I don’t even know where to start.

bookworm1896 · 2021-08-19T16:58:51+00:00

Wait, is she planning on taking him back after his fling?

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-08-19T17:25:36+00:00

Prostate cancer is one of the easier cancers to treat, relatively speaking, as long as he follows doctor’s orders. But he refuses to do even that.

So just…let him die.

Meanwhile , she needs to hire an attorney to protect her estate and pursue the revenge porn issue strategically.

vee711 · 2021-08-19T16:55:54+00:00

Wow this might actually be one of the most depraved things I have ever read. 😢😪😞😓

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-19T17:00:11+00:00

What the hell? This is one of the most bizarre, chaotic posts I've read from this hellsite. Woman needs a lawyer and a thirst for revenge. Bless her soul I hope she's okay.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-19T17:10:56+00:00

She doesn’t sound like she’s done with him at all. The tone of her post is like he picked up an annoying hobby or something and not that he has committed an unforgivable act of disrespect.
She blames the other woman for everything even though he’s likely to be working with her to slander OP. Casting her as the villain mentally prepares her to take him back.
She’s far too concerned about all his shit like his health and whether he abstains (?!) like that’s her responsibility to care about??

I really hate to say it, but people like this are also addicted to the turmoil and drama of it all. I’m sure it sucks, but she engages and entertains. It’s like she doesn’t even see that her removing herself from this circus is the priority. The comments are probably telling her to leave him (because this is crazy even for Reddit) but if my hunch is correct, she’s arguing in the comments about why she can’t.

Her only course of action should be to get in touch with her rage, hire a pit bull lawyer and file for divorce for this absolute ridiculous clownery.

djfrankenjuice · 2021-08-19T17:19:09+00:00

Let the *ssh!le die.

Edit: i do hope this is some fantasy post by some guy thinking about a woman pining for him to the point of doing degrading sex acts with strangers on the internet. … and if not she needs to contact the FBI.

janpra07 · 2021-08-19T17:46:23+00:00

To quote the Lorax- “Let it die, let it die! Let it shrivel up and die!”

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-08-19T17:50:19+00:00

I think she's in shock-mode. She's had crisis after crisis and she's detached from it. But it will hit her.

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-08-19T17:27:02+00:00

…did she bother to reread what she wrote? If she did there’s no way she’d still be married to this fool.

corago513 · 2021-08-19T18:03:21+00:00

When he's dying of prostate cancer that 24 year old will not be there and his wife shouldn't be at his bedside either.

lansburysoda · 2021-08-19T18:59:45+00:00

Genuinely wondering if it’s the affair partner who posted her info on the dark web or if it was her husband. Somehow I doubt most 24-year-old women are lining up to sleep with a 40-year-old married man for free. Or risk getting arrested just to harass another woman on the dark web. Her husband is probably behind all the harassment and blaming the other woman is another way he’s manipulating his wife.

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-08-19T17:27:17+00:00

She has proof of infidelity, she should take all his shit in a divorce. Fuck these cretins.

bombas- · 2021-08-19T17:46:27+00:00

What the fuck.

munissa · 2021-08-19T17:56:34+00:00

WTF.

She needs to report their asses to the police and say that they are harassing her and since it’s cyber crimes contact the FBI as well.
She should cut contact and not take that trash back. He has a tumor he won’t treat? Welp not her problem.

She is out of her mind if she allows them to do that to her and then also plan on taking him back. He obviously doesn’t give a shit about her and has no plans on going back to her until he is on his deathbed when that tumor is too far along.

Fitncurly · 2021-08-19T18:19:06+00:00

I would take out a life insurance policy on him and encourage him to do every cancer-growing thing ever 😆

Ok_Occasion_5057 · 2021-08-19T18:33:16+00:00

Seriously the amount of horrible situations causing by LMM in this forum set alarm in my head how we, women, would take sh*t from these men.

We need to promote woman empowerment and selfworth. It is much better to be alone than being with these appalling men.

In this post, I don't know why she still with him. I personally would go to the police to report the crime. Asking lawyer to sue these 2 for giving me bad name, harassment and get restraining order.

Then living alone happily ever after.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-19T18:47:57+00:00

🤡: “what should I do?!”

Try to take out a big life insurance policy on him in case he dies from the tumor and start the divorce process. 🤷‍♀️

asteria2002 · 2021-08-19T20:37:00+00:00

"why don't women miss their husband when he dies?"

laurencetrishburn · 2021-08-19T17:59:27+00:00

I hope she leaves and never looks back.

Sweet-yet-not · 2021-08-19T18:31:45+00:00

What The Actual Fuck!!!

She's so out of herself. Her husband stripped her every feelings I'm sure of it. Constant manipulation and abuse could be one of this reason.

She should try legal action about this.

vforvendetta87 · 2021-08-19T19:37:28+00:00

Sadly, this isn't uncommon in a relationship with a narcissist. It takes an extremely disturbed and sadistic person to convince their partner that everything wrong in the relationship is his/her fault and they are 100% to blame. But they're not.

Hopefully she'll read her post back to herself multiple times until what we see sticks in her mind.

cute_fluffy_alpaca · 2021-08-19T18:58:57+00:00

I'm really hoping this post isn't real 🤷‍♀️

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-08-19T19:04:27+00:00

Prostate cancer has entered the chat

potmakesyouparanoid · 2021-08-19T18:10:55+00:00

She should just wait, seems like the problem will solve itself soon enough

blueboobs- · 2021-08-19T18:46:42+00:00

She should maybe try to set up the dark web guy by pretending to want to meet up with him then get his real info and identity and report him to the FBI...

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-19T20:48:11+00:00

here's the awful part

Pam...the whole gotdang thing was awful, ffs. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Mcccy · 2021-08-19T17:24:47+00:00

This post was a hellish rollercoaster from start to finish.

Ellenchus · 2021-08-19T19:30:46+00:00

… sounds like that idiot is on his way to an early grave. Hopefully she gets everything he hasn’t pissed off on his mid life crisis when he does and can proceed to lead a better life becaus despite him calling her a negative nag and wanting a break I see no mention of divorce.

Sad to think she’s like an old coworker of mine and probably still does his laundry and prepares meals… pickmesha to the infinity and beyond right there :/

EurasianEmpress · 2021-08-19T19:47:54+00:00

I hope he keeps ignoring that tumor and he dies a painful death, even better if it’s before he thinks about changing his life insurance policy (if he has one) so that OP could at least get whatever inheritance he has. It’s so awful to me that a Pickme who’s only my age could do this to her.

YesPleaseMadam · 2021-08-19T20:16:45+00:00

this is nightmare material

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-08-19T21:19:55+00:00

Found it. Given the sub, I was pleasantly surprised to see almost everyone is telling her to divorce him.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-08-19T18:55:07+00:00

Oh my god, how has she not started divorce proceedings already!

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-08-19T21:13:42+00:00

What should she do? What should she do? Is she fucking kidding? File for divorce. Change the locks. Separate your bank accounts. Call the cops about the girlfriend. Hope he dies from that tumor soon.

Do people really live Jerry Springer lives like this? For real? And don't know the answer?

SkiesEclipse · 2021-08-19T23:39:32+00:00

What kind of fresh pickmeisha hell is this?! He has to be abusing her right? I refuse to believe anyone but a severely battered woman would put up with this shit.

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-08-19T20:49:46+00:00

What the ever loving fuck.

She needs to talk to a lawyer because there may have been laws broken and she may be able to go after this girl and the moderator legally or at least get a restraining order.

And it goes without saying she needs to divorce this outhouse scum.

Vaio200789 · 2021-08-19T20:24:49+00:00

I hope she can afford some travel, therapy, moving to a place she’s wanted to live, and to change her name and get a lawyer if necessary. She should not be “at a loss”, that person is such trash. How does she still care what he says and about his health. Protect your assets ASAP and let him die, honestly.

extragouda · 2021-08-20T00:15:25+00:00

Let him die.

Easiest fix for this whole situation.

onceuponasea · 2021-08-19T22:50:51+00:00

Dang, she’s deep in a trauma-bond and she ain’t leaving. That’s so sad, and horrifying.

Edit: typos

TrixieFriganza · 2021-08-20T01:45:22+00:00

Wtf is wrong with this woman, she is is getting threatened and sexually abused and she seems mostly concerned about him not dying from cancer if I have ever seen a pick-meisha. Why isn't she calling the police and her an attorney immidiatly. But to be totally honest this really sounds like a story some scrte might have just made up because he's so bored in his basement, it really sounds quite unbelievable but then what do I know, people are strange. Or the husband is actually harassing.

ChanelOberlin2015 · 2021-08-19T18:23:17+00:00

And if a woman rightly advised her to divorce him and take half his shit, the reddit numales would be all up in arms saying that is vindictive and wrong.

ginnnnie · 2021-08-19T19:15:14+00:00

He’s gaslighting the shit out of her 🥺☹️

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-08-19T20:42:02+00:00

She needs to divorce him and file police reports for each incident. He’s gonna come back when that new girl gets tired and I hope OP doesn’t take him back. Also she’s a teacher this is horrible :(

WornTheTshirt73 · 2021-08-19T22:02:28+00:00

Let him die from Prostate cancer and move the fuck away from him fast … so fast … as fast as you can … not your problem any more

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-08-20T02:59:59+00:00

I hope that tumor eats away at him.

Renrenchi · 2021-08-20T07:09:23+00:00

"My husband of 10 years started dating this 24 year old"

I 've read that sentence and immediately started looking for the word "divorce" but I can't find it. What the fuck?!

Waste-Win · 2021-08-19T21:26:57+00:00

Well at some point if she waits enough He won't be a problem anymore since He refuse to take care of his tumor, but at the same time, why go all that trouble when she can perfectly call police on them.

Risoa · 2021-08-19T21:59:53+00:00

No no no no I know she said that this isn't fake but HOW can it be real?

CrazyPaine · 2021-08-19T22:39:54+00:00

Wow. I don't know what to say. Welp it seems like the tumor is going to do the job of his demise.

roonil_wazlib_the2nd · 2021-08-20T02:45:04+00:00

… I don’t understand. As soon as he told her he was dating the 24yo she should leave his ass. Hopefully this is some weird troll post.

CcSeaAndAwayWeGo · 2021-08-20T00:16:02+00:00

Start!? Divorce.

Illustrious_Dream751 · 2021-08-20T03:06:04+00:00

I don't even want to believe that this is real. Wow.

kittycakes22 · 2021-08-20T03:20:14+00:00

Women like this are why men leave good women for doormat pickmeishas who will put up with anything and everything. “My husband” shouldn’t even be a thing anymore. It should be her estranged husband who she’s going through a divorce with.

spicyspa · 2021-08-20T03:47:51+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if the husband never actually met the 24 year old who really isn't a 24 year old but a dude in a sweaty fraudster call bank.

Colour_riot · 2021-08-20T15:25:47+00:00

the tumour sounds like the best thing ever. Unless he has debts or is spending on the 24 yo pickmeisha nutcase, don't see the reason for her to get divorced right now.

Few-Fortune-2391 · 2021-08-19T19:04:42+00:00

Sort out his will. Make sure the random lady doesn't get anything.

When he comes back because she will probably chuck him - have the divorce papers ready for him to sign.

Cel_Gabe · 2021-08-19T21:34:36+00:00

Go to the police!!!

Isn't doxxing a crime? And while she's at it she should divorce her husband citing infidelity and abuse, and carry him to the cleaners. Actually give him something to complain about smdh.

emmgdac · 2021-08-19T22:43:54+00:00

I'm embarrassed by women like her.. the fact that she's even questioning her next move. As for his depravity this aligns perfectly with a post I made today about sex with men.. smh sad stuff but unfortunately some women never level up

thesolorecords · 2021-08-19T23:31:01+00:00

This can't be real..???? I'm so confused.

sparklingcandy · 2021-08-20T06:46:33+00:00

Ugh this was painful and infuriating to read. She's still worried about his health even after the S-class hell he's made her go through; how? why? She should've left at the very first red flag. I'm praying this poor soul finds FDS and the sisterhood. AND DIVORCES HIS NV SCROTE ASS.

peculiarbuttonz · 2021-08-21T06:07:38+00:00

Let him die. 😌💅🏽 He's made his choice, chose is bed, now let him make it and sleep in it. Forever.

I used to be like this woman with my ex. Nah. Don't give them a care in the world. Same energy.

CactiAndFungi · 2021-08-20T15:07:53+00:00

Sis, the trash has taken itself 95% out of the way...just get a lawyer and enjoy your life again

Title	I don’t even know where to start.
Author	Hippofuzz
Upvotes	1404
Comments	124
Date	August 19, 2021 4:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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