Cool social experiment on Tinder [x-post "All men are pigs who care only about looks!"]

Googlesnarks · 2017-03-03T13:17:48+00:00

One of the biggest lies men are fed growing up is that "women are magical, romance seeking creatures who want a spiritual connection."

They are then fucked up for a couple years if they ever get lucky enough to realize the reality.

EDIT: Since this comment blew up I'm going to shamelessly plug a series of blog posts I wrote on this very topic.

zulu127 · 2017-03-03T13:10:13+00:00

Do the same experiment with a picture of a basement dwelling, virgin, neckbeard...hilarity ensues.

RoRo25 · 2017-03-03T17:23:45+00:00

It's not annoying that they do this. It's human nature. It's annoying when they deny that they do this.

ThatNinaGAL · 2017-03-03T12:30:13+00:00

Dear God. Women on Tindr enjoy recreational sex with beautiful men?

Shocking.

Tattered · 2017-03-03T16:54:43+00:00

An average looking guy would have this posted on /r/cringe

mensmod · 2017-03-03T14:35:27+00:00

People are reporting this as "nothing to do with men's rights".

And yet men are regularly demonized as being shallow, into looks, etc. This illustrates that it is a human issue, not a male issue, to be focused on looks.

How is that not a men's issue?

PinkEyedGayDragon · 2017-03-03T12:46:48+00:00

This is something that everyone alredy knew but chose not to talk about because its taboo. We all know that 90% of women have sex with 10% of men constantly.

sammythejammy · 2017-03-03T15:45:37+00:00

I think i look pretty good... Maybe i should work out and get my girlfriend to take some proper photos of me and then i can... Wait... I don't have Facebook for tinder, fuck!

Jokes aside, this is a pretty imoortant thing for mensrights, I'd love to see a section or article like this on a well known news site. Hell, I'd even like to see this on buzzfeed but everyone knows what that is like.

It unfortunately doesn't quite apply in the opposite direction though because of the social norms of having men make the first move. These women have tonnes of men hitting them up so they get to choose at the most attractive level. Normal men have to use their brain as well to get someone. A man can bore a woman and lose the contact but she won't be have to sit through a bit of conversation that wouldnt bore her because she'll have many others. Whereas a woman bored by a conversation would have many others happening as well so can pick one of most interest.

FragMeNot · 2017-03-03T15:27:52+00:00

Blutarg · 2017-03-03T15:57:44+00:00

Women are much shallower than men. The work of Dr Helen Fischer of the University of Arizona demonstrates this clearly. She's interviewed thousands of people and found that,.across the board, women are pickier.

Lethn · 2017-03-03T12:56:41+00:00

I know there will be inevitable "What's the point of this?" posts ( pre-emptive fuck you by the way, you're all annoying ) but this is a blatant double standard and honestly I would find it hilarious if people did this more.

The only way this could be better is if you caught these exact same women getting pissy with men over objectification and so on or lecturing other men about it in the comments section of articles and so on.

They have no self-awareness so it wouldn't surprise me if more than a few of them would get caught out. Like I always say, these sorts of double standards do far more damage to their reputations than any kind of sound logical argument can, sad but true, it shouldn't have to be like this but that's how you deal with sociopaths.

FelidiaFetherbottom · 2017-03-03T17:23:33+00:00

But....why a male model?

Slowmexicano · 2017-03-03T18:04:08+00:00

I'm going to use some Spanish model pics to hook girls in then show up as my ugly self. Say the pictures are old and pray for pity sex.

2017-03-03T18:58:09+00:00

While a point is definitely being made here, I think it's relevant that this only includes girls on tinder. Selection bias and all that, I mean tindr is a hookup app. Also there is no control case done here, etc. etc.

Tattered · 2017-03-03T17:12:19+00:00

Step 1: Be attractive

2017-03-03T18:26:28+00:00

I understand the premise, and while this is funny I don't think it's a men's rights issue. I know I take personality and physical appearance into account when dating girls, and a hot chick with a not so great personality can be as good as a less hot chick with a better personality.

Besides, this is tinder, and we probably didn't see all the girls who immediately unmatched him. I think this is an unfortunate issue, but not one specific to men.

AudioAssassyn · 2017-03-03T17:03:45+00:00

Tinder is a complete shit show. I tested out trying to make a pleasant profile, polite conversation, and have literally just gotten, "boring" as a response from a girl who didn't bother filling out her profile at all, thus giving you nothing to even go off to be clever. These girls absolutely just want a hot guy to tell them let's fuck tonight.

Randydandy69 · 2017-03-03T17:58:42+00:00

People using tinder for quick shallow flings? Well I never...

p3ngwin · 2017-03-03T15:48:54+00:00

"well good for you. You gotta win me over before you get those privileges though."

Jesus, the arrogance of some people...

s0rry_lumby5 · 2017-03-03T15:12:30+00:00

Women on Tindr enjoy recreational sex with 10% of men constantly.

cavacom · 2017-03-03T18:38:24+00:00

You realize tinder is a hookup app right... The only reason anyone is on there is to get laid

Prof_Acorn · 2017-03-03T16:09:26+00:00

It's interesting. I've gotten quite a few matches on Tinder but always try to have a conversation, but have only met two form the app, both of which never amounted to anything. Most don't even respond beyond the hello and my attempt at an ice breaker. Perhaps I should alter my game to saying nothing but versions of sex? coffee? and #?

Shitty_Wingman · 2017-03-03T19:13:26+00:00

Do yourself a favor and sort by controversial, the comments are even better than the post.

ExiledSenpai · 2017-03-03T20:20:58+00:00

To be fair, they are all on TINDER. There's a bit of a self selection bias to be accounted for.

2017-03-03T20:27:50+00:00

But how good was that potato doing???

factspissyouoff · 2017-03-03T21:12:22+00:00

WHAT!? Having a vagina DOESN"T make you a beautiful unicorn who is only after emotion and loyalty and prancing through a field of flowers? Well shit in the ice cream... /s

Grakchawwaa · 2017-03-03T21:14:40+00:00

Reading through the picture was only worth it due to the potato. Mmm... Potato.

SuperPCUserName · 2017-03-03T21:26:01+00:00

I don't mean to get political here and I have my gripes with Trump on a lot of his policies and cabinet members lately, but this is EXACTLY why I didn't really bat an eye over that whole grabbing pussy tape.

First of all the guy wasn't talking about this stuff when he was on stage or on camera. He had a hot mic moment with a friend. How many of us have talked about women we want to have sex with in such a manner? The shit my liberal and conservative friends have said would make the whole pussy grabbing comment seem tame.

Secondly, is it a shock to anyone that certain women are attracted to powerful and rich men?! I mean damn, I thought I was living in Crazytown when I heard the backlash to Trump's comments. Since when is this news?

Meerpants · 2017-03-03T21:51:49+00:00

"Its only creepy if hes not hot."

2017-03-03T22:52:04+00:00

This is why changing your personality and using PUAs to attract women is just a meme. It's all about looks. The reason why nerdy men aren't confident is because they know they will fail, and the reason why Chad Thundercock is confident is because he knows he will succeed.

UserM16 · 2017-03-04T02:58:18+00:00

http://imgur.com/YzocU0P

Karissa36 · 2017-03-04T03:35:03+00:00

Sounds nice, doesn't it? Never been on Tinder, but as a pretty attractive woman with experience on a couple dating sites, I can tell you this. It's not real until you meet. Messages don't mean anything. How many of these women actually came through? Heck, how many of them actually even showed up? How many of them were even actually female? Maybe less than 50 percent.

Things like this don't mean anything. It's not real until you meet. Once you do meet it's going to be a very rare woman who doesn't want more from you than just a quick bang. This might sound like heaven but good luck getting it. No matter how cute you are. Women want more than that.

azazelcrowley · 2017-03-03T16:55:39+00:00

Alright, i'll bite and lay out my opinion. (Longtime MRA.) Fact is guys I can practically feel your insecurity over this, and I used to be that way to. You aren't insecure over the sex really, but over having a loving partner who is equally sexually experienced to you. The idea of them sleeping around before getting with you, and you don't get to sleep around, makes you feel disposable and stuff. Half of you wouldn't admit it. It's why the whole "Monogamy" thing was such a big deal.

But what you've got to realize is that the overwhelming majority of women aren't worth dating. The same is probably true of men. We just historically did it, because survival.

Fact is, it's a chore. Divorce rates are high and shit in part because society is in denial over it.

It's certainly not something to let yourselves get distracted over. You're still worried that you'll end up one of the males deemed unfit, instead of rejecting the notion that there's unfit males in the first place. The criteria we measure our worth by is fucked.

Look at the priesthood in the west.... ugh. Virgins for ages, but they carried on basically the whole of western civilization and were the only not-fuckers who could read and stuff. I guess I had to say something nice about them one time or another.

These women? Why care about their opinion. Why care about any womans opinion. Live your life as you see fit, maybe leave a legacy so the people who come after aren't quite as fucked as we are, and be done with it. Do you honestly give a fuck about your genes at this point in human history?

We're beyond that now, surely. It's mostly memes and stuff. Different if you have a kid I suppose. I can see it wanting to actually be yours. The rest?

Sex is overrated. Women are overrated. Men are probably underrated, but not any better than women. Stop caring about it. You aren't any less of a man for it. If someone tries to tell you you are, just ignore them and do your own thing.

If you happen to bump into a tolerable woman, that's fine too. ... But don't count on it. (Likewise ladies: https://youtu.be/7n9kbcGtOsA )

But yeh. The reason this post sent so many into a panic? You still haven't gotten over the idea that your worth as a person is something other people decide. Seriously. Confront it, reject it, and you'll find yourself craving the opposite genders attention far less. You need a woman like a bicycle needs a fish.

newaccount47 · 2017-03-03T16:12:26+00:00

I'm 6 3, world traveler, and underwear model... I have tinder results nothing like that. I also would never say those things to a woman. I do get a ton of matches, but most never respond to my polite greetings. While I do desire physical intimacy like any other normal person, I don't want to have to say things like that just to get in their pants. I want to have some kind of connection beyond physical. I guess it's time to switch up my game if that's what women are demanding.

OatsEveryDay · 2017-03-03T19:02:50+00:00

Cringe

KamiNekoSama · 2017-03-03T18:13:16+00:00

So the trick really is to be good looking to not be a creep.... got it.

2017-03-03T21:08:47+00:00

This is the entire foundation of /r/theredpill

Meyright · 2017-03-03T17:50:27+00:00

This has no place on /r/mensrights

If you're not hot, be interesting, if you're not interesting, be hot. Applies across genders. Nothing novel or shocking or "cool social experiment" about this. File under "no shit, Sherlock".

Iamnot_awhore · 2017-03-03T18:21:50+00:00

You know a sub is going down hill when it Huddle's around and supports a neck beard post from 9gag.

You all would have done the exact same thing if it was a super hot chick with her tits hanging out. Women have preferences just like us men. Once the find someone like this that far surpasses their expectations they instantly want to claim it, just like men.

Meeting women on tinder to me isn't a men's right subject that needs focusing on. When I went down to prison from northern Idaho to southern Idaho, a 12 hour Conair bus ride. I sat next to a guy who had to serve 2 years. 2 YEARS of his life gone, because he through his baseball hat in anger and accidentally hit his wife. He had court paperwork and a police record with him to prove it. This is the kinda shit we need to focus on. Not this neckbearded bullshit.

Codered222 · 2017-03-03T17:53:05+00:00

Another revolutionary r/MensRights post

bullseyed723 · 2017-03-03T13:09:51+00:00

Shame that this post will barely get seen because this sub doesn't have enough upvote power.

JapaneseStudentHaru · 2017-03-03T16:07:08+00:00

Breaking news: hookups are much better with attractive people

Sorgenlos · 2017-03-03T18:00:08+00:00

Take this shit back to redpill. This is pathetic.

Infinity_U · 2017-03-03T18:57:28+00:00

Sadly, I saw this on 9gag first.

Hitleresque · 2017-03-03T15:04:44+00:00

Wait what's the surprise here? I mean it's tinder... You spend 2 seconds evaluating someone, of course a model does well.

soalone34 · 2017-03-03T17:33:49+00:00

Dammit, I was hoping you'd do the same except with the handsome potato as the pic

I_work_for_a_living · 2017-03-03T21:22:07+00:00

This is pretty well understood. OKCupid did a very compelling post about it a number of years ago: https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e#.p6hgq7wcl

The TL;DR is that 80% of men are rated below average by women on dating sites. And the woman who is "above average attractiveness" does much better than the woman who is considered a 9/10 or a 10/10.

Oompa-Loompa-Do · 2017-03-04T00:42:33+00:00

I like it and find it pretty hilarious, but why is it in /r/mensrights ?

Kizrock94 · 2017-03-04T04:01:32+00:00

Thanks, I need a good laugh after a tiring day. Screw the naysayers, we can fucking have fun.

skywreckdemon · 2017-03-04T04:48:09+00:00

This is an interesting experiment. I think both genders tend to be very focused on looks, not one more than the other.

Redox80 · 2017-03-03T20:09:14+00:00

Today you learned that people like having sex with attractive people.

Why is this in /r/mensrights? This is a universal thing. Attractive people get to have more sex with more people and <gasp> even worse they get to have more sex other attractive people.

SUCH A BRILLIANT SOCIAL EXPERIMENT HERE BRU'S

Gawernator · 2017-03-03T17:55:55+00:00

This /should/ be a "duh" moment. It's really sad and crazy how brainwashed men are in the last 50-60 years or so. The worst part is, men have done it to themselves in a way..

And yeah this stuff really does work when you're in the top 10-20% of male attractiveness.

Also, not sure how this is a men's right issue exactly?

masonay0un · 2017-03-03T22:03:03+00:00

You're acting like you guys wouldn't do the same if a girl who was a model text you saying 'let's fuck'

MCsmalldick12 · 2017-03-03T23:57:37+00:00

Are you implying that guys wouldn't react the same way if a super hot girl approached them in the same manner? People are allowed to want to hook up with attractive people.

dienamight · 2017-03-03T19:09:29+00:00

This seems a little too neckbeardy for this sub imo

Thinkcali · 2017-03-03T21:29:58+00:00

If a hot chick hit men up on Tinder they would have the same exact reaction. You can't blame women because you put them on a pedestal. Also, this guy probably only showed you the reactions that fit his narrative.

Don't let your preconceived ideas about sexuality put you at a disadvantage. Sexual desire is not something you can always control. At one point in everyone's life they can give into temptation.

trumpismywaifu · 2017-03-03T23:56:09+00:00

What's the point of this supposed to be? That women like attractive men? YOU DON'T SAY!

deathdragon5858 · 2017-03-03T16:22:19+00:00

Whoever did this should follow it up with a hidden camera meet-up with a short bald guy. Would be hilarious to see the reactions. Just make sure to have a few women bodyguards hidden by close to stop the crazy violent ones :P

KILLJEFFREY · 2017-03-03T21:38:30+00:00

The openers are pushing it, but how many actually make time for a date? Furthermore, how many does he actually take home? Also, how many did he message? You can't cherry pick and post a highlight real.

samutlgfx · 2017-03-03T21:48:06+00:00

the truth hurt a lot

2017-03-04T00:57:29+00:00

....saved

pennycenturie · 2017-03-04T01:33:09+00:00

Twenty-two. Ew.

baskandpurr · 2017-03-04T02:41:43+00:00

What really amuses me about this is the little game of "You have to do better than that". They are agreeing to have sex with a person they've never spoken to and don't know anything about. Exactly where do standards come into it? They obviously don't need this person to value them but if they are going to pretend they should at least try a bit harder.

2017-03-04T02:57:53+00:00

+1 for the handsome potato.

CestLaVie1989 · 2017-03-04T03:13:43+00:00

"I just want a nice guy" She says as she's sitting on this dudes face I actually did this before but with a different dude Am I a bad person?

Jaersh253 · 2017-03-04T03:28:26+00:00

Lmfao best tinder post yet!

1_Pure_Angel · 2017-03-04T07:56:13+00:00

Fat girls are slutty and will never appreciate how nice of a dating site anything.

forgottensoul · 2017-03-04T11:43:20+00:00

Getting laid isn't a Men's Rights issue - this post seems more /r/redpill than anything.

frackzilla · 2017-03-04T12:36:43+00:00

Not really that surprising.

Swiss_Cheese9797 · 2017-03-11T17:07:19+00:00

The Grumpier Old Men quote had me in stitches!

2017-04-01T20:37:18+00:00

Stupid post, women are not shallow for wanting to only fuck hot men, men fuck a lot of hot women but not ugly women. She is just sexual and not looking for a relationship but for someone to fuck every now and then. Move on, and find another woman.

2017-03-03T23:41:16+00:00

This subreddit is retarded.

aerovado · 2017-03-03T16:52:13+00:00

This should be marked NSFW

Rolten · 2017-03-03T13:53:06+00:00

Wtf kind of dumb post is this.

It's tinder! No fucking shit that someone really handsome gets a lot of matches and people dtf. That's how that app works. Are you really trying to prove that women are somehow shallow by going to an app that is based on being shallow?

Make an OkCupid account that's sexist, racist, and the guy doesn't have a job. If women want to date that guy with that photo, then that's shallow.

But hey, so are men.

So yeah, still not sure what you're trying to prove. Both men and women are shallow?

Title	Cool social experiment on Tinder [x-post "All men are pigs who care only about looks!"]
Author	cryobabe
Upvotes	2758
Comments	455
Date	March 3, 2017 12:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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