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Disagree sis, this is a bit of a silly self defeating comment. Raise the bar and you'll find them. Visit your local gym or hang around a sports centre/bar/club or go hiking on your own - look out for men with better fitted clothes that show their frame off (always a big giveaway for me). Go to big public events, beaches, public pools and festivals in the summer where some men have their tops off due to the heat. I've had a few smokeshows approach at big public festivals- crawling with sweaty ripped 6packs everywhere so there's lots of competition for them. Its a CONFIDENCE game...its not just about your looks/accomplishments or whatever...its about your CONFIDENCE and your ability to show it. Get your head back in the game!

I keep telling women just to lose the fear of offending/losing men, come across entitled and haughty not super sympathetic, sweet and naive like you have no clue about men (ohhh she'll accept my dadbod- she's nice right!? NO) - and watch how they crawl. It absolutely works to my advantage far more than being nice /playing myself down ever did lol TRUST me here your attitude/mentality is everything- the haughty entitled attitude attracts the hotter men over with BDE and signals you're used to dealing with men and have high standards- the sympathetic sweet girl attitude attracts losers over looking to play on your sympathy & tug on your strings/ lowball you & signals a lack of confidence in yourself & lack of success with men (don't see yourself as the prize). They are wanting a woman with a certain level of confidence as well, because they know she's clearly got something good underneath, that she clearly has that confidence / attitude for a reason & they want to find out why. Attractive toned men are used to pickemeishas- but they bore them. They seek out the woman walking around like she thinks she's all that (despite what they claim)- cos it strokes their little ego's she's not easily impressed and haughty...and they want to know why. They want to know WHY shes not that impressed by them like the pickmeishas were (mainly cos she's seen more where he came from and is used to rejecting men= high value can afford to be fussy/ risk offending them). A man knows a woman is experienced with men if shes haughty- he knows she knows the game well- he knows why she isn't easily impressed (confident she can replace him).

When they ask you what you're used to or what you like- tell them. That you like toned athletic muscular men and that's what you're used to dating... they'll soon get in that gym if you make them feel inadequate. And unfortunately a lot of lazy men do need to be shamed into action, they need the dose of reality. They get far too lethargic, delusional and entitled- expecting women with amazing figures to put up with their limp squidgy dad bod- they truly believe we don't need to be physically attracted to their fitness the same way. I have no fear telling them straight now. And you'd be surprised- a lot of men would prefer the honesty- gives them motivation and a kick up the ass.