Daily Community Chat Megathread

WilliamWyattD · 2021-12-31T11:40:50+00:00

Settle this for me and gimpgirl:

Who has more potential to be attractive to women?

Take an average 20 year old guy and clone him. Then make one clone 6' tall and totally bald. Give the other guy amazing hair, but make him 5'3".

My money is on the 6' foot Kojak. Gimp's got the midget with great hair. Who you got?

Right-Internal1911 · 2021-12-31T10:09:10+00:00

hey does anybody knows what happened to the crippled autistic size queen with the dj boyfriend?

WilliamWyattD · 2021-12-31T07:28:32+00:00

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Slipthe · 2021-12-31T06:56:47+00:00

Oof. Just learned that 'zeta' the word and symbol ζ are used as code for beastiality. So... look out for that if you see it.

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-31T03:18:34+00:00

Here's some gym music.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-31T02:24:03+00:00

Well, remember how I said a while back that I kept getting asked if I was a virgin?

Well today I got a promotion! Instead of asking if I have my v-card, today someone asked if I've ever kissed a girl!

How exciting!

(/s)

The pain isn't gonna end any time soon, is it?

CFinCanada · 2021-12-31T02:13:35+00:00

Today as I stood in my jacket chatting with my longtime Romanian friend, I learned from her mom of a Romanian joke that is, roughly translated, if two women got released from jail after 20 years at the same time, they would be in jail for 20 years, and standing outside the jail for an additional 20 minutes.

ShorterThanMyGf · 2021-12-31T02:10:03+00:00

I'm 5'6 and pretty much bald. I like to think I'm still decent looking because I have a decent amount of muscle and think my face is still not bad looking. Am I just coping? Can a short and bald guy still be physically attractive to women based purely on looks? Only women answer pls.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-12-31T02:00:30+00:00

FDS keeps calling Ghislaine Maxwell a pickme, and apparently so are other women who help their partner rape and murder women.

I feel like that’s projection on their end. They’re assuming these women want to commit crimes for a man, because they themselves surround a lot of their thought processes around men.

Slipthe · 2021-12-31T01:41:32+00:00

I can't quite put my finger on it.

But when a dude here says "Women love thugs and criminals" it feels like this... weird wish fulfillment thing. Like the guys who say that are unsuccessful with women and are fantasizing about being a criminal to get women because that's easier than for them trying to look attractive.

nessaea-blue · 2021-12-31T01:32:46+00:00

opinion: women don't want older men, they want mature men.

Most dudes my age are childish and immature, so an older guy is more appealing as someone i can connect with. But they're not more attractive, they are the same or less.

The "dream guy" thus is young but mature.

relaxandrule31 · 2021-12-31T00:46:01+00:00

I don't think it's very common for women to get outright rejected. If anything they'll get ghosted before i guy actually tells them 'yeah you're not my type"

i wouldn't be surprised if there was some findings that women actually experience being ghosted more than they get politely rejected by the guy they like.

Creation_Soul · 2021-12-31T00:34:04+00:00

if you were to make a guess, in how many (as a percentage) abortions that are actually done, if the father had a say in it, would he actually decide against the abortion (but then having all the legal/financial obligations for the child)?

of course, if there are actual statistics about this, even better.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-12-31T00:06:21+00:00

Here it is

angels-fan · 2021-12-31T00:04:04+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd6VmrTn/

Found /u/willow-girl tiktok

-WhoIsJohnGalt- · 2021-12-30T23:25:31+00:00

i had a cat scan today, please wish me well because im basically freaking out

ScholarMore5267 · 2021-12-30T23:05:02+00:00

I have a friend who is certified chad. myself and some other friends, all average/above average looking were at a bar yesterday. Group of decent looking women next to us were looking over and stuff, when my hot friend shows up. the leader of the girls comes up and is like, you are all invited over to our place. I wanted to go but my other friends get women so easy they were like nah they aren't hot enough so we got black out drunk instead

And_Rue · 2021-12-30T23:00:43+00:00

WTB GF 5GP.

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-30T22:59:54+00:00

Hypergamy makes sense from a biological standpoint but my biggest pet peeve about it is women repackage it as “the average man isn’t good enough!”. Then we look at wealth, careers, work ethic, and health and we see the average man is doing better than the average woman in all of these categories. Once women can confess “I want a man better than me”, I’ll respect it.

angels-fan · 2021-12-30T22:50:47+00:00

My wife just added Stanley Tucci to the list of men she would fuck.

"He's not conventionally attractive, but there's just something about him that drives me crazy!"

tiposk · 2021-12-30T22:40:55+00:00

I know many women with a crappy record with men. Women who have divorced multiple times due to their partners cheating, women whose husbands sleep with their acquaintances, women who keep going on dates just to have men pressure them into sex...

These women never said that it was ok for men to fuck around, but every time there was a rumour about casual sex, they would only gossip about the women involved. Many of them would also blame promiscuous women for male cheating and expecting sex in the early stages of dating. When you'd call them on their double standards, they'd swear they applied the same standards to men.

My friends with seemingly normal relationships, hoes and prudes alike, held men to the same standards as they held themselves. The hoes would jump in bed fast and not care if some idiot with madonna/whore would avoid a relationship with them. The prudes who wanted to wait for sex would just move on without explanation if the guy brought up sex on the first date.

If you are the kind of woman who explicitly or not expects more self-restraint from women, why do you find it shocking that the kind of men who end up dating you expect less restraint from themselves than for you? At the end of the day, birds of a feather flock together.

SpicyRamenAddict · 2021-12-30T22:40:22+00:00

I mentioned a few threads ago that I made a okcupid account for dating. I deleted it again today.

Time to eat ramen

simeneta_two · 2021-12-30T22:35:39+00:00

Ughh I should have just rescheduled my maid service. I thought they were going to cancel due to the snow but I got a notice this morning that they would be coming this afternoon. Now they’re over an hour late and I’m stuck inside until they either get here or the stupid customer service person picks up the goddamn phone.

autistictheory · 2021-12-30T22:22:40+00:00

Hey guys just want to say I've finally got past the number plateau and went on a couple dates. Also, one of the girls that left me on read I double texted and we set up a date for next week

Feeling good and most of all progressing forward towards my fitness and social related goals.

Happy new year you fuckin incels lol

sleuthoftrades1 · 2021-12-30T22:21:32+00:00

I just found out one of the hottest girls I ever hooked up with is dating a guy even older than me. He's like 30 something, meanwhile she is like 24 or 25. He's not even rich, smh.

angels-fan · 2021-12-30T22:04:04+00:00

Q4W: When you're having sex and you close your eyes, who are you thinking about?

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-30T22:03:35+00:00

WingsofRedemption Autotune

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-12-30T21:57:27+00:00

Holy fuck, the end of year hustle is real in sales. I’ve been going nonstop since 8:30 this morning and just realized it’s dark out

LalaTheSecond · 2021-12-30T21:39:46+00:00

I've been enjoying cuddling way more than usual lately. I'm not sure if it is the weather or the holiday spirit but it is nice.

ChadThundagaCock · 2021-12-30T20:43:50+00:00

I turn 30 on New Years. Will it really get better like everyone says? Will women really be easier? Can I still go for fresh 21 year olds at bars? Will my sex life really go from great to masterful? I have so many questions!

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2021-12-30T20:07:33+00:00

I really want to get an 18/19 year old pregnant when I’m in my early 40s.

This is the fantasy that drives me. I imagine the shame and embarrassment I’d feel but also the smug sense of superiority that id have a connection to this girl for the rest of my life. The forbidden and taboo nature of it seems so erotic

JB8511R · 2021-12-30T20:05:32+00:00

Sex Questions from a 22 year old Virgin:

How long should actual PIV in-and-out last after foreplay?
How does a man get better at Sex without actually being able to do it (I want to mitigate my first time being awful for her as much as I can)
Is my tongue actually supposed to go inside, or just around the lips area?
Where do I touch her when we’re doing PIV? Assuming Missionary position

Thanks for the advice

6negative4 · 2021-12-30T19:48:07+00:00

I have successfully completed two Instacart batches today without noticing any women overtly making fun of me. Let's see how long this lasts. I feel my ability to mask my autism is poor today, so I will be surprised if it doesn't happen soon.

Dulce__Criatura · 2021-12-30T19:38:11+00:00

''I need to avoid them since the last monogamous relationship I had was with a RP veteran who was my domestic abuser.

I barely survived this relationship and had to run for my life. I still live in fear because of the PTSD from that relationship.

I need to be able to avoid these men. I can’t avoid them if I don’t know how they speak and what they think or act like. I’m here for educational purposes.

Lurking here has helped me swipe left on guys who I would otherwise swipe right on, by looking for clues in their bios. I’m able to avoid RP men who use certain sentiments, certain attitudes towards women, certain words.

It’s also helped me weed out men who would post RP stuff on social media.

I’ve been successful at weeding them out so far but a few manage to slip through my vetting and I need to learn how to never date a man like this, ever again.

Her flair is: Redpill is delusion.

geyges · 2021-12-30T19:05:44+00:00

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CFinCanada · 2021-12-30T18:56:49+00:00

This song pretty much describes all of life. 🤷🏽‍♀️

WE WANT YOUR SOUL

https://youtu.be/nWRCwgH1tK8

ToughAnswers · 2021-12-30T18:53:39+00:00

Alex Jones threatens to 'dish dirt' on Trump for pushing vaccine

madsskayyy · 2021-12-30T18:26:13+00:00

Every woman in this thread had great sex with a guy that had a small penis apparently. Why is Reddit full of the strangest virtue signaling group of people..

At this point it’s pointless to ask a lot of women questions even on an anonymous setting because they’ll lie☠️

Edit: u/DangZagnut used to say “all women lie all the time” and he might have been onto something😂

O-j-O · 2021-12-30T18:23:22+00:00

I have seen the early days when men used to say that women are useless after 30 and now I am seeing the pushback from women that younger women are not interested in older men. Both assertions are meaningless because you are talking about averages when it is individuals interacting. There are so many variables involved that it is insanity to make definitive claims like people do here. But let me throw a general rule which I believe to be true.

Who wants to fuck who depends more on how hot they look, not on their actual age. It is widely accepted that sexual attraction is sub/unconscious. When you see a person, you quickly decide if they are fuckable or not, often without knowing their age. Subconsciously you have given it a green flag, now whether you want to go ahead with it after knowing their age depends on your values and what you are looking for. Casual sex or STR? Who cares! How many 21 yo guys who pass up on shagging Charlize Theron for 3 months? Granted it’s a bit of an extreme example, but it is to illustrate a point.

When someone say that 35 yo man can sleep with a 20 yo woman, attacking that claim with a caricature of a pot bellied, scruffy and balding 35 yo man sleeping with an athletic 20 yo is disingenuous. That kind of man probably wouldn’t be able to sleep with a 40 yo woman either. That claim need not to be attacked at all. Someone (man or woman) who’s attractive at 35 is attractive to ALL ages. Blake Lively is super hot to man of every age, so is Chris Hemsworth to women of every age.

sleuthoftrades1 · 2021-12-30T16:01:38+00:00

Apparently the new highest earning female Jeopardy player is a transwoman. I look forward to the day when both the top male and female individuals of everything share a Y chromosome.

madsskayyy · 2021-12-30T15:05:31+00:00

It’s so weird how there is this trend of small niche content creators advising women to avoid 50/50 relationships and bragging about being stay at home gfs. This is also a growing trend online as a lot of these videos reach 100k+ likes and that’s rare within the relationship advice category of Tiktok.

I don’t understand the logic behind being a stay at home gf— give up any semblance of financial independence for a boyfriend?

A few months ago, when of my friends jumped on the trend where girls film their boyfriends being productive/doing their day jobs and then film themselves doing something mindless like shopping or organizing their shoe closets. So cringe and embarrassing to juxtapose the two

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2021-12-30T15:49:25+00:00

Feel like playing hard to get is largely a myth (have felt this way for awhile). If a women's actually interested you shouldn't be getting mixed signals

Curious about confirmation though. Ladies am I accurate on this?

LillthOfBabylon · 2021-12-30T14:42:32+00:00

I shouldn't be surprised, but it still surprises me how much men over-estimate how much younger women desire older men. No, it's not just "bitter older women" who find that shit disgusting. Most young women don't want to be hit on by someone who could be their actual daddy.

ashpr0ulx · 2021-12-30T15:16:49+00:00

my biggest pet peeve at work is my bosses trying to talk to me through the bathroom door.

unless the building is on fire, it can wait. i’m tinkling.

chilikettlechips · 2021-12-30T16:46:25+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rs3cw1/this_should_be_how_women_approach_sex_if_he_cant/

A woman with low libido, sex averse, a rubix cube box and not actually sexually attracted to her man AND blaming him for not "giving" her an orgasm. Name a more iconic duo on ppd.

editing to add the thread

especially because she’s never had an orgasm on her own.

This guy gotta run

lulll · 2021-12-30T11:21:18+00:00

i watched fight club last night, havent watched it in like 10+ years. its safe to say its very dated now. never really got the project mayhem thing until now. tyler gets a bunch of guys who are disenfranchised with their lives, who are sick of their jobs, and who feel like they dont have an identity… and he takes away their identity even further, makes them all shave their head like in bootcamp, makes them all wear the same uniform kind of like the military or a job, and he tells them what to do like a ceo or commander. theyre convinced they are doing something special but really theyre just useful idiot followers who have less of an identity than before and just do what tyler tells them to do

DOSGAMES · 2021-12-30T13:23:21+00:00

I joined the Discord and am slightly disappointed.

Questionable quality of memes and most of the activity was two dudes bragging to one another about deadlifts and how all women love their jackhammer sex technique.

I guess I should manage my expectations.

lessfaterrday · 2021-12-30T12:05:40+00:00

Sorry all, tooting my own horn for a second.

This Christmas one of my boys said I gave him the best gift he’s ever received, and another friend told me the art I made her was her favorite Christmas gift this year! They’re not ones to lie or exaggerate either.

Hearing both of those things made me really happy. I think it meant more from the girl friend though, because I was already holding that position with my homie from something I made him a few years ago.

Anyways,

QFA: what was the favorite thing you gave someone for Christmas this year? And what was your favorite thing you received?

TheJim66 · 2021-12-30T17:25:34+00:00

AFBB is an example of how human sexuality is not fixed; however it seems that how it changes is mostly dependent on major societal factors.

In order for the AF part of AFBB to work, there needs to be simps and a welfare state. As long as there are simps and a welfare state, one man being an asshole or spitting game isn't going to change much.

So one man decides that he's not going to simp on onlyfans or throw money at women in any kind of way. There's thousands of men that will take his place and on top of that, there's the state that will take his money and hand it over to women and their chad babies; obviously women pay taxes as well.

If every man in a society decides to go full black pill or invest trillions of dollars on some futuristic looksmaxing, then yes, women will change.

Obviously there are outliers as in any population of any species, there are outliers so you can take all of this with a little grain of salt.

zyramain69 · 2021-12-30T17:47:55+00:00

Women: If you hit on women you deserve to die

BruddaMSK · 2021-12-30T11:41:10+00:00

Will there be a purge?

META

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-30T12:59:37+00:00

I remember I was talking to this girl once. She was chubby/fat but quite pretty (she also had nice er...features)

At some point I remember her telling me I seem like the type who would make fun of fat people

That's one of the most interesting impressions someone has had of me, while also being quite inaccurate.

Also Imaginary gf and I had an argument last night.

What do?

annabeelongx · 2021-12-30T15:42:59+00:00

I’m hoping to possibly get into SSRI’s. I know it probably kills sex drive but I don’t really care about that.

-passepar2t- · 2021-12-30T15:53:12+00:00

Making plans for New Year's Eve, multiple options, excited for the first time in weeks.

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-12-30T16:56:42+00:00

I’ve been so lazy in Florida. I bust my butt in Washington (working out twice a day, full time job, hiking, soccer and now I’m in a show) I like being busy but man was I tired. I’ve been sleeping in everyday, listening to podcasts I’ve never had the time to listen to, online shopping and reading. I actually feel refreshed lol maybe I need to chill out more often 😆

-passepar2t- · 2021-12-30T17:01:23+00:00

I'm sad that the holidays are almost over. I had to work so much, I barely got to enjoy them.

pooseehunter · 2021-12-30T09:05:00+00:00

First

Is having a hard to pronounce name a mood-killer when introducing yourself to someone? Having to correct someone two or three times just kills the vibe sometimes.

q1q1throwaway · 2021-12-30T13:41:08+00:00

So I'm 31, married. Never wore my ring after wedding day.

I went for an intensive course in my City. Two weeks. Came with a hotel stay and I took it because free 5 star hotel and food and no driving home . Wife showed up the first night but otherwise been away.

Anyway met this 25 year old hottie. Same city, different company. We chatted up and got close but professional. So first Friday she asks me about weekend plans. So I ask her out on a date. We were meant to go a fancy restaurant place but went to a fair we saw on our way. Had a good time. Told her I was interested. But she told me she likes me but I won't like being her boyfriend, but she thinks she'd make a good wife. Like she won't be a good girlfriend for me. But would be a good wife.

What does this mean exactly?

Anyway I thought I'd been turned down with no chance. But offered to drop her home. When we got there I was invited in and she moved in for a kiss. Had sex twice. She asked me to stay the weekend and we worked, worked out, watched Netflix, had more sex. I left on Sunday. She asked me where I lived and I mentioned my pied-e-tierre. Went back home then the hotel. Got a hope you arrived safely message. Friday is the last day of the course. Back to being professional

Why did I get laid?

cryptothrow2 · 2021-12-30T15:37:47+00:00

Is a lady being specific not about the price range but a particular place evidence of a word I can't remember but the idea is to lead you on and get free food?

midweektea · 2021-12-30T16:26:28+00:00

Do you ever have a moment like "oh my God I need you" like it's impossible to live alone? At this stage of the game I'd rather run glass through my eyeballs than be completely on my own? Like I can't fucking do it anymore?

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SpicyRamenAddict · 2021-12-30T12:13:22+00:00

tweelittle1234 · 2021-12-30T16:46:40+00:00

Should I leave my boyfriend if I or the people around me are bad for the kind of person he is?

cryptothrow2 · 2021-12-30T11:24:23+00:00

Do you believe only one gender can truly love?

Is it Men?

Women?

Why so?

GrimFleet · 2021-12-30T16:01:19+00:00

I theorized that men will eventually not exist in human society in the future because they're not needed for anything anymore and women at best don't care about them.

But now I have an even hotter take: humanity itself will not exist in the future. And no it's not because of global warming or plastic in oceans or Trump or WW3 or whatever stupid doomsday scenario people imagine. It's simply because we simply don't have enough children to sustain our species.

I'm sure this will be a surprise to everyone who thinks Earth is "overpopulated" but it's true: the higher the GDP and education of a country the lower the fertility rate, up to and including below 2(and since - at least for now - it takes two people to make a child, this means a society with fertility rate of under 2 is slowly but surely dying out) And 2 is something most first world countries can only dream of.

Now the usual counterargument to this is "okay, western civilization will collapse and poor countries will take over, who cares". Except that's not how economics work; EVERY country's GDP increases with time so eventually even these "poor" countries will get rich enough to get their fertility rates below 2. Same with immigration - sure, you migrate to a rich country, you get rich yourself so you stop reproducing.

The only way I can see the trend reverse is when eventually the population gets SO low that they will not be able to sustain the absurdly high standard of living we all enjoy at which point the society will become "poor" again and therefore start reproducing again. Well, unless we automate our lives to the extent that this will never happen and we will literally hedonize ourselves out of existence.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	December 30, 2021 9:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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