Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?

leosandlattes · 2025-03-10T05:19:48+00:00

Bro you’re 4 years older than her, that’s barely an age gap. When women say older men shouldn’t go after young women, they’re talking about a crusty dusty 35yo man sniffing around some 20yo young woman lolllll.

Anyway, I sometimes watch those content creators when they come across my feed. They’re hilarious. Shera Seven is nothing if not funny, especially because she says she’s giving out “financial advice” and not dating advice, lmao. Even if I don’t necessarily agree with it all. It’s funny and it’s entertainment.

I’ll tell you something tho—just like me, ur girl agrees on at least some of that. Whether it’s simply the gender roles, or whether she truly thinks women shouldn’t have to lift a finger, or something else.

VividlyDissociating · 2025-03-10T23:25:30+00:00

my theory is that she believes the rhetoric but doesnt feels shes attractive enough to fit in the category of women who have a luxury of finding such men willing to do all that

also, 4 years age difference doesnt put you i the "loser older man dating younger women" category. that age difference is still within reason

AngeAware · 2025-03-10T04:40:01+00:00

This is like asking why so many seemingly vegan women eat meat.

She's showing you who she is, are you going to believe it the first time or is it going to take 70 times?

FearlessSea4270 · 2025-03-10T04:52:35+00:00

Wait, how are you seeing her likes on Instagram?

ATasteofTx214 · 2025-03-10T04:43:04+00:00

Perhaps these r her beliefs, but she likes you enough that she will break the rules. Men assume women only break rules for Chad when it's really for men that we genuinely like and have much more to offer beyond superficial

Specialist-Age9387 · 2025-03-10T05:07:52+00:00

What’s toxic about this? Men who are interested tend to want to pay. Of course you’re following lots of women you’ve matched with. That doesn’t surprise me at all. She’s settling with you and knows you don’t really see a future with her. Would you not want to pay for your dream girl? Of course you would. This woman isn’t you’re dream girl and she probably knows it. I’m not saying it’s fair. I’m not saying it’s right. But gender dynamics haven’t changed over night and a smart woman knows a man who is really into her is gonna pay for the first few dates at least.

As for the age gap: Older usually means more than five years difference. Once it’s ten years, yeah. Those men are usually “losers.” The only men I know who date women ten years younger than them are broke men or men who still “Party” AKA drink too much and maybe even still do coke. Not rich men. Broke men. Because they can’t afford women their own age. Normal middle class men tend to date in their own age group. That’s just a factual statement. Same goes for women who go for much younger men. I’ve rarely met one who didn’t have maturity issues.

Competitive_Lion_260 · 2025-03-10T04:45:32+00:00

You are in this subreddit, so you consume toxic anti-women content.

Oli_love90 · 2025-03-10T04:59:44+00:00

To YOU that’s toxic but nothing you listed is inherently harmful rhetoric. Shes splitting bills with you and hasn’t demanded you pay for anything - so at most she probably agrees that women can want to be wined and dined but knows she will not be treated that way.

I also hate to break it to you that a good portion of women see age gap relationships as a least a little weird, we’ve always thought this, social media had nothing to do with it. You are not that much older than her - so that age gap discourse doesn’t even apply to your relationship.

I feel like guys get a glimpse into the thoughts of some women and if not totally pro men they take it to the extreme and label it as toxic. Don’t worry, her wholesome, sweet mind is not ruined.

flutterybuttery58 · 2025-03-10T06:39:59+00:00

Why do seemingly wholesome men consume so much toxic anti-women content on social media?

notallmen and not all women.

I know some people who follow fishing accounts on insta but have never caught a fish.

I follow crochet/knitting accounts and “like” posts. But I’ve never knitted or crocheted a blanket.

No-Past7721 · 2025-03-10T07:44:11+00:00

Idk dude...why do some guys think they are all grown up and ready to be romantically active but are too chicken shit to ask a woman why she does something and instead run off to a subreddit and ask them to guess why she's doing what she does. That just doesn't make sense right?

angelbb1 · 2025-03-10T05:34:47+00:00

I can only assume those are tests and she’s saying one thing but is hoping you will say no i’ll pay. she likes you but if she feels the way her ig likes portray her to, then she’s not being genuine.

i knew what i wanted when i met my now husband, and he had no issue with being financially responsible for our dates and excursions, it’s not inherently toxic if two people agree on it.

Kizka · 2025-03-10T12:59:22+00:00

She wants you to see her likes and do something about it lol

Quinfie · 2025-03-12T11:48:05+00:00

Such content is cringe af

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Sophiatab · 2025-03-10T13:51:45+00:00

Those women are not watching "toxic" media. They are getting good life advice on how to deal with men.

Title	Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?
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Date	March 10, 2025 4:36 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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