I hear guys talk a lot about how women are loved just for being them, and that men are only loved for what they can do, and that this somehow makes men the more moral sex.

I am not denying that men care less about certain things, but certainly our love has conditions.

Just as women may not want a man that has not accomplished anything, without ambition, without success — men often do not want to date anyone they think is unattractive full stop. That is the condition

Many fail to empathize with the experiences of unattractive women.

Even setting attractiveness aside, our love still has many conditions — that we have reasonable access to sex, that our partner doesn’t cheat, if open that they tell us, if they cheat that they don’t do it again, if they do it again not with a friend.

If one accepts all the previous, it is hard for them to gain respect. Any man that puts up with that (loves unconditionally) would be labeled a beta male cuck simp (unattractive). Wouldn’t a women be too? If a women is constantly getting cheating on disrespected, not taken care of, why should she stay to prove her love?

I understand in sickness in health, and that people experience hard times, but every male and female has a bare minimum entry point, and a ultimate breaking point. Those without one are rarely respect and often used.

Just want to note that outside of the cheating thing both sexes have conditions, and this varies from person to person. A car, a job, a degree, a house, sexual experience, a low n count, a good reputation, no addictions, no stds, an aura of femininity, etc