00:38:38+00:00

I finally get it. Why men here seem to so abruptly descend and attack the women here so often with arguemtns that seem to come out of left field.

They're trying to put their words in our mouths so they can then justify their overly emotional and irrational outbursts. Then it's not their fault they got emotional and irrational (because after all women not men are the emotional and irrational ones), they were "provoked."

Legit there is some guy in my OP thread rerwiting the text and claiming I said things the OP does not say so he can justify tearing me a new asshole about how people shouldn't be allowed to have sex if it makes him feel bad.

I can't be the only one here who thinks PPD has hit a new low.

poppy_blu · 2022-02-28T01:11:23+00:00

You gotta love PPD.

“American/western women ALWAYS lie about their counts! They all have triple digit counts and they LIE about it!!!”

“Foreign” women all have low counts and they’re totally telling the truth. They would never lie about that!!!”

😂😂😂😂

It’s no real mystery why these guys struggle as much as they do.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-02-28T03:56:26+00:00

Swallowing my pride and seeking professional counseling as suggested. Wish me luck

logiauser · 2022-02-28T03:57:46+00:00

The great thing about TRP is the peace of mind. Not getting any quality dates from looksmatch? Being hit up by landwhales, 40yo women, and single moms?

Once you understand what’s happening, it’s so freeing. Imagine being BP and wondering why the only women who are interested are these ultra subpar women (of course ethnicity plays a role) and women past their prime.

Not trying to PUA anyone into anything, or get married, etc. Just enjoying my time (no complaints about counting calories and weighing ketchup) and any casual relationships that come up while waiting to stumble in someone decent.

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-02-28T08:27:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t2uggn/i_was_raped_by_russians_soldiers_and_i_dont_know/ well the creative writing has begun.

ChromaticVengeance · 2022-02-28T08:07:10+00:00

Rate everyone in this picture

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-28T06:55:47+00:00

I did say it earlier but imma say it again because I feel like sharing the love today, chubby women? I got love for you. Y'all deserve the best.

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-02-28T06:16:29+00:00

Is it disrespectful to take a hook up back to a shared hotel room? Happened to my friend and I couldn’t believe how tolerant he is.

tiposk · 2022-02-28T05:40:27+00:00

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effeteintellectual · 2022-02-28T05:19:21+00:00

Is the average woman really 5’4” and 170 lbs? That sounds crazy. I’m 5’11” and just below 180 lbs. The average woman weighs almost as much as me but is 7 inches shorter…

poppy_blu · 2022-02-28T05:01:13+00:00

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TooHornyToFap · 2022-02-27T18:41:15+00:00

mfs think personality only matters after you're very physically attractive and tall 💀💀💀💀💀

hdksndiisn · 2022-02-27T19:06:54+00:00

What is a “pick me”?

figuringMylife · 2022-02-27T22:18:03+00:00

i wish y’all watched bad girls club. everyone is dumb and women really aren’t as stuck up as y’all think. 😩

mackenzie013_02 · 2022-02-27T22:37:37+00:00

Reddit is the new Tinder : https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/t2jvla/my_husband_cheated_on_me_with_someone_on_reddit/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

tiposk · 2022-02-28T03:32:37+00:00

There's a nerdy programmer at work that looks like he hasn't been laid in years. I want to fuck him right on his desk while whispering in his ear about how much his coding skills suck. I think he's lebanese so I want to do that in arabic. Plz help.

EDIT: people downvoting me are just jealous they're not the nerdy programmer I want to fuck 😁

CFinCanada · 2022-02-28T03:52:14+00:00

Damn, there really is something about a good head of hair on a dude. I don't think it's possible to be a chad without this.

I just realized this checking out a dude on a bus from the airport whose face I can't even see because it's covered by a mask.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-28T04:28:45+00:00

Tips for learning how to not cry at any sign of conflict within a relationship? I do be looking like a 🤡🤡🤡

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