If you dont like women, don’t date them.

JustChillin3342 · 2026-07-15T14:49:46+00:00

God I’m glad I’m single lol

AreOut · 2026-07-15T12:54:51+00:00

also women should not date men that don't like them

RightVeterinarian379 · 2026-07-15T12:49:16+00:00

Well, yes, that's why I switched to paid sex services a long time ago

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romanticresignation · 2026-07-15T17:50:06+00:00

I think the reason why there isn’t an equivalent to a 4B movement for men is mostly because of gender norms. Traditional masculinity links male identity to dating success, so being single by choice is viewed less positively for men than for women. While men in many cultures are socialized to feel like they should pursue relationships, there is less of a pressure for women. Women are increasingly encouraged to stay single as a valid choice if relationships don’t meet their standards.

savethebros · 2026-07-15T13:15:27+00:00

Did the 4B movement really go their own way, or are they still obsessed over men?

Robot_Alchemist · 2026-07-15T20:20:17+00:00

This shouldn’t be a debate - and I’m shocked at how many men have responded with hateful and critical rhetoric. This is absolutely common sense

LopsidedPen9859 · 2026-07-15T15:26:12+00:00

Can't quit each other, can we?

As much as we are pissed at the opposite sex, it's kind of in an "ugh, quit running away, hop in the car, you stupid, lovable asshole."

Feminists are obsessed with men - patriarchy, toxic masculinity, male privilege? Would not be such gendered notions if women truly decentered men. It would be "Here's the exhaust port of the Death Star, blow it up."

The manosphere is much more obvious in its obsession with women but none of those men would consume that content if they weren't utterly terrified that women now can, at any point, just collectively abandon them.

So no, "if you don't like them, just don't date them" is absurd advice even though it's perfectly logical. Humans are social creatures and driven by primal urges to reproduce even though we don't need to and have every thinking ability to choose not to. We have biological needs. Connection with the opposite sex is a pretty strong one.

No-Rough-7390 · 2026-07-15T15:06:43+00:00

I think this sentiment is fine and can be extended to areas like the workplace. Ignore and avoid women where they aren’t adding value.

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Sea-Ebb4658 · 2026-07-15T13:35:11+00:00

Idk who this post is supposed to be for? Guys who hate women but still have desirable physical and financial traits are able to mask their hatred with some charisma and get women to have sex with them. They aint gonna stop just because you told them.

Guys who dont have either of those physical or financial traits thats desired by women don't get women whether they love them or absolutely hate them. They may get the privilege to be a simp for her if he does have some money that he is willing to throw away at her, but thats it

The only thing women can control is choosing who to date or sleep with or whatever. You should just be telling women to note date guys who dont like her but thats just stating the obvious lol

matthedev · 2026-07-15T16:00:10+00:00

You're more likely to have lackluster to bad experiences with men because, if your posts here are any indication, you have a personality that would be unappealing to most men; certainly it's unappealing to me.

There are plenty of women whose behavior towards men they're attracted to is more like the stereotype of men. A lot of men are going to prefer these women, or at least these women put themselves out there, which will make men more likely to interact with them.

Newduuud · 2026-07-15T17:04:00+00:00

Doesn’t this also apply to women? If you hate men so much and men are so embarrassing, just stop trying to get their attention and stop complaining about them all the time?

Accomplished_Sweetie · 2026-07-15T13:34:03+00:00

Women: we are setting standards
Men: that’s unrealistic!!
Women: that’s fine for you to feel that way. we just won’t date you/have sexual relations with you
Men: men NEED sex. It’s biology!!!! You don’t get to say no!
Women: no thanks
Men: insert constant whining and complaining that women want 6ft men.

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JollyRoger66689 · 2026-07-15T23:24:10+00:00

There is MGTOW and for the rest they are hoping to find a good 1 out of the bad, this all seems like things people are already doing or common sense why they aren't.

Tradition_Ropes36763 · 2026-07-16T02:46:00+00:00

why is this user not banned?

Big-Sir7034 · 2026-07-16T05:07:12+00:00

Yeah, that’s just MGTOW, no?

NavIsShit · 2026-07-16T06:48:24+00:00

Sure but when men dont want to commit, which most men worth committing to, i.e attractive one's don't, you can't complain as a woman because you told men "to not date". Yeah he doesnt. Men who don't like women unironically still want to fuck and they become the men, women chase for commitment

Gentle_prv · 2026-07-16T09:05:59+00:00

Of course, and it goes both ways. That being said, y’all are out here making it harder on yourselves for no reason. Glad I’m out of this damned rat race.

BlueberryAccording45 · 2026-07-16T12:35:47+00:00

going__nowhere · 2026-07-16T22:08:50+00:00

Who the hell says men love unconditionally?? U mean under the condition of being faithful to him, give him sex etc?

Only kids are loved inconditionally (by their family, and sometimes not even ..)

IgorXY · 2026-07-15T12:44:41+00:00

Well….women aren’t men. Especially since women dont have the same hormones nor same satisfaction from sex.

But if someone says that being a slut as a man and woman is different, people lose their minds...

To answer your point, the reason why people complaining about something is because this something is what they value and can't or don't want to avoid. It's like saying if you don't like politics move to deep forest.

nightcall379 · 2026-07-15T20:01:16+00:00

Alot of people dont seem to understand when it comes to an entire gender, “Take it or leave it” is usually your only options.

How is restoring the patriarchy not an option? Lmao

EmpressJJ · 2026-07-15T23:29:53+00:00

I haven’t dated a man for 5 years for this exact reason. I’ve made bad experiences, I don’t really like them, so I don’t date them it’s not that big of a deal. I do not think about hating them everyday, not even a monthly occurrence. I am completely neutral towards them except if they try to come onto me then I get a huge ick and tell them no thanks.

NidaleesMVP · 2026-07-15T12:40:01+00:00

So many things wrong with this post. All the way from binding love to sex, to striking down all social criticism on the basis of "just don't choose them"

addings0 · 2026-07-15T15:43:44+00:00

Yes. Lol There’s a 4b movement for a reason

Women like to talk, but are insincere about everything they say ( gaslighting ) . And women have gone back on their word about 4b as well.

Women want to avoid men they can't exploit for access, not for all men to avoid women. Women don't want the shame or stigma of being the thing that should be avoided ( and they've earned it ) . That's what women want to do to everyone else. Especially when women crave talking and being heard. It's women that want to encroach on a mans space, not the other way around. Women can't validate themselves by messing around with the psychology of others, if no one ever shows up.

HOLYREGIME · 2026-07-15T12:46:21+00:00

If you don’t like women, don’t date them.

Why?

There are men who hate women, and women who hate men. They date and have sex with the opposite gender all the time.

A lot of people don’t seem to understand when it comes to an entire gender, “Take it or leave it” is usually your only options

Don’t women and cuck men criticize “Boys will be boys”. They’re not accepting an entire gender acts the way they do, they’re actively trying to change them, and no those people aren’t 4B either.

It seems to be take it or leave it for women, but not for men.

Due_Knowledge7966 · 2026-07-15T14:57:51+00:00

I would amend the statement to "Don't date Western women".

"Take it or leave it". Yeah, I'll take the non-toxic, non-narcissistic woman from the East, and leave the ones in the West.

Nothing upsets Western women more than when men seek women elsewhere. Sure, there's a fair share of toxic and gold digging women abroad as well, but the likelyhood that you'll find someone genuine and supportive is much higher.

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NoClerk951 · 2026-07-15T16:29:33+00:00

"if you don't like broccoli, don't eat food"

Sensitive_Housing_85 · 2026-07-15T19:36:04+00:00

I mean this is kind of what they are doing and women still whine about it, people kept shitting on the mgtow, even hook up culture lol

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user7223 · 2026-07-15T16:35:09+00:00

It's a bad simplification. You can acknowledge you are incompatible with most women and still want to find an ideal women to date/marry.

Secret_Bake2304 · 2026-07-15T17:32:46+00:00

Men and women are biologically designed to like each other.

Counterargument - We don't date them. We barter for sex. Pump and dumps exists. All we need to do is sire the next generation and pass down our genes.

Liking each other and raising a family merely increases the odds your offspring prosper. It's not like it's the only survival strategy that works.

Lost_Reaction_5489 · 2026-07-15T12:50:50+00:00

What many men want from women they don't need to like them to get, so what would they care about that for?

ShiniTheM · 2026-07-16T09:20:24+00:00

You're shouting at clouds. Men and women can't quit each other, much like you can't quit this sub.

If you dont like women, don’t date them.

Comments

SO?

The ones who actually want relationships, not guys here.

Not most guys here.

Read the post. Stop skimming.

Explain how that’s the same thing.

Then that's something to talk to whoever else is in this sub.

Title	If you dont like women, don’t date them.
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Date	July 15, 2026 12:33 PM UTC (1 week ago)
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