It seems to be an ego thing on the onset?

They actually prefer having “casual sex” with the woman who he knows wants more because she’s not just “having sex with him.”

She’s having sex with him when he wants and also doing cutesy things she would do for a boyfriend.

Male “fuck buddies” don’t get that. He’s literally a booty call she calls when she wants sex. She may be friendly with him but she isn’t swooning over him or making him breakfast or being overly cutesy with him.

Many “Chads” have experienced this and they don’t like it. They don’t like feeling “used” and “disposable.”

So it benefits them in many ways to actually go after women who want him “as something more” because then she treats him like a boyfriend without him having to treat her like a girlfriend.

These “Chads” want more than “sex” and “validation that they can have sex.”

They want their ego validated. And they want the ease of access a woman who’s “really into him” provides.