Daily Community Chat Megathread

DaphneDK42 · 2021-07-27T07:41:01+00:00

Women have been dropping out of the rat race. Wonder what impact that will have on relationships. Or I mean, that's certainly a move towards more conservative sentiments.

The pandemic drove women out of the workforce. Will they come back?

NarniaFox · 2021-07-27T04:01:02+00:00

How people do interval fasting? I got my dinner a bit earlier yesterday and overslept todays, so I missed my usual time for breakfast. So now I feel like I'm close to passing out.

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-07-27T03:53:38+00:00

Technically not a salt update, update:

So Ive been talking to this girl that I met on SA for the last couple of weeks. We never discussed an arrangement though, she never asked and I never offered anything. We finally met up today. She is a 27 year old mexican woman from texas actually. She said she is in my state now for work for the forseeable future. English second language. 4'11. She isnt a stunner or anything, but id say solidly average. She claimed to be a virgin before we met, I didnt believe it going into it, nothing about her made me think she wasnt telling the truth, but these hoes be lying. I think I may have just had my mind changed though.

About an hour and a half drive from my place, I meet her at her hotel shes been staying at for the last month. She says she does some kind of work for immigrant children, she works nights and works crazy hours. I wonder what she would think if she knew I voted for Trump 😝. With me I brought a few condoms (she requested), a bottle of lube, and a single red rose (I know, I know, but deep down inside im a hopeless romantic.) I head to the lobby where she tells me to meet her. I arrive and she messages me telling me she is on the 3rd floor. I head to the elevator and there she is, I instantly recognize her and hand her the rose. "I know, im so cliché". She nervously laughs. I ask her if shes nervous. She says "Yes, very". We get to her floor. She heads out of the elevator first. I take a moment to examine her figure. Not bad. We head to her room.

I take my shoes off and lay down on her bed and tell her to lay with me. She does. We make small talk for a few minutes until I decide to abrubtly kiss her. We makeout for about 20 minutes when she asks me if I brought a condom. Well without getting too steamy, we alternate making out, cuddling and attempting penetration for the next hour. She keeps having us stop because it hurts too much, but also is the one who asks to start trying again. Towards the end she apologizes to me and looks sad that she couldnt deliver. I tell her its okay. She gets a call from her boss not too much later about this time asking if she can come to work. She looks at me for permission. "Sure, no problem." Her boss tells her she is sending one of her coworkers to pick her up, So I hurry and get dressed, give her a hug, told her I had a good time and head out. We plan to meet at least once a week from here on out.

Haha, well this is where lying gets you. She doesnt know anything true about me, she doesnt even know my name yet, not even an alias. She forgot to ask I suppose. I can see myself seeing her a lot though, weve already been pretty romantic.

Uglinessisreal · 2021-07-27T02:38:35+00:00

Does anyone else feel like incels get too much credit these days?

I get it, dudes be crazy, but I don't think they're behind every instance of shitty behavior and I feel like they've become some boogeyman figure for a lot of online people.

Someone says something vaguely mysogynistic - blame incels.

Someone complains about dating - blame incels.

Underage girl gets hit on - blame incels.

My cat got ran over last week - definately blame incels.

People were perfectly capable of being shitty before incels came along lol.

80_20 · 2021-07-27T01:00:13+00:00

Are people who have fwbs having casual sex?

jax006 · 2021-07-27T00:56:01+00:00

I always find it funny when so called RP dudes on here talk about Tattoos being a negative/red flag ect.

It's kinda weird like, I think the vast majority of attractive chicks, while maybe don't have a full sleeve or anything, have at least a couple small tattoos that they got with their thotty friends one summer or whatever

And then I always notice that the women I swipe they/chat with on OLD who are these guys counterparts - the women who likewise see stuff like tattoos, or drug use, as a red flag - they're all psycho chicks who wrote in their bio some strict timeline like "I'm looking for 2-3 years BF, 1-2 year engagement, and then marriage" like someone could be any more uptight.

Of course, maybe these would be the perfect women for these allegedly RP guys? Idk marriage is antithetical to RP in my view but different strokes for different folks maybe

Mosagun · 2021-07-27T00:55:56+00:00

Two friends informed me that if I made a Tinder account I would attract mainly incels. I kind of want to test that theory but my self-esteem is fragile enough as is.

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2021-07-27T00:51:55+00:00

Have been binge-watching How to get away with Murder and suddenly there is an episode about an incel! They show the forum with users called "Redpill..." and "Looksmaxx..." ahahahaha. Would have never understood that without PPD. <3

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-27T00:45:34+00:00

Women are the originators of the Herpes virus. The proof for this is that if it had originated in men, it would have been called Himpes instead.

Checkmate, feminists!

Edit: Also proof that girls had cooties.

HemluckMcGee · 2021-07-27T00:06:25+00:00

I’m starting up rugby again after stopping due to an injury two years ago. I’m super pumped to get back out there again

ToughAnswers · 2021-07-26T23:45:02+00:00

But the smile on her face was obviously genuine, altogether pleasant…a lovely smile, in fact…Still a very good-looking woman, my wife…with her fine thin features, her big clear blue eyes, her rich brown hair….

But she’s forty years old!…No getting around it…Today good-looking…

Tomorrow they’ll be talking about what a handsome woman she is…Not her fault…But not mine, either!

Bonfire of the vanities

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-07-26T23:16:51+00:00

Update: I’ve been told to expect very good news shortly. Happy, good changes are coming to SmurfLandia it would seem! 🤞

donut_hole_eater · 2021-07-26T22:47:24+00:00

Got a 7 day reddit suspension for saying "mods, ur g**"

passepar2t · 2021-07-26T21:17:17+00:00

Take what is offered and that must sometimes be enough.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-07-26T21:01:19+00:00

Your daily dose of pink pill

Slipthe · 2021-07-26T20:16:32+00:00

California Gives Female Inmates Condoms, Plan B After State Forces Them To Stay With Transgenders

This is the stuff that made me subscribe to gender critical. I guess they must have done the math and figured it's somehow easier to abort prison-made babies than it is to prevent the constant assault a transwoman would receive in a male prison.

Idk man. If you have a penis you probably shouldn't be locked up with women. None of this mentions whether or not the sex is consensual. It very well could be. The female inmates could be bored as shit and willing.

ChadThundagaCock · 2021-07-26T20:00:10+00:00

The mainstream isn't lying to men huh? There is a new show coming to HBO Max called "F-Boy Island". It's a show where fuckboys= bad and nice guys= good. And the women are trying to avoid the fuckboys and find the nice guys.

We all know this is complete horseshit right??

Ryuujinken · 2021-07-26T19:53:56+00:00

It's seems to me that there's a generalized lack of emotional education among people that lead them to confuse pleasure with happiness, and is this confusion (perharps in part) what leads people to avoid/feel threatened from people showing care and respect for them, and at the same time makes them have emotionally irresponsible behavior towards people they relate to.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-07-26T19:47:19+00:00

I realized that the problem isn't that average men can't get relationships, but the more pressing issue of the matter is if the juice is worth the squeeze

While I believe your average man obviously can't play the field or score more than a couple drunken hookups at best, your average guy could get a girlfriend, Hell, I'm average looking and autistic, but I think with effort and luck, even I could score a girlfriend.
(people also ask if I have a girl or if I'm on the phone with someone they'll ask "That your girl?", which leads me further to believe it's not impossible)

But I can see why some dudes still are salty or upset at the way things are today. It's not so much "I can't get a girl" so much as:

She can download an app and the very same day she can choose any guy several times more attractive than me to cheat with
There's a high risk of her not being sexually attracted to you at all, or her losing attraction to you for seemingly no reason (even though the reason is there, it can often be very difficult to tell what the reason is)
The potential gf for an average guy may or may not be a good prospect at ALL (for instance, in some regions of the U.S, it's quite literally too much to ask for an in-shape or athletic-looking woman)
And it's not even about "ridiculous standards", it's literally about whether or not we'd even be attracted to her (can't negotiate attraction, remember?), and it's not fair to date someone you're not attracted to for you OR them
Take into account all of that above, and add in the fact that it will take you time and effort to deal with it. And furthermore, the hot guy doesn't have those issues nearly as badly

"Is it worth it?" THAT'S the real question about dating today

GridReXX · 2021-07-26T19:12:54+00:00

When I watch movies like Greenland, I see the full benefit of partnering with a man. Men (who are courageous and strong) excel in “must protect my family from the alarming amounts of physical danger.”

So functional! So useful! And thus, such respect and awe generated ☺️

Men aren’t meant to be desk junkies. It doesn’t accentuate their best asset — their superior strength and athletic prowess. The male body, in actual use, is pretty fantastic.

LeJacquelope · 2021-07-26T18:35:43+00:00

Proof that women could never stand to live life in the dating scene as a man

PickleLine · 2021-07-26T17:49:04+00:00

Women who have hypergamous casual sex ( a large subset of all casual sex) disrespect themselves. The top men they are having sex with consciously and subconsciously look down on most of women they are having casual sex with. Women who have this hypergamous casual sex either like being looked down upon or have bad social and emotional intelligence/skills and can't tell that they are being looked down upon or when a man is genuinely interested. Either way, these women aren't fit for a relationship.

If a woman can't appreciate when a man is actually interested in her (because she either can't tell or likes the experience of being looked down on in casual sex), she's no good for a relationship.

TakeThePinkPill · 2021-07-26T09:50:43+00:00

So in this massive thread we have men insisting that lying for sex, leading people on for sex, and pump and dumps are the right thing to do. Some with the rationale that casual sex is hard to get so lying is okay. By that logic, those same men getting robbed because jobs are too much work would be just as justified. But that is neither here nor there.

A few threads later is this massive thread insisting women should have sex with them right away or else the woman should be dropped. Women are called whores all the way through for refusing to do so.

Men, and I know it's not all of you, but it is clear why so many women treat you with distrust. Amongst you are some fucked up and malicious people.

When you come to the same sub and these are hot topics both on the front page with 800, 900 comments, yes you're asking women WAY TOO MUCH when you expect sexual trust up front. No matter how wonderful you are, it is simply illogical to "not all men" your way into some pussy.

I'm glad more women are getting better with this.

HappilyMrs · 2021-07-26T10:50:06+00:00

Being expected to take advice about how to be a "high value woman" so I will have a successful relationship from men who pump and dump women really irks me. I've been with the same partner longer than some of you have been alive. Please come back with your judgments once you've had a multi-decade relationship that's still functioning.

majani · 2021-07-26T13:19:45+00:00

u/LillthOfBabylon got me yesterday. It is indeed the extroverted, high-n party girls who live rent free in my head, despite being high-n myself and me currently dating a trad girlfriend. I think extreme people just draw extreme attention to themselves since they're so out of the ordinary. For me the reason some of these party girls stay in my head is because of how brazen they are and how their lives have extreme results. "Normal" people are just NPCs in comparison

thetruthishere_ · 2021-07-26T09:04:48+00:00

Have a good day :)

GridReXX · 2021-07-26T16:53:36+00:00

Is the Reddit mobile app acting laggy for anyone else ?

throwaway213091345 · 2021-07-26T16:44:56+00:00

What would you tell a girl who can’t obtain a man of her own league?

A girl in my circle of acquaintances has been looking for a relationship for as long as I’ve know her, but everytime I see her, she complains to everybody about the men that use her and never commit. I’ve met these men too, and they are physically (5s) and intellectually on par with her.

Even though I disagree with FDS, I realize if I tried to give her advice, it would probably look something like a lightweight version of the FDS manual. Only accept serious dates, wait for sex, run at the sight of any red flag, have her friends validate for her, put herself on a pedestal, etc.

simeneta_two · 2021-07-26T16:44:55+00:00

Today I ignored a girl who was trying to to talk to me because she was too quiet and mumbling. I have become the assholes I always hated.

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SmurfESmurferson · 2021-07-26T12:35:29+00:00

Tell me your pill color without telling me your pill color

2021-07-26T13:17:24+00:00

That feeling as a doctor when you see a cerfified letter asking for medical records.

For a patient you haven't seen in 5 years.

Who never made their follow up appointments.

Then seeing its the person they are suing asking you for records, not the patient.

Thats better..

passepar2t · 2021-07-26T16:35:38+00:00

I've been strangely obsessed with tallish thin brunettes with a kind of French hairstyle.

At the rave, I hung out with a very pretty girl like that and had the standard drug fueled "fall in love at first sight for a few days" thing. But I also started seeing another girl with the same body type and hair and narrow chin.

I hope Marcellus Wallace doesn't kill me.

yzyszn4ever · 2021-07-26T16:09:40+00:00

One flaw of the red pill is that it doesn't promote the idea of the hustle and making money enough. A lot of red pill guys move on and fill the void of "self improvement" with making money e.g. r/wallstreetbets.

Stop giving a fuck about women so much and buy the life you want (I'm a Marxist though)

JMills-11 · 2021-07-26T15:46:50+00:00

What dating app do you feel has the largest success rate for yourself? I’ve been on Tinder and Bumble and have gotten plenty of matches, but nothing has ever come from them. On the other hand, Hinge has been great conversation wise and has led to a majority of my dates.

Friends of mine have said they hate Hinge though, so I’m just wondering about other’s opinions.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-26T15:32:44+00:00

I think at this point, we can liken dating to applying for a job as the most appropriate description.

annabeelongx · 2021-07-26T15:15:53+00:00

People who actively post about how much they hate America while elevating shithole third world countries that actively persecute its people are idiots.

flamingoinghome · 2021-07-26T13:14:14+00:00

In light of all the recent material here about romance novels, I'm just going to say it here:

50 Shades of Grey is a femdom narrative. It is a story about a woman dominating a man, completely and utterly. It's a fantasy about breaking a powerful man, about a woman bringing a man to heel. Any Alfalfa Male talk about that book needs to acknowledge this.

gkom1917 · 2021-07-26T12:16:27+00:00

I work as a mathematician in a betting office, and I'm already sick of Olympics. Please help

MadsMkay · 2021-07-26T11:18:36+00:00

Another Monday and another reminder of the following:

Over 40% of Americans have less than $10,000 saved for when they retire.

A Gallup poll found only about 1/3 of Americans (32%) maintain a household budget

About 77 million Americans, or 35% of adults with a credit file, have debt in collections reported in their credit files, according to the Urban Institute.

54% of student loan holders didn’t actually try to figure out their future monthly payments before taking out any of their loans. (GFLEC)

43% of Americans spend more than they receive each month borrow and use credit cards to finance the shortfall. (Federal Reserve)

Just a reminder that r/FIRE is the way. Live below your means and invest prudently folks so you can take off the shackles of a 9-5 and pay off your debt.

❤️🇺🇲

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-07-26T12:45:44+00:00

I don’t understand why you guys are consistently hellbent anymore. I barely spent time on this sub but it showed me the true nature of women. This shit awoke my inner crazy. I won’t have any standards for women anymore, happy? But take a look at my thought process now and this is advice for all the boys who want to be real pieces of shit.

Just have fun with them and if she wants something like marriage or long term, just string her along and cheat lol. Women have absolutely no idea they’re being cheated on unless you’re showing signs or you go weak and say it. Even the ones that know the “red flags” won’t have any clue if you’re calculated.

Boom. Problem solved along with a power shift. Also, don’t be a fat fuck. Go to the gym, clean yourself, etc, basic shit. Be desirable. Manipulate with no flags.

Edit: I know y’all are scared because it happened to you before huh.

foxyfree · 2021-07-26T13:53:29+00:00

Browsing around here I’ve seen some discussion about average women and standards and expectations. Apparently men are not that interested in women age 35+

Just throwing this out there for those of you who don’t know this:

Most women are just starting to hit their sexual peak in their thirties. Ladies in their mid to late thirties are the horniest they’ve ever been and most comfortable with their sexuality and their bodies. If you want better odds at getting laid, don’t limit yourself to under 35.

SunShoresMayor · 2021-07-26T12:39:27+00:00

I think the biggest problem people have with dating concerning long term relationships is that we put the most important quality on the back burner: love and compatibility.

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-07-26T13:09:12+00:00

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ErrendeEbecee · 2021-07-26T09:24:54+00:00

I thought of a feminist thing: all war casualties should be counted in female lives only. Women are after all the reproductive bottleneck of our race, so you can think of them as a strategic resource. Men on the other hand are extremely expendable and you can treat them at the same level as ammunition.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-26T11:00:07+00:00

My girlfriend calls my Mom and Dad Mr and Mrs Master Teacher. My mom doesn’t really like that, she’s always be like please call me by my first name. My girl don’t really feel comfortable saying that, idk I think it’s outta respect. My dad never really have a shit though either way.

80_20 · 2021-07-26T12:27:53+00:00

Anyone watched AoT? It's the most insane show I've ever watched and easily the best thing I've seen ever, in any medium.

To see the japanese produce this kind of art whilst also seeing the complete cultural death and creative bankruptcy of the west is a little sad.

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