Daily Community Chat Megathread

SlashCo80 · 2023-10-15T08:08:27+00:00

It's always funny to me when women online are like "MEN ARE GARBAGE, FUCK THE PATRIARCHY" and post in places like TrollX, when you know in real life she's some introverted nerd who wears oversized sweatshirts and doesn't talk to anybody

Hrquestiob · 2023-10-15T07:14:25+00:00

People here don’t care for science. If it doesn’t support their view, there’s a reason to dismiss it. If it does, it’s infallible. People here want their views confirmed, not challenged.

Although to be fair that’s everyone, unless they’re involved in research. And even then, they’re not always immune to the same biases

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-15T06:37:59+00:00

There is a lot of people here do not care for debate or intellectual discussions. There was a thread asking the woman why they are here. I only saw 1 poster said to discuss and debate. Every other response "boredom, craziness, junk, fun, etc.

If you made a similar thread, you would probably get similar answers from men that has nothing to do with genuine discussions and debate with the other side.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-15T05:38:22+00:00

one time I commented here that vulvas are ugly and idk how men are attracted to that and then some guy came into my dms saying that I'm "a normal girl who doesn't hate men" and I think about it a lot tbh. does thinking vulvas are ugly make me a non-hater. does it make me normal. what the hell did he infer from my meaningless comment.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-15T05:36:16+00:00

A random person I don’t know is enjoying peak leaf season in my house right now. I don’t mind (they’re paying to be there) but I miss the 4 season year especially my favorite - fall. What is your favorite season where you live?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-15T03:59:13+00:00

This is the only child of supposedly one of the most beautiful women of all time.

le_paso · 2023-10-15T03:52:19+00:00

Q4A: how would you feel if your partner's social media app is filled with thirst trap content?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-15T02:50:17+00:00

Is your name + surname combo unique?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-15T02:11:48+00:00

I will admit that dating has changed in the last 20 years.

The internet has connected more people on the fringes of things. Which great, I'm all for representation.

But... instead of it being a place of comfort and encouragement. It becomes a competition of who has it worse, or why life is so bad, and not bothering to try, or just very childlike behaviors pouting and breaking toys. It becomes these giant rage pits that suck the life force out.

It's fascinating from some perspectives. Terrifying in other perspectives.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-15T02:03:15+00:00

If you blocked the homie No_Ask you’re a 🐱

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-15T01:54:25+00:00

I hate that I can't even reply to someone else's comment just because they replied to a person that's blocked me. Gonna be my first time reporting someone lol

meteorness123 · 2023-10-15T01:46:50+00:00

Does anybody ever had a pro-longed phase of extreme physical fatigue or weakness and if yes what was it/how did you take care of it or when did it go away ? Was it psychological ?

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-15T01:46:18+00:00

The slew of downvotes tells me the braindead leftoids have found my equality of opportunity good, generational collective revenge bad posts.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-15T01:08:42+00:00

Bro pitching a whole tent

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxqMHVfIpI_/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-15T00:59:48+00:00

What’s your thoughts on school suspensions? Not the in school ones, the one where you can’t come back for a certain period of time. Many people for years have argued they don’t work in terms of fixing behavior, don’t help test scores, kids are more likely to drop out, and they place a burden on the parents because they have to either take time from work to watch the kids or arrange for someone else too. They have also argued many of the reasons people have gotten suspended are absolute BS, like talking back to a teacher.

I’ve never been suspended(got detention in a few times) but i remember one of my friends got a 5 day suspension for fighting in like the 6th of 7th grade. His mom had to go to work so he was home chilling for 5 days. Dude said it was like a mini vacation lol, I was lowkey jealous. I only knew one dude who got expelled though, he wasn’t my friend but he got kicked out cause he pulled a firearm out on his Ex and threatened to kill her in the parking lot.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-10-15T00:58:51+00:00

Q4W: How much do things like hair style, facial hair, fashion sense, and other surface-level traits affect how attractive a guy is?

potoricco · 2023-10-15T00:58:08+00:00

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I remember his eyes and the way the mountains looked

potoricco · 2023-10-15T00:55:18+00:00

Is it just me or there are old people and then there are old old people? One of my teachers is 51 while my dad is 53. I guarantee you my dad is literally spiritually old. Meanwhile if you took my teacher and put her in a 20 year old body you would believe she was actually 20. But if it was my dad you’d be wondering if he was a time traveler. I can’t describe it

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-15T00:50:58+00:00

This might sound weird but it is true. 95% of women think I'm disgusting, and 5% of women obsess over me, regardless of their attractiveness level. So 95 of ugly ogres think I'm disgusting, while 5% of beautiful model tier women love me and will go so far as to stalk me. And visa versa

I have yet to uncover the reason behind this curiosity. It's as if their own attractiveness is completely nullified as a factor in relation to whether or not they choose me

potoricco · 2023-10-15T00:35:13+00:00

Spidermen ranked

Miguel oHara❤️
Hobie Brown❤️
Miles❤️
Toby Maguire
The one from Disney channel/spectacular spider
Andrew Garfield
Tom Holland

business_explained · 2023-10-15T00:10:36+00:00

Final schizopost of the night: is anyone else always underwhelmed when travelling and seeing sightseeings? Whether it's a beautiful painting, statue, building, mountain. You get five seconds of "Woah, so this is how it looks in real life, huh?" Then you realize it's just a random thing in the vast entirety of earth. You get accustomed to it and wonder where the toilet in this place is.

SianOiseau · 2023-10-15T00:05:04+00:00

I'm curious how the hell it happens.

Have they not cohabitated prior marriage? I've read some stories about men suddenly/gradually stopping doing any chores after having kids and it looks like a fucking baby trap in reverse.

I'm blessed with a man whose cleaning standards are higher than mine and who does chores on a regular basis without me reminding him at all. But I'd also say it's pretty common and among my cousins no one has married a man who's utterly messy/doesn't do his fair share.

business_explained · 2023-10-14T23:57:50+00:00

I wish society was more "blackpilled" about genes in general. Not just about how a few men will naturally sexually attract most women, but also about "talent" in sports, schools, music and many other skills.

Many people are sub 90 iq, which means they won't ever get access to any of the high paid careers. Note that they could try harder than the most tryharding of tryharding asian kids who wants to attend Harvard, yet the sub 90 iq will still fail. Sub 90 iq people will do poor in school even if they try hard. It's nearly pointless.

Same for sports, except this is the area where everyone accepts that genes play a huge role. Nobody finds it weird that 6"6 is the average height in the NBA.

Everyone is always told to work hard and you'll see rewards. For some that is true, for many it won't ever be. All because you were the wrong sperm in your dad's balls.

When society accept that some won't ever succeed as much as others solely because of their genes, society will progress.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-14T23:41:40+00:00

There is so much bias against men in the media.

Anytime a couple is having a problem in a show or movie, anything short of the woman cheating or leaving her kids, the man is at fault. If men are emotionally or socially less developed than women in relationships, this is why. Because if they ever watch or go into spaces that analyze relationships or talk about relationships, the man is always at fault, so he doesn't want to broach the topic when it'll lead to him indirectly feeling the blame.

Women discuss relationships a lot more because they are absolved of blame when they talk about it.

Feminists talk about problematic media representation and are ostensibly about equality but they completely ignore bias against men.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-14T23:35:38+00:00

Holy shit. Actual genuine blue pill rhetoric making a return on PPD?

There's a thread right now attempting to explain that your looks and lack of status and wealth aren't what holds people back. Its just your personality duh!

This is the first genuine blue pilled OP I've seen in years.

SianOiseau · 2023-10-14T23:31:30+00:00

Period + cold with coughing and sneezing is a combo from hell. But husband brought me some pizza and cookies, so I'll live.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-14T23:27:33+00:00

Wild to see the stars of Halloween Town getting married some 25 years later.

Be still my millennial heart.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-14T23:07:28+00:00

Is it just me and god knows this sub has issues but is AllPillDebate just much more degenerate? Is it mostly 13-year old blackpillers or what?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-14T23:03:57+00:00

Reading about women getting the ick when their guy's side was struggling in tug of war, when their guy played with a model train is giving me the ick.

Any joy or wonder that they deem not manly enough and/or directly contributing to your social status turns them off, it's gross.

TheCounsellingGamer · 2023-10-14T22:38:09+00:00

I've been feeling especially close with my partner recently. My father decided to shuffle off this mortal coil last month, at the ripe old age of 52, and my partner has been a great support. He came with me to see my dad's body, because I've never done that before and I was scared.

At the funeral he cried a bit. I felt very close with him in that moment. I know a lot of people in this sub would think that I'd lose respect for him or dump him because he cried, but I love him even more for it.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T22:26:54+00:00

"So how do you know how cold approaches works then"

By doing it over and over again until it becomes second nature, stop theorizing it with this "l need social cues" or "only if am attractive" if you don't do it your never gonna figure out which method works best for you, and the only way to do that is by making mistakes repeatedly. Cold approaching is a practice

Same philosophy with driving a car, you can know the notebook like the back of your hand but if you don't go out on the road and make mistakes which will soon teach you to become better then your always gonna at a disadvantage

And what most guys don't realize is you can decide how many you wanna do, if you want to approach one girl every month that's fine since you'll end up learning something than if you didn't approach

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-14T22:23:38+00:00

Just a reminder: Guys who truly find sluts to be disgusting never give hoes a second of their time.

Thirsty guys do. Then, talk shit to hide their own shame how easily loose women entice them.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-14T22:21:16+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fbl9gn33by6ub1.png

Heightcels are seething right now.

(Context: apparently Warhammer 40k nerds are going apeshit around a new ridiculous looking figurine that's being released and this is one of 5000 memes about it)

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T22:19:19+00:00

No one talks about how hard it is to have big beautiful smelly balls. A lot of men are bullied for having them, which leads to insecurities. It's so hard on your back, they get stares in public and you need to cum and piss very often otherwise they will explode. Also they beat the shit out of a woman you're fucking. Its so sad

potoricco · 2023-10-14T22:16:57+00:00

I removed the gladiator and now I’m going to watch coming to america

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-14T22:07:11+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/FjBRYIcqir

Chad's insights. Always nice to see dudes living their best life

potoricco · 2023-10-14T22:01:51+00:00

FUCK the gladiator because this guy literally had a wife and child that died and started kissing the other woman I would be so pissed. Why do movies always glorify men’s wrongdoings

VTHokie2020 · 2023-10-14T22:00:08+00:00

Affirmative action - whether explicitly mandated by law, or simply practiced via tacit institutional/social pressure - really saps the amount of sympathy I have for a lot of groups who grieve.

potoricco · 2023-10-14T21:50:39+00:00

I am tired of my dad being a fucking hypocrite and projecting onto me

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-14T21:40:33+00:00

I understand you can support someone or their cause even if they have beliefs or tendencies you disagree with. Like for example supporting help and leniency for the homeless while acknowledging they can be disruptive or a danger. But I don't think I've ever heard a progressive left-wing supporter of Palestine actually address the EXTREMELY stark dissonance between the views of Hamas and their own values, which judging from the noise these woke people generate highly cherish. In one breath, they talk as if those not on board with LGBT rights and feminism are the scummiest of bigots, and yet...

Is it just something too uncomfortable to talk about so they just pretend it doesn't exist or what? It just seems like a very very very large piece of dust to be sweeping under the rug. B/c in a weird way it would make more sense if Palestinian supporters in western countries were the tradcons or fundamentalists but it's the reverse.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-14T21:35:02+00:00

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-14T21:29:49+00:00

https://youtu.be/zhnMSVb0oYA?si=XpfLlXSMXZYMyx-G

My music taste is better than yours

AspiringMogger · 2023-10-14T21:13:21+00:00

Just lol at being semi-incel. Beat my meat 3 times today and now I’m going home to a girl who I thought ghosted me

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-14T21:07:03+00:00

What’s the n-count thread count now?

tinasnow-poty · 2023-10-14T21:03:05+00:00

No one talks about how hard shaving your flaps is. The inside is so hard to get to

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T20:59:36+00:00

To be honest Obito had no plans of bringing back Madara, he just wanted to be himself and zetsu against everyone

He even looked shocked when he saw madara body and asked Kubota where he got it from, so Madara plan relying on Obito to bring him would've failed naturally

Seriously the guy even failed to convince nagato to join him until his best friend died, so l don't know why Madara had so much faith in Obito

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-14T20:54:49+00:00

To me it looks like most of the guys in cf4cf are the same guys women don't want + avoid and advice others to avoid them.

Q4A: So what kind of people are childfree in your social circle? Are they attractive, fit , good job, stable, friendly, socially charming, loyal, fun, interesting, assertive, have no mental problem, etc ?

Q4W : Also, would you date any guy from cf4cf (like what %age) if you have the same stance on children ?

Edit :- if you don't know, cf4cf is a subreddit.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-14T20:45:24+00:00

I still can't believe women do not think having sex with another guy while in a relationship is cheating if the guy is wearing a condom. It's just one of those things that I know is true but I want to believe it isn't and it's a lie.

lolmastr13 · 2023-10-14T20:17:20+00:00

I guess it’ll change as I get older but in the spaces I frequent it always feels like women are leagues above men on the social ladder, just because they’re women. I wonder if it’s just a me thing or if this is the reality of the modern world and the social media age.

nexkell · 2023-10-14T19:56:27+00:00

And women hate men cold approaching them, yet they get all gooey over it.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-14T19:40:28+00:00

I don't get why women lie about their dating app experiences. Women say that almost all their matches are creeps or ugly fish picture guys but that's not anywhere close to the truth.

Yes, you're going to get some creeps and weirdos but you'll get hundreds matches will be decently attractive men with professional jobs who make friendly conversation and aren't overly sexual as long as you have basic personal hygiene (a healthy (19-21) BMI, basic minimal makeup).

Like, it's completely provable. Anyone can make a fake female profile with a woman with basic personal hygiene in a decent sized city and show that women are getting decent men showering them with attention.

Yes, women can get free and easy attention and validation by decently attractive men through dating apps. Female privilege.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-14T19:35:31+00:00

I'm surprised people aren't talking about Israel and Palestine more.

keebydee · 2023-10-14T19:28:25+00:00

Just came back from my friend's birthday party, well lunch actually. We went to a Japanese place where they cook right in front of you. It was cool to watch with the fire and everything but the all the noise he was making made me a tad nervous. 😅

Turns out it was just my friend and I, he didn't invite anyone else so I didn't have to worry about interacting with others, thank god. Though the restaurant after a while seated a family with two kids at the same table as us and that caught me off guard a little bit. I was stimming a little harder because I was even more nervous. Though I think I saw the wife checking me out across the table. 😏😏 Jk

I did what women in this sub said to do and see all of the average looking couples in public. The couple at the table was average and each others looksmatch. Lol. Anyways, it was only 2 hours and was definitely better than I originally perceived.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T19:24:02+00:00

Pearl,sneako,density,Tate should all leave the manosphere because they are all a bunch of fakes

They all jump on team redpill first but immediately when myron says shit like sleep with 50 girls, now am all of a sudden it's "that's degenerate behavior don't associate me those redpill guys"

Or when Rollo tweeted young men should get a vasectomy, everyone including sneako and density came after him, same guys who proclaimed to be authorities of the manosphere

Pearl is stupid as usual and just stills a bunch of ideas from myron and Rollo

Same with aba and preach, they were "redpill is necessary" at first but now made over 30 videos attacking F&F

They are all snakes/fakes and sell a grift because as soon as TRP doesn't align with their beliefs or Ideology, they immediately want out which to me is a definition of grifting

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-14T19:22:25+00:00

People who are actually disgusted by sluts don't want to be around them and avoid them. The manosphere is filled with men disgusted with themselves because they know sluts have power over them and they make sluts rich and popular like Kim K and e-girls.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-14T19:05:34+00:00

Q4A: For those who know who he is, rate BoyWithUke. I'm under the impression he's really attractive to GenZ girls.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-14T18:47:35+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/wZ8PrbgeJa

honestly kinda shocked how mad about this post some guys were when it was first posted. is the data fake and unreasonable? sounds totally expected for women to be insecure to me

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No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-14T08:01:01+00:00

First

hannahg000 · 2023-10-14T08:07:12+00:00

second :)

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-14T08:12:10+00:00

According to the New York Post, “'Dead bedrooms,’ the buzzy new term for when couples in long-term relationships stop having sex, are on a zombie-apocalypse-like rise.” It cites a study that shows 69 percent of couples are intimate 8 times a year or less; 17 percent of those surveyed hadn’t had sex in a year or more. This is on the heels of research out of the University of Chicago demonstrating that between the late 1990s and 2014, sex for all adults dropped from 62 to 54 times a year on average. And, per Time, “The highest drop in sexual frequency has been among married people with higher levels of education.”

Seems a bit high, doesn't it?

AntiHypergamist · 2023-10-14T08:13:49+00:00

Only mediocre/ugly looking men make good husbands/LTR. We walk on eggshells not to screw up the relationship while players know they can just replace their current girl next month and even try to get her to leave so they can upgrade.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-10-14T08:19:36+00:00

Is there any hope for below average guys?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-14T08:44:28+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/QT3ChKCGiD

Finally I can be successful on Tinder

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T09:16:49+00:00

Q4m

would you have ltr with a girl who loves giving blowjobs, gets off on it, does it often BUT really dislikes sex and would never ever have it?

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-14T09:33:57+00:00

Too many people here are just doing mental gymnastics to find a path back to despair

It seems like it doesn't matter what somebody says they'll just pull a random inaccurate half baked response that'll justify their feelings of despair

SlashCo80 · 2023-10-14T09:58:11+00:00

Lately I've been seeing more young to middle-age couples where the wife is still reasonably hot while the husband looks like Homer Simpson. Gives me hope for the future.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-14T10:17:24+00:00

https://i.redd.it/skszlkz024ub1.jpg

Accurate and the reason why my gf hates my country :D

Maffioze · 2023-10-14T10:17:52+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/4p98rulw85ub1.jpeg?width=724&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e233fd1d3b9677c70a790803486090ba580d3be8

Me unironically after losing my virginity.

Ylduts · 2023-10-14T10:34:30+00:00

Sex is amazing while dating, sex is amazing in some marriages. Pay attention younger dudes.

potoricco · 2023-10-14T12:16:50+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/sxh4ws24u5ub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4c3fc408d21c4ebd5e05c1075798d6b0df417111

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

potoricco · 2023-10-14T12:26:34+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/66l2081vv5ub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1abce4909b70d89eda2f6698d4668e0a92f8af53

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-14T12:27:30+00:00

I forgot the name of the sub, but in the one where they make fun of people who lose their jobs, the energy is never the same when a left wing person gets fired for their opinion lol. The caping is kinda hilarious not gonna lie.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-14T12:31:53+00:00

If we are gonna be honest the dudes who get caught up in “romance scams” are just failed tricks. Like there was no “love” there. You thought you was gonna buy a hot 19 year old from some country and you got finessed. That’s why you sent her all that money

potoricco · 2023-10-14T12:42:16+00:00

Bitch is a slur

potoricco · 2023-10-14T12:44:04+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/cqwqupgzy5ub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a95687f9050436acfab7cc02347d42420bd90fc0

happy_discus · 2023-10-14T13:19:22+00:00

Really hope AI Girlfriend chat bots will improve soon.

afk_row · 2023-10-14T13:31:07+00:00

Modern women game: Chase sexual hedonism, desirable guys are taken 😮, marry an oofy doofy to not be alone, be sexually unsatisfied, profit?!

Ylduts · 2023-10-14T13:44:01+00:00

Alanis Morissette. This is a great example of how a woman acts if she’s actually into you.

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T14:08:54+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jzdyv174e6ub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e708298ad334a09dfc1a77f03d53bde2623d3c60

keebydee · 2023-10-14T14:23:56+00:00

Just learned that one of the guys in the group broke the bro code. He's dating the Asexual girl that another guy in the group has been liking for years. I'm not supposed to tell him though 🤫

He's gonna be absolutely crushed when he finds out. I hope he doesn't spiral 😓 She's been rejecting his advances for years and still can't move on. They dated shortly once in middle school and now he thinks she's the only girl can ever find him attractive (he's overweight). You're not supposed to break the bro code! Do we not have any decency around here?!

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T14:25:42+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/15a8y481h6ub1.png?width=2236&format=png&auto=webp&s=9104071a384b2a8b77e1ef25f9517e3e484c6332

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-14T14:26:23+00:00

The double standards and the stupidity of “the nice guy” will always be funny.

If you stop being nice because you dont get pussy, you were never nice.
How narcissistic do you have to be to think you’re not getting laid because of a self-congradulatory ‘flaw’ of being too nice?
Being unattractive and passive does not mean you’re morally superior to assholes.
Nice Guys never really want healthy relationships with decent women because they only notice the assholes being able to fuck a ton of women.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-14T14:26:36+00:00

Something that you need to understand about women is that you have to play their game. This song popped up on TikTok and the lyrics really drove home a point I think is important.

I'll get to that point in a second, but first I want to recount a story from my own life. Back when I was a sexually frustrated teenager that repelled every girl who liked me, I remember a girl once telling me she wasn't ready to have sex. I asked her how long and she said she didn't know, she dated her last boyfriend for 9 months before she was ready. My response was that if she was going to make me wait 9 months then she is wasting my time.

When I was a little older I realized that I was looking at the situation all wrong. I wasn't taking into account that she was nervous that if she had sex too soon I would leave. Interestingly I had the reputation of being a player despite not losing my virginity until I was 17. Due to my emotional instability and selfish world view, I had no patience, which is the name of the song I just shared.

This brings me back to the point I want to make here. Guys will often complain online that women "make rules for betas and break rules for chad." Perhaps this is true. But guess what? None of us are chads. The idea that a group of 19 year old girls will show up on your door step because their car broke down and this ends up in a foursome of wild sex in acrobatic positions is a male porn fantasy and isn't reality.

In this song Axl Rose sings in the chorus:

Said, woman, take it slow and it'll work itself out fine

All we need is just a little patience

Said, sugar, make it slow and we'll come together fine

All we need is just a little patience

Patience, mm yeah...

Then the song continues

I've been walkin' the streets at night (Yeah)

Just tryin' to get it right (A little patience)

It's hard to see with so many around (Yeah)

You know I don't like bein' stuck in the crowd (Could use some patience)

An' the streets don't change, but maybe the names (Yeah)

I ain't got time for the game 'cause I need you (Gotta have more patience)

Yeah-Yeah, but I need you (Yeah)

Lets fully analyze what is going on here. The singer is assuring the woman he is with that he will wait for her. What is he waiting for? Who knows, it could be anything. In our case it is sex. The thing you have to understand about a lot of the love songs and the men who sing them is that they likely have ulterior motives. They understand that with women you have to play their game. You might not mean it, but you have to seem like you do.

The final verse then blatantly details he is fucking around while simultaneously saying he doesn't want to live that life. He just wants to be with the girl who is the subject of the song. This is the key to unlocking your inner fuckboy. The idea of Chad is male delusion. Women never talk about Chads, but they do talk about their fuckboy ex boyfriends because there is no chad, there is only the fuckboy.

He even says he "doesn't have time for the game" which, isn't that what someone who is playing the game would say? For these women, you have to act like it is pure and true.

Let me give you another example from The Beatles song "I want to Hold your Hand."

Oh, please, say to me

You'll let me be your man

And please, say to me

You'll let me hold your hand

Now, let me hold your hand

I wanna hold your hand

A note from Genius says that in live performances, John Lennon would often sing "I wanna hold your gland" because the audience likely wouldn't be able to understand what he is saying. This song for their female fans was one of innocence and true love, but the guys singing it knew the importance of performing and presenting this ideal when, to be blunt, they just wanted to get laid.

To sum all of this up, when a woman is making you wait, instead of being frustrated and feeling like you're being treated unfairly, use that moment to double down. Assure her you are ok with waiting because she is the one who is important.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T14:36:38+00:00

Enjoy y’all

https://reddit.com/r/stories/s/u8In0ySXiC

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-10-14T14:38:39+00:00

Question for the anti-age gap folks:

How do you know the younger woman isn’t asserting her agency or doesn’t have a preference?

Most dating apps use a “double-coincidence” system, I have to conform to her filters and vice versa. I recently changed my lower age limit to 18 to test this (I’m 33M) and a few 18-25 women popped up, though of course the majority of women were late 20s early 30s. The younger women left nuggets that they wanted an older guy (“take me on your boat,” “I like a man who is mature and stable”) and the women were evidently setting filters accordingly.

So, if an 18yo meets a 30yo this way, is that bad? Sure it’s rare but so is homosexuality, foot fetishes, etc, and 18yo can explore those, what about an older man preference is bad a priori?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-14T14:49:41+00:00

Q4W: Thoughts on these kind of shirts?

potoricco · 2023-10-14T14:50:58+00:00

https://x.com/oplivio/status/1712875875035652226?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

WHERE are all the men like this

sosayeth · 2023-10-14T15:11:03+00:00

The same reason why people hate snobby rich kids is the same reason why women who sleep around and baby mamas are for recreational purposes only and will never be good enough for marriage.

One of my best friends in college was a dude whose dad was a multi-millionaire investor and whose mother's family owned acres of oil fields in Texas. Yet, he was one of the funniest, most down to Earth people I'd ever met.

Exercising restraint when you have the option not to is respectable. Most women could fuck every guy they make eye contact with - which is why chicks with high body counts are fit for pump and dump and nothing more.

potoricco · 2023-10-14T15:18:00+00:00

Probably the only piercing I’d ever get (aside from my ears) is my nose, the problem is I prefer gold to silver and ive never seen someone with a gold nose piercing. It just doesn’t exist

potoricco · 2023-10-14T15:25:21+00:00

https://youtu.be/__ym7vClmp4?si=0_sFUK9tc-B09_6I

The first time Ice spice made a bad song ngl

hannahg000 · 2023-10-14T15:29:09+00:00

my tiktok is full of thirst edits of scare actors. it’s the season for a the women into masked men

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-14T15:46:18+00:00

Evidence that most male feminists don't agree with feminism, they just agree to keep peace and have access to women -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1779yjy/got_broke_up_with_after_challenging_his/

PS, bro said straight facts, I would be surprised if any woman debunked his points

hannahg000 · 2023-10-14T15:46:24+00:00

speaking of the best what types of clothes men should wear. this video always makes me laugh

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T16:01:19+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyOVascLOts/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

baiser_vole · 2023-10-14T16:15:08+00:00

If a man or a woman is quick to see one's own wrongs, can take accountability for one's faults and apologize in a genuine manner, that's a spouse material.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-14T16:23:17+00:00

The only difference between stupid guys and stupid ladies is that the stupid guys think they're smarter while criticizing the stupid women for doing the same things he does or wants to do.

For example: Stupid men whining about whores but will do what the whores are doing and entertaining these women.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T16:29:57+00:00

I hate it when the premiere league goes on international breaks especially after a good derby match like arsenal vs man city

The weekend always doesn't feel the same without the premiere league

FaradayBurka · 2023-10-14T16:36:32+00:00

I saw the eclipse!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-14T16:42:10+00:00

The irony of calling dating a Market and then being upset that women have so many options to pick from. They'll return things they ended up not liking. And will leave the store if they can't find anything they like.

An average grocery store has anywhere from 15,000 - 60,000 products.....

It's so silly.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-14T16:43:09+00:00

Tik Tok is worse than Al Qaeda

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-14T16:51:27+00:00

Could you imagine humanity if hypergamy wasn’t a thing

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-14T16:53:01+00:00

Since it's apparently creep week, and it seems a lot of men still haven't gotten the memo. I'm seeing a lot of "wow you think 2 or 3 our of every 5 men are creeps but statistics say only between 5 and 10% of men rape or beat women."

Here's a PSA for those people.

When women talk about creeps, they are NOT talking about men who are actually a danger to women, in fact those men are specifically not creepy. They are usually experts in manipulation and making women feel comfortable around them.

When women talk about creeps, they mean the awkward, bumbling socially inept loser guys. It might seem unfair, harsh, callous even, but this is who they are talking about.

They call men creep when those men make them FEEL uncomfortable. And to make a woman feel uncomfortable in your presence doesn't take a great deal if you aren't attractive and don't have good social skills. You don't even need to interact with her specifically. You can just exist while being in her general vicinity and make her feel uncomfortable.

Why do you think some men can go up to women in bars and say something lewd to them, and recieve laughter and affirmation as a response? While others can ask a woman for the time and creep her out?

It isn't the behaviour, it's the man doing it.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-14T17:07:41+00:00

I work retail (I live in Central New Jersey)and have been working retail for 6 years and see younger and middle aged couples all the time

I see good looking women with good looking men, good looking women with average guys, and good looking guys with average women. Looks match. Etc. All that shit

Same height couples. Couples where the guy is slightly taller. You get the gist of it

The idea that every decent looking woman is with a guy significantly better looking and taller than her is such chronically online horseshit

Could things be different behind the scenes? Sure but from what I see as a 27 year old, I think guys need to get off the internet and stop poisoning their brains with this stuff

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-14T17:21:33+00:00

How does one get to know those “yes queen” type of women? Men here seem to talk a lot about women who (falsely) compliment other women, but I don’t know anyone like that. I’m not sure if I would even want to, but it would be interesting to meet them and see how they behave.

MaidenQuest · 2023-10-14T17:26:15+00:00

Women be like:

Tall, blonde dude with Square jaw slaps her ass: "He's so flirty"

Short, fat dude with pimples asks for directions: "OMG, i was almost raped today"

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T17:27:38+00:00

need this bitch

https://preview.redd.it/zcuiwskad7ub1.png?width=2170&format=png&auto=webp&s=976383f8bc5bc8505d253cc64e3b919a45cc4220

eye_fuck · 2023-10-14T17:28:33+00:00

me and who

https://i.redd.it/ndwi0bamd7ub1.gif

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-14T17:32:38+00:00

Short or even average height people look comical to me even though I am short(guy) too.

5'8"-5'10" girl and 6'2+ guy is where I can look and say yeah they look a full fledged adult.

potoricco · 2023-10-14T17:44:50+00:00

Males with armpit hair <<<<<<<<<<< Breaking every single bone in your body

potoricco · 2023-10-14T17:47:31+00:00

I love my mom I found a c*ntipede behind this trifold I keep in my room and she disposed of it for me

potoricco · 2023-10-14T17:50:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/a0u6i9nlh7ub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0839382460c00214d7c25a361b729d32404b527a

Wait I love when reddit men are self aware. Like this put a smile on my face

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-14T17:59:21+00:00

Actual Red Pill Advice: Get Jacked. Get your shit together. Stop worrying about others opinions.

PPD "Red Pillers:" Spend 9 hours a day on reddit forums complaining and screaming about how overweight women have too high of standards.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-14T18:04:22+00:00

You’re not depressed,

You need a glass of water, sunlight, and a walk

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-14T18:07:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ld2g49rlk7ub1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=278b4f849b3e1ecbb94b7b144fa29b3c4273c6af

I found this on Twitter, a perplexing amount of the women seem to be attracted to this. Can they not see that this is a feeder who wants women a woman he can make dependent as he destroys her via enabling.

Q4W Is it obvious what this guy really wants?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T18:13:34+00:00

"Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable. I know this is a water is wet tier thread, but I feel as though bluepillers on this forum still doesn’t understand how hypergamy makes most men undesirable"

Hypergamy doesn't make most men undesirable, that's another common misconception l keep seeing around here

There's two sides of the hypergamy equation which is AF/BB(arsousal vs attraction)

Most men are on one end of the equation which is the Betabuxx side, and only very few are on both ends

And most women are fine with it since as l said average bluepill guys still get laid and relationships

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-14T18:18:37+00:00

IME A lot of the time when talking to multiple girls the priority order just comes down to who is most likely to put out. Sarah send nudes and pretty much said you getting your dick wet tonight if you see me. Then you got Ashley who honestly look better than Sarah but she not sending those vibes. So he going with the guaranteed thing over the maybe.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-14T18:21:37+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cx1-nmrO0oR/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

potoricco · 2023-10-14T18:31:22+00:00

Another reason to never trust netflix ratings

Like two days ago tried watching that new women’s hip hop documentary and it was rating “language, smoking” so I figured all was well. Well literally in the first episode there was a scene with strippers almost naked and with shots zoomed in on their ass. And I was in front of my mom too. Why

potoricco · 2023-10-14T18:31:49+00:00

I’m giving gladiator a second chance

business_explained · 2023-10-14T18:40:20+00:00

I wonder how many kids were born out of duty sex.

supremethrone · 2023-10-14T18:40:34+00:00

ate my maintenance today. I'm such a fat piece of shit

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-14T18:42:43+00:00

Nothing cringier than a guy who never outgrows the pussy hound phase. It’s still uncool but sort of normal to blow up an entire friend group when you’re 19 because you pursue (successfully or not) a friend’s girlfriend.

But there are guys who do that in their 30s. That are willing to betray a decades long friendship because they think they’ve got a shot at getting laid.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-14T18:42:48+00:00

Regular people adopting the language of psychological and medical fields has been terrible for the human race.

Everybody now has "trauma" or "PTSD". Usually from shit everybody on the planet has had to deal with at some point. It's nauseating.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-14T18:43:32+00:00

Tradcons and purple pill guys really annoy me, l see them no different from bluepillers and femininits especially their arguments against TRP

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-14T18:46:15+00:00

I went out for 4h. I feel like I ran a fucking marathon. Guess I'll sleep good tonight

potoricco · 2023-10-15T03:28:38+00:00

One trope I absolutely hate in film and tv is random male character that’s absolutely obsessed with the female lead for no particular reason. Like say they meet one time and then for the rest of the show he’s just following her around doing nice things as if they’re friends or lovers totally unwarranted. If they don’t eventually fall in love or become useful then just remove them. It’s fucking annoyingggggggggggg

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-15T08:14:32+00:00

My monk neighbor tells me that sneezing is a gateway to enlightenment. I wish since I sneeze a lot. He also thinks that orgasm is a possible route.

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