I am pretty sure the women have a misunderstanding about pornography.

the_scar_when_you_go · 2026-05-21T22:00:01+00:00

The most viewed categories (by total view counts) are Milfs, Anal, Japanese, Lesbian, Mature, Big Ass, Ebony, Massage, BBW and Hardcore. So, prob a lot of men looking around in those categories...

(Today I learned that boomers are 36% more likely to search "strap on," and idk what to do with that info.)

NoDanaOnlyZuuI · 2026-05-21T21:48:32+00:00

Depends on the man. There are dozens of porn categories, and last I checked, men aren’t a monolith.

toad-wrangler · 2026-05-21T21:54:34+00:00

Probably whatever the most searched for categories are.

Expensive_Lion1807 · 2026-05-22T01:31:35+00:00

I literally can’t think of any positive reason that I would want to know.

I try very hard to accept that men’s and women’s sexuality is fundamentally different and that men aren’t all inherently perverted, predatory, morally and ethically broken, and deviant just because they’re so different.

Knowing what they actually consume might well smash that effort to slimy smithereens…

Titsoffwork · 2026-05-21T21:57:28+00:00

There is not one size fits all. I find that men have diverse views on porn and the stereotype that all men are simple and get turned on by anything isn’t really true.

I am a content creator- and I make all kinds of content by request- there literally are an endless amount of kinks and preferences.

And if people didn’t want the step shit they wouldn’t make it- but the tos of all the platforms will always push to the most taboo theme allowable by credit card providers- people want taboo- it’s human nature.

ihatesmelly · 2026-05-22T01:45:48+00:00

I don’t like it, because most men have a type of porn they want to watch - such as anal, cnc content, deep throat - because I don’t do those. At all. So it makes me feel as if I am inadequate, because I won’t do those things.

Also if he’s watching a particular model, or the same type of woman (petite, blonde, bbw, brunette, Asian, Latino, etc). That to me feels like cheating if it’s not me.

If it’s only an every now and again thing such as once a week, on a random video he just picked from the home page, yeah that’s alright. It’s the habits/video preferences and when it becomes an everyday thing even with a healthy amount of sex to me is the issue.

Bubbly_List274 · 2026-05-21T23:52:40+00:00

What you seem to miss is that children watch pornography too. Most children are exposed to porn before age 13.

Impressive_Data_4679 · 2026-05-22T00:15:33+00:00

I’d say one look at pornhubs stats every year give most people a pretty decent idea of what most viewers consume.

oppositegeneva · 2026-05-21T23:05:46+00:00

It varies greatly, this is a stupid question

PositionStandard6089 · 2026-05-21T21:53:35+00:00

"By the way, if there are any porn content creators out there who stumble across this post, please stop with the "step" pornography. Just stop. We don't like it. We just endure it."

oh, also that's not correct. they make content based on what gets watched. they don't have some agenda to push the "step" narrative. the men watching that content over and over, getting the views way up, is the reason they keep making it.

do you have a misunderstanding about what kind of pornography the average man watches? lol

-mixedsignals · 2026-05-21T23:06:34+00:00

I watch porn too so you can't fool me on what's out there lol

There's CREEPY stuff with plenty of likes, comments, views. Not judging anyone, but you can't fool me

leosandlattes · 2026-05-21T21:54:37+00:00

Women do not want to know what kind of porn men watch. Women have been forced to accept that men will watch porn no matter what, fine, but why would I want to "understand" what kind of porn any man is watching?

There are tons of porn categories and the yearly PornHub analytics will tell us what is most popular with men.

SnooCats37 · 2026-05-21T22:17:33+00:00

We don’t care

hnybbyy · 2026-05-22T01:35:01+00:00

I don’t care to understand it

ladybird_00 · 2026-05-21T22:59:40+00:00

Doesn’t matter what it is, it’s unattractive

DMmeClownPics · 2026-05-21T22:18:40+00:00

My boyfriend mostly watches gay porn. My roommate is a boob man. He’s left his tablet on in his room before a few times.

Barneysparky · 2026-05-21T21:50:39+00:00

Do you want a list of the top porn categories?

Secret_Entry1840 · 2026-05-21T21:52:15+00:00

One of my guy friends does POV, big asses, and lesbian. Creampie, milf, step (it’s a thing even if it’s not for you,) barely legal, amateur, asian, rough, etc. there’s tons of porn out there for average guys.

sablesalsa · 2026-05-21T22:42:15+00:00

You speak for the average man? I had no idea.

Ronniebbb · 2026-05-21T22:25:46+00:00

Aren't there like 100# of categories on each site? Some like one particular thing and others like something else. IDC what ppl watch, I just don't want it in my relationship

love_in_october · 2026-05-22T05:28:10+00:00

The kind that ignores the concept of consent, treats its actors like shit, and doesn't care about giving basic respect to women and minorities. I don't care about what specific flavour you're into.

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-21T22:50:23+00:00

You're right, I don't know what kind of porn the average man watches.

Why on earth would I care what kind of porn the average man watches?

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Theawkwardmochi · 2026-05-22T13:49:43+00:00

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That said, I don't know and I don't care. The average man doesn't exist. Everyone has their own turn-ons.

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SimilarChampionship2 · 2026-05-22T13:48:23+00:00

Don’t care about the average man. I personally would not date a man who watches porn. My partner doesn’t watch it, I don’t watch it. I don’t like how a lot of porn eroticises violence towards women in sex. How it sexualises school girls and incest. The woman is almost always slapped, choked, called a bitch, face f*cked till she gags and cries. You can hardly distinguish between the sounds of pain and pleasure not to mention the sex trafficking and coercion that takes place which makes it hard to know if what you’re watching is 100% consensual.

QuestioningThink · 2026-05-21T21:50:19+00:00

Watching porn is bad period. I don’t care what kind you watch.

theminxisback · 2026-05-21T22:24:54+00:00

Incest, threesome, anything considered tabu or out of the ordinary, hentai, queer porn, fetishes, extreme, hardcore and gangbang. That's what i think of anyway when I think average man and porn in the US.

For me though ... I had to stop watching porn. I went deep into the dark rabbit hole years ago and still have trouble having sex due to it.

Tacoflavoredfists · 2026-05-21T22:02:18+00:00

You want women to share what porn we think men like? That’s weird. Everyone has different tastes and some stuff is not in line with who people may portray as their type outside of sexual stimulation. A lot of us watch porn *with* our partners, too, so saying you’re “pretty sure” women have no idea what men watch is a reach outside of those with little to no experience. The problems arise when porn prevents you from having a realistic perspective about sex and women or when using porn negatively affects your relationships or sex drive.

What’s the point of this post anyways? Where is anything supporting your assertion? Is this just an attempt to get material from random women? Weird

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2026-05-21T22:41:40+00:00

and if i had a truly accurate idea of it, then what would happen?

Present-Afternoon-70 · 2026-05-23T00:38:54+00:00

You have not had many women as platonic friends because women watch everything you do.

Title	I am pretty sure the women have a misunderstanding about pornography.
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