I do have a blog and a podcast if you want to check it out:

Blog - thegrit.blog

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As the title says, I averaged over a girl a week for a year and came out a seasoned player. I wasn't aiming to do this, it sorta just happened. I actually took a few breaks during the year because I had to deal with other things in my life. Without those breaks and going by the average, I would have hit around 66 for the year. I enjoyed it, it definitely got a few things out of my system, I've definitely noticed recently I've got such a low tolerance for bad behaviour from women and I've picked up a super power where I can just read women really well.

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1. If you're on a date and she likes you, you don't need to try to make her like you more. You can just be a normal person and have a normal conversation. 95% of my date chat is what you would call standard chat that you would have in front of your friends. But it's all about the vibe that's happening on the subconscious level and the times when you choose to bring that subtext to the surface just to stoke that attraction. Stop trying to do "attraction" once you have it because it makes you come off as weird and socially inept. Imagine if you go into a store and you know what you want to buy but a sales person keeps trying to sell you that item, even after you've picked it up and put it in your basket. You'd think that person is strange and you're way less likely to buy anything else at that point.
2. You need balls. It's not mentioned enough on here but you need to make the moves at the right time. There will be moments when you know it's time to make the move to move this in the direction where you end up fucking. The key times you need balls are when you ask her out, when you go for the first kiss and when you make it clear you're trying to move her to the location where you can fuck. I still get that slightly uncomfortable feeling in my stomach when I do this but I know it's better than going home and jacking off wishing I'd just pulled the trigger. If you're going on dates and finding yourself constantly in your comfort zone and not pushing for the lay, you will end up with mediocre results.
3. Girls fuck on the first date. The bar for fucking women these days is quite low, this isn't the 1950's, they will get down with you early on without much thought. Girls with low counts of like 1-2 guys have ended up fucking, whilst I've also had girls who I know have higher counts trying to portray a veil of innocence. There are no rules, if they want to fuck you enough, they will break all the rules. Last night I had a girl who literally went hard to steal me off one of her friends, she was ready to blow up the whole friendship for one night with me. Always at least make an attempt to fuck her on the first date, she'll get it and politely turn you down if she's not ready.
4. You don't need to be the stereotypical alpha bad boy. I'm nice to women but I have clear boundaries and I'm firm with them. That's all they need. There are way too many guys trying to be super alpha and thinking they need to do a bunch of stuff, it's just mental masturbation and you get no prizes for that.
5. Attractive women have a line of men after them but they don't take it seriously. Beta orbiters are not a new thing, they'll gladly take the likes on instagram. But chances are she'll have at least one guy she's talking to, you'll probably never even find out because women are naturally quite sneaky about these things but if you do see a message or whatever, just understand it's the nature of the game.
6. You have to love it. As fun as it is dating and fucking multiple women, you have to do it for yourself. I don't really talk about it with people in my life because I just do it for me and as soon as you start sharing your conquests you run the risk of seeking validation from them. If you have some issues with women, get them sorted out as soon as you can because they will hold you back.
7. Girls will allow themselves to be owned by guys they deem worthy. I reckon from this year alone, I have managed to have 3 girls tell me that they love me after only a few encounters, I have numerous dom/sub relationships with girls where they basically just do what I want with minimal commitment or upkeep.
8. Girls don't know how to flirt. Most of them don't really flirt that often with guys and don't know how to. Tease her on that, play it up and see what she's got.
9. I'm fucking hot. I only shoot for the best because I'm worth it. Also it's the only thing that actually gets me going. Any bar I go into, I look around and pick the top 3-5 girls that I find attractive and want to talk to. Then I hit on them in order, otherwise I'm going home alone and I know that I do well with that because I'm confident, socially intelligent and charming as fuck. I know I can compete with taller, richer, better looking guys because I bring the tingles. If I'm on a date, I pretty much know it's on so I have a good time getting to know her. I'm not sitting there nervous wondering what she thinks about me. As I said previously, I'm having a normal conversation and when the time comes, I make the necessary moves. The girls that I do ask what they like about me always say it's because I'm confident but also really laid back.