Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-30T10:57:11+00:00

Listening to guys here explain how sex is a need is just like listening to spoiled kids explain why they "need" the newest iphone. it’s both a thinly veil.sense of entitlement to obligate people to give them what they WANT.

Booexgirlfriend · 2022-10-29T15:45:33+00:00

Men: "Invite him out for coffee sometime. Rejection is not that traumatic."

Also men: "Dating like a man is traumatic. You have to make the first move and then get rejected."

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-29T17:57:13+00:00

That French prime ministers wife really told the guys parents that she couldn’t promise them anything when they asked her to stop seeing their son until he was 18 😬😬😬😬

Also reminder that when ever he was brought up on FDS many of them didn’t have anything bad to say about their relationship

WestCombSplit · 2022-10-30T10:01:49+00:00

This is an example of why people don't take feminism seriously any more. Anybody can call themselves a feminist and say whatever they want. So whatever the actual purpose of the movement is, it gets diluted and filled with crazies. Plus other feminists won't argue against them. So they get grouped together. Atleast there's a bunch of guys that go against the RedPill

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-10-30T09:46:28+00:00

I need to make like 300k. Why? I’m a solid 6. With the taste preferences of someone who’s a 9.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-10-30T09:25:57+00:00

Update; I was a yacht captain for Halloween and danced with a slutty looking sailor but felt horrible and pushed her away after about 30 seconds

I tried...

Guess I'm stuck

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-10-30T09:04:10+00:00

For the people on this sub who think that women are generally more attractive than men: Do you think that would be the case if makeup didn't exist?

samjeethyde · 2022-10-30T08:24:15+00:00

Watch this everyday for motivation 💪 💯👹

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GEaMGeKqZ8

6negative4 · 2022-10-30T07:04:59+00:00

Women would rather slave away at a 9-5 than be with a non-Chad. That’s how much they despise us.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-30T06:55:12+00:00

The average man is a 3/10 who thinks he's a 5/10

The average woman is a 6/10 that thinks she's an 8/10

Men rate themselves higher just because they think they're better looking than they actually are, women rate themselves higher because they've got desperate simps who'll take anything they can get.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-30T06:36:47+00:00

Women like Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez are both probably 8-9/10 considering their lifestyle, wearing makeup, money etc

Take those things away though, they're just your regular girls walking around your neighbourhood? They're no more than 5/10. Sorry 🤷

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-10-30T04:59:34+00:00

The Halloween mega thread is over but here are the deets from my party.

I was hoping BIL would hit it off with a cute coworker I invited but instead he brought a “friend” who was clearly more than a friend who was…very meh.

All other males present agreed cute coworker was cute once she left and wished they’d gotten her number.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-30T04:47:16+00:00

The more I get downvoted on here the more it confirms that my opinions and way of thinking are the correct way.

lostwanderer28 · 2022-10-30T04:44:39+00:00

I believe people who slept around and had lots of meaningless sex are telling themselves that they have no problems with it because it is the only way to make themselves feel good about their very wrong decisions.

There was another post, describing how women today are more depressed, suicidal and rely on anti-depressants, I think a lot of promiscuous women are lying to us when they say that they have no problem with their past.

It is like someone who used a lot of porn. Nobody sane likes to admit that he/she watches porn, it is a burden, it is a baggage, unless you repent. So is meaningless casual sex a burden, a baggage, unless you repent.

Anti_Thing · 2022-10-30T03:40:01+00:00

Why of these would you rather have? Can you explain why?

Option 1: You have the career & home of your dreams, wonderful friendships, can regularly travel around the world, & tons of free time you can use for hobbies or whatever else you want, BUT you stay celibate & childless forever.

Option 2: You have a wonderful marriage in which you love, respect, & understand each other, & have frequent, mutually satisfying sex, BUT you must have a big family (6+ kids), work a job you hate outside the home or alternatively stay at home with the kids, live either in a cramped apartment in a big city or a small house in the middle of nowhere (whichever one you hate more lol), have little time or energy for friendships, & once the needs of your family are met you hardly have any free time or money left for yourself or your hobbies/passions.

purplish_possum · 2022-10-30T03:13:40+00:00

Just drove through San Francisco. Sucks that I'm too old to join all the Halloween stuff. Looks like a lot of people are going to have fun tonight.

samjeethyde · 2022-10-30T03:10:58+00:00

GigaChad: the U.S government is lying to its population, using torture, committing false flag attacks on American soil, spying on you, funding terrorism, brainwashing you, engaging in international drug trafficking, and assassinating people they don't like

soy boy: nooooooooo, that's just a baseless conspiracy theory

*years later

US government: oh yeah, we lied about WMDs in Iraq, cointelplro is real, we sold weapons to the Iranian government, funded dictators in South America, gave money to islamic terrorists during operation cyclone, intentionally infected American civilians with infectious diseases(operation sea-spray and the Tuskegee experiment), MIK-ultra is real, Operation Northwoods is real, and we have a gun that can cause heart attacks

samjeethyde · 2022-10-30T03:03:31+00:00

the sheer ridiculousness and absurdity of the U.S government pressuring corporations and the media into fighting "misinformation" is absolutely hilarious to me

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-30T02:37:06+00:00

Men with beer bellies disgust me. Imagine being in your 30s and not having a six pack, or at least lean and.

Or even worse, men in their 20s with beer bellies.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-30T02:22:32+00:00

idc to admit my n-count is 11 people (two weren’t PIV just was oral on me lol) and sometimes i do rank who was better than others but imo all of them weren’t comparable idk. My ex and i were able to have decent companionship and the sex was loving/rough mixed - more intimate. Two guys were dominating and was pretty memorable, i found them insanely good looking, but it was just fucking not like intimate sex. Idk good sex differs for me, i feel like men just rate it from good to bad. Sometimes I wanna just get fucked the other times I want slow and steady. So it differs 🤷‍♀️

I am a lil tipsy and rambling I apologize 🙏

SeliciousSedicious · 2022-10-30T02:16:02+00:00

A lot of feminists point to the talked about “male loneliness” stats and boast that they are doing so much better and even tout it as a victory for feminism.

It’s a fun narrative but doesn’t seem true.

in reality, loneliness rates are effectively equal across both genders and actually very high and rising.

A look at virginity rates too shows that the later in life virginity rates are also close and rising for both men and women with 13% of women 25+ still reporting as virgins and some 14% of men.

So with that i soundly reject the “loneliness is only affecting men” narrative or the idea that women are going full “girl power” and confidently being single bosses. Statistics and what both genders are saying when their ego isn’t on the line seems to be soundly rejecting it even if women’s loneliness isn’t as talked about.

It seems that the loneliness epidemic is hurting everyone and that neither gender is particularly immune. Men are just more vocal about it.

The9thElement · 2022-10-30T01:46:40+00:00

Who here drinks ensure nutrition and pediasure shakes? I don’t even need them but my grandma keeps giving them to me they are so delicious?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-30T01:02:04+00:00

i love women so much but I also love life on easy mode and theres really not much balance if you want both.

huhwhatokok · 2022-10-30T00:49:11+00:00

Update: She also loves EDM festivals. 😭 that’s a +50 body count.

Least_Volume_8591 · 2022-10-30T00:47:14+00:00

I am unable to get anything done because I am too smart.

I had a normal dating life till age 17 as an American born and raised in the suburbs to a normal middle class family.

That all changed when I turned 18 and became able to earn my own money and have my own bank account as by the time I turned 22 I had accidentally become worth 7 figures post tax by selling a startup that I barely even spent time creating. I did it as a hobby since my college grades were ok - B+ avg - and I thought I would get a normal middle class job. I even thought it was a fluke but unfortunately it wasn’t and at age 28 I’m now worth mid 8 figures all by accident without even trying.

I never had the chance to be a socially ‘normal person’ since age 17 or so, even my job trapped me in NYC where rich kids and international rich kids roam the streets.

What can I do to recover? My free therapist - given to me by my board of investors - thinks I can never be ‘middle class’ again as I no longer socially fit in there and should just be a part of the elite. I can’t even give it all away as I don’t have normal work experience or a super prestigious degree so it will be hard for me to compete with others who didn’t have the same outs as I did. I’m very afraid to entrepreneur again as it might make my wealth even higher when I would prefer it to be lower. Even for donation - like give out 80% of it - it is very time consuming to give out a large sum and government will annoy me if I mess up the paperwork.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-30T00:40:00+00:00

When you realise that most people spend their lives pouring thousands of dollars a year into their favourite sports team whether it's season tickets, buying their kits, buying food at the game, when it realistically brings you nothing in return.

Yeah sure you feel happy for a bit if you win the league, but all that goes away in a few months when the season starts again, I don't know I've been a huge fan of sports over the years but this mindset really makes me take a step back.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-10-30T00:16:11+00:00

Going out to clubs for Halloween for the first time since my girl left, I don't know if I'm going to dance with some girls or not. They be trying I'm sure. We'll see.

Still not over eachother for sure

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T23:24:06+00:00

Do you think that most friendships are somewhat transactional and most of them fiddle out once the purpose is fulfilled ? What I observe around me is exactly that. The purpose usually seems to be mutual companionship when you're young. Then everybody pairs off with a partner and goes their way.

Also : I think if you have truly nothing, people shun you because they understand you don't add anything to their life.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-10-29T23:17:22+00:00

This is the kind of education I need my taxes to fund.

LaloTwins · 2022-10-29T23:13:14+00:00

The way some of y'all argue on here about hypocrisy!

I'm half expecting to one day see you argue that men are hypocrites for saying girls should sit to pee, when they don't.

FFTzzz · 2022-10-29T23:06:56+00:00

Women explain yourselves!

JDWhiz96 · 2022-10-29T23:06:22+00:00

Q4A: the best Britney Spears song?

My Answer: Born to Make You Happy

Willow-girl · 2022-10-29T23:03:05+00:00

Admittedly I have caught only bits and pieces of the story, and much of the stuff that's been put out is probably inaccurate, but who else thinks there is a nonzero chance Grindr was involved in the Pelosi incident?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-29T22:40:34+00:00

The only people who believe sex = love are bible thumpers, the mentally ill, and naive people that are susceptible to being manipulated.

ChorizoWestern · 2022-10-29T22:37:57+00:00

Night driving on switchbacks is so addictive but so bloody dangerous.

I can't even comprehend how good must be a proper sports cars like a Toyobaru, an Elise or a Porche on the bends

samjeethyde · 2022-10-29T22:26:37+00:00

absolutely insane to see feminists say shit like "the future is female" and how"men are obsolete", with celebratory and excited attitudes, writing articles about a glorious women-led utopia with no place for men in it

then they question why men don't support an ideology that wants them broken, dead, and discarded

HazyMemory7 · 2022-10-29T22:20:11+00:00

Just came across a 24 year old single mother of FOUR on hinge. Who knows if it they're all from the same guy, but god damn what man with an ounce of self respect would date anyone with 4 kids at 24.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T22:18:48+00:00

Anybody know why kissing on the lips feels so good and why it leads to sexual excitement ? Maybe I'm wrong but kissing on the lips wasnt even a thing two centuries ago, was it ? Or maybe it was but wasn't allowed publicly `?

smallstarseeker · 2022-10-29T22:08:29+00:00

I'm working on making men and women understand each other better.

This is bad for PPD business so if my body is found, it was one of the PPD mods.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-29T22:08:17+00:00

Deadbeats: If women can choose abortion, then men should be able to choose financial abortions!

Conservatives: That's a good point!

SCOTUS: Repeals Roe V Wade

Conservatives: Excellent, now neither of you have a choice in our states!

Deadbeats: THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT!

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-10-29T22:08:01+00:00

Last night there was a huge stampede in downtown Seoul that killed about 150 people.

One thing about Korea I really dislike is its shitty infrastructure. A lot of these places look like they haven't been touched since the 80's when it comes to development. A lot of roadways designed for pedestrians in highly populated areas in this country are so narrow, making tragedies such as this inevitable. Unlike the US where things are more spread out, Korea tries it best to take up any open space as much as possible, grated its because its a small country with a high population. Add its culture where people just bump into each other like its nothing. Its kind of sad that something like this has to happen, but knowing how this country runs and this happening where a lot of foreigners frequently go to for the night life, I doubt that the government will give a shit.

Anyway, stay safe out there during Halloween weekend PPD fam.

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T22:04:27+00:00

Q4W Should I stop listening to hip hop because it's sexist?

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T22:01:59+00:00

Ppd is probably the worst place to ask this, but how would you react if you hear friends of your friend gossiping about your friend and saying he might be gay in a kinda conservative country

HazyMemory7 · 2022-10-29T21:54:26+00:00

I'd really love for the 80/20 study to be repeated today on tinder/hinge/bumble, but women get so viscously angry when anybody studies anything that results in data that doesn't align with their views. So much so that the "original" 80/20 study was removed.

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T21:46:55+00:00

Having an active and expanding social circle is infinitely times more important than your cold approach skills imo

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T21:46:16+00:00

My favourite comment on ppd is definitely "removed"

Mark_Freed · 2022-10-29T21:45:12+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CkJF_7YIdsp/?hl=en

One man's 2 year relationship is another man's one night hit 💀

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T21:43:39+00:00

Who is worse at strawmaning: some women of ppd or "libs" on Reddit?

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T21:42:44+00:00

It's really weird to see a girl regularly and you can't for the life of you determine whether she's hot or not

TigerRude4 · 2022-10-29T21:39:03+00:00

Lads, find yourself a woman who writes fullstops at the end of the text messages, she's high value.

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-10-29T21:35:46+00:00

There was this askReddit question about ''How do we prevent our sons from being incels?''

And one guy said '' Teach your son his value doesn't come from whether or not he is in a relationship''

That is terrible advice. Society will judge your son if he hasn't been in a relationship by 25.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T21:30:56+00:00

Do you agree with the notion of psychologists often having a few screws loose ?

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-29T21:23:01+00:00

My evidence for fat people usually dating each other is that like 80% of the time I watch some amateur backshot pov porn I have to see some guys big hanging gut

johnnyGotHisTabla · 2022-10-29T21:18:26+00:00

There are two ways of arguing with a woman. Neither works.

'Texas' Bix Bender from his book of cowboy wisdom, Don't Squat With 'yer Spurs On.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T21:02:30+00:00

Im thinking about becoming a yoga instructor. because why the fuck not. Get away from the desk, get to know your own body and help others in the process. Thoughts, experiences, suggestions ?

madsskayyy · 2022-10-29T20:48:20+00:00

My favorite thing about marriage so far has to be the fact that I don’t ever feel alone in any conflict so as a result, I feel much less drained by issues that come up.

I can also delegate all the man things to someone and focus on the things I like. I recommend marriage🙃

unloader72 · 2022-10-29T20:45:29+00:00

Tried pumpkin spice latte for the first time aaaanddd it waz goooddd...

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T20:38:58+00:00

I don't understand why balding guys don't shave it off. Evenness is attractive. Baldness isn't the problem. Balding is.

Anardus · 2022-10-29T20:38:25+00:00

It’s Turkish Republic Day today🇹🇷 and all my neighbors are waving Turkish flags outside their balconies, streets have cars honking their horns like mad men at 11pm, and clubs are full.

Love to see it

samjeethyde · 2022-10-29T20:35:16+00:00

The Evil Economics of OnlyFans

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUu9n6ASoEE

IMO the modern glorification and supposed "empowerment" of sex work is disgusting, the moment modern society began to celebrate people selling there bodies and souls is the moment we all should have realized a collective that the downfall of the west is inevitable

edit: the most evil aspect of this whole thing is the commodification of love/connection, no longer do you need something real and mutual, some pathetic loser just pays 5 dollars a month and some e-thot in an anime wig will tell you much she loves you

monkymonkk · 2022-10-29T20:31:59+00:00

How common is it for men (esp those who work out) to use roids or other similar drugs????

My friend invited me to come workout with him at his gym and I was shocked at how huge all the men were. Some were scary but most were in that movie star range where it looks too good to be true but not too big its weird.

I couldn’t believe what all these 40+ year old men looked like. My friend laughed and said most of these guys are in their 20s and early 30s yeeeesh that shit makes you look like shit

NthKnife · 2022-10-29T20:19:56+00:00

I am on a bumble friend date for the first time and she is 20 mins late. gang, i may have been stood up let's seeeeee

Update: Got stood up. The weirdest thing is this is just a platonic thing and she responded up to the point of actually having to show up. Not sure what happened but we are officially an hour from the time we were supposed to meet up and she's neither shown up nor responded. F.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-10-29T20:12:36+00:00

I absolutely cannot stand white knights. Like dudes that token post in feminist spaces saying I think i'm misogynistic what should I do? Most disingenuous bunch there is, just looking for brownie points at best and hoping women will have sex with them by groveling for them at worst.

At least women have a vested interest in women's issues by virtue of their shared experience. Shit, if I was a women I'd be advocating for women's perspectives and issues too.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-10-29T20:10:37+00:00

It turns out that my girlfriend isn't a virgin (surprise, surprise).

She said she lied to me about it because she didn't want me to think that she was easy or anything like that. She said she was a virgin so that I would wait to have sex with her, because she was worried that if I did have sex with her early on, I might think she's slutty.

Essentially, she lied to me about her sexual past in order to make me wait, and she made me wait because she didn't me to think lowly of her. She lied to me, is it unfair that I'm upset about this?

I'm considering breaking up tbh.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-10-29T19:44:08+00:00

we should all choose a location to fly out to and meet up then fight each other in person

smallstarseeker · 2022-10-29T19:42:24+00:00

I finnaly got it! All of those people talking shit about validation are full of shit. Men and women need it, and it is the most reliable predictor of a divorce. Im writing a post about this tomorrow.

As Gottman studied the interactions of each couple, he began to notice a pattern. Throughout the day, partners would make small, seemingly insignificant requests for connection from each other. For example, a husband would look out the window and say, “Wow, check out that car!” He wasn’t just commenting on the car, though; he was looking for his wife to respond with shared interest or appreciation. He was hoping to connect—however momentarily—over the car. Gottman calls these requests for connection “bids.”

The wife could then choose to respond positively (“Wow, that is nice!”), negatively (“Ugh, that’s hideous”), or passively (“Mmm, that’s nice, dear”). Gottman refers to positive and engaging responses as “turning toward” the bidder, and negative and passive responses as “turning away.” As it turned out, the way couples responded to these bids had a profound effect on their marital well-being.

Gottman found that couples who had divorced during the six-year follow-up period had “turn-toward bids” just 33 percent of the time—meaning only three in ten of their requests for connection were met with interest and compassion.

In contrast, couples who remained together after the six-year period had “turn-toward bids” 87 percent of the time. Nearly nine times out of ten, the healthy couples were meeting their partner’s emotional needs.

Now here’s the kicker: by observing these types of interactions, Gottman can apparently predict with up to 94 percent certainty whether couples—rich or poor, gay or straight, young or mature—will be broken up, together and unhappy, or together and happy, several years down the road.

Booexgirlfriend · 2022-10-29T16:10:20+00:00

Men: Women have to start to approach and ask men out.

Women: They do.

Men: Only with attractive men.

Women: So...they do.

Men: ...

Men: Women have to start to approach and ask below average men out.

John_Oakman · 2022-10-29T17:03:23+00:00

"It is not enough that I am perfectly happy in all forms due to my ideological beliefs, it is also imperative that my enemies are completely miserable due to their ideological beliefs."

-this subreddit in a nutshell.

lulll · 2022-10-29T18:39:45+00:00

women are made from our ribs and this is how they repay us unbelievable

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T14:13:12+00:00

Apparently the better educated a woman is, the more likely she is to marry. This is an opposing view to the idea that men don't want them. Thoughts ?

punk_baby333 · 2022-10-29T19:17:41+00:00

"dating a single mom is like continuing someone else's saved game"

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-29T11:59:23+00:00

Shit like this is why “men’s issues” are not taken seriously.

This dumb ass conservative commentator is feeling sorry for Nick Cannon paying 3 million child support. Does he even mentioned that Nick Cannon is a celebrity that bought 10 women pregnant with 12 children? NO. Did he mention how Nick Cannon was nonchalant when one of the babies died? NO.

He just want to cry about the government obligating men to actually take some responsibility, which is ironic because he complains about how feminists don’t take responsibility for themselves.

Stop this is what I am talking about, stop demanding sympathy when you have none for others. People will not listen to you bitch about feminists when you act just as stupid.

TLDR: Men who complain about child support are deadbeats and want to defend deadbeats like Nick Canon.

https://youtu.be/3APUUpLxJO8

LaloTwins · 2022-10-29T14:42:31+00:00

In women the odds of infidelity increase by 7% for each additional partner before marriage and decrease by 10% for each standard year of study after graduating

Source

Given this I've always found the manosphere's insistence that education level matters little to be ridiculous.

I'd only consider MDs and PHDs to marry (lawyers are too high strung and ego driven for me) if I were to actually marry

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-29T16:36:22+00:00

The hip crease when she’s got a big ass and legs and is at the bottom of a squat 🤌

HazyMemory7 · 2022-10-29T11:27:57+00:00

Honestly surprised my threads even manage to get as many upvotes as they do.

This thread is more or less a series of low effort mischaracterizations of dating-related arguments with very little quality and no sources whatsoever and it got upvoted to the top for essentially being in line with the women are wonderful narrative.

Right from the get-go there's a lack of nuance in understanding that being picky and choosing well are not mutually exclusive. That stats don't lie. Women initiate ~70% of divorces. Men didn't create a world in which casual sex and hook-up culture is normalized, feminism did, but even acknowledging that it's easier for women to get, we certainly are under no obligation to wife up promiscuous women.

Edit: Also lol at whoever reported this post to admins.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-10-29T15:28:22+00:00

My flatmate recently wanted to know everyone's birthday so she work out our starsigns and make a flat horoscope.

Then another time she wanted to know our myers briggs personality types and then everyone's political opinions so she could place us on the political compass.

Women are basically people-fixated autists, as compared to things-fixated male autists.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T16:23:40+00:00

What women mean when they say they like kind men is "I like men with higher market value than myself be kind to me"

SheMyHeroine · 2022-10-29T10:24:27+00:00

my gym finally unbanned me, so I can finally stop being an obnoxious asshole to everyone here now that I have an outlet again 😅 thx everyone

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-29T10:42:15+00:00

The easiest way to get out of someone accusing you of lying is by saying "I have no reason to lie, I gain nothing from it."

Like legit, always works. Makes them go "Yeah i guess you don't really gain anything from it."

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-10-29T10:54:30+00:00

The female equivalent of a man finding out his wife/gf has a high n-count is when she learned that her bf/husband had slept with another man or transwoman. As with some men won't care about what she did with the past, some women won't care what he had done either. Then you hear how women become repulsive when they hear about a man's past in that aspect.

Theory: Women gatekeep sex obviously and expect men to play by their rules. They beleive that if a man cannot get sex with a woman than thats too bad for him. What upsets women is when a man circumvents the system causing the women to lose the control of giving men sex (as if some would have given it to them anyway), in which they will shame him and call him such names like "creep" for example.

Suxh of these circumvent behaviors that men do where women lose the control of gatekeeping sex include but not limited to men having sex with other men, men having sex with transwomen, paying s-workwers for sex, traveling overseas to date, etc.

The most obvious example would be prostitution. People will say that its outlawed because of human trafficking. Yes that may be true, but in reality how many s-workers do it on their own free will? Those who back it being outlawed is to prevent men from getting easy access to sex from a women because of whatever reason he couldn't get it the normal way, which is being worthy enough for a woman to give it to him. With s-workwers, he can be unattractive asf, but all he has to do is pay and he has all the access he wants for however much time he has.

Conclusion: Women want men to have sex on their terms. They feel if you are not attractive enough for sex, you should just shut up and be alone. If you do anything that steps out of their control over their ability to gatekeep sex, they feel the need to believe you're a disgusting individual. They may not say it out in a man's face, but it wil always be in a woman's mind. Sex is the main thing woman can have power over a man. Its a threat when that power is no longer as effective.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-29T11:11:00+00:00

I'm still seeing so many stories on dating advice subs where girls are complaining about their dates saying they like Andrew Tate.

Why???? Why the fuck are you telling the girls you're going on dates this??? You're shooting yourself in the foot. Like Andrew Tate all you like, don't tell people you do though, you're going to put them off.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-29T13:06:38+00:00

The number 1 issue with Men Rights Activists and the Manosphere is not holding men accountable. Very similar to how Feminists won’t hold women accountable (unless she’s conservative).

When a man is abusive? “Well, maybe his mom made him like that since most criminals were raised by a single man”.

When a man irresponsibly has 10 baby mamas? “It’s not fair that he has to pay so much in Child support!”

When a man cheats? “It’s justified because she wasn’t giving him all the sex he deserves! Sex is a need!”

When a man actively date/fucks horribly toxic women? “This is why men give up on love!”

When a man has to pay alimony after he claims a woman’s income isn’t important to him? “Marriage is a lie! Divorce rape! Why I should get a prenup?!”

When a man puts in policies that destroy the lives of Truckers (like what happened on Canada)? “Women’s fault, they voted for this!”

When men do nothing to stand up for men’s rights? “Society doesn’t care about men!”

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-10-29T15:11:30+00:00

It's not that "go to therapy" is bad advice, but it's a terrible thing to say to someone who is confiding in you. You are basically telling that person that you don't really care about them.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-10-29T15:47:25+00:00

conservativism is feels over reals which is why conservatives are wrong about most things from immagration to climate change

bunnakay · 2022-10-29T18:14:18+00:00

It really is fun when someone makes the conversation personal and then wonders why you gave it right back to them. Either stay neutral and on topic, or don't.

CimZim · 2022-10-29T10:01:00+00:00

Good morning!

pinktuliplover · 2022-10-29T12:00:56+00:00

My friend has confessed to me that she’s gay and that she has had a crush on me for sometime.

I’m about to lose a good friend and it sucks!

lewdakuma · 2022-10-29T13:02:41+00:00

con update 1: i thought the character i cosplayed was obscure, but i got recognized a lot and very enthusiastically which was fun! a lot of very hot men wanted to take pics with me which fulfilled my male attention quota for the year (´∀` ) i asked for one guys instgram and he gave it to me but i dont think i have shot with him LOL but at least i tried

RegTextoffender · 2022-10-29T15:14:35+00:00

It's really an amazing weekend.

Wakanda forever comes out an African American now owns Twitter.

Such a amazing time to be alive!

jackedsoon · 2022-10-29T15:28:00+00:00

im friends with some older professions with jobs in good fields like medicine, mental health, education etc. and its funny when we catch up and their true self comes out and theyre dissing their patients and kids they work with. imagine going to appointment and ur Dr or psychiatric secretly despises you LOL

WestCombSplit · 2022-10-29T15:45:14+00:00

RedPill guys really talk about wanting traditional Women without realising those same Women want traditional Men . They assume having a job is more than enough and she'll worship him for it lolololol

jackedsoon · 2022-10-29T16:08:19+00:00

Q4w: do u think men(irl ones u know not ppd men) underestimate their league?

WestCombSplit · 2022-10-29T16:29:57+00:00

It'sinteresting how the RedPill take the logical stance yet all the evidence for their claims come from random drunk Women on a night out

Willow-girl · 2022-10-29T16:32:19+00:00

Reaching back into the vault this morning. Let Auntie Willow school you on love and good music. https://youtu.be/KCRuAnTBjnk

LaloTwins · 2022-10-29T16:49:00+00:00

I'm not getting married until all my assets are in a trust so if a divorce happens I own nothing

LaloTwins · 2022-10-29T17:31:25+00:00

I will agree with women porn has the men and women so far apart it's weird

Sex is by far the hottest when you're practically one person from how close you are

thetruthishere_ · 2022-10-29T18:20:30+00:00

Have a good weekend all!

smallstarseeker · 2022-10-29T18:38:42+00:00

Porn industry is oppresive!

All male pornstars are victims!

LebaneseImperfection · 2022-10-29T19:03:04+00:00

Thong Bikinis > fully covered bottoms

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BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-10-29T10:06:18+00:00

Women are overrated. They don't even have balls.

samjeethyde · 2022-10-29T10:18:17+00:00

Currently hanging out with at some girls apartment, my friend is totally crossed and totally spaced out and I am currently forcing them to watch baki

Also new girl is actually really good

samjeethyde · 2022-10-29T11:08:14+00:00

so after watching an hour or so of new girl and baby daddy I am going to coin a new term called "women writing men" there is just something about the men in these shows that makes you immediately tell this they were written by women, I don't know how to explain it but something just feels off, they just don't feel like men IMO

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-29T13:01:32+00:00

I don't know why high n women use "I can separate love and sex like men can" like it's a positive thing. Straight men don't want to wife up men or mannish women.

"I can separate sex" gives even more ick.

smallstarseeker · 2022-10-29T13:20:28+00:00

I(38m) found out about my wife's(36f) sexual history and dealt with it. However wife's reaction is making me think about divorce.

Holy shit 😐

This doesn't sound like a LARP to me

And the bias in the comments is mindboggling.

Willow-girl · 2022-10-29T14:03:06+00:00

Even YouTube knows my N-count! It put this in my playlist, lol. https://youtu.be/iYuF99VTEdg

wintergreen233 · 2022-10-29T15:09:26+00:00

Q4W: where do you like for cute lingerie or sexier bra / underwear sets that aren’t wildly expensive?

I was never into lingerie, never felt cute in it, always made me feel ridiculous. But I’d like to up my underwear game, so want to try again to find something more sexy.

One issue I have is that synthetic lace and the like drives me nuts… so scratchy and uncomfortable. I had that issue every time I tried on most VS stuff. But there must be something good out there!

InfoVariety-8842 · 2022-10-29T15:42:42+00:00

I had no idea Tom Brady’s oldest kid was not Gisele’s. Apparently after they were ”officially” dating for a month he got his ex pregnant, oops. At least he isn’t a Nice Guy tho

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-10-29T16:00:14+00:00

I guess the theme for the weekend is "this sub's gone to pot."

samjeethyde · 2022-10-29T10:24:25+00:00

HOLY SHIT BEARCLAW FROM NEW GIRL IS PLAYED BY JOSH GAD WHO ALSO PLAYED LEFOU IN LIVE ACTION BEAUTY AND THE BEAST

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-10-29T12:50:27+00:00

I notice Republicans don’t know shit about culture, not even the younger ones. Hearing Candace Owens imply that Kardasian fans vote made me roll my eyes. I guess that’s what happens when people are overly political and don’t put in effort to have non-political friends.

Most people don’t care about politics and you would think that is common sense. Even when society gets super bad, you will still get a large sum of the population who don’t care about politics.

That’s why encouraging everyone to vote is fucking stupid. Not everyone wants to vote nor need to vote.

In a similar fashion, I was stunned hearing a conservative feeling bad for Nick Canon, obviously not knowing Canon has 10 baby mamas. Conservatives need to stop commenting on celebrities when they don’t know shit about them. And they wonder why they don’t do well with a younger audience.

StrengthRoutine8983 · 2022-10-29T13:57:06+00:00

This sub is starting to cause me a great deal of anxiety and depression.

I got out of a long term relationship a few months ago at 34 years of age. However, after reading through multiple dating forums here (especially this site) I’m reaching the conclusion that as a 34 year old woman, my chances of getting into a successful long term relationship are…abysmal.

According to the men here I’m “Post wall” in terms of fertility and attractiveness. Even men my age would rather date a woman in their 20s. Women in their 30s are just seen for hook ups only.

I’ve been distraught these last few weeks at the idea that it’s over for me.

It wasn’t like I was “riding the c**** carousel” throughout my 20s- just the long term relationships I was in were not successful (I also moved states twice which didn’t help). Reading through this forum has made me seriously depressed and I no longer want to put an effort in anything in my life. Because face it, it’s over for me as a woman at my age.

Every time I try to stop reading this type of content, I end up getting pulled back in and feeding my brain more hate. I’ve also looked at the men I do end up having dates with suspiciously, like they’re not going to take me seriously as a long term prospect due to my age.

FjbhBoy · 2022-10-29T14:01:59+00:00

Imo people who are “happy” about having no SO or children are not old enough to realize their mistake

My anecdotal evidence is my 60 year old mom and the stories she tells me of her single childless friends

StrengthRoutine8983 · 2022-10-29T14:18:35+00:00

Q4A: I often hear that women are depressed without a family once they hit 40. What do you propose for women like me who has a genetic condition that’s 50% transferable to my kids? The condition sucks (brittle bones) so I’d rather not take the chance.

But over and over On Reddit I read that women are depressed once they hit 40 if they don’t have a family, and that the number one thing men value from women is their “fertility”. I’m fertile, just can’t take the chance with the genetic lottery.

Adoption the only way?

lulll · 2022-10-29T15:00:07+00:00

women are hobbies men are hobbits

the-lone-squid · 2022-10-29T15:02:04+00:00

Well crap, woke up out of coffee but it's the weekend so all the people with jobs will be at the store

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T15:42:51+00:00

I feel like some women look at me as hook up material and its kind of annoying and objectifying

Katatonicsnake · 2022-10-29T15:48:50+00:00

Can you talk about politics with your parents and other relatives? I’ve realized it’s not as common as I thought.

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T16:42:39+00:00

Q4the bros :

What can we learn from Johnny Depp being a depressed alcoholic despite having banged more hotwomen that this entire sub together ?

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-10-29T16:44:47+00:00

Moving day part 1 😮‍💨

Anti_Thing · 2022-10-29T17:20:37+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLLi5q2MB9s&list=PLJHhuu0vGMO13nvq3p02cAmPkbo-liVqb&index=2

Are you lonely for me, baby?

Oh, it's our last train, baby, to Jacksonville

I'm gonna get on it, baby, you know I will

Will you try? Go ahead and try

To forget all the pain I brought you

Go on and try, go ahead and try, baby

I know I'm the one who taught you

Yeah, but I'm lonely, baby

And I'm lonely and blue

Good God, I'm lonely, baby

And I'm lonely for you, all alone

Yeah, I'm lonely

Let me, let me say that I'm lonely, baby

Lord have mercy right now

It's our last bus to Jacksonville

My sweet baby, are you still?

Tell your friend, it's the end

I will never, never again desert you

He will laugh

I can hear him laughing, baby

And you'd said that I was wrong to hurt you

Oh, but I'm sorry, baby, I'm sorry about that, baby

I'm lonely, baby

And I'm lonely for you

(I'm lonely)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

(Got to let you know I'm lonely, baby)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

(Let me, let me say that I'm lonely)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

(Oh my my, let me say that I'm lonely)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

(Hey, have you ever spent a lonely night?)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

(Sweet baby, I'm lonely)

Are you lonely for me, baby?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-10-29T11:41:34+00:00

Being bald when you're fat, skinny or out of shape isn't okay, you look awful.

Being bald when you're jacked though? Nothing but a good thing, it's a great look, it's why guys like Andrew Tate and Kris from 1STMAN look good, they're bald but still objectively attractive.

Ylduts · 2022-10-29T15:35:52+00:00

Why are women outside the US more in touch with reality?

meteorness123 · 2022-10-29T18:25:23+00:00

What are yall doing tonight

annabeelongx · 2022-10-29T13:01:40+00:00

Teenage girls are absolutely horrible. Very little redeeming qualities and lots of attitude.

I see the way I acted, and the way my current teenage sister is acting (bratty, extremely rude, stubborn, mean), and now the thought of having a daughter is something I really don’t entertain anymore.

Ylduts · 2022-10-29T10:08:11+00:00

If a man told a woman to quit her job and stop doing what she loves to do he would be crucified. Why is the sentiment different when the sexes are reversed? Tom Brady and Gisele for example.

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