The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexuality

So there’s a lot of arguments around what men do that’s “dehumanizing” . These typically include the following

1. Wanting younger women
2. Wanting thinner women
3. Wanting specific body shapes (butt , boobs)

These are called things like objectification , creepy , pedophile (even if woman is in early 20’s) , dehumanizing , etc. men will be told things like “oh you just want a woman to use her body”. however , if women do the same things , it’s uplifted and promoted :

1. Wanting younger men (cougar , you go girl)
2. Wanting a big penis ( big dick energy)
3. Wanting tall men 6ft+
4. Wanting men that earn a specific salary

All of these things are heavily promoted. A woman wants a well endowed man ? Go get em girl ! No one says a woman is objectifying a man as a sexual object in that scenario .

So my view is , this uneven application of standards of morality is toxic to men. As long as sexuality is consensual , and no one is under age , no ones sexuality or desires should be judged or treated unfairly .