Fear mongering women over “dying alone”

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-04-09T15:37:42+00:00

Please note this isn’t red pill, this is a broad behavior that occurs across men and women when dating.

I don’t know nor care. Usually the people who are trying to fear monger women to read the room are usually bitter for not being chosen. If you are partnered up, cool. If not, cool. If you turn me down, cool. If you turn others down, cool. I’m pretty easy going about it all. Thus would get complaints about me “not caring” quite a bit like Jerry Seinfeld.

https://youtu.be/T9W_jW4e_uY?si=8-xBC264_2Mw0W7A

Hard to say exactly in every situation, however sometimes you’ll have someone who would be considered a “0-3” on the attractiveness to date scale (physical, emotional, career) and only demand “8-10s” on the scale for situationships or relationships. Sometimes it’s a read the room and take an accurate humbling look at yourself and you’ll end up alone forever, or I perceive myself to be at a higher level than you and you turning me down is a stupid mistake as you’ll unlikely get someone like me again outside of a fling situation.

I can only guess/predict for those other people but can’t make my comment an absolute decision for an entire gender of peoples.

abaxeron · 2024-04-10T09:08:49+00:00

Why is there so much more fear mongering towards women when it comes to being single and childless (or childfree) in the RP vs men?

There isn't. RP is not about women. It's about men. If a woman "decided" to freeze her eggs and have kids in her late 40s, RP warns men that egg freezing fails in 90+% of the cases, and embryo implantation is an expensive procedure that is almost guaranteed to fail, but the woman will still expect "her man" to pay for. The ones who usually "put pressure" onto women to have kids are their own mothers.

You absolutely can find two and a half counter-examples from Tiktok click-farms that for some reason call themselves RP. I am not interested.

No-Rough-7390 · 2024-04-10T00:49:12+00:00

One things for sure, we’re gonna find out.

OtPayOkerSmay · 2024-04-09T15:47:45+00:00

In my opinion, it's a tit for tat thing.

There were women screaming at men that have given up (on dating, marriage, etc) that they will die alone to shame them back to the table to increase the size of the pool of simps, and men are just reflecting that hateful energy back in more recent years.

It's kind of like how feminism didn't really face any large-scale hate until it became very synonymous with spite and blatant misandry towards men.

Hate begets hate. Surprise.

DzejSiDi · 2024-04-09T15:04:50+00:00

(if anything there seems to be an indication that they fair worse then their respective female counterparts).

Indeed.

And mind you this is in spite of the fact that men “age like fine wine”

Can age like a fine wine (it is not granted).

Despite all these facts women are consistently being threatened with “dying alone” and fear mongered over it. I really don’t get it. And I’m not saying this to say that it’s good to never marry or have children, I honestly believe more people are happier doing that than not or at least more fulfilled in life. My question is why only women are being chastised about it?

Pressure to settle is a good "rule of thumb" advice for your average women, their time window for finding a partner they deem "worthy" is much shorter. That's IMO the main reason. Every woman that "expired" is also one less potential mate for somebody.

Men have longer time period to "wake up" and decide to settle with somebody in order to start a family.

SlowEffective8146 · 2024-04-09T15:32:23+00:00

I don't care if women want to die alone on an individual level. What I do consider a problem is the narrative that anyone is happier alone. And feminism advocates for division.

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xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-04-10T09:34:05+00:00

Not fear mongering really. Just women often say something. And do in action the opposite.

And most men have a lot bigger time to be able to make children then women do. That's just biology.

And if you want something. And put 100 things before the thing that has a clear time period. It's not weird to say that your not going have it if you put it aside forever.

And the thing is women just have a much harder time being alone. And men don't see it as a big punishment that a lot of women see it.

I dont see many men with crazy amount of cats or dogs. Trying to fill a loneliness void they have. But you do see women doing that a lot.

And often men just wish that women would be less being krabs in a bucket and pulling women down and being unhappy together and reinforcement of there own mistakes on others and glorified there experiences like there happy. While there often not fulfilled or happy at all.

Sure some are but much more are not.

And men are hard on the people they care about. Cause if you warn someone about to run in to traffic. If you hated the person you let them just do it. Not say a thing.

But man often feel responsible and have a build in need to want to protect.

But also have a big need for only investing in people with that investment and trust.

But people think every form of disagreement or hate is seen as just hate but there more reasons why people would say a type of thing.

Like resentment or jealousy. They would let a mistake happen. And even jump on the hate bandwagon.

Other form of hate is people wronged by those people. So already jaded in there views.

But there are also people that do it in a place of love.

A example of it is. There is a big group of women and people glorifying being a single mom. Cause your strong your independent you can do it all.

I can easily lift 100 pounds. Don't make it I should choose to do it every day. No matter how I'm feeling if I'm sick or have a off day.

But being a single mom your signing up for a 2 person job to do it alone. And even do you can do it. It's a none stop job. Where you need extra hands when your not feeling well or sick. Or need moments off.

But many people that lived or seen or come from single mom homes that say it's not all what you think it is its choosing for a live of struggling.

Is seen as hatting on the capability of women. And you just wanna oppressing women under men again redric. While it often more comes from a place of love.

Same can be said about the topic. Many people have aunts or people they know that have like 4 or 5 cats. Or a lot of dogs. And just very alone and lonely people. Often also cause of there own choices. Cause relationships are about compromise. Not always about pushing your views or wishes. On your partner. And the more flexible you are the more flexible the other side also will be. And the more likely you will have successfully in relationships. Cause all relationships is is both people haveing respect for each other and there wishes. If you make it to much about your self all the time the more you are just not cut out for a relationship.

And that counts for both sides. Just when men above a kind of Fandom women see it almost like a challenge to try and change a men. Of his selfish side. The same thing does not happen for women. Cause selfish woman are mostly not loyal women. While selfish men can still be loyal men.

Why its a ick one way and not the other way.

But there many people that choose the single be alone for ever lifestyle. But many many are deeply unhappy. Women struggle to be alone just much more then men.

And if you see a lot of people you care about being deeply unhappy. It's not weird to say. People what your doing is not it fam. I see so many deeply unhappy and crying. And video after video and people in my life. Maybe you should really think hard of if you realy wanna lock down this lifestyle cause live can be very long. And I think like half of the people that are so in so hating or making fun of it. More doing it cause they see it so often how it ends up like.

But everyone can make there choices. But some choices you can't undo later. So you better be very sure before you lock your path in life. That's all and that's not realy hate. But many people see it as hate cause it's not agreement with you. But disagreement is not the same as hate.

Cause hate means people don't care what you do or if you live or died. That's hate. I don't think most people go around filled with hate at everyone. Beside the people that have been wronged in a big way. By types of people. Your people that have resentment or jealousy. But they would push you to make the mistakes your gonna make. Cause that's what they want.

DarayRaven · 2024-04-09T14:55:50+00:00

I don't fear dying alone instead, l've just made a educated decision to not pursue marriage given l'm redpill aware about it

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-04-09T18:59:14+00:00

The unhappiest demographic in America is a single childless professional women in her 40s

Meanwhile Paul Dolan’s dumbass (cause he doesn’t know how to interpret data) convinced y’all that actually single women are much happier than their married counterparts with families.

We’re just tryna correct that dumbasses mistake so when you’re crying your 40s to your cat can’t say we didn’t warn ya ¯_(ツ)_/¯

RedPill115 · 2024-04-09T21:17:31+00:00

Why aren’t men being told to fear “dying alone” and not having kids

The difference is men already know this, whereas women:
- don't seem to realize
- also have feminists consciously gaslighting them about it

"A woman's peak reproductive years are between the late teens and late 20s.
"By age 30, fertility (the ability to get pregnant) starts to decline.
"This decline happens faster once you reach your mid-30s.
"By 45, fertility has declined so much that getting pregnant naturally is unlikely.

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-04-09T18:00:15+00:00

Well I say it because it's really sad to see these women getting older and lonely when the time for them to get a man is passed.

I don't say it to be mean I say it to help them. I know a lot of women that are getting older and want to settle down but it's too late. They don't look as good as they used to, they're not fertile, and they're used up.

Then they want to become wives but I'm not going to spend all that money and invest in her when she just doesn't have anything to offer in return anymore. I worked hard to get a career and money. It was like the heros journey where I had to climb mountains and slay dragons, and it's not fair to me to just hand it over without getting anything in return. Especially now when I'm the one with the power, why should I do that?

There is no data that I am aware of that shows that men fair better than women when they never marry or have kids

Do you need a study for that? Because men are the ones paying for that. We are the ones paying the bills, we are the ones that's going to have to work overtime every Christmas to pay to make them happy. We're the ones that are going to pay for vacations. While women are the ones receiving. We're even expected to give our lives if it comes down to it. If the women isn't something special or didn't think we were worth her best years why would we do all that?

caption291 · 2024-04-09T18:59:19+00:00

You don't need to tell people that are walking at the pool to stop running?

Men are aware that it's a bad situation they should try and avoid and that there's a pretty good chance they end up in it anyways.

Women seem to think they can't fail and even if they do it won't really be a failure because they are sooo special on the inside.

Anyways this would be a pretty bad manipulation tactic, women respond much better to stuff like fear mongering about how all men are violent predators or that they are oppressed in every way imaginable.

AreOut · 2024-04-09T19:21:30+00:00

the thing is most women claim they will be happy without relationship/kids but a lot of such women take xanax or similar, you can make the cow in a slaughterhouse happy with xanax so I am not sure if it should count

it's one thing having no goal for a relationship and completely another having insane standards and ending up alone, which is the most frequent case

babazuki · 2024-04-09T20:15:35+00:00

Seems like more evidence that women are incapable of thinking for themselves and acting independently. They are just a hive mind.

Women brag so much about being independent and not needing men. Yet if you point out that that will leas to them being single, or unattractive, which should be an obvious result of their actions, they have a melt down.

They just follow social trends and require affirmation they are doing the correct thing to feel safe and happy.

You're going your own way, just do it. Grow up.

EveningEveryman · 2024-04-09T20:16:34+00:00

How is this fear mongering? The advise of "find HVM when you're in your early 20s or else you'll die alone" is good advice unless you have very low expectations compared to other women, or are perfectly fine being alone for your whole life, you should take the redpill advise as a woman.

Title	Fear mongering women over “dying alone”
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Date	April 9, 2024 2:38 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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