Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30.

Shamelessly borrowed from mads' military brother, but goddamn if that isn't exactly on point

Offering modernity while demanding tradition

Which part of this is incorrect?

Oh sure, not literally every single woman

No doubt, men do it too (make a separate post!)

Of course, anyone should and is free to have whatever preferences they want regardless of if it is aligned with what they offer, but that doesn't render the observation false

Even Ivory tower types are seeing what's up, as in this Harvard study by Alexandra Killewald:

For marriages formed after 1975, husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk. Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.