Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?

king_of_red_alphas · 2020-03-02T20:31:25+00:00

I’ll go on record as saying I generally “hate” Chad but for far different reasons.

Basically, many (not all) Chad’s are just douchebags. Any fratty-chad induces a visceral hate because I find their manner of speaking, loudness and general basic-ness enraging.

The fact that hot girls bang him is just icing on the cake, but my distaste for Chad is more on a human level (I find many types of obnoxious people annoying)

However, one thing Chad never did to me: Lie. Chad will straight up say what he wants.

Women? Not so much.

When it comes to my own personal experience and what led to my difficulties with women, that’s almost all on women (and to some extent society in general)

I’ve seen posts in this thread saying “didn’t you just observe women going after hot guys?”

Well, for one, as a young boy - you don’t really know what “hot”means to a girl. Sometimes you think (as I did) that women have similar attraction cues as men.

Growing up with 3 older sisters, a single mom and 2 aunts, you are taught explicitly and implicitly that women are to be believed, respected and taken at their word.

A lifetime of that before age 13, and you are ill equipped to deal with the realities of women once the hormones kick in.

It can take a lifetime to de-program from the lies you are told about women’s priorities and desires.

So, yes, what I resent is women’s inability to realize how destructive these lies are to boys growing up without somebody to tell them point blank, those are lies.

If somebody had told 12 year old me “Don’t believe what they say - watch what they do” my childhood would have been a lot different.

acenosk · 2020-03-02T18:16:20+00:00

Chad didn't lie to men about attraction, women did.

NixieNik99 · 2020-03-03T00:13:56+00:00

Women no longer want to settle down out of highschool . Nobody is teaching their girls that breeding with a average dude is a must to have a quality stable life . Since women have choice and the ability to make their own money . The need to settle is put off or altogether not in the plans for females . Men should had known that once women obtained voting rights that the women movement was going to be freedom of choices in life eventually . If settling down right out of highschool was so great the older generations wouldn't be encouraging the younger women to achieve other goals like "make their own money obtaining a education" than just marriage and breeding . Women want better . It's not candy against veggies . Nothing wrong with wanting good looking childern . Society treats good looking people better . Why have kids if you decide with a male that has undesirable genetics ? Men are mad at women cause women refuse to stay home, breed endlessly , be ignorant educational wise, and be cheated on . Then left penny less once the husband dies from sickness or some accident . Nothing wrong with women wanting a good looking Chad . It's the way Nature designed us females . Maybe it's men who need to man up and be "masculine" . Why would a female pick a weakling of a man over a masculine man ... It's pure logic and natural instincts. Women are sexual creatures . Your Disney concepts should be going out the window once puberty kicks . Life is not a Disney movie .

Aaren_Augustine · 2020-03-02T18:15:36+00:00

Anger phase is supposed to be directed at yourself for not getting it sooner. To be bitter or resentful, in my mind, is to admit you're too mentally weak to take ownership over your own life. So the easiest thing to do is blame other people for your problems.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-03-02T18:28:24+00:00

It should be directed at yourself.

You are the only common denominator in your life. Everything is due to action you have or have not taken.

naamshiko · 2020-03-02T20:28:21+00:00

Most males are going to treat you like shit anyway, so if he’s going to be crap, the least he can do is not damage my eyes further more by not looking ugly.

To the men saying that it’s always the nice guys who don’t get anything: BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING IS NOT A QUALITY. ITS A BASIC REQUIREMENT. And it doesn’t guarantee you free puss.

Harriett- · 2020-03-03T07:00:03+00:00

Beta men are too cowardly to be confrontational towards other men.

sublimemongrel · 2020-03-02T18:47:41+00:00

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redditthrowaway1478 · 2020-03-02T19:47:53+00:00

Chad is not a person. Chad is an idea; at some level, all men idolize this idea. In Chad, they see their greatest masculine potential realized.

Chad is confident

Chad is successful

Chad is charismatic

Chad is rich

Chad is good with women

Chad gets what he wants

Chad has AGENCY in every aspect of his life

...

Chad doesn’t have insecurity. If he ever does, he understands how to handle them and conquer them

Chad doesn’t lack any desirable quality. He has what you don’t

These are highly innate, masculine drives that all men understand at some level. Chad is, in many ways, our culture’s current personification of masculinity

Men don’t hate Chad because there is a certain modicum of respect for, and desire to become him.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-03-02T20:02:45+00:00

Women are attracted to hot exciting guys and men are attracted to hot horny girls. Hate either or both if you want, but why? For every hot Chad with options there is a hot woman with options. People with options can often appear to us conventional folks as Class A assholes - but... who are we to demand hot people like us? Who are we to tell another person what their attraction criterion should be? I can tell a woman she should choose me over Chad because I write awesome poems. A woman can tell a man to overlook her obesity cause she's fun and edgy. You can tell people and society your demands and expectations all you want. Nobody owes you shit. This is the first and golden rule of the human mating arena. Accept this before entering.
Women have a conundrum - the hot exciting guy is great for making genetic super-babies but not so great for helping raise them. This is where Red Pill theory comes in with Alpha Fux and Beta Bux. Even something as innocent as a guy getting together with an Alpha Widow with two gorgeous kids, this is AF/BB behavior - probably the most common kind, really. Think of it as retroactive voluntary cuckoldry. Hate her for adapting to create strong kids AND find a way to care for them or hate him for trying to trade commitment for intimacy... but why?
Beta males have a conundrum - they can try to Alpha Up (doesn't always work) but they're horny and want loving too. So, they sometimes come up with crazy ideas to try and balance out their odds. They might orbit the woman, and worship her and be her girlfriend with a dick or her emotional tampon. You can probably justify hating this guy because these guys do have a tendency to bring out the wicked fucking monster in women by inflating their already naturally swollen egos. But... why?
You can hate the young kid who's read Red Pill theory and now thinks all women are gold digging whores and that the girlfriend he feels entitled to should be hated on for rejecting him. But hating even a loathsome creature like this -why?

I think that blue-pill society in trying to continue to hide the brutal realities of the mating arena are perpetuating all of these archetypes and tropes. As a MGTOW transitioning out of Red Pill rage, I am now at peace with the madness that is the mating arena. I have no interest in mating, dating, or marrying. That is my solution - I just want no part of it. And that's apparently not an option because guys who opt out are CLEARLY not choosing this, but are JUST BITTER LOSERS for having been ejected. You can hate me, but why?

Do I have to go out and be this "best version of myself" and go into the arena again, as a divorced dad of limited resources, just to prove to the naysayers and shamers that I am indeed a real man who CAN get laid?\*

I have a better idea. If you don't like me, or think I'm a loser the solution here is simple:

Go fuck yourself.

But know in saying that, I don't hate you. I just don't care what you think.

\Sidenote: any guy with $200 in his pocket can get laid. He's no less a loser than the guy spending $200 on dinner with hopes of getting laid.*

factorfactorfactor · 2020-03-02T18:34:09+00:00

no, it should be directed towards SIMPS

G0DF0RBID · 2020-03-02T18:32:44+00:00

Chad worship in a comments 😩

loke2dabrain · 2020-03-02T19:14:26+00:00

One of the positive effects of the manosphere is that it brings men together. Our culture is already anti-man, what men really need to do is come together.

bigdaveyl · 2020-03-02T20:00:40+00:00

You're over thinking things.

Men from a young age are told that men are into looks, while women are more interested in personality. In other words, women are more apt to be demisexual or sapiosexual.

However, many men find out that women are very much into looks. That's why there's so called anger directed towards women.

Now, I know the response is going to point the finger at those who lied, but many times it was women who have the advice to just be a nice guy.

Riroxxx · 2020-03-03T06:55:04+00:00

We all know a alot of incels are in the closet, therefore the fixation on mr. Chad

Kagayami · 2020-03-02T19:45:49+00:00

Woke posts like this is the reason why I'm subbed here.

LittyKitsune · 2020-03-02T18:28:20+00:00

Your first mistake was assuming that anger is rational lol.

Angry people generally don't sit down and create a flowchart to figure out who they should be angry at (protip: the correct answer is always capitalism). They just want to stick it to somebody.

7-11-21-Luck · 2020-03-02T18:17:34+00:00

Chad? No. Women? No. Ourselves and society? Yup. Can't be mad at what happens naturally

ResponsibleCharacter · 2020-03-02T21:21:30+00:00

No. Men good, women bad. They should have read his mind and known “I love you, you’re the one for me” actually meant “I am going to use you for sex while it’s convenient for me to do so.” /s

Many “Chads” aren’t doing ONS. They’re having serial flings, manipulating women into thinking they care for her and see something deeper developing while fully knowing that they’re full of shit.

MwahMwahKitteh · 2020-03-02T21:33:15+00:00

As an average woman, I'd like to know where my hot fuck boi Chad is.

maxtorrz · 2020-03-02T19:13:11+00:00

It's more that men are just tired of pretending "commitment" or "integrity" means any fucking thing to most women. Tired of pretending most women arent manipulative liars who will jump ship for the next hot guy.

Cobra_x30 · 2020-03-02T20:09:51+00:00

I would say that this comes from two main factors. First, is that our culture feeds young boys a giant lie about women. When you come to the realization that it's a lie it is more likely to become upset with those doing the lying than those who figured it out before you.

Second point is that modern dating conforms to the Employer/Employee interview power dynamic. If none of the employers want your particular skills, but bombard you with propaganda that they do... it's hard to get pissed at the guys who are successfully getting jobs, because ultimately they are victims of the same power dynamic as you, just because they are winning doesn't mean they can act differently and continue to win.

My overall point being that women have essentially all the power in mate choosing and the boys are reacting to being oppressed by it.

disayle32 · 2020-03-02T20:54:08+00:00

Women are responsible for their own choices. They choose to sleep with Chad. They choose to get pregnant with his babies. They choose to treat good men like garbage, rejecting them and/or cheating on them with Chad. Nobody is putting guns to women's heads and forcing them to make these decisions. They're doing it all on their own. These are facts. What man wouldn't be angry after decades of being culturally programmed to believe "women good, men bad"?

largepaycheckaddict · 2020-03-02T23:18:57+00:00

I thought the red pill is about becoming chad.

Incels and MGTOWs sit and bitch

urabeshya · 2020-03-03T12:33:26+00:00

I don’t understand why men get so mad about this. There are some people that are always going to be single. You can blame women, the times, or whatever, but the fact is that you have not been able to hold onto a woman and there is a reason for that. That reason is probably you, your personality, maybe emotional issues, etc. Maybe you say annoying things too often or you give off creepy vibes. It doesn’t mean you’re necessarily a terrible person, per se, although there are many that are terrible people that are single for extended periods of time. There’s no point in bitching about it constantly. We are all dissatisfied with life in some ways, but to seriously focus on your singleness that you spend hours online talking about it and probably will talk someone’s ear off IRL if you ever get the chance is completely neurotic.

Tornapart96 · 2020-03-02T19:11:57+00:00

Every guy is going to give you bullshit reasons. The truth is because they know Chad will beat the fuck out of and humiliate them and women pose no threat. They choose to rage at women because women are easy targets to rage at. The most logical option would be raging at themselves but they can't stomach taking responsibility.

lilsaihah · 2020-03-02T18:38:44+00:00

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Azihayya · 2020-03-02T19:08:24+00:00

The anger phase is a trap where men give up on having a good attitude, thus greatly diminishing their opportunities.

honeydewmelonz · 2020-03-02T19:48:56+00:00

No guy dares to challenge Chad. It’s no use, he’s too big and strong and handsome. He can’t help that he’s better than every guy on the planet in every way possible.

Workaholiconew · 2020-03-02T20:09:29+00:00

It is no different to companies which "get woke, go broke".

Chads are just competitors who did the work better than you.

Women are yet unreasonable client which did not say what they really want.

The only one at fault for your past behavior and subsequently present situation, is you.

If you think the competitor, or your clients at fault for your stupid decisions, you have all reasons to go bankrupt. Never trust the ideologues, and analyse the market. This is TRP. This is market mentality.

piguy31415 · 2020-03-02T20:33:13+00:00

Another solipsistic female hamster post rationalizing the shitty, dishonest way they've chosen to structure society.

It's pretty hilarious when you shit on men for not "getting it" but then your tame intellectuals, politicians, and various other proxies try to suppress and destroy the only male spaces that actually tell men the truth about your behavior. So you've tried to keep men from getting it on purpose but then shit on them for not getting it.

Feminism really is just a giant society wide shit test.

Skratt · 2020-03-02T19:01:13+00:00

No because Chad will knock their asses out, so they dont say a word about him. They'd rather come for the woman he's fucking that won't put them in the dirt.

oneplasticbike · 2020-03-02T18:15:27+00:00

women pushed for feminism, which unleashed Chad in the first place. no one hates Chad because everyone wishes they could be him.

OXOzymandias · 2020-03-02T18:43:14+00:00

I was angry at the dude who got the girls, i understood that i could somehow gain his level of success with women with work, the anger left quick after.

The dude who envy the women capacity to get laid is just dumb.

They are not playing the same game, so have different struggles.

Zippo-Cat · 2020-03-02T18:47:41+00:00

I doubt anger phase is directed at anything in particular. It's just anger.

Plenty of incels who blame Chads for their problems, by the way.

ZytaxWarflame · 2020-03-02T19:05:37+00:00

Emotions are never rational. I think your argument is flawed. Its logical to recognize the core issue when given a problem. The most logical course of action would be to work heavily on yourself first, control any variables you can, and then afterwards try to limit any outside variables. The most logical actions wouldn't require anger, rage, or blame. But humans are not logical. When people are given something to blame for their failures, they will focus on hating that thing, because its easier than trying to solve the problem. They'll convince themselves that they're not at fault to solve their cognitive dissonance. They get to blame something else and 'convince' themselves that they aren't useless. It doesn't make sense to blame people for playing the game.

Fast-Mark36 · 2020-03-02T19:26:42+00:00

Of course they could say they are mad at women for lying. But everyone fucking lies.

Do Chads lie? As much? If the lie is where the resentment comes from than what are you not understanding?

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-03-02T19:49:34+00:00

Since when are emotions based on logic? When I see videos of people fighting the person that their SO cheated on them with, it always makes more sense to me to be mad at the SO for cheating, not at the other person who they cheated with. Maybe this is similar in that logic doesn’t apply.

rus9384 · 2020-03-02T19:50:00+00:00

You think they are not jealous and bitter to Chad? Meh.

reluctantly_red · 2020-03-02T23:26:56+00:00

Chad never promised to love me in sickness and health till death do us part.

binkerfluid · 2020-03-03T02:36:38+00:00

Because Chad doesnt pretend he isnt what he is.

joesmithasdf · 2020-03-03T03:14:38+00:00

It’s always been the same since millennia. People don’t hate their masters, which overall has been straight rich men. They’re misguided instead to hate any other group, on the grounds of religion, race, nationality... and guess what, gender.

It’s just good old divide and conquer.

And yeah, the manosphere seems to salivate over chad’s cock, often adding details on how he should look like.

AnswerWithLoVe · 2020-03-03T05:49:50+00:00

There shouldn't be any anger phase but an acceptance (from both genders) that men and women do the EXACT same shit except like to complain about the other gender.

Like yea...he didn't return your call last night. Why? He was too busy banging Monique from guy's night out.

Yea...she didn't return your calls or texts. Why? She was too busy getting her back blown out by Chad last night.

It's why when you try to holla @ her she gives you something generic from the "reject him" manual, but when Chad hollas @ her the same way verbatim or w/ less respect she's swooned

It's why Chad got it within (literally) 15 minutes of meeting and you're still on date #3.

It's why he's willing to take/asked the other girl out on an actual date but he only hits you with the Netflix and Chill or the "Ay...yOu uP?"

I think the majority of people create a different set of standards for people they're not attracted to, but like to forget or act like they don't.

flamingoinghome · 2020-03-02T20:21:28+00:00

I think if there's anyone guys should be angry at, it's guys who lie to and/or are ungracious towards their hookups.

It's not immoral to have or want casual sex. But SO MANY guys are just...douchebags about it. Like, if more guys could be arsed to send a gracious breakup text instead of ghosting, or to be honest that they're not looking for anything serious, you'd get far fewer women feeling anxious and adversarial about sex. That's what a lot of this alleged AF/BB is: I had sex with guys early, got attached, and they couldn't be bothered to be gentle with my feelings, so I'm a little gun-shy now. But of course, admitting that would be tantamount to admitting that THEY have to be gentle and gracious, and that would be TERRIBLE.

Upset that your latest date is going full FDS? Blame the guys who couldn't have some fucking manners.

DangZagnut · 2020-03-02T19:02:52+00:00

I don’t get the whole anger thing in the first place.

Anger is an irrational emotion, stemming from having an incorrect view of reality. Your assumptions of reality come in conflict with actual reality so it causes an emotional response.

Solution: don’t have a stupid incorrect view of reality.

SpaceBollzz · 2020-03-02T19:39:35+00:00

Chad is just out to get some easy pussy.

The women that let him do it get the flack because Chad is no good for her at all but she rejects the good men that would offer a good life in favour of a quick fuck from Chad.

TheSnowyPlover · 2020-03-02T20:26:55+00:00

Chad isn’t bullshiting beta males, women are. Men tend to be much more direct and literal, so when women say they want a “nice guy” instead of no good, won’t commit Chad, they take it at face value. They try to become this guy, only to be shocked when women still go for Chad.

Feyra · 2020-03-02T18:43:58+00:00

But let's not take agency away from women.

Appreciated. :)

Much like children choose candy over vegetables ....young women choose hot fuckboi Chad(candy) over your average loyal/quick to commit dude(vegetables). Because duh ...why even get mad at children choosing candy over vegetables? Adults can't even choose veggies over candy hence the prevalence of diabetes.

Not sure if "women are dumb children" is any better than "women have no agency", to be fair...

Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?

Technically it is, to a certain extent. But I respect looking for the underlying "problem": why don't women want to have sex with me?. Just blaming Chad ignores the underlying question of why, and there's no recourse. Figuring out why gives one options to balance the scales.

toddfan420 · 2020-03-02T18:23:36+00:00

i would direct the anger at those responsible for the sexual revolution.

they are still around, and still fucking us up

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jenovajunkie · 2020-03-02T20:58:05+00:00

They both play a huge role in the problem.

Cicero_Johnson · 2020-03-02T21:18:06+00:00

Why would any sane person care what other people are getting???

the_cheddar_man · 2020-03-02T21:23:32+00:00

I blame neither... I believe in Karma... if she wants to sleep withevery chad in existence its her prerogative... all I say if she wanted a nice guy she should have started with one not been sleeping with every hot guy she could find...same with a chad if he wants every girl he can good for him but every action has a consequence... So if a woman in considered used up or walled our why should the so called nice guys or good guys pick up the pieces... theymadw their bed let them lie in it

Physiologist21 · 2020-03-02T21:30:14+00:00

Shitpost level 1000. Im impressed.

MuleFool42 · 2020-03-02T22:07:53+00:00

The anger might be misplaced but it doesn't really matter. The point is to get over it and understand female behavior for what it is, and understand how society and the social dynamic is, and how you navigate it as an RP dude. Once men get through the RP rage, they're more than half way to a better life.

It is not productive to direct anger and Chad, or women, or whomever. Get through the phase and move on.

Vandalized_Love_Map_ · 2020-03-02T22:08:44+00:00

It's not a matter of not seeing the truth. We've seen it all along and were in denial about it.

The difference is we used to have hope. Naive, irrational hope.

Hope is usually lost incrementally, and not all at once.

Returnofthemack3 · 2020-03-02T23:27:20+00:00

Women are the selectors so what purpose would come from hating on Chad ? You don't gotta love him, but he didn't make the rules.

AdolfGandi · 2020-03-03T00:08:31+00:00

Because when you talk shit about Chad, TRP faggots come out of the woodwork to defend him and glork all over his metaphorical caricature cock. They identify with Chad, and get mad when you made fun of him and scream about how beta you are while other TRP faggots join the chorus and screech in the background with them. Personally, I don't like anyone really. Chad, women, they all fucking suck. I'm not really homophobic or racist but I don't really care about social issues enough to not say faggot or the other one that I can't say because I don't want it in my post history.

RRBeachFG2 · 2020-03-03T00:24:18+00:00

So you agree women are children.

ieatassonfirstdate · 2020-03-03T00:48:31+00:00

no. the chad is a chad because of demand. the people responsable for this are the ones creating that demand.

would you get upset at McDonald's because people are getting fat?...no. those people are making the choice to go there, creating demand., but they are free to choose what they want.

the same goes to dudes going after IG toths. girls shouldn't get upset at the toth, nor the dude pursuing them.

people shouldn't get upset at either one. it's just 2 people existing and going for what they find attractive.

now. This being said. some Chad looking dudes are pretty cool, and actually looking Chad-like is somewhat detrimental because of the stereotypes that they get associated with.

RedPill_Dragon · 2020-03-03T02:36:09+00:00

But everyone fucking lies.

I don't lie

homo-erotic fixation on how awesome Chad is

No, it's more like a frustration because he screws things up. We are angry at both Chad and the women. For me personally, I exclude both from my life.

at "Chad" instead of women?

We don't like either of you. Seems the OP is a woman trying to divert accountability again. We hold women accountable same as Chad. Chad ruined the women and the women choose this when Chad obviously wouldn't marry them. So I hate both.

at children choosing candy over vegetables?

Because many of us men had to choose studies and career development, especially in STEM, in order to establish a real career and we did this without any support from women, being friend zoned, while watching women we admire ride the CC. Then years later, the same women talking about they are ready for us when they have been ran thru and oh wow.... looks, we just starting earning over $120,000 what a coincidence!!!

hence are shallow and full of shit

We were indoctrinated that women were perfect and the men were the problem. After years and becoming an adult, we see that was BS and a total LIE.

ElGupo1978 · 2020-03-03T02:42:05+00:00

I don’t see the need to hate anyone. I think a lot of this rage talk comes from weird way this conversation is framed

CHAD_TDK · 2020-03-03T04:33:46+00:00

Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?

That is a well thought out, rational though.

Unfortunately, when someone is in "the anger phase", they are not using their rational mind, but the "other" emotional/other-than-conscious mind.

ThrowawayCactus6012 · 2020-03-03T05:57:13+00:00

Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?

Not sure I agree, although I think the "anger phase" has become something of a caricature these days. However, I've sensed a certain amount of anger directed at other men, although not necessarily "Chad" (which is another caricature).

I agree that they shouldn't be angry at women (although that might depend on how one defines or perceives "angry"), but I don't see why they should be angry at "Chad," either.

If one scratches the surface and reads between the lines, what are they really angry with? Many often say they were lied to, but that may be an oversimplification. One thing that many today have in common is an upbringing and conditioning towards political correctness, and this is where the big "lie" may originate. It's not a "lie," in and of itself, but it creates false impressions which can be misinterpreted at an early age, depending on how sheltered one might have been while growing up.

Naebany · 2020-03-03T06:52:58+00:00

Funny you mention that metaphor. I can use that against you. Should you be mad at candys existing? Or should you try to teach children to eat healthier vegetables?

Your metaphor works nicely against you. But in real life vegetables should try to be more like candy. That's the only thing that can actually work.

Boobear3 · 2020-03-03T08:21:01+00:00

Repressed gayness and mommy issues

hellright88 · 2020-03-03T09:52:26+00:00

The TRP ideology is sexist because they cant handle reality so they choose to see women as the responsible party.

They complain because women want an attractive partner who is financially stable. Well fuck, isn’t that what men want too?

RandomAttackHelpMe · 2020-03-03T10:19:17+00:00

Yes, and guys do deal with that, albeit differently. Why do you think the term haters is thrown around? They're angry cause no one guided/helped them or like, they are/were lonely TOO long.

weag5l · 2020-03-03T11:02:46+00:00

Been lurking a bit. Something i can't quite understand is why so many guys who find TRP end up raging at women.

Because Chad doesn't reject men?

Because duh ...why even get mad at children choosing candy over vegetables? Adults can't even choose veggies over candy hence the prevalence of diabetes.

This is the bargaining stage. It comes after the anger stage.

RF111164 · 2020-03-03T15:23:19+00:00

why even get mad at children choosing candy over vegetables?

so get mad at candy? you sound like those overly controlling leftists that want the gov to "regulate" everything

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-03T18:35:28+00:00

The anger phase is when guys fully realize that the game sucks and is permanently rigged. Women will always have it easier.

It's when you realize that you're not that special and life doesnt work like all the movies you watched growing up when the ugly/average dude always gets the girl just because hes a good person.

Guys didnt expect every woman to find them attractive off the bat. They just thought that they could convince any women that they were through being kind, committed, and loyal.

Also, the realization that not every average joe or ugly duckling could become desirable. Everyone has a peak. Some can get to a 9 others only to 6.

I used to switch between hating the Chad and hating women(not on incel levels though) until I realized I just hate the game.

akihonj · 2020-03-02T21:03:49+00:00

If we change this from Chad to black and say why can't black men be angry at black men for black on black crime. See how stupid this sounds

The reasons that people, men, get angry at women is not because of Chad, those good looking guys who just walk into a bar and have to beat women away with a stick. That's like blaming good looking with for being good looking.

It's because those men who are in the red pill.rage are realising that no matter what they do they are getting screwed over, now if there were honesty, if women said, you know what I'll bang Chad but I'll expect you to pay for my life, I'll expect you to pick up the pieces when Chad no longer wants me, those men have a choice in the matter, but that's not what happens.

What happens is that these men are taught that their looks don't count, their personalities matter, that if they behave in a certain way they'll meet somebody who will live them the right way.

These men know that's not true but only after they have been hurt enough to be forced to see through the crap, and what's worse is that both their closes families along with the wider society continues to push the shit that if they behave in a particular way, and treat women the right way and have a good job and look after themselves and dress well they'll find somebody who will love them and treat them right.

shalomanioleh10 · 2020-03-02T19:18:06+00:00

I mean I can relate to Chad. We aren't mad at women over their choices, we are mad they choose to lie to protect female virtue. Guys choose humans over their own gender, women don't. Gendered warfare is fine with me, just it would've been nice if men were told about it that way we could've won. Instead there was an outside source sabotaging all our efforts. Repeal the 19th!

Title	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?
Author	Devils_Avokado
Upvotes	136
Comments	476
Date	March 2, 2020 5:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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