The porn problem will never be solved

Spicy_take · 2024-06-01T05:07:16+00:00

Well your first assumption is wrong. Most men watch porn to different degrees, especially as teens. They just don't develop an attachment to it.

DarayRaven · 2024-06-01T00:02:09+00:00

Whenever guys ask about quiting porn, it's always in the sense that their lives are meaningless/purposeless so the only place to channel all that energy and testosterone is through porn, because essentially you can quit watching it but replacing that dopamine with something else is going to be very hard

2024-06-01T03:20:02+00:00

Porns mains issue is the age it is first used.

It shapes young (like 9 years old) boys views on relationships sex and women in a twisted way.

I wish I grew up in a world without porn, or at least a world without internet porn and just playboy magazines.

It is truly sick.

Top-Middle-2791 · 2024-06-01T00:41:32+00:00

I disagree that porn is a problem lol. Maybe porn addiction, like any addiction, but so is any addiction

Look at what happened to the alchohol prohibition, it didnt work in ONE country.

It did work tho, in a sense that it reduced alcohol consumption

Most guys who have plenty of female attention do not watch porn. (Even as teenagers)

No, that's just not true

What are the alternative to them? Just be pent up 24/7?

Prostitution, just imagination and fap. I dont watch porn because I find it boring, my sex-having friend watched quite a lot of porn

Edit: I think pron fearmongering is overblown because that's something tradcons and feminists can kinda agree, it doesnt make it a serious issue tho

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2024-06-01T00:49:29+00:00

Women want the replacement gone, but don't want to be the replacement for the replacement.

jimmothyhendrix · 2024-06-01T03:49:34+00:00

Don't know how people can claim to be 'redpilled' and defend porn like its not a big societal problem. Most younger dudes have ED because the wack it to much.

MistyMaisel · 2024-06-01T03:12:28+00:00

I don't really care what adult men decide to do alone that influences no one else.

However, most of you were not adult men nor were you denied access to sex when you started watching porn at ages that are getting younger and younger. Last I checked first age of consumption was usually around 9. 9 years old. At 9 years old you were not some hopeless hapless orc in a studio apartment unable to sate your lust. You were a child. Porn companies exploited your developing bodies and minds. And the damage they likely did to you is almost impossible to entirely catalogue, but it is extremely likely that for some of you, the reason you're now hopeless and hapless orcs in studio apartments is because of your adolescent consumption of porn. And that's sad. That's sorry. That's not something adults should be allowing to happen to children. We need stricter measures.

Next, porn needs to be heavily regulated because it is heavily tied to sex trafficking, human trafficking, and most of the first ages of interaction are again, getting younger and younger. We're talking about kids and tweens. That's not ok. It's beyond such meager words. It's evil. And no amount of your own suffering or lust could ever justify it. And throwing up your hands to say, "I don't want that" also isn't good enough. It's kids. If you have to never have a drop of porn again in order to stop this, it should be an honor and a privilege to stop using porn immediately to prevent exploitation of other humans in such a depraved manner.

Now, let's say you aren't one of these studio apartment forever lonely orcs. Perhaps you're just a young man first beginning to seek relations with the opposite sex. You need to know, and I mean in your bones and nerves that what you've been spanking it to since 9 years old is not sex, is not how these interactions are conducted, and would likely be degrading and damaging to do to another human. And it's not good enough to shake your fist and say, "I know it's a fantasy". No, its not a fantasy. It's a lie made up by people who do not love you and want to use you. Who fed your brains rotten shit meant to constantly shock and excite and continually mature your brain deeper and deeper into porn. It isn't how people who even slightly like each other have sex. And if you even for a second try it, there's a good chance you're going to ruin relationships and opportunities and harm other people. Be wary to call it a fantasy.

Finally, and i admit this is the most...philosophical...be very careful how you think of porn. It's not a necessity. It's a relatively new vice. And vice is the correct term. You could spank it and find relief through actual acts of your imagination. You could also simply discipline yourself against the urge. Both of these things are reasonable. And pretending they aren't is covertly agreeing that you are weak and controlled by your urges...which is what makes you exploitable and easy to hook. You aren't. You can choose stuff. At least know you're choosing this and other options were available. And be careful how it makes you think of women or men. Porn is most often a degrading power fantasy that teaches you to dehumanize others at their most vulnerable. That's a dangerous muscle to be stretching regularly for anyone.

With all that said, again, I don't really care what adults do when I'm not looking so long as it doesn't hurt anyone besides themselves...but I do feel sad they feel hurting themselves is the only option.

Willing-Chapter-7382 · 2024-06-01T05:44:50+00:00

I don't think people with porn addiction watch it to relieve themselves, maybe initially they do, but afterwards, no, it isn't the main goal. Porn addiction probably stems from loneliness or boredom, or some other deep rooted mental health issue (probably from child abuse, etc.) I'd say it's more of a coping mechanism more than anything else.

You don't need to try to directly solve porn addiction, just take the out the dominos that cause it, and most of it will go away. And you wouldn't be able to solve it directly anyway. And even if you somehow manage to ban it, the people affected will find a different coping mechanism anyway.

Though porn by itself isn't an issue, since you can consume it in a healthy way (I'd argue most don't), I imagine the women who don't like that men do watch it, just don't want you looking at other women like that, or don't want to be replaced.

uglysaladisugly · 2024-06-01T12:00:25+00:00

Most guys who have plenty of female attention do not watch porn. (Even as teenagers)

Source? That is not what I read on reddit and that is not what I see personally.

I know few men who don't watch porn and not one of them have "plenty female attention" in the sens that they have a lot of sex or were always in sexually satisfying relationship.

Live_Guidance7199 · 2024-06-01T00:02:47+00:00

There's a porn problem?

Evening_Invite_922 · 2024-06-01T00:21:56+00:00

alcohol prohibition works in like a dozen plus muslim countries, at the least

ChadderUppercut · 2024-06-01T08:35:26+00:00

Chads and women make their own porn.

The rest of the men watch chads (and the occasional normie) having sex.

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-05-31T23:59:15+00:00

Wanting men to be informed about porn isn't "wanting it banned".

Men need to understand that commercial porn, like all action movies, is fake. Fake reactions, fake lube, fake responses to fake angles designed for the camera, not for pleasure.

And many of the women in porn are loaded with drugs, or else they'd never endure the indignity of fucking those absolute goblins hired because of their dick size.

shonenhikada · 2024-06-01T02:47:20+00:00

Some women want porn gone so men will submit to their sexual strategy in modern times. This strategy involves a large % of men waiting until their late 20s, after women have had their fun with other men, and commit/provide for women that want to cash out of dating game.

By prohibiting porn, women are hoping that men will be restricted in their sexual outlet even more and give into female demands out of horniess/desperation. The problem with this strategy is that porn is freely available, and multiple men have tons of porn saved on their hard drive which can freely be distributed back onto the internet via file sharing sites.

wardenferry419 · 2024-06-01T12:08:35+00:00

Had an English teacher that felt it necessary to preach in class about how wrong porn was. I was in the back, smirking. She noticed and asked what I thought was so funny. I said many people watch porn and use it appropriately, to help get off. And, I don't see what porn has to do with classic literature. She huffed and said something about some people not being as evolved as others.

Winter_Bar_1160 · 2024-06-01T01:55:40+00:00

Honestly there's nothing wrong with watching porn if you're single. Like nothing wrong at all, I don't get why women get wound up about it.

if you're in a relationship, then you need to discuss which boundaries are okay with your partner, and make sure that porn addiction isn't causing you to neglect your partner sexually, which happens too often.

My gf and I have tried watching porn together, she doesn't like it, she only really likes it if its like an erotic movie with a story and stuff and occassional scenes of sex and intimacy.

bielsasballholder · 2024-06-01T00:06:45+00:00

My problem with porn is that sex-trafficking is a major factor.

I never really was against porn until I read the statistics on how many people are being exploited.

I've never been able to look at it the same way

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2024-06-01T01:58:49+00:00

Porn isn't the problem, it's the solution. Problem is that a lot of males ain't getting sex or aren't getting enough to keep their libido fed.

Unusual_Implement_87 · 2024-06-01T02:27:51+00:00

There really isn't a porn addiction problem.

In the United States where pornography is highly unregulated, 200,000 adults are considered “porn addicts” among the country’s 40 million porn consumers.

That's 0.5% of porn watchers that are addicted.

Compare that to some of the alcoholic statistics I found Alcoholism Statistics & Alcohol Abuse Demographics - it seems there are 14.5 million people with alcoholic use disorder with roughly a little over 100 million people over the age of 26 who drank alcohol in the past month. So using these rough numbers we get a number of 14.5%.

14.5% Alcohol addicts vs 0.5% Porn addicts.

And that's not even taking into account the amount of damage alcoholics can do to society, like drunk driving, straining the medical system, emotional abuse to families, etc

Maybe it seems like there is a porn problem because maybe those 0.5% of addicts are more likely to be on reddit or other similar red pill places, or maybe people the people that really hate porn (The far left Marxists, as well as the far right religious conservatives) are more likely to talk about porn addiction in these type of communities making it seem like it's a bigger problem than it really is.

And just for fun here are some other addictions stats I found.

Video Games - Between 1.7% to 10%

Smoking - 83%

Gambling - 1%

Social Media - 10%

2024-06-01T13:07:17+00:00

I've divided my mind away from left right wokie whatever whatever.

Now I just see puritania from everywhere.

Give cons control, Trad virgin wives

Give left progs control, sex shaming men while encouraging women to sell themselves. A sort of adjusted puritanism where it's still not ok to sexualize women or think about them sexually, unless of course they want to be. It's still the same shit.

Social conformity. Either way you must conform or be silenced.

And porn use - it will turn out to be as bad as smoking in indirect ways I swear, but for now it definitely isn't going anywhere and that's good.

You have a hyper hyper sexualized culture (look anywhere and women literally cannot stop sexualizing themselves, just a fact of life not something I am bothered by, though it is sort of retarded) and a lot of economically and sexually repressed men killing themselves at unprecedented rates, and the best we can hope for until something changes as that those men KEEP killing themselves instead of saying fuck this, forming private militias and doing things like idk, mob stealing from stores? Gang violence in the UK? Hmmm.

These dumb online spaced especially the present YouTube rot post red pill, they are like the very base of this inevitable revolt against the system.

So far these guys are just killing themselves but eventually things are going to change for the worst.

So yeah, feel free to keep screeching and stomping down harder y'all. It's some fuck around and find out shit at this point.

pg_throwaway · 2024-06-01T14:55:36+00:00

I don't really agree with your first assumption, I think even men who get lots of female attention have looked at porn, maybe not as much, but they still do.

Otherwise, I think you are correct about everything else. I think porn is an unsolvable problem and will always be with human society just like prostitution.

AntonioSLodico · 2024-06-01T03:18:21+00:00

All your points seem to conflate masturbation and porn. Smut, sex toys, non-pornographic imagery, good old fashioned imagination, and more all exist to help you get there. Regardless of whether or not porn is problematic, your logic model is flawed.

Ppdebatesomental · 2024-06-01T04:28:36+00:00

I definitely don’t want to ban porn, I don’t think that everyone who watches porn is harmed by it, but I do think it can be addictive and problematic for some people. I disagree that the addiction won’t develop if you don’t need it. To copy my post from the other thread…

some people seem completely addicted to their screens for social media,

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/social-media-addiction

And for gaming

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/23124-video-game-addiction

Things that induce actual physical, sensory pleasure have been manipulated to be a pleasurable as absolutely possible like fast food and processed food

https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2013/02/26/172969363/how-the-food-industry-manipulates-taste-buds-with-salt-sugar-fat

Cigarettes additives to increase addiction

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2040350/

Given how addictive screens can be in general, and how physical pleasure can be manipulated to become addictive, if the porn industry hasn’t actually figured out how to make their product addictive, …..the addiction potential of the screen combined with the addictive potential of pleasurable sensation? …..then Pornhub is behind in the game. If TikTok can figure out the winning algorithm to make it as addictive as possible with stupid dances and kittens, it’s pretty hard to think there aren’t people falling into spending hours in a pornhub rabbit hole.

I hear the “agenda” argument all the time. I have absolutely no more interest in banning porn than in banning chicken McNuggets. I do think people need to be warned and aware of their behavior if their porn use starts to be excessive or compulsive

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-06-01T08:01:30+00:00

So... I just wanna toss this out there cause clearly some of these women haven't thought this through... if you ban porn world wide... all the mentally unhinged dudes that you all walk around fearing are probably gonna snap... porn is the only thing keeping a lot of neglected men sane.

Alternative_Poem445 · 2024-06-01T12:03:35+00:00

Secondly for most guys in the bottom 30% is meaningless effort, some wont get out of the bottom

more like the bottom 60%. thanks OP this resonates with me.

Planthoe30 · 2024-06-01T07:24:54+00:00

Something that gets overlooked are that only fans and pornhub are profiting off minors and that content is often viewable for years before it gets taken down. You also wouldn’t know if you were masturbating to a kidnapped minor because they are trained to act like adults and use make up to look older.

This is also why the “how low can we go” question bugs the absolute fuck out of me. The reason why traffickers go younger is because those girls will be monetized longer. I work with those kids everyday, they are between 12-17 years old! I’d ban pornography in an instant to get that content taken down immediately. Id even go beyond that and decriminalize prostitution but criminalize the buying of sex, so I’d start seeing more pedophiles behind bars instead of the kids.

You guys will live without porn and sex workers some of these kids have died because of it.

DoinIt989 · 2024-06-01T05:05:00+00:00

Most complaints from women about porn or "porn addiction" are women who have husbands or boyfriends who prefer porn over sex/intimacy. "Bottom 30%" men being addicted to porn is not a problem. It's a "social issue" because men who are already in relationships are choosing to watch porn over being intimate with their wives. And that is a problem

Mark-Common · 2024-06-01T01:30:37+00:00

Don’t you think it may evolve with future innovations using AI, robotics, and VR ? The addiction is a problem, but I see it evolving beyond the 2D screen.

EveningEveryman · 2024-06-01T03:25:03+00:00

It can if more men get married.

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FromAuntToNiece · 2024-06-01T03:30:46+00:00

Porn is already a problem for the middle third.

The sex performance expectations between the two sexes continues to widen. It's like the rock vs. the hard place.

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-06-01T14:58:53+00:00

If you want to train your brain to get off to watching a man fuck the girl you wanna fuck

All power to you

Some men just realise how fucked that is

harmonica2 · 2024-06-01T15:00:55+00:00

Can't guys take advantage of this problem because if guys are doing this then more women are single and thus more options for men who would rather have women instead?

batescommamaster · 2024-06-01T15:37:55+00:00

The biggest problem with porn is the underlying sex trafficking and rape that creates porn.

If you think and study the subject, you might realize that no woman is better off from having done porn. Take the industry STD rate itself, how much money is enough to risk getting aids?

And if you don't know who the people are, how can you know its not rape?

In many many cases, it is.

VWGUYWV · 2024-06-01T17:40:15+00:00

People were addicted to it before the internet back when it was expensive, less convenient, the women weren’t as attractive, and the content was more tame and you couldn’t search for whatever kink you liked.

Now, men just need to limit it and be aware because it is too easy to fall into an unhealthy relationship with it.

Agile-Explanation263 · 2024-06-01T18:25:49+00:00

1st: you heavily underestimate the horniness of males espevially as teenagers. Many could have sex and that same day masturbate later on because your girlfriend is at her house, no private time together or isnt in the mood again.

2nd: no one starts out addicted to porn, they search out porn because its actualization of thier open sexual imagination. You imagine something, few days down the line, search out something similar online to get closer to the fantasy.

3rd: I agree just leave unpopular men to thier own.

4: agree

I would change your post to. "The porn addiction problem doesn't need to be solved"

Nyanpireeee · 2024-06-02T04:42:13+00:00

I don’t think banning it is a solution necessarily because I believe in freedom. However, it’s undeniably a problem. It affects women a lot more than most realize. Statistically, porn consumption is associated with with an increasingly negative view on women, a higher pressure to be “masculine”, increased violence, decreased likelihood to interfere when witnessing violence, and worse treatment of women.

A lot of women have spoke out about being smacked and manhandled during intimacy without any warning or consent or prior conversation. The fetishization of violence is pretty much the direct result of porn.

MrSaturn33 · 2024-06-03T01:01:23+00:00

There is no way to solve the porn addiction problem.

Look at what happened to the alchohol prohibition

Are you seriously conflating watching porn on the internet to alcoholism? Alcoholism is a real, physical addiction to a substance. I'm not even trying to dismiss people who are suffering and have convinced themselves they can't quit porn despite wanting to. But yes, I think it's ludicrous to regard "porn addiction" as tantamount to addiction to substances.

CountMandrake · 2024-06-03T03:34:39+00:00

Porn is to men exactly what dating apps are for women (psychologically speaking, at least).

It creates a whole array of expectations on women's sexuality that, when not met, inevitably bring sexual frustration and relationship/marital disatisfaction.

It's the same thing that happens to women with Tinder. It raises up the expectations women have on men.

The only difference is that women actually get to interact with such men in real life and get a, well, "taste" of it when casual sex encounters happen, while men jerk off to women who are way out of their league and on top of that perform some stuff that no normal women would do for them.

Still, both can be damaging, in the sense that it creates false expectations from the opposite gender.

I would say dating apps and casual sex damages hit women harder, since the real experience is a lot harder to asimilate and it's basically a confirmation that their expectations can be, in reality, be met... Of course if the woman overrides her need for a deeper conection.

But then, there are women who are made for casual sex who care about dudes as much as those dudes care about them. Same with some men, the ones who can attain sex on the regular will see little to no benefit in porn.

Relevant_Tax6877 · 2024-08-19T20:54:27+00:00

Yeah, it's not going away any time soon, but I don't believe it has anything to do with a man's level of attractiveness or access to sex at all. It's the ease of access plus total disconnect from the human experience.

My ex became addicted to porn when the smartphone came out because it was suddenly right there in his pocket. I slowly watched the spiral in how it changed his behavior, screwed with his mood, nearly got him fired from work & more. I just didn't know what was causing it until the problem was several yrs past full blown addiction & became hard for him to hide. We went from amazing sex, fucking like bunnies to boring, monotonous & rare. I didn't even care for the idea of him touching me anymore & lost a lot of respect when I found out why.

When we went to therapy, he said he started out enjoying the novel ease of access. Then it became an escape & easier method of release. Then came the cycle of causing real problems but he'd turn to porn as a mood booster which caused more problems (like being late for work or disappearing to the bathroom for long periods causing his boss to yell at him so he'd watch porn for the dopamine hit, losing more time, wash, rinse, repeat).

Briefly dated another guy after who had no clue how to engage in foreplay & seemed amazed by the amount of positions or kinks suggested. Come to find out it was because "you don't see that in porn" (funny, I heard that exact line from my ex in regards to why he didn't care for foreplay anymore). I actually lead him through basic foreplay & when when we finally got to PIV, he was like "omg. That's a completely different feeling!" Dude was almost 40, had various relationships over the yrs so that was fully baffling?

Another claimed he didn't like porn, but same level of cluelessness & lazy approach to sex. Found out he absolutely did watch it (lies are awesome, thanks for that /s). When I'd suggest kinks? Total deer in headlights. Dip, dodge, duck, dive & dodge from the subject. Like he wants to watch porn, doomscroll filtered instathots & vouyerism in his spare time, but when he's got someone right there, fully down for the real deal & then some? Run awaaay.

Tried a hookup because I'd never done that, never been with the hottie bad boi type... apparently the tatted chads are supposed to be top tier? Exact same level of bore. I vocalized what I wanted, dude just awkwardly blinked at me lol. Pretty much killed my mood & I had to pretend to be interested while the whole time I'm thinking "this feels way too familiar."

These men have not been unattractive nor inexperienced. Just sexually lazy & all developed the same common habit over the yrs. The approach to sex was eerily the same... like trying to have sex with a robot that wasn't coded right. Before porn & thirst traps weren't thrown in everyone's face 24/7? Omg. Mind blowing. Passionate. Hours of fun. All kinds of exploration. No surface was safe. No excuses. Size had nothing to do with pleasure. My teen fun when we really were inexperienced has become my fantasy.

Now? Grown freaking men can't handle anything outside of a screen & seem to have lost the ability to make fuck. They worry about their average to above average size being "too small". Same old positions you see in porn even though there are countless to enjoy. I'm not even kidding when I say I've considered switching teams just so I can be with someone who understands how to navigate the female body again.

No, it's not going anywhere, but I really believe it's killed the enjoyment of sex by disconnecting sex from live ppl. The only alternative is to cut the shit & detox. That's wishful thinking though. Most men don't consider it's a potential issue until their dicks stop working & by then, it's almost too late.

Intrepid-Rip-2280 · 2024-06-01T05:59:02+00:00

Why is it even regarded as a problem? Who cares if some random person spends lots of time browsing porn, sexting to Eva AI bot or any other stuff which doesn't hurt anyone

PiastriPs3 · 2024-06-01T07:51:20+00:00

Most women don't care about porn use among men unless it becomes an issue of addiction. How is this an issue? God damn it, you guys have too much time on your hand. Jerking off and watching some lewd vid takes 5 to 10 minutes of your time if you're a horny single guy. This is barely worth thinking about.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-06-01T09:36:22+00:00

Nobody needs video porn, most of it is disgusting garbage. If you can't get off to a photo of a hot woman, you either completely lack imagination or aren't horny enough.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-06-01T09:57:34+00:00

It certainly could work. I can think of at least one country that has its own internet with many kinds of sites banned (China). Porn doesn't give you any attention as you are giving it attention and it doesn't acknowledge you back, if you want to pretend you're getting attention you could just use your imagination without porn. Nobody needs to watch porn to masturbate, you can just masturbate without (porn addicts won't understand this). It's way less than 30% of people who die virgins. If they seriously can't find anyone who meets their """low""" standards they can masturbate without porn.

just_a_place · 2024-06-01T06:55:33+00:00

I completely agree. I was one of those smug assholes who "didn't understand why dudes watch Porn" when I was in high school but that was only because I was getting laid, and the only guys that watch porn are the ones that aren't getting any, or aren't getting any in that moment lol. Shit, I still watch porn in between fucks. It's a nice way to rub one out and get the urges over with until the next time you can fuck.

I suppose it becomes an addiction depending entirely on your personality. The same dudes that get addicted to that shit are the same dudes that play fucking video games obsessively or have other addictive personality traits.

ArmariumEspata · 2024-06-01T00:47:49+00:00

Women watch porn as well and constitute as much as 1/3 of its viewership. Why does everyone conveniently forget that?

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2024-06-01T00:38:04+00:00

Pick your damn poison.

Ok_Frosting6547 · 2024-06-01T03:41:18+00:00

The alternative is AI-generated porn, it's already quite good (when it comes to pictures), it just needs to be more accessible and for little to no cost.

Patient_Recording_96 · 2024-06-01T13:06:17+00:00

Interestingly Pornhub and OnlyFans are owned by Zionists who support the Israeli genocide on Palestinians. On top of that OnlyFans owner made the biggest donation to Israel. It is like 7 times larger than the 2nd donater.

obviousredflag · 2024-06-01T13:40:12+00:00

Third: The bottom 30% of men. Short and ugly.

Being short has a tiny effect on lifetime number of sexual partners. Even 150 cm guys still have an average of 10 sexual partners. 28th percentile in body height for men in the US is 171 cm. That is absolutely at the level of lifetime sexual partners, that talller men are at as well. Below 171 cm is just a slight drop of ~3 sex partners. And as we all know, sex partner count is not amount of sex a person has. You can be the ugliest dude and still fuck 2 times a day. If 150 cm short guys can have 10 lifetime sexual partners, they can also lock down a partner for regular sex.

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And as you have surely learned from the female delusion calculator, being bottom 30% in height AND in attractiveness, makes you bottom 9%.

I can give you the same statistics about attractiveness and lifetime sexual partner count. It's barely correlating.

https://datepsychology.com/male-attractiveness-and-sexual-partner-count/

So, please don't talk about ugly and short men, when it's more likely other issues that correlate with not having sex. Autism, for example.

https://nuancepill.com/is-autism-the-real-black-pill/

superlurkage · 2024-06-01T01:18:35+00:00

Luckily, most people are not addicted, just like most people are not alcoholics

shroomflies · 2024-06-01T04:39:50+00:00

Read. My. Lips. pRoHiBiTiOn has never wurked

untamed-italian · 2024-06-01T12:45:27+00:00

You would need to give an alternative to porn. And theres none.

Hootin and hollerin at this, been a a while since I laughed so hard

Emotional-State-5164 · 2024-06-01T02:56:45+00:00

Why do all of these debates posted by men smell like incels? I’m a man and idk this shit is just cringey. Like I see your point and I agree with you to a point but I don’t think it’s as malicious as you’re making it out to be man

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Date	May 31, 2024 11:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1d59s52/the_porn_problem_will_never_be_solved/
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