Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?

bison5595 · 2023-02-08T15:37:54+00:00

I’m as red pill as the next guy, but this chad thing needs to stop. The amount of actual chads is smaller than most guy’s realize.

seeyouonthelanai · 2023-02-08T13:33:40+00:00

Can a Chad be short? Under 5'7"?

gofigure62 · 2023-02-08T15:13:00+00:00

I dated one chad. But he didn't think he was attractive. He had ugly duckling syndrome, despite never being ugly. He had body dysmorphia and a ton of other issues. He looked like a Nordic god, but had the self esteem of a garbage pale kid. Which is why I typically avoid extremely fit men obsessed with the gym. Most of them are like that.

slazengerx · 2023-02-08T18:52:15+00:00

Is there universal agreement on what a Chad is? I've read some folks referring to him as at least a 9/10 physically. Others say he's in the top-1% physically. Others add in a wealth/status metric. Others say he's just any tall, outgoing, conventionally attractive guy with money. What percent of all men are Chads? Related, male or female... what percent of folks are 9s, for example, in these ratings I see here? Is a 9 at the 90th percentile (indicating a linear scale) or are only, say, 3% of folks 9s (indicating a geometric scale)? Seems like folks toss these terms and ratings around using their own definitions a lot but maybe I'm missing something.

oneblackcoffeeplease · 2023-02-08T14:45:54+00:00

None

They were the Chad of my social circle tho

Narrow-Currency-8408 · 2023-02-08T13:31:16+00:00

One. My only real relationship and real love. Except he was fully messed up with the Chad complex. He was very hot, and knew he was hot. He hated how the world focused so much on image (his mum was very image focused and lead a very "fake" life to preserve some fake perfection to the outside world). He would often talk about how unfair it is that women will want to sleep with him without hesitation, but won't give the boring, normal looking guy a chance (he befriended a lot of "normies" for this reason). He eventually got abusive and would say I deserve it for choosing the "chad" instead of "an ugly guy". I liked him not for his looks but for his dedication to a cause I was very into. He was very unique. We had the same toothpaste. It's very hard to find a dude who is passionate about things very specific to me (e.g. he loved the fact I ate my placenta, and wanted to hear all about it). And knew things normal men don't know. There were so many weird synchronicities. He was beautiful, but it had nothing to do with how society perceives attraction. He was a mess though. The chad/red pill/women are worthless sluts who deserve to be abused for choosing a hot dude etc. really affected his perception of the world. The previous guys I've dated were either emotionally unavailable (mostly traumatised nerds or hippies), most are still single and in the last 10 years each had 1 girlfriend who lasted 3 months max. 2 got married, good on them. To describe myself, I'm the very average, plain Jane type of girl who had a difficult and traumatic childhood. I'm the person you would "have fun with" but not bring back to your parents or friends to meet. So I'm the same victim to these societal standards my boyfriend abused me for. ((Edited to add, if wondering, he probably had BPD, which if anyone here has experience with that, would explain everything to you))

Birb-brained · 2023-02-08T14:11:00+00:00

None I don’t think.

I’m not entirely sure what a chad is though.

Like…if we are talking 6 foot, muscly, trendy/fashionable , popular guy frat boy types then I’ve had a relationship with 0 out of 7.

Edited to clarify - 7 relationships in my lifetime, 0 (I don’t think) were chads. Haven’t had casual sex as it’s not my thing.

mrsmariekje · 2023-02-08T17:20:08+00:00

Neither of my partners were Chads. My first boyfriend was in secondary school, we were only 14. He was 5'5" like me, had amazing curly hair that came down to his shoulders, and really attractive toned forearms and hands (he played the guitar so that was probably why). I thought he was gorgeous and still do, but I mostly went for him because I respected the hell out of him for his musical talent. He was genuinely kind, quiet and intelligent. He had a great personality but a lot of demons (we both did, we were 14). I can't think of anyone I'd rather have lost my virginity to.

My now husband isn't a chad either. In fact he's got incel written all over him. He was 20, a virgin, 5'10", homeschooled and he'd never had a job before. I met him in 6th form and it was love at first sight. I was absolutely entranced by him and I didn't even know why. He has the most gorgeous eyes and freckles all over his body that I go crazy for. He was a bookworm, and he dressed like a maths teacher. He's also a little shy, but it didn't matter because I was desperate to make the first move. We married when I was 19, he was 22, and now our first child is 3 months old.

I can't think of anything more boring than dating a Chad.

ConvolutedMaze · 2023-02-08T13:50:21+00:00

Most women find average guys to be invisible most of the time so I would take whatever they say with a grain of salt. Because whatever is an "average" guy to them is likely very above average considering most average men are actually poor and probably slightly overweight.

insensitiveTwot · 2023-02-08T14:44:06+00:00

I’ve slept with two men named chad, does that count?

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kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-02-08T13:50:24+00:00

I obviously found all 3 attractive (at the time at least)

2 of them are conventionally attractive

General_Doubt7181 · 2023-02-08T12:57:29+00:00

Zero. Only went for traditionally non attractive men prob cuz I wanted to be the prettiest or worshipped or some weird reason that I can’t figure out when I was younger.

I am looking for non ugly now 😂

CimZim · 2023-02-08T14:15:46+00:00

If you mean sexually, none. Although I think my lover is fucking sexy as all get out, I know that his body type is not preferred by most women.

If you mean just dating without any sex, then about 9 or 10. They weren't what I would have chosen, but ironically I was trying to follow the advice of a red pill blogger who actually was a kind guy. (Private Man, if anyone else remembers him...he's unfortunately deceased now.)

PM gave some pretty decent advice imo and was misogynistic at all, just a mgtow who had learned things from previous relationships. One of the things he said to his female readers was to "expand your dating horizons, try dating men who you wouldn't normally be attracted to and you might be pleasantly surprised". So, since I'm normally attracted to men who are soft/thicc/heavyset, I followed his advice and tried dating a few "Chads". It didn't work out, they weren't what I was looking for either physically or mentally/emotionally. But at least I can say I gave it a shot.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-02-08T14:49:35+00:00

It’s really debatable whether this group would consider my husband Chad. If yes, 50%. If no, 0%. Obviously I’m working with a pretty small sample size.

He has a masculine physique but is only 5’7”. He has very rounded, almost feminine facial features, but he also has a beard that takes him no time to grow out. He’s been kind of broke most of the time I’ve known him but never had a hard time with the ladies. And from the way he tells it, he had success with both casual sex and serious dating by not giving a fuck and getting really fit, despite having 0 exposure to the redpill.

So he might fit old school redpiller’s definition of Chad but probably not blackpillers.

MistyMaisel · 2023-02-08T17:17:59+00:00

None. Never dated a guy that had the perfect 666. :D

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-02-08T17:20:47+00:00

None. None Chads. Chads have never been my target demographic. My husband is probably the Chadliest and he's not Chad either.

_revelationary · 2023-02-08T17:41:44+00:00

Some people here would call my husband a Chad. Some people wouldn’t because he never slept around. Other than that, none.

Diamond-Breath · 2023-02-08T17:43:10+00:00

My current boyfriend. Second LTR and planning on keeping it that way. A random girl recorded him and gushed about his good looks on TikTok, he's a really handsome man.

Alfalfa2-Throwaway · 2023-02-08T18:28:07+00:00

Nope. Extroverted, popular muscle-monsters have never been my type. Like at all.

lvlupkitten · 2023-02-09T07:03:42+00:00

1/8 imo, maybe 2... Idk what everyone's definition of Chad is though.

The first guy I slept with was 5'7 and really insecure about his height and dick size which was unattractive. He was also just a bit of a wanker and I cut him off after a couple of months lol. We didn't have much in common, we would just hang out and smoke weed and play video games. He also gave me low-key misogynist vibes

The second guy I had a one night stand with, he was decent looking but not a Chad. He looked half indian or something? I honestly don't know. I don't remember how tall he was

Third guy was my boyfriend that I dated for 5 months. He was super tall (6'4), a bit overweight, about a 6/10 face. Before anyone calls him a Chad for his height, he was formerly addicted to meth, spent a total of 3 years in prison for various crimes, and was insanely religious, like the most religious person I have ever met- once during an acid trip with coworkers, he assaulted them because he thought they were demons trying to stop him going to heaven. Definitely not a Chad.

The next 3 guys were all one night stands within a month of breaking up with my ex, I drank way too much and hardly remember anything tbh. All 3 were subpar, like 6/10- one was tall but super quiet, literally barely spoke a word, no charisma. He also left me on a dark street corner at 1:30am so I told him to fuck off. The other 2 weren't total assholes but just very mediocre.

The 7th guy I had a fling with for 4 months, an actual Chad. Really fucking hot, insanely good in bed (could last 4 hours), super intelligent and could talk about literally nearly anything. Really charismatic and has a lot of friends, also English so I find his accent really hot. Just goes and travels and does his own thing whenever he wants, has a uni degree. 5'11, not particularly fat, skinny or muscly, very attractive face. I think most people here could agree he's a Chad.

The last guy, an acquaintance I've known for about 5 years. We've drunkenly hooked up 3 times. Super good looking guy, sex was pretty mediocre since we were both really drunk every time. Might count as a Chad but I'm not sure. Very skinny with hardly any muscle (idk if frame is important to being a Chad).

Feel free to ask for more information or clarification on any aspects

Lemoineau11 · 2023-02-21T09:47:44+00:00

What do you consider a chad exactly? Everyone had at least one tiny caracteristics in common with chads. I dated 4 guys in my life. The first one became popular in middle school after breaking up with me but before that he didn't do any sport, didn't have a lot of money, wasn't really handsome. The second didn't do sport either and was a gamer and didn't earn much. The third was way smaller than me, was doing great in school and was a big nerd too. In was 162m. The last one was a toxic relationship. He was a nerd too but this time did sport and was very smart but I have never felt so bad so I am not with him anymore. And now I am happily single looking for a girlfriend because why not. In conclusion I just like nerds like me so other traits don't affect me choosing them. I just know that people who use that terminology seriously have red flags.

didiflex · 2023-02-08T13:12:08+00:00

If Chad is 9+ then Chads are rare species, how often you see real 9, be it man or woman?

Its more like 7+ where its happening.

Girls get many offers from men so that 5 wont think much of guy thats 7, even though he is 2 points above

GlamSunCrybabyMoon · 2023-02-08T13:45:25+00:00

Probably just my last boyfriend. He’s handsome but also has BPD and was also bipolar. I’m not even sure he can be considered a chad because he’s a serial monogamist. He tends to jump from relationship to relationship, he’d do casual very little in between.

herinquisition · 2023-02-08T18:35:51+00:00

So Chad is just "conventionally attractive" or perfect? There's a difference there, a range.

Assuming you mean the hottest of the good looking men, by society's definition of perfection...

Actually, I've been pursued by way more "chad" types than I actually accepted. I've always been a plus size girl, and when I was younger I was too insecure with my body and also afraid of relationships fucking with my sanity, but got approached by conventionally hot men. I was dodging men like Neo dodges bullets in The Matrix. lol They will be the ones to flirt boldly with you and cold approach. Or the most bold if you're in common social circles of some thing - though not always. Some guys who are ridiculously hot don't know they are or maybe can't read you. I also had situations where I lived with some pretty conventionally hot guys that were obviously into me and tried to sleep with me (one was a little on the shorter side but I think still very handsome plus the social skills). Once I worked through my body acceptance and fear of intimacy issues, I was then really picky when either seeking hookups or dating. Because of my narrow preference for political and belief values compatibility, my dating pool was really small. I had to open myself up a bit because even in NYC, I was having a hard time finding the right match who is also atheist, socialist and had other things I wanted in a man as well.

Anyway, so I had a range of conventionally attractive guys pursuing me, including some chads. But it's not enough to be hot and some of these guys thought it was. (And some were lovely people, just not for me.) I know I'm a catch, and quite intelligent and critical, so I had my eyes open to everything. Some of the hottest guys were too demanding, I didn't like subtle tones in how they spoke to me that indicated a lack of respect or certain character I had no interest in dealing with, some were vapid and not interesting to me or couldn't reach the level of depth I was seeking quickly enough for me to be interested, some had children (not a 100% dealbreaker, but it depends), some didn't want marriage or children at all, some wanted to hook up when I wanted something serious, some were much older and I'm wary of large age gaps, some lived outside of NYC and owned their own property and thought it made the most sense for me to be open to moving and I'm not, some were inappropriate and had poor respect or consideration for boundaries, some were too defensive when I addressed something I didn't like (being late, for example), and others wanted something super traditional or had too many sexist beliefs for my comfort. Some had different politics (some conservative men are really hot, it's annoying), and some had no interest in discussing politics at all, which is also a problem for me. So I'm very picky, on top of having the insecure fat girl past as well. Really, I just want to make sure I have a healthy relationship and compatibility.

That's not to say only Chads try to talk to me or that my weight hasn't affected the rate of interest compared to thin, conventionally hot girls. I'm just saying I've had more than my fair share of interest.

I think most of the men I've been with have been conventionally attractive, but based on what you seem to be describing, the "Chads" would be in the minority of my harem. Could have had more, but I'm always on my shit. I think my bf is very handsome but he's also overweight. He's aggressively trying to lose weight, and I think once he does, he'd probably be considered a Chad by looks (probably not in terms of social life/skills), as I think he is handsome (has the blue eyes, dark hair thing I love too) and has nice hair/beard, and he's tall. He's my schmuffin.

Edit: I'm really grossed out by the fact that I used the term Chad. Ugh

northernlights190 · 2023-02-08T13:14:34+00:00

Just one of 10, my second LTR. At least in terms of height and looks, he didn’t have money or status and I was only the second girl he ever slept with. But he was male model hot.

None of the rest would qualify on any metric.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-08T13:33:05+00:00

Chad seems to mean whatever these days, but if it just means conventionally attractive guy then 2/3

EricFisherNo1 · 2023-02-08T14:34:15+00:00

All of my exes have been taller than average, fit, and rich. But I don’t think any of them fit the “chad” stereotype

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-02-08T20:41:13+00:00

Zero. They’d all be disqualified according to men here for some reason, either height, being too fat or too skinny, not chiseled enough face, etc. In fact I don’t think I know any.

caobozo · 2023-02-08T12:33:05+00:00

my boyfriend is 6'4, has an attractive symmetrical face and receives a lot of both male and female attention, but he's skinny fat and kind of looks like a woman, does it count?

januaryphilosopher · 2023-02-08T13:06:15+00:00

None. Not my cup of tea.

Mistress-Eve- · 2023-02-08T13:17:31+00:00

None I’m a lesbian lol. My girlfriend is definitely a Stacey though.

MediumBaseball5339 · 2023-02-08T12:22:34+00:00

Attractive just in looks? Or personality traits also?

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2023-02-08T12:29:42+00:00

none

well maybe a couple, but that was when i was younger and they were younger too.

AquaChip · 2023-02-08T13:41:23+00:00

FlyV89 · 2023-02-09T01:36:01+00:00

I just want to point out women saying here "30% of their conquests are Chads", "2/3 were conventionally attractive", "I've dated two men, only one would be considered a Chad and he's my now husband"...

Like, according to PPD women, 50% if their partners were "conventionally attractive men", which kinda make up for a really small population of men right?

And then they argue against 20/80 rule?

Not complaining I mean, I'm 6.3' and jacked, I know how it works out there you know...

But I want you all, both guys and girls here, to have this in mind next time we discuss this topic, so everytime I say "I banged 79-80ish women and that's because I'm tall, jacked and good looking" you don't bully me for bragging or making shit up...

And please, no more "you were fucking a small subset of women, those who like casual sex".

Yeah, no. I fucked mostly average, "meh" looking women. Like you.

dysonRing · 2023-02-08T12:52:26+00:00

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ThorazinePRN · 2023-02-08T14:28:56+00:00

You won't get an honest answer from women. They don't want it known that they preferentially chase conventionally attractive men. They also ignore all average and below average men so even the men they claim to be average are in all likelihood above average

peachycreaam · 2023-02-08T14:42:27+00:00

none and the amount of times I’ve even seen someone like that irl has been rare.

Thatshygurl · 2023-02-08T14:44:33+00:00

Is Chad’s are just attractive men now then 100%. But like if we’re talking actual Chads? Like douchey fuck boys, then none.

asslite · 2023-02-08T14:47:15+00:00

I never slept with one or seriously dated one. I went to a college known for good looking people, and I got hit on by Chads a lot. I don't really like men or women who are too into themselves in general, so I don't like Chads. One was really persistent, and I turned him down, and he got really entitled and mean about it. If you seen "Where the Crawdads Sing," he reminded me a lot of the a-hole in that film. I still have the screenshots today, and it still makes me laugh a little.

A close friend of mine went through a bad divorce, and now all she dates is Chads in LA and goes through them like Skittles. Just most of that doesn't seem mentally healthy on either part.

INFPneedshelp · 2023-02-08T14:47:30+00:00

1 when I was younger. But nah not my thing. I like a sweet, sensitive, teddy bear type. Looks-wise I don't have a pref as long as they are attractive to me. But a good conversationalist, sensitive, likes animals, and likes me for who I am, not what I can do for them or what I look like. (I want them to be attracted to me obv but if a guy critiques my appearance, no thanks. I don't need you.)

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-02-08T15:00:39+00:00

...all of them? Chad is such a loosely defined concept, it seems to encompass any guy that is marginally attractive and has achieved romantic sucess.

First guy was a blonde hair, blue eyed, all American Jock. Swim team captain, straight A student, popular and had a series of girlfriends and flings in high school and college. I think he'd fit the classical Chad archetype of TRP's masturbatory fever dreams.

Second guy was Hispanic, rough around the edges, ex gang member that turned his life around in the military. Very charismatic, not afraid of violence, great dancer, broad and muscular. After we dated he went through a string of woman before finding his very catholic trad virgin waifu.

Last guy, my husband, has been described at length. Pale, thin, long dark hair, beautiful face, regionally popular musician (lead singer and guitarist). Former frat boy and party slut, N count of 50+ by the time he was 21.

Trouvette · 2023-02-08T15:19:06+00:00

None. They are attractive to me, but not conventionally attractive. I also outearn both of them.

mackenzie013_02 · 2023-02-08T16:43:00+00:00

3 of my ex bfs.

begayallday · 2023-02-08T16:53:54+00:00

None. Maybe like fewer than 10% would be considered chad-lite. And they were all one night stands.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-02-08T17:12:31+00:00

Let me see. Of all the men I’ve dated just dated not always ending in a long term relationship 2 were 6 feet or taller. I thought one but I just added a guy I dated in college to Facebook and he was taller than I remembered.

Above average in looks….that’s hard to say as looks are subjective. Of the men who were noticeably better looking than me… again probably 2? I think my current partner is facially better looking than me but he’s my height so I don’t think he qualifies, so yeah I’ll say 2.

Financially, most the men I date make the same or less than me. Men who made more…. If I had to guess because it wasn’t always brought up… maybe 4?

I can’t say I’ve ever dated a full blown chad that had all of these though so I guess my number is a big fat zero

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GooseneckRoad · 2023-02-08T18:23:34+00:00

None. I don't care for the "Chad" look- I don't care about height and I like regular sized guys without muscles.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-02-08T18:35:49+00:00

How do you define Chad? I've dated one guy who was very popular with the ladies, but the dude was probably 5'8''-ish, wasn't particularly in shape, and wasn't rich. He also wasn't conventionally attractive but was incredibly charismatic.

I dated two guys that were taller than me (they were over 5'9'') and one was reasonably fit, one was kind of skinny fat, but again, neither of them was rich or swimming in pussy. They didn't struggle with dating, but they weren't beating women off with a stick. My husband is 6'4'', in shape, and has a symmetrical face, but has never been a very social person and has struggled with dating more than the two guys I just mentioned. He's also not rich.

So depending on how we define Chad, the answer is either 3, 1 or 0. Personally, every guy I've been with was attractive to me and that's all that mattered, why would I care if they were seen as a Chad by other people?

empresa_josefina · 2023-02-08T18:46:48+00:00

OP ruined his own thread by letting respondents define Chad themselves. He should have listed specific parameters about their physical features.

Women are responding with shenanigans like “he’s not a Chad, I don’t like the Chad type, he’s introverted but 6’2”, ripped, and beautiful with blue eyes” as if Chad needs to be extroverted to qualify…

prizefighterstudent · 2023-02-08T18:56:30+00:00

Probably less than 1%

I’ve met pro athletes, dudes at the top of their professional life, taller + decent looking dudes who were shite with women

Chads are much more elusive. Only met 2-3 pure Chads in my life.

MrsKetchup · 2023-02-08T18:58:37+00:00

1/5, my now husband. Handsome, extroverted, muscled and works out, mans-man, makes good money, 6ft, successful past with women. 3 of my past LTRs were "betas" by pill standards; unfit, introverted, nerdy, unambitious, short-ish (they of course had their own qualities I was attracted to, dated each one for more than a year). I went the opposite direction to pill-lore, dated betabux, settled alphafucks

bluestjuice · 2023-02-08T19:19:02+00:00

I don’t know. One or two? I date nerds so it’s like, ‘okay, but they were hot nerds!’ and I don’t know how to even analyze that. And even then they were normal-hot, not Chris Helmsworth-hot. The Chaddiest one I was thinking of I just remembered was on the short side, so does he even count anymore?

This is why the idea or ‘Chad’ doesn’t resonate for me: it’s such a caricature, not a person I’d meet in real life.

Safinated · 2023-02-08T19:24:12+00:00

Zero

2023-02-08T19:30:08+00:00

they were all chads in my eyes

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2023-02-08T21:07:21+00:00

Why do people continue to ask these questions here when the majority of the female user base is > 40?

Says_Who22 · 2023-02-08T21:23:51+00:00

0%. Don’t think they exist, and my (one and only) husband of many years definitely isn’t one, if I’ve understood the concept correctly.

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-02-08T22:21:06+00:00

It depends, even in this subreddit there are varied definitions of 'chad'.

I'd say about 60-70% meet PPD's base qualities of "chadness" but all met my personal qualities of "chadness" which are very different than those of pillers.

EulenWatcher · 2023-02-08T22:54:10+00:00

You should have elaborated on this stereotype you talk about.

I’ve ever been intimate only with my husband, so depending on your definition it’s either 0 or 100%.

Descolea · 2023-02-08T23:47:43+00:00

None, lmao.

aboricidegrl · 2023-02-09T00:20:38+00:00

If you’re asking if I like men that don’t take care of themselves, have 0 confidence and resent women, no I don’t.

Over_Noise3530 · 2023-02-09T03:30:08+00:00

7%. That's if I'm following the typical stereotype of rich, tall, frat boy types that get a lot of hoes, and is good in bed

15% if were only considering looks and money, but poor in bed

Around 40-50% if we're considering looks and height only

Ilarva · 2023-02-09T08:43:18+00:00

i have been with chad my age like 2 times, which means young chad, with no real money of their own so i didn’t really gain anything from them financially, one has been my bf for 1 and a half years now and the other one was a fwb for a few months while i was in an exchange semester before

daisydaisydaisy12 · 2023-02-09T20:35:43+00:00

100% 1 man. an absolute beast.

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Noisexfloor · 2023-02-12T17:11:08+00:00

Sex or relationship?

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HentaiQueen0w0 · 2023-02-08T19:15:46+00:00

I think the only person who fits the conventional Chad standards is my current boyfriend, out of everyone I’ve had a relationship with.

The other ones I’ve been interested in or had relationships with were usually short, or chubby, or a bit of both, or didn’t really suit what the conventional Chad would be.

But I liked them, because I don’t really care about it.

My current partner is incredibly physically fit, he has a jawline so sharp it could cut, and he’s overall super attractive. But to be honest, none of those reasons above were why I wanted to be with him.

He was sweet, he was adorable, he has this fixation with math and science and always seeks to figure out what he can. I’m awful at math and he’s helped me figure stuff out when I couldn’t figure it out after trying to use different resources. He’s smart, he’s hilarious, and while I can appreciate he is absolutely attractive, the one physical part about him that I love most is his eyes.

As cliche as it sounds, I swear I can get lost in them. He always has this intends, focused look, but when he’s with me or when he looks at me it’s different, he’s softer.

So while my current partner happens to fit the criteria this sub deems suitable for being a Chad, it’s not the reason I fell in love with him.

Miserable_Yam4778 · 2023-02-09T02:08:17+00:00

By RP standards? Zero. That type of man is off-put by women who don't fawn on them. They get salty when they aren't the super special gold-star exception to the rules.

Title	Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?
Author	EricFisherNo1
Upvotes	15
Comments	274
Date	February 8, 2023 12:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10wv8mq/of_the_guys_that_you_have_been_with_what/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/of-the-guys-that-you-have-been-with-what.1151500 https://theredarchive.com/post/1151500

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