Daily Community Chat Megathread

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T07:32:52+00:00

thoughts on this 10 min vid about happiness and discontent? https://youtu.be/kX2EJSwOCug?t=31

WestCombSplit · 2023-01-09T06:48:03+00:00

It's kinda ironic that Feminists like to regurgitate the idea that women live a harder life and are victims, and misogynists use that very same idea to control Women and enact laws to "protect them". Like.... "there's no need for an education or an occupation. A woman's life is hard enough already"

It's a slippery slope they're completely blind to

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-01-09T06:35:09+00:00

A woman went to a woman-centric subreddit to vent about how other women judged her harshly when she did nothing wrong.

Women in the comments proceeded to point out that it’s actually men’s faults lmao.

saraimarsena · 2023-01-08T17:39:33+00:00

if men seek low n count women, then the idea of “husband material” really shouldn’t be seen as an insult.

for many women (especially low n count women), the only way they’ll have sex with you or anybody is if they see long term potential with you, which being “husband material” is really about.

for many, being “husband material” is being sexually attractive and emotionally compatible. for men that wanna peddle the idea that women don’t like casual sex, being insulted by the term is just backwards. personally I only wanna be a slut for a man I can marry 🤷‍♀️

Ok_Silver3387 · 2023-01-08T08:55:48+00:00

How much will my(M38) height (4'11) affect my dating experience? For now I'm completely inexperienced in terms of dating and what are some ways to improve my chances?

GNP_Aficionado · 2023-01-08T11:23:00+00:00

You can make a persuasive case that all your troubles are the fault of others.

You will convince some people.

You might even convince yourself.

Are your troubles now solved?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-08T15:26:30+00:00

This woman actually has the audacity to say that i rejected HER?

She heavily flirts and always wants me to hang out but then doesn't reciprocate when i flirt back, ignores my texts, talks about all the guys she finds hot, flirts with them in front of me, always flakes if we would meet 1 on 1 and then just starts ignoring me.

Now when i adress this she says she was interested but i rejected her with me pulling back when my advances were not reciprocated.

Wtf?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-01-08T17:13:58+00:00

Redpillers gotta stop using men in Hollywood as examples for anything. Not only are they statistically irrelevant a lot of those men are married to/ are dating very promiscuous women lul

geyges1 · 2023-01-08T17:20:48+00:00

In many newer papers I see authors increasingly including blurbs about how data on women is changing.

women have now caught up and surpassed men in terms of infidelity rates in the 18-29 cohort on GSS (10% vs 11%).

the one about psychopathy and casual sex

Contrary to other studies, women showed more unrestricted sociosexual attitudes than did men. A possible explanation for this result is that women are increasingly more the owners of their sexuality in Spain, moving away from traditional gender roles and expressing positive attitudes towards sex without commitment, which used to be associated only with men

We are in the midst of an insane collapse of traditional relationships. These are being replaced with casual sexual encounters and less-committed forms of relationships such as "fwb". With an accompanying medley of health, social, and political issues to boot.

white married UMC cunts that come here and explain that everything is fine in their own little bubble is flabbergasting to read.

Play_Muted · 2023-01-09T06:22:49+00:00

bp be like: appereance doesnt matter, just be yourself, just have good personality and all that platitudes yet when they disagree with a guy first thing they do is shaming his physical appereance.

scwizard · 2023-01-08T14:05:17+00:00

I'm not saying AGP is real

But I am saying, that if you say AGP is real Reddit admins will susp*nd your account for three days.

scwizard · 2023-01-08T15:04:57+00:00

So yesterday we went to the movies and because Avatar 2 is so freaking long, we ended up finishing the movie after midnight.

The theater is close to our home, like 20 min walk and because I was with my BF (tall guy ex-rugby player) I felt safe.

While we were walking, there was a girl in front of us who was taking the same route as us. I noticed how the girl was nervous (always looking "behind us", walking faster, etc) so I guided my boyfriend to take a different route.

My BF was confused and I said: "that girl with the brown jacket was nervous because of us, let's take this route instead".

My BF blinked confused and followed up with a: "wait, there was a girl with a brown jacket in front of us??"

Is this kinda thing normal?

I laughed and kept going our way, then when we needed to cross the street, I noticed a car parked on the other side with the door wide open and a man with a cellphone talking on the driver seat.

I NOPED instantly and guided my boyfriend to take an alternative route and he was once again confused. When I explained the guy in the car thing, he looked back and saw him.

"Well damn, I didn't even notice," he told me impressed, "are you always this aware on the street?"

"Well I have to"

"Why?"

"Because I'm a woman and you never know who's watching you at night".

What I don't get is how women ever get drunk willingly if they're like this? If you're drunk you're gonna have your guard down, and be slow to pick up on things. Yet women still to out to drinks all the time and they're like well my drunk friends will look out for me lol

lulll · 2023-01-08T15:54:16+00:00

morning wood does not mean consent ok women we have to pee ok thank you for the lovely morning vagina but we gotta pee first

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-08T16:37:17+00:00

I'm changing my opinion on the whole "ageism" thing.

Yeah, when an older guy dates a younger girl that "smells" like manipulation and abuse... BUT!

Our social/emotional/sexual maturity is not determined by our age. You can be a socially awkward 30 year old, or a 40 year old.

So if we take a stereotypical 30yo "STEM" guy which didn't socialise a lot because college, work, D&D...

Guy's social/emotional/sexual maturity is low. If he dates women in his age group, he is the one open to manipulations and abuse.

A... 22yo girl is his match when it comes to maturity.

lulll · 2023-01-08T17:06:49+00:00

i think its time us men collectively decide to stop speaking to women who are smaller than d cups

meteorness123 · 2023-01-08T19:23:30+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/106h20j/being_labeled_as_husband_material_is_insult_for/

I dont understand this post. Husband material is a guy who is hook up material+other qualities. It's the best someone could wish for.

LaloTwins · 2023-01-08T10:20:34+00:00

this is unironically PPD women

Why are men so mean to woman???? 🥲

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-08T13:00:26+00:00

Q4M: What's your preference?

A) Woman with n count of 50 but has never cheated on a previous partner, and gives you no reason to doubt her loyalty to you.

B) Woman with n count of 5 but has cheated on two previous partners, and has a very flirty demeanour that she can't seem to turn off.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-08T14:48:30+00:00

From what I've seen, women don't disagree with the concepts and ideas presented by many in the "manosphere" (not the main ones anyway). They take issue with men specifically being the ones to say them.

They will admit to doing the exact thing men say they do; it's just a matter of whether it's framed like they are "wrong" for it (women boo) vs. whether men are losers for not being on the advantaged side (you learn a lot from observing this dynamic).

I've mostly seen this from women I would never date though, so that's also a factor.

lulll · 2023-01-08T14:55:05+00:00

so anyway when are you ladies ovulating

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-08T15:07:48+00:00

heres a good thread on the irrationality of older women hating on guys that date younger women

https://imgur.io/YTv6MCr?r

my theory is old beezys don't like it when younger beezys take the successful guys with money and are envious

Slipthe · 2023-01-08T17:17:32+00:00

Lmao I am lathering myself in 5% lidocaine in preparation for laser hair removal.

asofiro · 2023-01-08T18:17:12+00:00

Downloaded Hinge again and was immediately reminded why I deleted it.

AreOut · 2023-01-08T19:06:56+00:00

easy way to count your SMV as a man, the more glasses of wine or something else an average girl(looking for a hookup) needs the lesser your SMV is: example I am 8/10 so a girl will need two glasses, for Chad she will hookup even sober but if you are 3/10 then she will have to be reaaaally drunk

VirtualRow4074 · 2023-01-08T19:11:56+00:00

Men are so funny to me sometimes every time I’ve slept next to man they insist on sleeping with a handful of titty in their hand & if you move it in anyway they act like wounded puppies in a joking way of course. Without fail every man has done this my titties ain’t even all that big

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-08T19:14:19+00:00

Big brain protip: You can't be friendzoned if women don't want to be your friend. Another benefit of being an asshole.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-01-09T05:43:37+00:00

Is the blue pill a straw man? Since it's seen as the negative choice in the Matrix where you choose to believe actual lies, why would anyone arguing against the red pill call themselves blue pill? Isnt that just admitting that being against trp is the lie?

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T05:38:31+00:00

Ima fry some chicken nuggiez and there ain't gonna be none for blue pillers 😡

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-08T07:03:15+00:00

First!!

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-08T07:07:41+00:00

I've decided this is like scientology where the ultimate secret is to just say "I have been manifesting my own reactive mind and I won't do that anymore"

I'm just going to be a normie from now on.

Ylduts · 2023-01-08T11:26:57+00:00

Daniel Tosh summed up pretty well in one stand up. This isn’t tosh.0 you youngin’s.😁

Preme2 · 2023-01-08T11:45:09+00:00

How to get girl to monkey branch to me… search.

UneastAji · 2023-01-08T12:22:02+00:00

There's a recrudescence of people telling that you shouldn't debate here and blame others for certain issues because you should believe in personal responsibility and agency.

That is a fat fallacy. Don't do that. Attack the point, not the person, nor the pertinence of having this debate.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-08T13:36:26+00:00

me as soon as I wake up every morning

https://i.imgur.com/5wLoFJv.jpg

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-08T15:42:58+00:00

Why don't women kill 3 birds with 1 stone and just shame all men who won't date Amy Schumer?

Men should just date old, fat, high n women 😡

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-08T16:57:41+00:00

got a cute 20 year old girls number today, another girl in one of my social groups said yes to a date with me for next week.

next i'm going to ask my crush from last year if she wants to go snowboarding and offer another chick long distance that i'll fly her out to come see a show and spend the weekend with me.

january is always good because girls love valentines day lol

stjohnswyrt · 2023-01-08T17:40:38+00:00

Pet peeve of mine:

When people using new alts come talking to me as if I'm supposed to know who they are. Bonus points if they name drop my old accounts.

Bro, I don't fuckin know who you are. Either tell me off the bat or fuck off, I don't care enough to be playing little guessing games

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-08T19:08:45+00:00

The people I hate the most are stupid noisy families. I'm in an almost empty park and they decided to sit right next to me. All they do is scream to their little shit kid who, surprisingly won't stop screaming

octavius774 · 2023-01-08T19:27:03+00:00

Q4ALL

What are your favourite philosophical texts?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-01-09T05:28:32+00:00

Back on the apps.

Looksmax is cap for dudes after 25. If you can't pull 6/10 women (requiring you to be a 8/10 man) you're setting for overnight women and single moms period.

Cmv.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-01-09T05:00:27+00:00

I meal prep for the family every Sunday, I'm gonna have to start farming these grocery bill suck lol

stjohnswyrt · 2023-01-09T04:45:55+00:00

If a girl will only date/have sex with men she considers husband material, is it still an insult?

scwizard · 2023-01-09T04:45:09+00:00

Are the current generations of men raised by wolves, or are we just having higher standards for behavior? My mom (former hippie) insists she never had these issues and went out with “sweet guys.” Like????

It's so crazy to me how girls are convinced that sweet guys flat out don't exist, rather than they do but they aren't the guys they're dating.

Instead of "none of the guys I date are sweet, therefore I should try changing my selection criteria." They go "none of the guys I date are sweet, therefore sweet guys don't exist in this era."

saraimarsena · 2023-01-09T04:42:12+00:00

Q4ALL: would it be a turn off or a turn on if your partner (committed relationship) got your name tatted?

would you date someone who had their ex’s name or face tatted?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-09T04:34:38+00:00

There's never a reason to get back with your ex, ever.

"Oh but we were just at different points in our...."

Nope.

"But we might be more compatib...."

Wrong.

They're your ex for a reason, if it didn't work out the first time what the hell makes you think it'll work out this time?

cruciod · 2023-01-09T04:14:52+00:00

Q4All: have you watched the boys?

There's a scene where they show superhero cucking porn (superhero fucks regular man cucks) which was hilarious but also made me realize how prevalent cucking must actually be to make it into a tv series like that.

Society is cucked!!

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-09T03:59:22+00:00

Sleep sex: yay or nay?

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-09T03:57:09+00:00

The problem with women who say “husband material” material is a compliment, is that if they genuinely found a dude they liked, this isn’t a compliment they’d use.

Most women use it as a synonym for “you’re a nice guy” and “I wish I could find a guy like you (with the security AND looks).”

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T03:23:57+00:00

There's clearly a few BNOS (Big Names On Sub) who we love to talk about behind their back. Hehe some people just stand out huh. Being popular comes with it's disadvantages tho I suppose.

Don't be shy, my chat and discord dms are always open to the latest juicy gossip. Spill the tea sis

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-09T03:18:10+00:00

Q4M: How hyped are you about Ryan Gosling's new movie this summer?

I'm in the gc planning with the boys. Help me plan. What outfits? Where should we eat before and after? We have until July 21st, will that be enough time to get our body fat percentage down to 7% to get ready for the movie?

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-09T03:17:19+00:00

Funny to see how a lot of mainstream folks react to a what is common redpill material: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/106bok9/this_is_the_book_my_creepy_grampa_gave_me_as_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

They call the gasps of a dying generation when their younger brothers/son addicted to Andrew Tate believe in the same stuff. Meaning it’s popular in the youth to a certain extent.

It would be funny if the grandfathers positions are accepted by OP son thus bringing back his ideas back to the norm.

(I disagree with a lot of the stuff since much of it is deterministic and simple but it’s just funny seeing a parallel being drawn)

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-09T03:01:36+00:00

Q4M: why man like boobie and play with hard pp?

Checkmate

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-09T02:50:30+00:00

I thought at some point obesity would stop increasing as all the population susceptible to it becomes saturated, but growth seems to be steady despite already saturating a large portion of the population. It's depressing seeing the number of fatties keep increasing.

https://www.tfah.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Chart_Obesity2022-768x415.png

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/6a/Adult_female_obesity_in_the_United_States.svg/1280px-Adult_female_obesity_in_the_United_States.svg.png

Depressingly 75% of women are fat. Also, I'm surprised that 40% were already fat in 1960.

Edit: since the wiki graph ended in 2015, apparently recent data in 2018 says that 81% of women were fat and it probably got worse in the past 4 years

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-09T02:46:32+00:00

anyone want to go to Japan in the summer? short trip like 2-3 weeks, definitely not a full month.

Real talk I want to go do some shit i'll have to take to the grave with me that no one in my life can ever know. Maybe we can do some regular stuff like ride bicycles and look at panda bears resting under cherry blossom trees for a day or two.

but mostly... yea take the grave type of stuff.

also would be cool to meet some of the people here irl

purginggastonist · 2023-01-09T02:45:23+00:00

fictional character who is racist and eats babies: I am racist and eat babies

women: omg he is so cute, such an emotional softboy, so sweet, kind, and sensitive

why do they do this?

(yes this is about draco malfoy and sepiroth)

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-09T02:06:43+00:00

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Craugg · 2023-01-09T01:54:52+00:00

Do girls look for an emotional connection on dating apps and then just swipe on physical attraction anyways?

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-01-09T01:47:46+00:00

Some men really think the reason why they are struggling dating is due to competing with some chad. Yet, in reality your competing with women ability to be alone and disinterested in dating overall. Most young single women are not riding a cc instead content with being single.

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WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-01-08T07:30:10+00:00

Do you think there’s such a thing as harmless flirting in a relationship?

I got in trouble a couple weekends ago. Was out with friends for brunch. Married couple, my girlfriend wasn’t there. Waitress came by to offer desserts and explain them, lots of sultry adjectives, I made some lame comment like “I don’t want dessert but I enjoyed hearing you describe the dessert”

I got an honest giggle out of it even though I’m sure this sub will be quick to point out she was probably doing the fake waitress nice thing. But I know I made her blush.

Anyway friends wife tells my girlfriend about it and it became a thing.

I can say with total honesty on this anonymous Reddit account, that no one I know is going to see, there’s zero chance I would’ve cheated with this waitress. In a parallel universe if she approached me and said I’ll blow you and there’s a 0% chance anyone finds out I’d say no without hesitating.

It just feels good to say something smooth sometimes and get a reaction. I don’t get jealous if my girlfriend dresses up to feel pretty on a night out with her girlfriends.

The fact that it upset my girlfriend is enough reason for me to tone it down relationships aren’t about right and wrong they’re about respect.

BUT I do want ppd’s input for curiosity’s sake

avarciousRutabega99 · 2023-01-08T08:03:36+00:00

Are these dating coaches who randomly get into your chat legit? This guys says hes a coach, wants to help me get between “2-3 girls a month” i said that sounds unrealistic. He said we can set up a call this week and he only works with a small number of guys. Some kind of scam or legit dating coach?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-01-08T09:06:13+00:00

airplanes make no fucking sense

propyl21 · 2023-01-08T11:04:52+00:00

To red pill men:

Your problems are YOUR responsibility. It is not the world's obligation to tiptoe around you.

UneastAji · 2023-01-08T11:07:39+00:00

I think there is a very important problem with discussions around the "friendzone". I think its because of the different levels of friendship.

What you dont wanna be as a guy is her bestie and essentially one of the girls. Unless you are her boyfriend you shouldnt wanna be invited to the girls night out and watch her do her thing while you're there for validation and protection. Unless of course you have absolutely no attraction to this woman beyond the platonic. In which case youre not in the friendzone.

The kind of friendzone you would wanna be in tho is the wider friend/acquaintance circle. This basically vets you towards her so she isnt apprehensive about you. You wanna be the guy she randomly meets on her girls night out, that she knows.

eye_fuck · 2023-01-08T13:19:33+00:00

q4a

who is typically more annoying to you:

stupid man or stupid women?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-08T13:46:19+00:00

Can music taste be a red flag?

Idk, i know this party girl that sunironically really into Chris Brown and generally into hip hop about fuckin bitches and gangbangs.

Not quite sure if this confirms my view of her

AquaChip · 2023-01-08T15:52:14+00:00

Real leaders don’t need to ask people for submission. People want to follow them naturally. Do you think MLK begged people to submit to him?

Ylduts · 2023-01-08T16:22:50+00:00

Q4W

Would you marry if your partner could take half your wealth, take the kids, and you had to pay child support and alimony simply because they decided the marriage didn’t work?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-01-08T17:53:44+00:00

People have been surprisingly nice recently.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-08T18:59:13+00:00

A chess personality who’s only achieved a title that starts with “woman” should not be taken seriously.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-08T19:10:36+00:00

q4W:

what do you think of r/techwearclothing

its like the level above r/streetwear.

those people in both those subs go all for for the gram level shit but this is kind of how I dress but i go for a lite version

i like the utility of all the pockets and the clothing is always made of really high quality material that lasts a long time without wear and tear.

wondering if it looks goofy though or you think its cool or just whatever.

Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-09T01:46:15+00:00

I need to vent, cuz this person is still living in my head rent free. I won’t name names, that way it stays impersonal, alright mods?

I used to be in a group with a woman who would talk a lot of shit about my relationship (and other people’s relationships in general too.) You know the type who will find every occasion and bullshit reason to subtly-but-definitely-not-actually-subtly boast about why they’re better than everyone else? That was her.

She thought very highly of herself because she’s only been with one man (an n of 1), supposedly since she was 15 and he was 18-20 (most recently she’s claiming 18, but I think she initially insinuated 20 and then changed the narrative when people in the group responded less positively than she expected. I find this age gap to be unacceptable and a massive red flag, personally, even as someone in a larger age gap relationship [but one that started when I was legally and developmentally an adult.])

Supposedly they’ve been together for ten years. (I say “supposedly” because I heard her say she asked out a boy “last summer” even though she wasn’t single ???) They aren’t married. She said she’s still living at home (yes, at 25) because she’s a student and that that’s “normal” for the country she lives in (I’m still calling that BS; idc what the stats supposedly say. Grown ass adults shouldn’t live with their parents) while her boyfriend lives in a studio apartment (at 28-30!), and that they were living together but she moved out of his place when c0vid lockdowns happened because “she would’ve gone crazy being stuck with him constantly.”

And she hasn’t moved back in with him because the apartment is “too small,” nor has the guy made any sort of move to get a bigger place for them to live because it’s “too expensive” in their city. (Despite the fact that they’re supposedly both UMC families, which she also takes SO much pride in 🙄) I also highly suspect he’s cheating on her because it doesn’t sound like she’s a very sexual person or that they spend that much time with one another, she basically described him as a man-slut before they got together, and she said he worries about her leaving him often (which cheaters often do, because they project their disloyalty onto their partners.)

And yet somehow she’s still so self-congratulatory about her long term “commitment” and the fact that she doesn’t get into arguments with her boyfriend?!?! Like, honey, that man has not committed to you in any way, shape, or form. If he wanted to marry you, he would. If he wanted to be with you, he would shell out the money for a bigger place. Men who want to build a life and a family with you act like it. And obviously y’all aren’t arguing because you RAN AWAY FROM having to live with him!!!

And she has the nerve to talk shit about my marriage to a man who made living together happen after the first year, who behaved like a married man between then and shortly before year 5 when we legally married, who gave me a child when I wanted one, and who makes more than enough to support our family so I can stay home with her?! Why, because I enjoyed sleeping around and figuring out what I actually liked in bed before spending my early twenties with the same man? Because I definitely didn’t come from money and I’m not an uppity cnt? Because I wanted an *actual HV man who makes enough that I don’t have to be a wage slave my whole life?

But oh, apparently I only like my husband’s money and I’m definitely gonna get bored of him because that’s what happens to all high n people and my age gap is definitely worse bEcAuSe tHe BrAiN Is StILL DeVeLoPiNg tIL 25… Bitch, come at me when you have a ring on your finger and you can stand to be around your broke ass forever boyfriend.

God I hate her guts

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-09T01:27:29+00:00

I was called hot/cute/attractive by another girl I matched with when I joked with her about breeding large children. Does this mean I pass the looks threshold for IRL game?

Also I realized I don't really know how to smile. I can laugh but smiling is odd.

DumpApe135 · 2023-01-09T01:26:20+00:00

I think I found my new gym music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPtPo8Sa3NE&t=699s

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T01:24:49+00:00

No one cares about your past sex life if you don't plan to have children. Go be a serial monogamist living a soap opera, go be a poly swinger and do the wildest things on your bucket list.

But if you want kids, you actively sabotage your future relationship and thus jeopardise your children's mental development needing both present parents. Stay a virgin :)

chancetolive · 2023-01-09T01:22:05+00:00

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Libah05 · 2023-01-09T01:02:34+00:00

Incel gives account of transitioning from male to female.

lulll · 2023-01-09T00:48:41+00:00

always remember if a woman says something about you having a small penis you should think of this as a win because shes thinking about your penis. winning

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-09T00:12:35+00:00

I started having sex to begin with because being a virgin was killing my mental health and self esteem, and very quickly I realized what I already knew before: that casual sex is an unfulfilling perversion of something meant to be an expression of love.

I wish I could somehow make other guys struggling realize that, but you have to sort of have the option of getting casual sex to begin with and experience it to realize it.

This is also something I heavily diverge on from RP creators. Having sex with girls on the side, even if you're a high value guy who can pull it off, is whatever. Shaq is more rich and famous than 99.9% of the men to ever walk this earth, and he says his biggest regret is cheating on his wife, that it wasn't worth it, and everything he had in front of him back then was the best time in his life.

And it's also why I find high n count in girls to be repulsive, and couldn't care less whether deranged feminists think that makes me "insecure" or controlling or apart of toxic masculinity. Sex is supposed to be something intimate and so unbelievably easy to get as a girl, and you're gonna let a random dude you met yesterday rail you? Eww.

Slootandoh · 2023-01-08T16:04:39+00:00

At this point when someone tells me "You'll find someone when you least expect it" i just wanna say "Go fuck yourself"

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-09T00:06:13+00:00

my sister is traumatized because she found her 2 dogs having sex 🤣🤣🤣

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-01-08T23:59:59+00:00

Low n count women settle all the time especially if they're religious and pick a partner for stability and religion over physical attraction. Idk why red pillers seem to be obsessed with high n count women settling

DumpApe135 · 2023-01-08T23:08:32+00:00

How would you guys feel about mandatory military service for both men and women? Like what Israel does

I think it could be a really good thing

social_mule · 2023-01-08T14:40:08+00:00

Good news for all the 5'2" Indian janitors out there: There Has never Been a Better Time to be Short

It's behind a pay window though.

scwizard · 2023-01-08T14:41:21+00:00

I make $100k a year; coupled with my husband's salary we live a very comfortable life. Your uncle is being an ass. If you're making 80k at 24 you are doing amazing and he can fuck off.

How much do you think her husband makes?

GNP_Aficionado · 2023-01-08T22:53:39+00:00

Fat girls:

1) Are the hottest

2) Give it GOOD

CMV

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-08T22:32:14+00:00

Big tits > small tits

cmv you can't cmv

thegamescentrifugal · 2023-01-08T22:22:54+00:00

Q4W: How would you feel about dating a man who pirates everything? He refuses to pay for any streaming services, all music and video is through his plex server. He watches sports on illegal streaming sites. He does however own a record collection

saraimarsena · 2023-01-08T21:56:51+00:00

just finished the painting i started making for my coworker over winter break. it took about 2 days worth of long periods of focused work, plus working intermittently throughout the past week. do i stick it in her locker with a note? is that weird

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-01-08T21:50:12+00:00

True ❤

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-01-08T21:43:57+00:00

I LARP-write a great post on "relationships", it engages a lot of people in debate, +10K upvotes. Not some edgy toxic shit, not a rage bait.

Rather a wholesome romantic story... a fake one, but one which improves people's day.

I'm looking at those comments rolling and I feel great. First because my writing skills had reached a point where I feel comfortable about starting to write a book. Second because my little lie is bringing some magic into people's lives... it makes them want to be mre romantic themselves.

Then some guy writes "this post is obviously fake". Just one guy saying it among so many comments shouldn't bother me but...

No it's not! This post is not OBVIOUSLY fake, it's masterfully written piece of romantic literature which just happens to not be true you little piece of shit. You are just bluffing! Point out an inconsistency in my story!

But I can't actually post that as an answer :(

Libah05 · 2023-01-08T21:26:19+00:00

I was at dinner with my friends yesterday and a girl I know slept with my (girl) friends big brother. I was watching public ostracisation play out in real time

//Libah05

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-01-08T21:23:23+00:00

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BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-08T21:10:58+00:00

There is a lot to unpack.

Mythic_Punk · 2023-01-08T21:06:27+00:00

Interesting situation I just heard from my sister. When she was in university, both her and her bf of the time were keyboard majors. There is an award for highest mark in their major that is a pretty sizable scholarship. For the three years they were attending the Uni together my sister won the award each year. This really upset her bf for a variety of reasons.

The first reason was because my sister already had a full ride scholarship, many other scholarships on top of that, and our parents were willing to pay for her entire education anyways. He was frustrated that she received so many scholarships even tho she didn't really need any of them to pay for her education.

The second reason is that she would always lie on her weekly required practice hours and he wouldn't. She could consistently perform as needed for her grades without needing to practice 15 hrs a week, so she would lie about it to save her needing to do unnecessary amounts of practice while still maintaining her grades. He practiced the full 15 hrs every week but still fell behind her.

My mother thinks it was a bit silly he was mad at her because you should be celebrating your partner's victories, and if you're planning to marry anyways (they were def at that stage in their relationship at the time) any extra money she brings in will benefit you anyways. I can see why he'd be upset tho even if it's a bit unfair to blame her.

How would you react to your partner acting this way?

rickjames334 · 2023-01-08T21:02:58+00:00

So goddamn horny that I made a statue of a man and woman engaging in oral sex and having sex while playing Minecraft 🥲

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-08T20:45:55+00:00

She's 100% accurate

liefelijk · 2023-01-08T20:33:06+00:00

Favorite cheap and easy recipe from this weekend:

Aldi flatbreads (like $2.50 for 2), plus * 1/2 cup of jarred pizza sauce * 3/4 cup shredded mozzarella * 2 links of crumbled, cooked hot Italian sausage * 1/2 bag of spinach, cooked down in the sausage pan * a handful of chopped cherry tomatoes * a dusting of garlic powder for the last 2 minutes of cooking

Yum!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-08T20:18:25+00:00

I miss the days when PPD wasnt so damn boring and the mods actually allowed fun posts.

saraimarsena · 2023-01-08T20:15:04+00:00

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biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-08T19:58:17+00:00

I need a woman to maul me the way pitbulls maul kids

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-08T19:53:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/10606f2/the_mother_of_his_child_is_about_to_go_into/?sort=controversial

I hope she makes it as a teenage, single mom

NJFlowerchild · 2023-01-08T19:32:38+00:00

Q4ALL

What is the best piece of relationship advice that has been given to you and who said it? Mine was from my Nana about trying to change people.

Changing a partner is like changing a light bulb. You can do it, but you will be dealing with the exact same issues in 2 years. Think about that.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-08T16:51:44+00:00

All of you women who are like "I'm subject to the same laws as men in a divorce", do you really think the law applies equally to all people and that justice is blind?

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