RP men have this scenario of fuckzoning women they meet in their 30s when they are more stable/affluent, coz they were rejected in their 20s.... I wonder if they are talking about the same women?

I know there's a common scenario in RP corners :

Debra, your pretty classmate in Gen Eds didn't give you the time of the day and laughed in your face when you mustered the courage to ask her out. Coz you were too ugly/nerdy/fat whatever.

But now you are the new Prince of Silicon Valley. Debra is now a post-wall has been, with two kids from two baby daddies, who somehow hunt you down on Fb/Linkedin, and send you a "Wassup"/Long time no see message.

And you have your revenge by rejecting her or fuckzoning her.

How common is this scenario really?

I mean, if somehow, the woman who rejected you when you were average Joe with little to no social capital, now approaches you and wants to chat you up, sure reject her. I guess the anger is valid.

But many of these guys have resentment toward women in general for not falling for them when they were in college.

If your co-worker Clara, or friendly neighbour Sarah asks you out, how is she at fault that the girls you wanted, did not want you before your "glow up."?

Most likely they didn't even know you, when you were the lanky, bucktoothed, heavily freckled and gangly youth.