Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2022-02-14T14:39:28+00:00

She had a seizure. Is anyone in the comments pointing that out?

100% she had a seizure. You’re super sleepy after them too.

thewetdog_ · 2022-02-14T12:00:21+00:00

The fact that boyfriend seems more shook than her about what happened speaks volumes about the socialization of normalizing our own abuse. She’s lol-ing about this? Jfc someone reach out to her mom

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-02-14T14:04:58+00:00

You know- if you take a step back, the patriarchy has really done a masochistic number on young women. Older women too.

I guess all women that embrace and actually celebrate their own physical abuse.

Confidence_Relative · 2022-02-14T14:17:03+00:00

Can we start calling it what it is. STRANGLING. It’s strangling not choking. Choking is something lodged in windpipe. Strangulation is a better description of this violent act. As for her saying she ‘loves it’. Like fuck she does, I’ll bet good money she has past sexual trauma and a history of self harm. No one who loves and values themselves wants to be physically hurt by a loved one. And those doing it are beyond fucked up. ‘kinky sex Pozzie’ brigade defending this can go fuck themselves.

shoesfromparis135 · 2022-02-14T12:11:41+00:00

I can’t believe STRANGULATION is so normalized. That is sick. That is literally domestic violence and attempted murder. Literally. And all these people just think it’s a normal sex thing! These kids are so fucking clueless. It makes me sad.

MarsV89 · 2022-02-14T14:01:41+00:00

Imagine having brain damage and not going to the fucking ER, but Reddit, in case you hurt poor bf fee fees. I can’t feel sorry for this girls anymore, you like being choked? You like loosing millions of neurons so he can cum at your abuse? Yeah right

Edit to explain the brain damage thing, every time you interrupt oxygen flow to the brain you get brain damage

Far_from_deceived · 2022-02-14T11:59:02+00:00

“I LoVe bEiNg cHoKed”.

Yes honey, you sure do. Our bodies really evolved all those million years to love and want a life threatening event.

karate_lambchops · 2022-02-14T12:07:47+00:00

I really don’t think it’s a coincidence that she didn’t add any physical details about her boyfriend like she did herself. I have a feeling he has 20-40lbs on her and at least 5” taller than her. Why on earth would he ever consider choking her as hard as he could regardless of whether or not she enjoyed it?

This post is really eerie. This man isn’t “super freaked out” about her health ; he’s super freaked out he’s gonna have to deal with what happens when he k!lls her. Otherwise he would have taken her to the hospital and definitely not let her fall asleep!

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2022-02-14T12:42:44+00:00

Omg this terrifies me. YES he could have caused you all sorts of injuries, including brain damage from this! Someone doesn’t even need to pass out or bruise to experience damage.

I cannot deal with this anymore. I am so sick of how fcking backwards our society has become in regards to sexualising violence against women and just plain old misogyny. We are living in such dangerous times.

Platipus6 · 2022-02-14T16:02:37+00:00

I’d have generalised anxiety IF I SLEPT NEXT TO A MAN WHO LIKED STRANGLING ME

All you ladies know what I mean - how our mystery ailments cleared right up when we got away from men who didn’t care if we died.

basicbiddy · 2022-02-14T13:41:29+00:00

Most kinks need to be shamed

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-14T15:31:58+00:00

Anyone else bothered by the fact he didn’t take her to the hospital anyway?!

Like, they admit people with stuff up their damn rectums…I’m sure they wouldn’t judge if he explained it was kInKy. (I wish we could call the police on men like this…)

The fact she’s all “I’m alive still” is so terrifying and I’m kind of mad she’s just so okay with it…when I should be mad at her SCROTE BF STRANGLING HER!! 🤬

And she’s worried about brain damage?! Gaia please….the kids are NOT okay.

Novemberinthechair · 2022-02-14T12:23:49+00:00

She hates herself a lot.

IAMtheLightning · 2022-02-14T15:30:51+00:00

I'm a little embarrassed to say I used to have a choking kink. When I look back I think it stemmed from having bad hookup sex with LVM who would scarcely put their hands on me and fuck me like I was a sex doll. Between those experiences and very low self esteem I think I was convinced asking for someone's hands to be on my chest and neck was at least a step up from being used as a blow-up toy and somehow increased the passion of the moment.
It wasn't until I met a HVM who truly loved me and absolutely could not bear the feeling of choking me because it felt like he was degrading me that I stopped and analyzed the source of that supposed kink. After him I've never even considered asking for or finding choking desirable in any way again.

Carneliancat · 2022-02-14T14:28:36+00:00

Any man who would ever want to do this to his girlfriend is irredeemable garbage. Every. single. One. There is nothing sexually healthy about any of this. Women are being gaslit en masse with this nonsense. Don't fall for it, ladies. A man who wants to choke you is a dangerous freak you need to stay far away from, and also someone who is unable to have healthy and mutually gratifying sex. This woman is clearly marinating in her own self-hatred, and this is what it leads to. Level up up UP and always choose your dignity, self-respect, and safety. Sex should never lead to brain injuries, and it's absolutely insane that this is where we are as a species right now. STAY SAFE.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-02-14T13:47:54+00:00

Ugh what is wrong with the world

I_know_right_AS_IF · 2022-02-14T16:46:14+00:00

How much you wanna bet he was freaked out by the risk of getting into trouble, and not because he actually had concern for her well-being

Drpyroxene · 2022-02-14T15:49:41+00:00

I've posted here and on other subs multiple times about the long term damage caused by STRANGULATION. This shit blows mind. These "choke me, slap me, spank me, pull my hair, gag me with your dick, call me a whore, spit on me, r*pe me" PICKMEs me angry because, seriously??? But I also feel bad for them because they've been brainwashed into thinking this shit is; normal and healthy (wtf), that if they DON'T do this stuff they'll end up alone, that ending up alone is a BAD thing...like, I wish I could go give talks at high schools to try to protect young women from this utter bullshit!

gcthwy · 2022-02-14T15:07:04+00:00

You can literally give someone a stroke (and permanent brain damage) through choking, even so-called “blood chokes” which pervs advertise as being “safe” (as opposed to putting pressure on the hyoid, which can also be fatal). Literally who tf thinks it’s SAFE to cut off oxygen to the brain?? Do these clowns also think huffing glue/inhalants is safe too, or do they realize how dangerous it is?? It’s the same thing…

darkenchantress44 · 2022-02-14T15:33:08+00:00

I think we should make a movement never call “choking” by that term anymore. She didn’t accidentally swallow an auntie Annie pretzel at the mall, someone STRANGLED her.

We are calling it strangulation from now on.

No-Village-3946 · 2022-02-14T15:51:08+00:00

It's surreal how these women have managed to lie to themselves about liking to be treated like punching bags during sex. Like do they even hear how they sound to everyone else? "I like being tossed around like a frisbee!" "I like being strangled within inches of my life!" "I like being pimp slapped!" Sounds like she already has brain damage. As if it's no longer abuse because they're naked. They sound so sick in the head. I wish they would ask themselves why their pain and suffering arouses their boyfriends. And then ask themselves how someone who fetishizes their pain and suffering and gets off on it could possibly care about them as people. In this case, her degenerate boyfriend couldn't even be bothered to take her to get checked up after, so she has to ask the docs on Reddit who cannot examine her anyway. Guarantee if her bf wasn't into simulated rape, she wouldn't be either. Women like this are codependent pick-mes to the n^th degree. They need to be picked so badly, they're willing to pay with their lives. Sad state of affairs because this affects all women. Every woman will encounter one of these weirdos at one point who will want to harm them in the name of "kink." Funny how none of those guys seem cool with being beaten up by their girlfriends.

thinktwiceorelse · 2022-02-14T16:33:26+00:00

"I almost died, lol."

riseaboveagain · 2022-02-14T14:34:55+00:00

Come on guys, it’s just “breath play”. PLAY 🥺

jijitsu-princess · 2022-02-14T15:06:07+00:00

Scary as fuck.

What she needs to know is a visit to the ER is needed. You can have an embolic stroke if you are choked. Especially if she is experiencing dizziness afterwards.

Edited to add for more accuracy: you can suffer a vertebral artery dissection that can result in a stroke 1-2 days after the choking incident. The dissection itself can also lead to a hematoma (bruise) within the walls of the vessel and result in paralysis.

AnniaT · 2022-02-14T12:48:56+00:00

This horrifying! Please for you safety never accept performing kinks and ditch men who even suggest them!

FDSfollower1 · 2022-02-14T15:47:59+00:00

Utterly disgusting. There is nothing sexy about being almost murdered. 22?! Heartbreaking.

katiekat0214 · 2022-02-14T15:52:39+00:00

Glad to be older here, and this was not at all normalized during Gen X coming of age. Any man that tries that with me gets what he deserves. It's on, he's a perp, I'm pressing charges. Marquis of Queensbury's rules once any man ever does that. Everything is allowed at that point, anything to stop the criminal from killing me.

Reasonable-Kitty · 2022-02-14T16:23:38+00:00

I never understood the appeal of doing such things. It seems so weird that if you strangled someone you hate everyone would see it is wrong, but if you do it during sex it is suddenly normal. Even though strangling by itself is an act of hate. Why must the sex justify everything?

I've never been in a relationship, but I would only want to sleep with someone who loves me, and if you love someone you want to be careful with them, not violent. I always imagine gentle touches that bring pleasure to both partners, not acts that would hurt anyone.

Violent sex has become so normalized it scares me. I like reading fanfiction, but sometimes I struggle finding something sweet and romantic, because every other story has something like breath play, rape play, humiliation, mind control or God knows what, and fanfiction is mostly written by women and consumed by women. We have been so conditioned to believe that pain=pleasure that we even promote it.

Psychological-One701 · 2022-02-14T17:03:04+00:00

I most hate the part where she feels like she was out for a while and he claims he was just about to call 911. Like he's more worried about getting in trouble than saving her life.

23eggz · 2022-02-14T17:07:42+00:00

He gave me a seizure but don't worry it was consensual~~~~

🙄

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-02-14T16:48:17+00:00

This post reminds me that I really hate that Doja Cat song "Need To Know" with the "spank me, slap me, choke me, bite me" lyrics. This shit gets normalized through much more than just porn. I'll never buy any of her fucking music just for this shit alone.

Rayne2522 · 2022-02-14T18:55:36+00:00

That happened to me several times, I truly thought that was how I would die. My ex husband was kind of scared the first time it happened but not scared enough to not finish. Every single time it happened we finished having sex. I can't believe I allowed that but I'm much better now!

Catz10000 · 2022-02-14T15:02:43+00:00

Why are we normalizing attempted murder and serial killing?! And teaching young girls to be okay with their own MURDERS?

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-02-14T16:31:33+00:00

If I live to 100 years old I'll never understand someone who "loves to be choked".

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-14T17:26:23+00:00

No kink shame…… but what the fuck kind of trauma happens to you in childhood to want to be choked to death? And why would you enable with this behavior? Stop and seek help.

CrazyPaine · 2022-02-15T04:23:59+00:00

You can't choke no one safety.

Softrito · 2022-02-14T17:14:49+00:00

This sounds like a long process, how is it that she woke up to her boyfriend "just" conveniently about to dial 911?

Ivimaiden · 2022-02-14T15:14:23+00:00

Holy shit! Imagine how mentally brainwashed you have to be to believe that you love being choked. No you don’t! You were socialized early into pornography with your boyfriend, and like a good obedient sheep, you think “if I see it everywhere on TV/internet/Ads, then everyone must be doing it”. Naah, you have just been completely brainwashed and mind-controlled to accept something absolutely unacceptable and disgusting.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-14T17:16:25+00:00

Yes you could suffer permanent brain damage. Women are out here getting brain damage for the sake of catering to a disgusting fetish. And you know her scrote won’t stick around after she’s permanently disabled and needs constant care. Fuck this entire world, man.

myheartisfulloflove · 2022-02-14T18:19:48+00:00

She needs to go to the ER like right now!!!!

qazzovuoi · 2022-02-14T12:50:01+00:00

Why the freak does she ask reddit She must go get a mri scan of her brain / neck Probably the stimulant/psychiatric drugs she use to take worsened the choke consequences but she has to make sure her blood vessels are ok It's not about brain damage she could die of stroke/aneurysm since she kinda relapsed when she fell asleep

happytoll · 2022-02-14T23:31:19+00:00

He strangled her into a seizure but she's acting weird?

He gave her too many details about calling 911 because he was probably calling a friend for advice on how to get rid of a body.

Conveniently, he hasn't let her strangle, I mean choke, him

butteryrum · 2022-02-14T19:32:06+00:00

Being strangled + drinking in hot tub, bad combo. I hope she sees a neurologist just in case to rule anything out.

Playbackfromwayback · 2022-02-15T04:25:26+00:00

I personally know someone- a former sheriff and general bad ass- who suffered a severe stroke- a literal life altering stroke that permanently damaged him neurologically to the point he no longer works- from a chokehold. Being choked can irreparably damage you.

Stay safe out there sisters- gratifying a man’s desire to abuse you as ‘play’ can turn very ugly.

thowaway_pickles · 2022-02-14T15:33:53+00:00

Yeah sure he was gonna call 911 when she woke up and that's why she was so uneasy around him and that's why he had to gaslight her with "you're acting weird" s/

presentable_corpse · 2022-02-14T15:43:36+00:00

Sounds like she's got brain damage, and potentially is going to have a hard time staying awake and randomly falling asleep, forever. "lol" indeed.

I guess all these coolgirl pickmes nerfing themselves will open up the job market for the rest of us....but man, not like this...not like this...

roundbackpack · 2022-02-14T14:54:09+00:00

I really don't get these women that like "being chocked". I don't get it. Why would you like getting damage and pain in an activity that is supposed to cause you pleasure?. She's probably mentally ill. And she is, she has an anxiety disorder, etc.

Maybe she went through some trauma also. Bad men are always the ones that take the opportunity of getting mentally damaged women so that they can manipulate them and coerce them, abuse them etc

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2022-02-14T21:27:42+00:00

Could cutting the oxygen supply lead to brain damage? Uh, duh. 🙄 I hope this bdsm trend dies soon before more women do.

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This is extremely horrifying.

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Title	Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!
Author	Far_from_deceived
Upvotes	611
Comments	145
Date	February 14, 2022 11:51 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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