In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖

seekindivid · 2020-12-07T14:48:12+00:00

I’m not mad that you were pretending to care about me as a person in order to secure consistent sex, but it’s only fair that you warn me ahead of time. See, when I think about my day in my head, my mind obviously eventually goes to how much I love and care for my partner. I have a certain level of expectations that I like met when I think about a normal day with you. That involves emotional intimacy. Now when I show up and you brush me off because we can’t get physical in that moment, I feel a bit robbed. Again, I’m not mad, but you have to see how it’s a bit unfair to me. Again, NOT MAD, but you really need to tell me ahead of time so I not so disappointed when seeing you.

shellofthemshellf · 2020-12-07T14:56:43+00:00

Imagine punishing a woman for a naturally occurring biological process that’s indicative of a healthy, adult human female.

OH WAIT. MEN HAVE BEEN DOING THIS SINCE THE DAWN OF TIME.

babybellenotcheese · 2020-12-07T14:41:24+00:00

This post was inspired by the post from earlier today about whether anyone has had disturbances in their monthly cycle due to a LVM. My answer is, OH F YES (from nearly every ex, but let’s focus on “Joseph”). I have had this text saved for four years to serve as a reminder of how disgusting, pathetic, and degrading some LVM can be. He was upset that I didn’t tell him before I came over, on a Friday evening, that my period unexpectedly started that day. This scumbag had a rule that we would avoid weekend hangouts or sleepovers if I was on my period because he thought they were “icky” and it meant he only got oral sex. My stupid pickmeisha ass, after dating so many men like this, agreed that it was unfair for men to be forced to be with their girlfriend if he wasn’t getting his dick wet. Well, my period started early that week but since we had dinner plans and it was our three month anniversary, I figured he wouldn’t want me to cancel. I was wrong. He was so upset that he barely spoke to me over dinner, looked pathetically miserable, didn’t speak on the ride home, and when we got to his place within five minutes of entering his apartment he said he had an early appointment that next morning and he was going to sleep, and that he wanted me to go home. I cried hysterically on the ride back to my place, feeling disgusting and gross and entirely worthless. This is the text he sent after I left 🖕🏻

purasangria · 2020-12-07T14:57:54+00:00

He doesn't want to see her, he just wants to get sex. If he can't get sex, he doesn't want to see her.

Sit with that, ladies.

shinyjewels · 2020-12-07T14:50:59+00:00

Wow next time you should be like gonna be like "I'm not mad that you can't keep it up for 3 hours, but you really need to tell me ahead of time because I feel robbed." He can literally go and eat a bag of dicks.

BasieSkanks · 2020-12-07T15:10:25+00:00

I am so, so sorry, but this made me spit my drink out laughing. What a pathetic, entitled pornsick, probably limp dick, no-good, sex-obsessed SCROTE. How can someone write what he's just written and not be ashamed of themselves?

Mcccy · 2020-12-07T14:57:08+00:00

My MiNd EvEnTualLY GoeS to SeX

atuan · 2020-12-07T15:43:45+00:00

"Not mad not mad not mad" this scrote is mad, fuming, LIVID, and he can stay mad.

He's making assumptions about whether or not she's gonna want to have sex with him, so his monthly disappointment is his own fault. He forgets that she has free will.

Plus, he's making it sound like she'll surly have sex any other day of the month, but she can say no any day she pleases for any reason. But $100 says she's happy to have sex on her period and he's the one who's all "ew, blood! Female bodies make me uncomfortable!".

Aaand... one more point - sometimes your period starts at 8 o'clock at night, and this winner wants to be informed of the whereabouts of her uterine lining at the crack of dawn? He's too dumb. Too dumb for sex. Too dumb for dating. Too too dumb.

iggypooop · 2020-12-07T14:59:50+00:00

"I'm not mad" repeated more than twice is what abusive parents say to signify "you fucked up but thank me for not hitting you". I don't understand those scrotes. Why don't they simply buy a fuck doll? They want free sex AND be spared the parts that remind them they're doing it with a human being.

babybellenotcheese · 2020-12-07T15:25:27+00:00

....Why the fuck would he be "mad??"

?¿?¿?

MelodicPlum · 2020-12-07T15:02:34+00:00

Also P+V intercourse is not the only way to have sex. There’s so many other things you can do when you’re on your period if you feel uncomfortable with straight up intercourse. Playing with underwear on, toys etc. This text also shows how bad this dude is at sex.

lollykpops · 2020-12-07T16:07:37+00:00

YOUR BIOLOGY THAT YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER MAKES MY PEE PEE ANGRY!!

favoritesound · 2020-12-07T16:37:26+00:00

That's when you tell him you had expectations of his penis size, ability in bed, earning potential, and character, and yet he fell short on all of those, so you feel robbed. Again, you're not mad, but he's been a bit unfair to you. Again, not mad, but he needs to start telling women ahead of time so they're not so disappointed when they date him.

Chillody · 2020-12-07T15:52:00+00:00

Guys, I think he's mad 🤔

🙄🙄🙄🙄

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2020-12-07T16:34:43+00:00

It's nice when a guy tells on himself like that. Goes to show he doesn't value women as a people, only as a human fleshlight. Another deal breaker for me is how they react to periods. If they can watch a slasher horror movie and not bat an eye, but become disgusted because blood comes out through a vagina, they're not worth my time.

AmazonArtemis · 2020-12-07T21:36:14+00:00

Proper response to this is to freebleed all over his sheets right to the mattress (cause u know LVMs don’t have mattress pads 🤣)

misszazie · 2020-12-07T14:58:29+00:00

I'm not mad, therefore everything I'm saying is correct and you have to accept it.

1F30M4 · 2020-12-07T15:07:29+00:00

i'M nOt MaD

Astral_weaver · 2020-12-07T16:00:21+00:00

"I'm not mad either, boy. I just think that your head would look better on a plate and fed to dogs. "

thrway01010 · 2020-12-07T15:33:23+00:00

Oh hell no, this is so sick and twisted. He doesn't deserve to touch a single woman, ever again. Entitled psycho POS.

2020-12-07T17:30:13+00:00

There are literally guys out there who will refuse to have sex with you on your period and then act passive aggressive about not being able to have sex with you because they think it’s gross. I’m totally okay with period sex but a lot of guys aren’t. Somehow, they’ll still act like it’s your fault.

2020-12-07T15:31:39+00:00

sounds like he should date himself tbh then he can warn himself whenever he needs

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-08T07:27:44+00:00

so he has no problem depositing his mucus and sperm mixture into women, probably expecting us to swallow it and suck the same area he pees from, but he's so worried over a little blood? wow im embarrassed for him. imagine being a grown man and being a little scared and whiney about a little blood and then throwing an entitled tantrum about it.

ladies if you are ever seeing a man that acts like this or is grossed out by periods, you need to RUN.

tossed_salad100 · 2020-12-07T18:59:44+00:00

Men thinking that sex is something they "get" from women is the root of a lot of problems in heterosexual relations

oscine23 · 2020-12-07T15:48:10+00:00

He read that part in the Bible that says women have to be isolated and away from their husbands during menstruation.Funny how these types cherry pick the info that supports their misogyny. 🤮

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-12-07T17:03:51+00:00

Wow Joseph acts like having period is the only good excuse to refuse sex with him. Oh, how shocked Joseph would be, learning about the concept of consent. He feels like he's robbed ladies and gentlemen.

aquarieux · 2020-12-07T17:50:00+00:00

I would not even dignify that message with a response. It would be a simple delete, block, never see or hear from me again. My body isn't a toy or service for my partner to use to his contentment. He doesn't get to "feel a bit robbed" when he doesn't get sex. The entitlement that some men have over women's body is astounding, I'm honestly shocked!

snowwhite224 · 2020-12-07T15:40:56+00:00

Omg I’m so disgusted. This is straight up GROSS. this man is pathetic. We deserve better ladies!!!!

FireflySky86 · 2020-12-07T17:00:14+00:00

Well at least I haven't been shamed for my biological functions, but I've had the opposite response- guys who "don't care" and think laying down a towel and skipping foreplay is ok. Nothing makes me feel sexier than cramps, a weird wet but dry feeling, and waking up to a murder scene 😑

mel0278 · 2020-12-07T17:33:20+00:00

The passive aggressiveness is screaming in this post. Promises he isn’t mad like 3 times, but goes on a 5 minute lecture.

As someone with irregular periods I couldn’t even predict when mine would come, so how does this guy think periods even work?

jupiter_sunstone · 2020-12-07T20:38:12+00:00

I hate him.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-12-07T21:33:58+00:00

He feels robbed because he thinks he is entitled to sex and to access to her body. He thinks of sex as some sort of duty on her part. Something that she owes him.

This guy thinks just like Lori Alexander the antiwoman fundamentalist.

rebel4acause · 2020-12-07T22:23:03+00:00

If I have a rich friend with a cool pool that I avoid every winter and only want to see when it's warm out and we get to swim... it's obvious I'm using that friend for the pool.

This boils my blood. He literally made it a requirement to have sex every time you see him. Clearly, he was using you for. He is so gross.

OutlandishnessTiny14 · 2020-12-07T22:47:39+00:00

“and I don’t get sex” wow. Just wow.

tiavarga · 2020-12-07T23:17:05+00:00

Scrotes need to learn sex with another person is a privilege, not a right.

azureangel35 · 2020-12-07T15:46:19+00:00

omg-kick the whole fire roasted scrote the fuck out sis, I'm begging you.

dutchie19 · 2020-12-07T16:55:03+00:00

That last line 🤯

GabbaG0ul · 2020-12-07T20:27:44+00:00

Why do women put up with this shit?!?!?! It is unfathomable to me! Clearly, he sees her as his personal flesh light. It is crystal fucking clear! Goddamn

button-up · 2020-12-07T20:37:43+00:00

What an ass!!! He thinks he was robbed, but what about her? She was robbed of a boyfriend who treats her like a human being. She’s not a machine for your pleasure.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-08T01:09:49+00:00

Hey, all lurking LVMs, NVMs, users, abusers, liars, scrotes, etc: just tell us ahead of time that you suck. Period.

Twolipz_78 · 2020-12-07T16:55:20+00:00

Wait...LVM and cycle disturbances? Where is this post?! Everything makes a whole lot more sense right now.

emtoots · 2020-12-07T18:28:56+00:00

This is 100% the type of guy who demands/expects blow jobs from his girlfriend when she’s on her period

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-12-07T18:40:28+00:00

"Have you ever considered how your existence as a menstruating human female is unfair to me"

lawless_sapphistry · 2020-12-07T19:05:38+00:00

That's a lot of words for "Dump me and dump me hard"

Reznorschild · 2020-12-07T18:50:16+00:00

Why isn't this tagged as "Male Depravity" omg. Who says stuff like this? Someone please throw this man away.

Foomama48 · 2020-12-07T18:54:45+00:00

Oh my god!! What is wrong with these men!! My ex had two daughters and still thought periods were horrific. I went on that birth control where you don’t get one so he didn’t have to deal with it. He’s the only man I ever met who had an issue with it- another huge red flag I totally ignored!!!

HappyCoconutty · 2020-12-07T19:52:06+00:00

Girl. GIRL. Can we find out how you responded and how the rest of the relationship went?

kittypixplz · 2020-12-07T20:29:49+00:00

Wow I really hate this.

There are no words.

doxieprincess · 2020-12-07T21:34:39+00:00

Ya know, early in my relationship I was kind of worried because my bf's sex drive is lower than mine. But when I see scrotes like this, it's a nice reminder that my actual company and conversational skills are actually valued.

nonchalance77 · 2020-12-07T22:34:22+00:00

I want him to fall into a vat of period blood and drown so hard.

2020-12-08T12:47:02+00:00

"Get" sex. Ew. What an entitled piece of smelly shit, he can go fuck himself. Literally.

brielarstan · 2020-12-09T05:35:09+00:00

I had a boyfriend say this to me as a freshman in college. He was mad when I came over to his apartment, cooked him dinner, rented us a movie and then only wanted to cuddle because I was on my period. It didn't matter that his belly was full of my food, brain entertained by the $$ I spent and being doted on by his very hot 19-year-old girlfriend. I didn't "give him" sex and so I "disappointed him". I'm shocked that I am still attracted to men.

jp2117515 · 2020-12-07T18:44:13+00:00

But, but, My Dick.... !

light_workerx3 · 2020-12-07T18:05:20+00:00

Ummmmm excuse me ?! Who says this kind of shit ?!

Unfit_Needleworker · 2020-12-07T20:04:23+00:00

WTFFFFF. I immediately thought about charlottes web when she writes “SOME PIG”

cloudberry_liquor · 2020-12-07T21:24:55+00:00

Oh God, I hope no woman has this man's children.

FodderFigureIllushun · 2020-12-07T23:43:33+00:00

WON'T SOMEONE PLEASE THINK ABOUT THIS MAN AND HIS NEEDS FOR ONCE???

mtan15 · 2020-12-08T14:19:25+00:00

This wouldn't be an issue if he wasn't EXPECTING sex. Is her period the only reason she can ever say no. Run girl. Run.

fairywakes · 2020-12-09T03:15:44+00:00

ROBBED?!

Mella_20 · 2020-12-07T19:23:49+00:00

Hhhhhhh why do men?

Risoa · 2020-12-07T21:09:30+00:00

Uh what

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-07T23:33:15+00:00

Lol.

LilyFuckingBart · 2020-12-08T03:42:05+00:00

It’s okay, y’all, he’s Not Mad.

gothicctemptress · 2020-12-21T08:52:18+00:00

He sounds rapey. Dump him.

Icy_Celebrationn · 2020-12-07T22:10:31+00:00

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Mayonegg420 · 2020-12-07T19:58:15+00:00

“See when I think about my day in my head” - me when my roommate gets to the shower before me on self care Sunday 🤬

Title	In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖
Author	babybellenotcheese
Upvotes	685
Comments	145
Date	December 7, 2020 2:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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