Anyone else not dating because

p0ludnitsa · 2021-08-02T15:46:11+00:00

Yes. I do not have the emotional capacity to put my resources into constantly evaluating a man. I'm not opposed to dating but I am not actively searching either. If a wild HVM appears, then that's super. If not, I'm good.

Far_from_deceived · 2021-08-02T16:02:24+00:00

I am working and planning 3 trips for this year. I’m not focused on dating since It takes a lot of energy to find someone valuable.

I work from home, I don’t use dating apps, so basically my chances of meeting people are reduced.

I go to the gym but I don’t talk to men, they seem very stuck up there. And I try to avoid the times when the gym is crowded (men stink and shout, I hate it).

I seriously don’t know when I will meet someone. The last times I went on dates everyone turned out to be a waste of time. So I’m not bothering.

denimlace · 2021-08-02T16:01:19+00:00

I mean, would you do anything else in life if it meant constant disappointment at best? Nah sis. That would be insanity.

warinmymind94 · 2021-08-02T19:30:45+00:00

I've been dipping my toe back in the water and I haven't been on an actual date yet. The low effort is disgusting they can't even message me back promptly, and they won't put in any effort into the conversation. I need to get to know the person and I can't even get them to tell me the basics about their job and lifestyle/goals.

A man in his 30s said he didn't know how to proceed to the next level. He then asked me "do you want to hangout when I'm not tired?"

Some dude sent me a link saying we should talk and it was a link to book a freaking appointment (paid appointment) through his firm. This dude was using OLD to try to make it seem like a date and then charge them for a 30 min real estate consultation.

A man recently told me he was jealous of me and said "damn sugar momma" because when he asked what I do for a living I said "I am a small business owner and work in sales". I think that 🤡 thought I'd be teeheeing but I cringed so hard and immediately blocked.

The amount of negging, especially subtle negging, i get is surreal. They act like I'm driving 15 lambos and own 10 mansions because I have a small business. I live in a old, small house, in a quiet but poorer neighborhood, I drive a simple affordable car, and I only make a teachers salary right now from the business. Lol. They are so intimated and insecure.

FDS-GFY · 2021-08-02T15:42:12+00:00

You are not alone. I am not dating. I am living my life and if a man wants to join me, he will make his interest known.

Edit: thanks for the awards. I learned it here.

mashibeans · 2021-08-02T17:36:09+00:00

Same here, I'm more concerned with leveling up myself, becoming financial stable and have a better career, and overall better health (physical and mental), at the moment.

I do think the post one of the mods made about how this sub is for dating strategies, and should stay focused on that, is absolutely correct, though. (even though I got salty when I first read it, I did come around. It makes sense, after all) I go to FemaleLevelUpStrategy for focusing solely on female level up, and here to stay informed and focused about how LVM (and low value people in general) can abuse us. Basically I frequent FDS to strengthen my vetting and watch out for all the possible red flags.

catlady4u · 2021-08-02T15:46:16+00:00

I'm not dating because I have too much personal stuff going on right now, and I don't have the energy or motivation to date anyone.

_queeeen_ · 2021-08-02T16:42:32+00:00

I’m not dating because I haven’t met anyone special IRL this summer. I’m not interested in using apps for the foreseeable future. I’m open to it, but it’s just not happening.

top_of_the_stairs · 2021-08-02T16:28:02+00:00

I’m not dating because have you seen the quality of men out there?

Also would never use OLD again and too focused on my career and leveling up in all aspects of my life to care about men at the moment.

Men have also always been more interested in my looks than getting to know me as a person and I’m honestly tired of dealing with that so it’s easier to just ignore them and live my life than trying to find one who isn’t trying to trick me into his bed by pretending to be a decent human being who wants a relationship.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-02T16:15:18+00:00

I’m kinda at an impasse. I don’t want to use OLD, I work from home, am busy as hell between growing my business, restoring my home, and just cleaning and doing yardwork, so it hard to find time and suitable places to meet men of quality. And now, with Covid ramping up again, I’m just not sure it’s even possible. I totally understand not having energy for vetting men. It’s so hard to just keep all the balls in the air for daily life.

imtryingtotryhere · 2021-08-02T15:31:44+00:00

100%. I'm going through several adjustments and transitions right now, and I just do not have the emotional capacity to be on my toes all the time and vett men. Even after these transitions settle, I doubt that I'll have the energy then, either. I'm only going to bother to date if someone incredible shows up in my life and I know them for awhile. Vetting is emotionally and psychologically taxing, I can only do so much!

Rayne2522 · 2021-08-02T17:56:25+00:00

Yep, took me about a year and a half before I considered dating again after my husband left. The first guys I start dating there were red flags but I ignored them and turns out that his lifestyle is not at all compatible with mine. I need to make sure that I stop ignoring red flags because that is my biggest issue. I always want to get a everybody the benefit of the doubt and it bites me in the ass!!

Adventurous_River_64 · 2021-08-02T16:58:24+00:00

I’m not dating at all. My life is really enjoyable right now and I finally have the time, energy and money to live how I want to. It would be nice to share my life with someone but I’m really happy without. Dating is exhausting and the last few dates on have been disappointing and a waste of time!

sadlibrarian · 2021-08-02T16:17:45+00:00

Yeah 100%. It's such an endless and thankless task. Working and keeping up with my interests, plus the usual chores, keeps me so busy I rarely have the energy to keep up with some boring negging and small talk from a rando on an app

ThatIntention1 · 2021-08-02T19:35:39+00:00

Same bc I get irritated by males so easily

pathalienation · 2021-08-02T17:16:54+00:00

I decided to invest the same time and energy into finding HVW friends. Less risk, less draining, more reward.

sassenachpants · 2021-08-02T17:20:18+00:00

I’ve been single for almost a year. Three months ago I decided to try dating again — that lasted a month. The quality of people on OLD is just awful. It was a huge drain and felt like work, so I just stopped.

Personally, I’ve realized I have everything I need. I make good money, I have great friends, and I have interesting hobbies. Just realizing that has been really freeing.

djfrankenjuice · 2021-08-02T16:07:15+00:00

Pretty much. My life is a pretty full plate. I thought I would dip my toe in the dating waters after getting vaccinated but decided I wanted to use that energy to focus on getting back into skating (a college/law school hobby). I would rather spend my time/energy doing something I know makes me happy than sifting through dozens/hundreds of guys who cannot hold a normal conversation.

Edit: typo

MountainJess · 2021-08-02T18:01:10+00:00

I broke up with a dude back in May (after finding this EXCELLENT sub and being slapped to my senses by the truth you ladies spit around here) and haven't been dating since.

When the time comes I will be looking online, but I literally can so not be bothered to even write a profile. The way I see it if dating was something I really wanted I would be willing to put some effort into it. The fact I don't want to really highlights where dating is on my priorities list (low) and that I'd rather be doing LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE with my time than messaging dudes.

CaliforniaKed · 2021-08-02T18:49:52+00:00

I’m on month 9 of a year-long hiatus. It may be permanent.

deadinsidelol69 · 2021-08-02T16:10:08+00:00

Yeah, I stopped dating months ago. Been single for over a year, tried dating again, it wasn't for me. Too much effort, and I have much better things to spend my time and energy on than dealing with the litany of LVM who populate the world.

minid2020 · 2021-08-02T21:20:17+00:00

It’s just not worth getting dressed up to go out with men who don’t want to take you on a real date or just looking for a one night stand. Also they are the same guy , divorced , they tell you how their wives were cheating whores and they have alcohol and/ drug abuse issues. I have more fun hanging out with my dogs. 🤷🏻‍♀️

purasangria · 2021-08-02T16:05:26+00:00

Totally relatable. I'm not really interested in dating right now, it's simply to much work for the probable outcome. It's just not worth the effort, as most men are not offering anything that will benefit my life.

acrosstheoceanin1984 · 2021-08-02T17:29:29+00:00

I'm 22 and I've never dated in my life. Never really saw the appeal. The pandemic has me watching romantic TV shows (something I never used to do) and this makes me sometimes crave a relationship. But I'm an introvert who'd rather be alone and vetting takes too much energy.

miwamus · 2021-08-02T17:46:42+00:00

I haven't been on a date in a year and I'm happier than ever.

I always ask myself "do I want to wash my hair for this?" The last year the answer has been "no."

freedom3437 · 2021-08-02T20:22:58+00:00

It'll be almost two years since I left my ex-husband and over 7 months since the divorce is final. I have not touched dating with a 2 foot pole although several friends have hinted or even urged me to. This man-free space of almost 2 years has been sacred and magical. Time to really figure out what I demand from a romantic partner and what I will not accept.

EarthKveik · 2021-08-02T20:29:18+00:00

Now all the dating apps oare focused on keeping you swiping rather than actually matching you with someone you might like, I wouldn't blame anyone for giving up on OLD.

My situation is probably a bit different from yours- I have autism and ADHD that weren't diagnosed until I was already ill thanks to the stress, and while ADHD medication has changed my life, I wasn't able to get on it until I was in my late 30s because I couldn't find a doctor willing to even listen to a woman who had been academically able.

My life experiences, especially those with the mental healthcare system and voluntary sector in my country have shown me that nobody beyond my very nearest and dearest really gives a fuck whether I live or die. Even although I was born naturally wanting to be social and used to be really concerned about human wellbeing, I really don't want much to do with people any more. Anyone male or female looking for a caretaker or workhorse can fuck right off and then some.

I didn't have a chance to find a partner. I struggled a great deal with work and my home life before I was medicated and was constantly stressed and exhausted. I didn't have a secure source of income and my family are not wealthy. The kinds of men who want a woman who is struggling in life are anything but HV.

The chances are that I'd be too old to safely have children by the time I managed to find a HVM, and that's literally the only thing in life that I'd want to do partnered that I wouldn't just do anyway unpartnered. I'm not interested in autistic men or in being a second/third/fourth wife to someone who, lets be real here, neurotypical or not probably couldn't meet the needs of his previous partner(s). And there's no way on this earth that I'm being a step mum when I have no bio kids of my own.

Focusing on making as good a life for myself as possible without the extra effort of trying to find a HV needle in the LV haystack sounds like a much, much better use of my time.

arnezuara · 2021-08-02T15:54:44+00:00

That is why you have to have your shit figured out before you choose to allocate time for dating and vetting. Otherwise, it’s only a waste of precious time and energy.

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-08-02T18:58:39+00:00

Not dating because I got out of a bad relationship last year and we spent most of our time in various states of lockdowns since! This has been a great opportunity to find myself again, enjoy family time with the children, focus on work, do plenty of exercise, enjoy my friends and be happy again. I’m not on apps so I don’t serial date, maybe will be months before meeting someone interesting, hopefully meet a good man in the future or not. Ready to be happy in both scenarios :)!

Zeniite · 2021-08-02T15:51:47+00:00

Same here. I have a lot of things to take care of that another person can’t do for me, so my focus is on myself. If a guy who adds a lot of value to my life comes along, wonderful, but if not, I’m not even in a place where I want to “give someone a chance” just because it would be convenient. And lo and behold, once I committed to this, it’s been raining LVM.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-08-02T19:59:36+00:00

Yeah, and pandemics don't make it any easier...

glowmilk · 2021-08-02T16:56:12+00:00

I’m with you on that one sis. I’m selective with my energy as it is, so dedicating my time towards dating isn’t something I really want to do, especially during this current time in my life. I’m working my way towards improving my future and moving forward with my life, so dating is the last thing on my mind. We’re also still very much in the middle of a pandemic and I’m still hesitant about meeting new people, especially if I know they haven’t been anywhere near as careful as I have.

This doesn’t mean I’ll never date again, but I don’t have the time nor the energy to search for and vet potential dates. If I meet a man by chance and he ends up adding value to my life, then that’d be great. It’s not something I’ll purposely seek out anytime soon though.

IndividualRoutine661 · 2021-08-02T21:16:49+00:00

Agreed. Broke up with someone recently, can’t be bothered right now either. Add to that the risk of catching Covid from dating. Would rather hang with my dog tbh.

MuscleCarMiss · 2021-08-02T21:24:37+00:00

Pretty much. Too much work to weed through people. Plus, meeting people would require going out and since my state is leading the nation in covid cases, no thank you.

acadametw · 2021-08-02T22:49:30+00:00

Honestly I think this is a great place to be and it's NOT at all the same as being an incel because it's more situational and satisfied.

Some people think you're literally like not a complete human if you're not paired up, so that if you're single you either have to be 1. getting over someone, 2. trying to get with someone, 3. something is wrong with you.

That. is. bullshit.

Liking your life as it is and feeling like you have more important things to do right now and that it's not one of your priorities is not crisis or emergency or bad thing. There may come a time where your priorities change and you decide you want to find someone more than you do now, or you come into more free time where some of the vetting feels less like a nuisance or waste, or you just meet someone unexpectedly who surprises you with how easy they make it to vet them over time (a real hvm).

If you never get to a place where you feel this way, I feel like you're operating at a loss. You can reject someone because you know you can find someone better, but there's nothing more freeing than being able to reject anyone because you're deep down entirely content with yourself and don't need another person to make you whole.

Winnie6 · 2021-08-03T00:51:52+00:00

I had the worst 2 sexual experiences of my life last year with 2 separate guys I tried to date (one and done for each of them). I felt so disgusted and traumatized and thought I'd "get back on that horse" but didn't. Then months went by and then I found out i had to have surgery and stopped trying to find a guy, entirely. And it was such a relief, I didn't expect that! I suddenly had this strange feeling that I "owned" my own self. It's like I've spent so much of my life seeing myself from the outside in...how I look, especially. How I appear to others. How I looked was what defined me...and now I feel like men were owning me, owning my constant fears that I didn't measure up. But now, I own myself. And for the first time in my life, I'm not on such a strict diet. I mean, it's fucking nice to have drinks that actually have a taste! Hell, yeah, I'll have a beer! Men can fucking have a beer so I can fucking have a beer. Sure I might not be as slim as I was but what the fuck do I care? My cat doesn't care! And now I'm realizing that having a bf means giving up more than I'm willing to. I want to keep my options open, not be tied down. I don't want to have to go camping, or watch sports, or have to deal with any "bros," etc. Everything revolves around me. Nobody wakes me up when I don't want to be woken up (no one-sided quickies with disgusting morning breath). I own myself. Refreshing!

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-02T23:21:02+00:00

Nah, you're not. They don't even bother reading clearcut profiles on OLD. Don't even care if their life goals or hobbies match up with yours. It's really irritating so no one here can fault you for being exhausted/irritated about it.

c_a_t_lady · 2021-08-02T17:18:53+00:00

I'm not actively dating, and I've never tried it. I'm 18, and not sure whether I'd be ready for romance yet. (Which I think is okay. We're all ready at different times.)

I'm not completely opposed to the idea of having a relationship someday, though. But I am just not actually looking for it.

The men who have hit on me, have not been what I'd consider as a possible partner (e.g too old, looking for a more casual thing, clearly wouldn't care about women's pleasure during sex, red flags...). I'm interested in women as well, but I have never been approached by one. And I haven't dared to go for it myself either. 🤭

If I meet a person who seemed like they would meet my standards, I could be ready to start the process, if I felt like it would be practical in my current life situation. ☺

Regardless, the idea of a romantic (and sexual) relationship isn't important enough to me, that I would want to put in the energy and effort to go truly look for it. I'd be alright without one, I believe even for the rest of my life. So if I come across a person and we are looking for the same thing, great, I might go for it. If I don't, that's okay too. 😄

fireforestfairy · 2021-08-02T17:51:07+00:00

I am constantly vetting everyone regardless of whether they are male or female. It's good to know how much I can trust the people I interact with given how there are so many LV people out there.

As for dating, I am single because almost all of the guys my age that I know are either terrible in terms of personality, unattractive, or poor. Some even have two if not all of these traits. I don't see any point in dating men like that. The ones who don't have these traits are either incompatible with me, takened, gay, or I just don't have feelings for them for whatever reason.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-08-03T04:02:28+00:00

It seems like tons of guy out there dating are actually married or taken already. Like you have to do a background check, social media check, just to make sure he is actually single first.

Nat_at_all · 2021-08-02T20:43:43+00:00

Relatable! It’s been a year+ and I have no desire to try dating again. Was getting a degree and applying for jobs and realized how much time I wasted searching for a boyfriend 🤦🏾‍♀️. Wish I could tell me younger self to just go to sleep and not ruin her sleep schedule stressing about abusive boyfriends.

starfighter07 · 2021-08-02T18:45:49+00:00

100% agree.

I prefer to go on a date with my smart and beautiful HVW friends, whom I know will bring me joy and elevate me in many ways, than go on a date with a man I barely know (covid restrictions are still huge where I live so, beside with luck or OLD (ew) there aren't many ways to meet people).

dancedancedance7 · 2021-08-02T18:46:10+00:00

I think you are in a season where you need time to yourself. You aren't lazy.

I couldn't be bothered with dating for 2 years in my mid 20s (prime time lol, felt guilty about it at first). But these years were foundational for my life and career.

You will venture out again if and when you are ready to date. Don't feel the need to rush the process.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-08-02T21:05:44+00:00

I think given the deep seeded misogyny, generations of abuse, we should not be dating anyway. I realize that this is a sub that encourages getting out there. But self improvement and leveling up is so much more rewarding, not to mention safer.

zombiessalad · 2021-08-03T02:31:38+00:00

I’ve never been in a relationship and in my early twenties… I’ve always been focused on school and traveling so I never had any chance to even try dating to be honest. It seems like so much work…

stg21987 · 2021-08-03T01:41:54+00:00

Guys are so boring! I get so bored with their attempted texting convos that I can’t fathom meeting with them in person. It’s like they want me to entertain them. I’m not here for your entertainment. Also scrolling through OLD apps these guys have no ambition or careers! I’m 34 with a full time job, paid off car, and a homeowner. I have more than any man has! They have NOTHING to offer me. Some days I get sad about it and think I’ll be alone forever but then when it comes down to it I’d rather be alone than with these scrotes!

maraslove · 2021-08-03T01:10:09+00:00

Me and you both girl. I’ve been single for a year and a half. During this time, I found myself blocking guys after a few hours. It’s just to the point where I don’t even have time to see your shitty/shittier side. I already assume it’s there and I’m gone before it starts. They can thank my shitty abusive ex for that. I’m just not excited anymore to meet new people which is actually very sad. Humans need companionship, but I’m just fucking tired.

__kamikaze__ · 2021-08-02T22:18:46+00:00

Yeppp. It’s more productive channeling my energy into other things. Can’t be bothered wasting it with dating.

2021-08-02T23:17:48+00:00

I'm not actively looking to date right now. I like the projection of my life currently, and am hoping to move back to my home state in a few years. Dating and potentially finding someone how could influence my move, and I don't really want to invest in things HERE when I want to be THERE. I wouldn't mind dating, I'd like to find someone, but it's not a priority for me right now, and with covid and social distancing (minus Lolla this weekend lol, but I'll be isolating until I get my covid test results) I don't really want to be putting myself out there too much. Once k-12 school starts and I'm working regularly, I won't be meeting many people.

katiekat0214 · 2021-08-03T01:26:55+00:00

Yeah, I totally feel this. Honestly, it all boils down to being too busy just living my life. I'm about to start teaching again, and a first year is all-consuming and draining. I will have no energy for anything other than work and family and my own projects. This is the "do other things that bring me value", both monetarily as in starting a third teaching career (first Louisiana, then Los Angeles, now back here but different district/school), and family, which means giving support and doing things for/with them.

Emotionally, as a strong introvert, I have no energy left over. I give energy all day at work, where I try to be 100% present, listening to kids, evaluating skills and deficiencies, evaluating emotional/mental maturity, listening for what they need, don't have, bullying, relational aggression, tension, sadness, etc. I'll be evaluating the mood and energy of the school, colleagues, administration, too. Energy to date and vet and get to know a new person who's male? Not happening. Not capable of happening.

As both a widow and a divorcee, someone who's been married twice for 25 years, I don't rule out a third relationship. I'm passively open to it, unlike how I was with having children, which I knew from single digits I never wanted. Also knew from single digits I wanted very much to marry and have a happy marriage, hence doing it twice. Right now the idea of a third relationship is off in a hazy future, maybe, and I just don't particularly care. I have so many other priorities.

RecordingImportant94 · 2021-08-03T07:18:19+00:00

I’ve just always found the idea of OLD really odd and uncomfortable, I don’t want to expend the effort to “sell myself” to a load of strangers online, who I know from my friend’s experiences will be 99% awful. I haven’t been single in over a decade, and I am relishing having the time to spend on myself when not with my daughter. I had very little freedom when I was with her father and it’s still a novelty to be able to watch or read what I want, buy what I want and go where I want without him guilting me or starting an argument. I’ve put a ton of effort into my friendships in the last year or so and it has been far more rewarding than any romantic relationship I’ve had. The idea of reintroducing the stress of dating to my life is just unappealing. I’m open to meeting someone in real life, but I’m not making the effort of writing a thoughtful profile and selecting pictures on an app just to be sent abuse and dick pics.

lansburysoda · 2021-08-02T19:55:14+00:00

I haven’t dated since 2019 and I’m happier and more emotionally stable than I’ve ever been. Why would I pour my water into a broken cup? They can tell me it’s not leaky but I’ve been there and done that and don’t feel like wasting my time and energy again.

divination__ · 2021-08-02T21:53:13+00:00

you're not being lazy. once dating becomes a chore, it means you're burnt out and should step back and only come back to it when the prospect seems fun and exciting again. if you push through when you don't enjoy it, you're just sabotaging yourself because you won't be putting your best energy forward and may even be tempted to compromise and lower your standards. it is very healthy to step back for however long is necessary.

hotfuzzindahouse · 2021-08-03T05:50:36+00:00

Was just talking about this weekend with a friend. She asked if I was really wanting a relationship and I said I don’t know. It’s so much work and exhausting. The companionship would be nice but I don’t want the rest that goes with it Iike having to have sex lol. (To be honest, I probably could go the rest of my life without Wes, it’s already been 3 years). I work way to much and would be nice to have someone to help get me away from my work but coming from a small transient town the men around here are just awful. They are big into drugs, drinking and/or already have a significant other that they want to cheat on back home.

ceilingkatwatchesus · 2021-08-03T08:11:06+00:00

I'm not dating because I am pretty much happy and comfortable and obsessed with myself. I have a great work/life balance. Have my own business with, (yes with) my cats, since they are the meowbassadors of my brand. I can please myself sexually. If I need a little pick me up, I reach out to my therapist or my day ones for support and clarity. I just really enjoy my own company and don't have time to be wasting on something that is not a priority in my life. I also took up gardening and composting and just love how i can do what i want when i want and not have to worry about anyone but my cats and fish.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2021-08-03T19:13:12+00:00

I'm not actively dating because I work a lot and don't have the energy. Spending time outside of work for me looks like friends, family, social stuff, self care days, hobbies... not swiping online or spending 2 hours getting dolled up for another guy who probably just wants sex.

That being said, I am in my early 30s and I do want a marriage and kids. So, sooner than later I may need to make room in my schedule and mental energy to put myself in situations where I can meet quality people and actively date. That's why I follow FDS and I did enjoy the podcast where they discussed the focus of the sub remaining on dating and not as a catch-all for other female only subs that have been shut down. It's been great seeing this sub return to the area of focus.

nikkirosex3 · 2021-08-02T23:11:04+00:00

this is meeee

sluggish_prune · 2021-08-03T00:05:55+00:00

I am open to it but no one fits the bill so I’ll enjoy life until they do … if they ever do

imtryingtotryhere · 2021-08-03T03:37:55+00:00

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DuchessDurag · 2021-08-03T06:37:52+00:00

It’s perfectly fine to step away from dating. A lot of men out here have nothing to offer, yet demand women have certain qualities that they themselves don’t have 🤣

I’m feel confident and satisfied for everything I’ve achieved, and self-care is top priority.

I don’t feel I’m missing out on dating because of the lack of morals, common sense and quality.

afrodeasyak · 2021-08-03T09:36:43+00:00

Incredibly relatable. I love love and being in a committed partnership but yo the amount of work needed to make sure it's not yet another LVM is not worth it. Enjoying my single life and open to possibilities if they come with ease and sincerity

purasangria · 2021-08-02T22:28:46+00:00

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