Daily Community Chat Megathread

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-06-05T01:57:52+00:00

Anyone else notice how when women start doing something that men do it ALWAYS becomes lame quickly over time?

Past: Men smoked, women started smoking. Smoking is now lame.

Current: Men drank, women started drinking. Alcohol consumption is now decreasing. All it's going to take is a couple more videos of annoying average looking girls with no clothes on acting "Craaaazy" with two alcohol bottles on hand and drinking will be considered lamer than ever.

potoricco · 2023-06-05T01:39:35+00:00

I’m in this really weird phase where my parents want to send me to a 3rd world country this summer

I obviously don’t want to go but I also don’t want to stay here

Like this town and state is legitimately so fucking boring, like offensively boring. The only places to go here are church, school, a store or the shabby ugly mall or cinema. Everything else is either “too far”🙄 or I can’t afford. There is no way I will confine myself to this fucking place for the next 3 months. There is also no way I will risk my safety. I don’t know what to do

Raven-Ray · 2023-06-05T01:39:12+00:00

My manager is letting me paint his ENTIRE imperial knight army with him. (Someone who has only painted dnd miniatures..kind of poorly)

There is an intense pressure in placing on myself to not mess up cause I know that was very expensive. I feel slightly bad but he did offer. So if anyone has tips give them to me please. I’ve have a whole playlist of videos saved.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-05T01:32:10+00:00

Yeah being young and not having a bunch of responsibilities is fun but I want a kid

My-wifes-bronzemedal · 2023-06-05T01:29:32+00:00

Honestly the amount of failure you have to go with as a guy is disgusting. It's not healthy and it's not right.

My-wifes-bronzemedal · 2023-06-05T01:27:35+00:00

Honestly it feels like most 20s women who meet the minimum threshold to be considered attractive have no personality.

Like I'd have more fun talking to a house plant.

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-06-05T01:13:42+00:00

"The dark fire will not avail you, flame of Udûn! Go back to the Shadow."

Man Lotr was just about a guys hungry libido sack huh?

meteorness123 · 2023-06-05T00:31:50+00:00

Women have very low looks standards tbh . They're way too generous with that imo

meteorness123 · 2023-06-05T00:18:55+00:00

Average number of partners for men doesn't correlate with height and not even with bmi.

A succesful marriage however correlates with income and education. The better educated you are, the better the marriage.

"Look normal, don't be an asocial sperg and meet like-minded women" wins again.

BruceLeesSidepiece · 2023-06-05T00:18:43+00:00

I wonder what percentage of men here who complain about how hard dating is have ever asked out a girl in their life.

Mark_Freed · 2023-06-05T00:05:48+00:00

Its quite crazy how true red pill is, I am 27, balding and look old as fuck but I got 21 and 18 year old girls hounding me.

I wish they were mature enough to date, smart enough to hold a conversation so I could connect. But most of them aren't. Not sure about consent. I think they can consent. So I don't think age gap relationships are creepy still...

kinda sad how I get what I wanted so late in life. Now it feels like I entertain it only as some sort of tribute to my past self who wanted it. While I have outgrown that kind of puppy love.

purplish_possum · 2023-06-04T23:59:03+00:00

Just fixed my car. Usually that feels manly. However, not in this case. My car my car is a 17-year-old Prius. Yesterday, as I drove fast on mountain roads, it flashed the dreaded red triangle of death and switched itself into limp home mode. Basically hard driving overheated the high voltage system drive train. Once the car sat overnight and cooled down the control system, which is low voltage, had to be reset/rebooted. This is achieved by disconnecting the wire harness that connects the low voltage battery, waiting a few minutes for any capacitors to drain, and then reconnecting the wire harness. Like rebooting a frozen windows computer. Car repair has been wussified. This sucks.

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-04T23:56:42+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmirandaderrick/video/7226436495534624046

I'm straight, but god damn this man is sexy as fuck.

potoricco · 2023-06-04T23:44:16+00:00

I will be an adult next year…. Guau

It should be pretty obvious that I won’t be mentally an adult by then, until at least 25

Looking at you, age gap defenders

potoricco · 2023-06-04T23:40:52+00:00

If I’m still jobless and single in the next 6 months I’m actually going to (redacted)

I NEED A FUCKING JOB. AND BF

eye_fuck · 2023-06-04T22:58:58+00:00

The funny thing about building 'perfectly safe and egalitarian' society is that such society is the one in which women are the most indifferent to men and see them as the most useless and annoying and the most antagonistic towards them.

Disastrous_Army1681 · 2023-06-04T22:53:45+00:00

In 2011 (12 years ago) a book written by a woman was released "Marry Him: The case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough". Part of her research involved speaking with 100's of men and women. One of the questions asked was, "If you met a person you genuinely liked but they only met 80% of your expectations/wants .... would you still marry them?" Most women said "no". When asked "why" they responded, "Because I'd be settling". When the men were asked the same question it was usually met with a surprised reaction followed with a little laughter and "80%? Hell yes."

When the female author asked women about their dating/relationship experiences the stories were unbelievably shallow as to why they ended things. In an interview the author said she walked away from this experience dumbfounded by how shallow and unrealistic women are and said how badly she feels for men.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-04T22:48:19+00:00

CMV: Women are far, far worse at assessing their "league" / who they can realistically date seriously. When an above average guy matches with a ridiculously hot model looking girl, he will immediately suspect that she's a bot, scammer, advertising onlyfans ect... this isn't the case with a lot of women.

This is because women conflate sexual interest with relationship value. They have so many options for casual sex and can't differentiate between the two, and instances where they have casual sex with a man who wouldn't date them, they incorrectly believe that is the level of men they can get commitment from. This very phenomenon is basically what allowed the youtube manosphere to gain the following it has over the last few years (clips of women with unrealistic sense of self value going viral), although it's on the downturn.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-04T22:46:03+00:00

Nice guys finish last

Bad boys finish on her stomach or in her throat 😂😂

Peacesquad · 2023-06-04T22:43:24+00:00

What did I miss

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-04T22:43:11+00:00

Toxic masculinity is when men do things women don't like, let's not pretend it has any major impact on people.

Mark_Freed · 2023-06-04T22:37:27+00:00

What's up ppd, what did I miss? Anyone from London here? Ireland? Uk?

Can we have a megathread on what is a women? Elon pinned it yo

LaloTwins · 2023-06-04T22:32:14+00:00

CMV situationships are great

All upside no downside

Mark_Freed · 2023-06-04T22:31:57+00:00

Watching the documentary - what is a women, I have thoughts.

Like the right should knock this out of the park. Like literally this is just to cut and dried. I can't believe this is a point of contention.

Like castrating kids..... Surgery on kids... Does suicide rates even drop?

Social contagion.

Women sports?

I mean what is going on West?

What even.

SorryEm · 2023-06-04T22:27:04+00:00

The zombie apocolypse happens. You have two choices: Dying or living, but your survival group is PPD posters.

potoricco · 2023-06-04T22:12:44+00:00

Disturbimg new trend of men taking random pictures of women and posting it with innocuous titles. opening them up to online sexual harassment. Nearly 100k likes, no men seem to see the problem with it. When a woman pointed it out, they were accused of “being jealous because they have no ass”

Literally how is this different from pervs who take up skirt pictures or put cameras in women’s bathrooms?

When we say all men, we mean all

LaloTwins · 2023-06-04T22:11:58+00:00

Anyone else thought u/questioningfeminist was a feminist and not someone opposed to the ideology?

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-04T22:02:42+00:00

Someone asked if Mike Tyson should be allowed to fight against women if he (she) decided he (she) was trans.

Should he (she)?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-04T21:25:45+00:00

A strong man is one that does the hard work when he doesn't want to do it, he doesn't sit there complaining he doesn't say "I don't want to" or "I don't feel like it"

He just does the work. Strong men don't allow their emotions to play a factor in their decision making.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-04T21:23:51+00:00

“Children need fathers because men discipline children!”

Thoughts on fathers on My 600 pound life that keep feeding their adult children pizza and ice cream? Is that what we call discipline? Is that what this subreddit think children need?

Phillysportsfan52 · 2023-06-04T21:22:36+00:00

Anyone else think the “drop in violence” can be linked to there being wayyyyy less young people? People always cite how things are “so much safer” today. Yet somehow it seems there are more and more shootings and overall violence. It seems to me the overall violence could be decreased simply because there are less young people (the group most likely to commit violent crime).

Never heard anyone bring this up and it seems like it lines up with “violent crime decreasing”. Obv there are other factors but this seems like it would be a big one. If the general population is mostly older people no shit crime should go down. Its in everyones best interest tho for people to think crime and violence is getting better.

Also the people who are having the most kids tend to be the people who shouldnt have any kids lol. This could also contribute to why it seems a higher portion of young people are choosing “the streets”.

Just curious what yall think?

potoricco · 2023-06-04T21:13:35+00:00

Am I the only person that looks pretty in real life but ugly in selfies

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-04T21:00:40+00:00

Motorbike groups “Let’s all ride during rush hour traffic and then get mad when people honk at us for zooming through traffic 30 deep”

Had one block me at a green light bc he wanted all his loser friends to run a red light so they could catch up with the rest of them.

Might be the most entitled group of people besides average women.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-06-04T20:56:53+00:00

I live in the happiest country in the world, yet the prevalence of violence against women is one of the highest in Europe here. Makes me really question the point of that happiness research (well that, and some other facts).

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-04T20:54:16+00:00

A thing a lot of people on PPD could learn.

If somebody makes a claim, then yes. The onus is on them to provide evidence to back up that claim, but only the claim that they actually made. Not whatever you conjured up in your head that you wish they would have said because it would be more convenient to argue against.

Half of my interactions here go something like this.

-Not all apples are red.

-Whats your definition of apple?

-Er, it's an apple, just Google it and you'll see what I'm talking about. Everybody knows what an apple is.

-Well then, prove it. Show me that there are blue apples then.

-I didn't say there are blue apples. I said not all apples are red.

-So you can't provide proof then? You're just spouting off bs?

-No. But you are asking me to show proof of something I never said. You are asking for blue apples specifically because you know there are none. You know I can't show you proof of blue apples.

-Like I thought. You should have just said you were making stuff up from the beginning.

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-06-04T20:26:21+00:00

Q4Everyone: does libido matter if sex is valued as a form of intimacy?

VampireChaser · 2023-06-04T20:15:18+00:00

Rate my side profile: https://imgur.com/a/P3O71BA

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-06-04T20:08:07+00:00

It’s insane what some people are dealing with while dating: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/140e6fl/m28_f24_should_i_let_him_check_my_phone/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

She must have been extremely inexperienced dating.

potoricco · 2023-06-04T20:05:00+00:00

My mom just bought my dad Dior sauvage

It’s over

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-04T19:53:08+00:00

Randomly ran across this post by our own beloved /u/gridrexx

I loved that her first line says:

For example, if you're a purple woman, and your partner only watches teal women porn.

Why Purple, grid??

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-04T19:50:44+00:00

The worst she can do is say no lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/doordash/comments/140g7ma/this_is_unacceptable/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

potoricco · 2023-06-04T19:40:12+00:00

Sexual dimorphism is amazing

My youngest brother is 11 and hasn’t hit puberty

Yet his feet are inches longer than mine (I have pretty big feet for a woman)

He is taller and stronger than me despite weighting less

Baroness-Harkonnen · 2023-06-04T19:32:38+00:00

Forget rich vs poor, Incel vs Chad, Men vs. Women. What needs to happen is the ugly and mid rising up against the hotties!

MaximumPain2 · 2023-06-04T19:32:26+00:00

Women's dating problems are easily fixable by following these 3 standards.

No sex before marriage.
You two have to have the same faith.
Lookswise, you need to find him attractive.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-06-04T19:12:50+00:00

How do guys cope knowing that it's only men that can keep the relationship healthy for the whole way through. its a lot of pressure imo.

Inb4 "i cook for my lazy hubby" replies, please kindly fuck off :)

potoricco · 2023-06-04T18:08:16+00:00

Was enjoying Cinnamon Toast Crunch when I noticed one of themhas a face printed on it

I am pretty happy about this

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-04T17:13:02+00:00

I saw Across the Spiderverse last night and went in with low expectations as it would be pretty damn hard to beat the first one.

But, by god, they did it! Soooo good!!

potoricco · 2023-06-04T17:05:52+00:00

Honestly I feel bad for people who aren’t Christian

Like I’m more of a deist now but I still have to go to church, and outside of the religious stuff, it’s genuinely a community where everyone knows each other and anyone can join

It’s especially great for recent immigrants or lonely people. Really easy to make friends

If only there was one such gathering for non religious people that wasn’t school or work

ashpr0ulx · 2023-06-04T16:46:06+00:00

i’m not super religious but i fully embrace sunday being the day of rest, fantastic, can’t wait to nap

SorryEm · 2023-06-04T16:34:12+00:00

It's so weird how blind women are to how modern dating can negatively affect them too. Chads can absolutely screw over their girlfriend or wife if he wants to and there is no social protection for those women.

It's like seeing some white guy simp for the police not knowing the police would gladly kill him.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-06-04T16:20:02+00:00

Notice for men: it’s very obvious when you’re chadfishing on a dating app. I literally match with those guys just to fuck with them.

GetGud35 · 2023-06-04T16:17:59+00:00

CMV: Fucking old women is just soft necrophilia

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-04T16:10:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1404fja/so_tired_of_men_being_dishonest_about_what_they/

Most based comments i've ever seen in a r/dating thread. OP complains about men using for sex, and the commenters astutely point out that the guy she went out with very well could have just not enjoyed the sex/felt chemistry, or felt at that point that they weren't compatible for a relationship. One person even pointed out how toxic the idea that men should stick around just because they've had sex.

Just as men aren't entitled to sex, women aren't entitled to relationships.

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-04T16:04:51+00:00

Lately I've been driving with no radio on at all.. kinda relaxing

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-06-04T15:54:43+00:00

average outcome of preselection

AspiringMogger · 2023-06-04T15:44:38+00:00

I have a brutal pink pill for the women.

I have a date planned in two hours. I’ve just gotten home from a 90 mins football match and I’m incredibly tired + broke. Only reason I’m gonna go is cause I’ve already cancelled on her twice and I feel bad. The amount of effort she has put into communication has been top tier, but she is mid. If only she was prettier. Oh well.

armpitpics · 2023-06-04T01:18:21+00:00

I think I pissed off an acquaintance during a small gathering. The topic of family came up and he said:

Feminism did good things, but it also made women into obsessive careerists who think they can have it all. Jane (not her real name) is smart and educated, but she knows I got her back financially so she can concentrate on raising our daughter instead of putting her in daycare.

I found the comment extremely hypocritical given the fact that he had been bragging about working for almost two decades in the private sector in a role that pays at least $200K a year, more than twice the median household income in my country, so I replied:

The only reason she can stay home is because your obsessive careerism is subsidizing her lifestyle, which I bet is nicer than the lifestyle of the majority of double income households. And she can't have it all because she threw away her career to take the slack of the work that you think you're too good to do. If you BOTH of you cut your hours you wouldn't have to put your kid in the daycare.

Needless to say, the gathering got very awkward afterwards.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-06-04T09:21:27+00:00

Women want men to be more like women, but women don’t want to date those men

They want a masculine partner while the rest of male society is effeminate

dbz__f · 2023-06-04T02:38:03+00:00

If you think it’s acceptable to judge someone based on them having a low sexual/romantic history but not on having a high one, you are a shameless hypocrite. Either you accept both or neither.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-06-04T03:58:18+00:00

I hate " the dating market place". Why reduce humans to numbers and economics. Humans are more than that. Attraction and love is more than a bell curve or upside bell curve. Whatever statistical model yall use.

rhagaeas_executioner · 2023-06-04T02:50:56+00:00

The reaction to Dobbs by women was eye-opening.

One of the basic premises is that social issues should be decided by elected representatives of the people and not by unelected judges imposing their social views on the country. If you reject this just because you don't like the outcome of democracy, then maybe you shouldn't be allowed to vote.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-04T06:47:35+00:00

"A man's location and environment is the biggest factor in dating success"

Yes l agree, so get out of LA guys or any area with a higher male ratio

Also attend colleges with a higher female ratio since there's more women in schools now

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-04T12:24:53+00:00

The “I want financial abortions” crowd is funny because their argument relies on the other person to be pro-choice. When a person like me, who is neutral on abortion, argues against them, they get confused and dont know how to handle it.

The guys: What happened to equality!?

Me: Go to a pro-life state. You’re be equally fucked.

The guys: Thats not the equality I want!

Me: Because you just want to avoid child support payments. This was never about equality.

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Censoredpatriarchy · 2023-06-04T01:01:00+00:00

1st

Patriarchy is the way

Preme2 · 2023-06-04T01:05:03+00:00

Spider-Man across the spider-verse. 9/10. A little slow at first dealing with family, then it takes off and becomes a great time. That cliff hanger though. Everything was lining up, it’s about to go down, to be continued…

PBtoast707 · 2023-06-04T02:09:15+00:00

I want to apply to the RN program at the local community college but I graduated high school with a 2.6 GPA, I’d never get in. There’s some prerequisite classes to complete before the program but I doubt I’d get in even if I did really good in those. I thought about doing the CNA program but I’d be looked down upon if I had that job. It seems like there’s always something in the way.

devilsttower · 2023-06-04T02:21:42+00:00

Is getting an associate degree even worth it? It’s the only thing within my reach but I don’t know if I’d be wasting my time.

4SSh01e · 2023-06-04T12:55:23+00:00

How much of a dad bod do I have? https://imgur.com/a/q3DIy38

ppd_alt · 2023-06-04T14:29:31+00:00

Love a good age gap thread. They are the bread and butter of PPD.

Baroness-Harkonnen · 2023-06-04T15:34:49+00:00

Q4M: Would you agree to be a side piece for a 7/10 married woman close to your age under the following?

Once a week on a day of her choosing, you meet up for a date and kinky sex. Sometimes you will be dominant and sometimes you will be submissive depending on what she wants. You can text and call her outside of that date, but she is busy and may not respond. If she contacts you, you are expected to respond promptly.

Deal or no deal?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-04T01:05:39+00:00

2nd

I can't believe some of these gimmick accounts are lasting as long as they are

HeartCatchHana · 2023-06-04T02:45:25+00:00

How often do you think about sex in a day?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-06-04T04:49:12+00:00

I created a tinder today. 25 likes and the only person the app has shown to match me with so far is my ex lmao

nandor_the_relenting · 2023-06-04T04:53:45+00:00

gimme ur tips 4 navigating casual waters

she just divorced and I get why she don't want something serious, and I think I'm game

but I feel somewhat torn between the axes of playing it cool and making grandiose expressions of love

I don't need it to be serious but I don't know how much I might turn her away if I seem too interested? Does that make sense? What's the correct ratio of day-per-text? Eh?

I think I am Guy B, Guy #2, and that's ok--really... really! Really. ...idk "playing it cool" without losing it is the worry

old_new_age · 2023-06-04T05:31:52+00:00

what are the least shit dating apps? I have unironically gotten laid/gotten close to getting laid more from omegle and discord than I have from tinder, hinge, bumble, etc. maybe it's just my area

DerayRevan · 2023-06-04T06:05:54+00:00

So on Q4M l get told my priorities are in the wrong place because l said sex is a 70-85% why l choose to be in a relationship with her

But what a people don't know is l don't look for much in a girl if am gonna be in a relationship with her because you never know if it's short-term or long, so sex is the most important factor following her personality since l wouldn't date date a ugly/fat woman with an amazing personality

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-04T12:06:48+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/nottheonion/comments/13zkkml/a_true_crime_fanatic_in_south_korea_killed/

I knew it I called it. All true crime fans are suspect. Men protect yourselves.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-06-04T12:25:48+00:00

I really dislike people that try to recline as far as they can on a fligh. And they don't put their seat up right when the food arrives. I get it, it's economy, we're all uncomfortable. But damn, some people are just rude.

Complaint over.

Willow-girl · 2023-06-04T13:15:55+00:00

The dogs were barking at the door for the third time already this morning and my man told them that if they wanted to go out again, they had to bring him $50,000 and a box of chocolates.

Should I be worried?

edgyny · 2023-06-04T14:14:19+00:00

I'm at a major technical conference for my field IRL for the first time post COVID... I can't unsee "subtle" pineapples some people are wearing... prints in shirts and ties... of field luminaries. All old geezers.

🤮🤢🤮🤮🤮

potoricco · 2023-06-04T14:23:04+00:00

Soca music is really underrated

Makes me want to go to a carnaval

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-06-04T15:09:51+00:00

How good Austin TX is to live there?

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-06-04T23:37:47+00:00

New BBC interview is pretty funny. I love tate but there is something comical about a grown man unironically referring to the "matrix" and "females" with his hands in an upside down steeple the entire time like an autist.

Raven-Ray · 2023-06-05T01:22:06+00:00

I didn’t know who Steven crowder was until I saw him verbally abusing his ex wife. Idk why anyone’s shocked lmao watched a video on how he spoke about women and it’s not surprising he’s abusive.

I bet a lot of these ‘red pill high value alpha podcast bros’ are abusive. At the very least they’re scammers.

MalandiBastos · 2023-06-04T01:59:49+00:00

Quite happy about student loan payments re-starting. It should have good implications for non-poor males in the dating market. Theres a reason one of the things feminism fought so hard for is economic stability in women. Because economically desperate women do desperate things. Loan repayment will make things pretty damn tight for a lot of women, and with the costs of everything else rising as well.

potoricco · 2023-06-04T14:25:09+00:00

I feel bad for guys in the sense that they have to go to the gym for cosmetic reasons

I just go to exercise. I don’t know shit about building muscles so my life would be really hard if I was ah guy

Edit: stop downvoting me

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-04T13:22:16+00:00

Imagine your bloodline being filled with strong men who went out and worked their arses off in order to provide for their families only for you to become a house husband or stay at home Dad.

Having it become more acceptable for men to take on more feminine roles has sped up the process of the weakening of men as a whole. It's not a good thing that we've become okay with this sort of thing.

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