On the right we have redpill tradwife MAGA types who ban abortion, push women to have babies, and then disappear as soon as they are born. No support for the child, no support for the mother. Good luck you are on your own, bitch, back to work in two weeks, better stay skinny too.

On the left we have the backlash to all this via liberals who are like "Be single girl, be free, 35 year old is still too young to even think of a baby", or if mothers complain about motherhood being too hard, they would be called entitled, "should have thought before spreading your legs".

Then, culturally, there is still a societal expectation to get married and have a baby.

And the only people who are on the receiving end of these groups are mothers. And nobody is actually supporting them. Both sides are almost equivalent in how they treat motherhood. Free daycare, free medical expenses, free classes for new moms, other support? How entitled, your baby is not my problem.

Then you’ve got algorithm-fed horror stories on the left: birth trauma, medical misogyny, lonely, miserable motherhood. The right can’t even have these conversations, they either dismiss these fears altogether, gaslight or just guilt trip you with “selflessness” and “duty to society” while society only loves the idea of babies, but hates having them around.

Hostile complaints about kids on a plane, kids in a restaurant near you, your child is not my responsibility, no kids at the wedding, what a dumb bitch, should have kept her legs closed. Ideologically we want you to have a baby, but as soon as you have it, we want you to stay at home and be silent about it. And you are on your own. And don't complain, millions of women do it.