Daily Community Chat Megathread

quaker5 · 2023-02-17T22:45:18+00:00

Guys that send tinder hoes money on Venmo/cash app are the absolute lowest of the low.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-18T01:44:57+00:00

TwoX post makes it to All. I’m reading how the woman wasn’t being treated right by doctors during a medical emergency and her husband is with her. She causally mentions she’s hasn’t had sex in 6 months and I just want to ask “Don’t you think that’s a problem?”

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-18T23:27:15+00:00

The way girls cheat be do wicked omg. It be so heartless too

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yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-02-17T22:10:45+00:00

First

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-02-17T22:18:35+00:00

Fourth dammit!

UneastAji · 2023-02-17T22:52:12+00:00

How do women justify taking money and gifts from their man when it in fact diminishes the worth of the said man?

This is how stupid blue pillers sound when they ask why men sleep around if they think it devalues women. People are obviously not against being given other's value, they're against it when others give away their value to someone else. But thinking this is a transaction doesn't inherently mean someone should be against it transactions beneficial to them.

And I'm not even the type to care about body count.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-17T23:16:57+00:00

As a guy hanging out with your boys is the most funnest and interesting activity you can do

You guys will be in Indonesia and still fuck up

Or have 2$ in the bank and still have a amazing time

Life doesn't feel like life when you don't have other men to do stuff with

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-17T23:41:14+00:00

So me and my friends always do this approach challenge where we must walk up to any girl we point to

So l walk up to this group of women and they immediately get scared when literally l just wanna talk to one of them

Never knew women can get that frightened over a guy approaching them

Btw if your scared of talking to woman then start doing this challenge with your friends

VampireChaser · 2023-02-17T23:45:41+00:00

After gaslighting you for 3 years they finally admit it. Purebloods rise up.

big_lenad · 2023-02-18T00:11:01+00:00

About to have sex. This bitch ain’t gonna know what hit her. She’s coming out of the shower. I’m going to offer to moisturize her. She’s been sht up til now. Young and we only just met. I invited her back to my place. It’s fancy but she doesn’t know it’s actually an Airbnb lol.

EDIT

Done fucking her. Her bf called during foreplay but she cut it. She was really loud. Looked like she hadn’t taken good dick in a while.

EDIT 2

Her bf is shouting at her on the phone asking why she didn’t answer his calls earlier. She’s saying she was sleeping. He’s not buying it.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-18T00:16:39+00:00

Seent a post about how women dont find most men attractive. Then someone said its not that those men are unattractive they are just unremarkable, women dont even notice them. What makes a man remarkable outside of being better looking then another man? I'm confused.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-02-18T00:51:39+00:00

Anyone notice that anytime the woman makes much more money in the relationship and they didn't meet before she made more money or she comes from a rich family and he doesn't, that the man is always tall?

Men get called out for the reverse as having a "trophy wife". This is the same thing but women don't get called out on it. This should get recognized as a phenomena where women are called out for it also. Women respond well to shaming (i.e. they modify their behavior if it they're shamed), so the commentary can actually change shallow behavior.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-18T01:10:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hockey/comments/114mkxm/nathan_mackinnon_i_will_trade_you_my_moms_number/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

These kids are wild lol

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-18T02:02:47+00:00

Prepare yourself female for my rizz is about to enter inside your body.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-18T02:22:38+00:00

PPD Lady goes on a date with PPD Man:

https://youtu.be/UQlgIPunBHs

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-18T02:29:11+00:00

Well y'all, here we are again. Newly single after 1 year. My ex said he couldn't take the next step with me unless I got rid of OnlyFans because it was embarrassing to have his friends google me and see leaked content. So be honest with me. No ass-kissing, no saying what you think I want to hear...In your opinion, is having this page hindering my dating life? The pics are out there forever now so I can't change it and I regret nothing, but I'm curious how you feel about the subject

This is an actress that posted this a few days ago on OF.

Q4M: Is this a dealbreaker for you?

dbz_f · 2023-02-18T03:18:30+00:00

Q4W:

How do you feel about the following scenarios:

your bf/husband watching porn
your bf /husband saving porn on his computer
your bf/husband saving random pics of celebrity women cause they’re pretty
you catch your bf/husband ogling another woman irl

dbz_f · 2023-02-18T03:25:02+00:00

What do you guys think of that new Harry Potter game?

JDWhiz96 · 2023-02-18T22:40:32+00:00

Whiny, entitled 304 gets what she deserves.

I've never laughed so hard at someone getting tased lmao

SerpentCypher · 2023-02-18T21:26:18+00:00

Holy fuuuuuu

I've never been anywhere where people flip flop on their OWN arguments so much to avoid ever being wrong before.

Willow-girl · 2023-02-18T20:00:13+00:00

I was eating while scrolling and dropped my fork. Just then, my man stood up, so I said, "If you're going in the kitchen, would you mind grabbing me a fork?"

He said, "I got up because you dropped your fork." And proceeded to pick it up and hand it to me.

Um ... thanks?

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-18T19:04:06+00:00

More red pill leak from women. Dudes profile states he wants a fwb and women in the comments say he’s too short, average/ugly, and ethnic to command that. Some comments saying women want relationships but for chads they’ll settle for fwb. (I’m aware his profile is trash and cringe)

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/11541gx/profile_review/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-17T23:05:20+00:00

Male and female should instead be referred to as “sperm-producing” and “egg-producing,” the Ecology and Evolutionary Biology (EEB) Language Project said, according to the Times of London

"Meanwhile, father and mother should be labeled “parent,” “egg donor” and “sperm donor” in the scientific field."

I'm no longer a misogynist. I just hate egg producers

bossman146 · 2023-02-17T23:20:26+00:00

Women just seem more driven when it comes to education and career. It’s not that men aren’t doing anything at all, they just aren’t as invested or “into it” as women. I know the stats get brought up on here sometimes, but I’m interested in why things are going this way.

purplish_possum · 2023-02-18T00:03:35+00:00

At a public defender conference. Apparently no Chads allowed.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-18T02:54:25+00:00

Why does anyone think men would actually take the male birth control when they avoid condoms like the plague?

I reckon the male birth control would have far more side effects then condoms.

saraimarsena · 2023-02-18T18:25:18+00:00

went out to brunch w my partner. got pretty drunk. still really drunk now. it’s very evident that his life in college and things -he did is verrrrry different from the life he’s living w me now. i’m the good girl wife type that he can bring home to his parents but i wonder sometimes if he actually wanted to settle down this young. he told me this morning that i saved his life and i believe it honestly but i can’t help but feel that i would NOT have fit in w his fun and crazy group in college

purplish_possum · 2023-02-18T18:06:11+00:00

California Supreme Court just held that Rap Music lyrics are inadmissible and cannot be used against criminal defendants in most situations.

dysonRing · 2023-02-18T17:22:18+00:00

So reading this article below and once again women make up all the rules in their favor

https://www.yahoo.com/news/two-women-discovered-were-dating-120000139.html

The relationship was NOT exclusive the talk was NOT had but they still felt cheated. And if the dude's name was not withheld he would have been harassed.

Women are always about their emotions. It is not about fairness or about being lied to. It is all about their feelings. They want to have the cake and eat it too.

I honestly struggle with the PPD women that think all women are wonderful. No, it is case by case.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-18T16:26:53+00:00

Transgender and gender identity stuff gets way too much attention.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-02-18T01:13:54+00:00

As soon as I had something else to distract myself with, PPD became uninteresting.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-17T23:11:24+00:00

This is why men 18-29 are single

Women sharing theory and older man theory

lulll · 2023-02-17T23:24:14+00:00

men only want one thing and its fucking alien

Ylduts · 2023-02-18T03:51:02+00:00

Why are women strong and independent until they date an older man? They then become children who are not allowed to make decisions for themselves.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-18T03:53:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/z2jufk/i_want_sex_but_not_from_boyfriend/

We've been together for about 7 years and think he's a great guy, but those feelings of intimacy have faded for reasons I'm not sure of. I know it doesn't make sense to be feeling this way, but I do. I'm just not sexually attracted to him anymore and don't feel like having sex with him.

It started just about 2 years ago when he tried to initiate sex as usual by laying in bed with me and rubbing my legs and stomach. But my body was reacting as if some creep had just walked into my apartment and started touching me. It was strange. But I just told him I'm not in the mood that night.

I thought maybe it was just a weird feeling that would pass, but it hasn't. I'm starting to realize I'm not attracted to him anymore and maybe I've been keeping that feeling suppressed for a while now.

And to be clear, it's not that my sex drive has started to fade. I see other more attractive men in my day to day life who do stir up a lot of sexual energy inside me. I just don't feel that way towards my boyfriend anymore.

He has been complaining about the lack of sex and out of guilt I gave it to him a few times, but I'm not into it at all. And to be honest I ACTUALLY DO feel guilty for no longer being attracted to him. He has done a lot for me! And he was there for me during some very difficult times in my life. But as of right now he more feels like a helpful roommate who guilt trips me into sex rather than a partner.

I'm writing this because I'm not sure what to do, and hoping others here can relate. Should we break it off? Should we seek couples counseling? Is there a way to overcome no longer having romantic feelings towards your partner?

Been there done that. Was the bf in this situation. Fucking blows. A comment from the thread:

Well said. It's amazing that she is receiving any kid glove treatment at all after her follow up comments like this:

He is currently paying like 75% of our finances so if we suddenly broke up, I'd have nowhere to go really.

She needs to end this and put him out of his misery, rather than allowing him to have hope that this is something he thinks he can fix when in reality there is nothing he can do.

That was me too.

EmotionalLuck · 2023-02-18T16:19:33+00:00

Why do so many people on here think it's a good idea to provoke lonely men with nothing to lose into anger?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-02-17T23:06:21+00:00

Q4W (for non-sex worker women): do you or your friends know enough about watches (that aren't Rolex) to be able to tell how much they cost if you spotted one on a date with a man?

Decent-Zombie-5513 · 2023-02-17T23:09:25+00:00

Lost another inch off my waist. Still can't stand to look at myself in the mirror or pictures. Beginning to think losing weight isn't the cure-all people say it will be, lol.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-18T00:00:09+00:00

Q4W: do you believe you would be able to pilot a male human body to pull bitches?

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-18T00:11:51+00:00

Just an all around bad time 😬

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-18T01:28:49+00:00

Short kings of PPD- have you ever tried using shoe lifts when you went out to clubs/parties? If so, did the amount of female attention you got seem to go up?

I'm 5'10.5 (just under 6 foot in air forces), and while I do alright for myself when I go out, I'd be curious to see if the quantity/quality of attention I get would increase.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-02-18T01:41:16+00:00

I have become extremely distrustful of people that say any variation "all they I'm looking for is (insert at most 3 extremely reasonable sounding standards"). TBF, some of the people that say this would still be struggling even if their extremely reasonable and even heroically unhallow standards were the truth. But they never are.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-18T16:16:07+00:00

Alright. I am over my coworker. I did alot of soulsearching, deprogrammed myself mentally and its like night and day. I just woke up a few days ago and noticed that i didn't care anymore.

I finally see her as the person that she is. Tbh, now i notice, she is kind of an awful person. Honestly. Why didn't i notice that before?

EDIT: Unrelated question. What are good icebreakers on OLD?

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-02-18T16:14:49+00:00

I truly hope this post is fake.

That lady is a mess.

My goodness

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-18T16:12:37+00:00

I have a question to some of the girls here. Have you ever not gotten the man u wanted? And how likely are you to get the man u want? I mean like out of every x number of men I've probably gotten x number.

liefelijk · 2023-02-18T16:03:29+00:00

Never thought I’d say it, but Athleta > Lululemon.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-02-18T15:40:26+00:00

In today's awful misspellings of common names on the apps...

Cydney.

I mean seriously, what the fuck name is Cydney.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-18T15:25:02+00:00

Q4All: Do you agree or disagree with the statement that "when you're with the right person, romance will feel easy"?

I ask because I've been in a bit of a slump lately- went on several dates this past week, the majority of which were meh. I'm trying to figure out if my game is off or if I'm just performing for the wrong audiences.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T15:00:17+00:00

If you want to be with a low n-count women then you don't have to hold yourself to the same standard

Just like how women who want a men who makes more money,tall,funny,has charm/chrisma

Preferences are preferences yet it always amazes how female preferences are seen as the gospel while male preferences are demonized

Preme2 · 2023-02-18T14:52:42+00:00

Two Becky’s find out they’re dating the same guy through TiK ToK. One of them was “dating” for 5 months.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-18T14:38:37+00:00

I'm going to sound cocky as fuck saying that my friends should listen to me more often, but they really should. My track record speaks for itself.

9.9/10 when I tell one of them "I don't know about this, seems a bit dodgy" or "I don't know if that's the right way to go about things" or "This is going to happen if you do that" I end up being right. Then they go "Damn I guess I should have listened to you after all."

No shit you should have listened to me, but you didn't want to think rationally did you? And whenever I ask them how many times I've steered them wrong, none of them can say I have.

Most of the shit I try to point out and help them with isn't even far fetched or complicated, it's common sense, yet they all seem to still fuckin miss it.

I won't lie it frustrates the hell out of me.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T14:29:56+00:00

Me and my friends were just talking about girls who are in relationships and still post naked photos of themselves, one of them even said "that's not your girl but the community's"

I swear those guys are gonna kill me with their humor but yea if your girl is posting herself naked on Instagram then I don't know who's girl is that

crazy_whiteboy29101 · 2023-02-18T14:26:41+00:00

More US States Consider Requiring ID to View Online Porn

Bruh if they are considering this then that is gonna be so embarrassing. SHIT MY RECORDS/LOGS ARE PROBABLY GONNA BE FILLED WITH A BUNCH OF MILF PORN AND THEY'RE GONNA BE ABLE SEE IT!!! This must be a joke. What if they start bringing it up whenever I'm at a job interview and they start asking me "So I see you like Cory Chase..." this is fucked man haha😂😂😂

liefelijk · 2023-02-18T14:21:39+00:00

It’s so bizarre to me how many of my 15 and 16 year old students have tattoos. Why would you sign off on your child getting a tattoo?

dbz_f · 2023-02-18T13:50:44+00:00

God I love my girlfriend so so SOOOOOOOO much

I would die for her

You guys have no idea how much I love her

JoeRMD77 · 2023-02-18T13:24:23+00:00

After being on here for a year it's pretty obvious that most guys are just lonely who post here. Actual attractive men with no mental disorders are far away from Reddit and the internet for the most part. I used to think maybe there were some fuckboys here but no they all sound the same after a while. They seen what more attractive men than them did to get attention and then they tried to do the same.

That's why af/bb is so prevalent and so is the talk of about having no confidence. Only guys getting shot down from women all the time are going to get low confidence.

I think the reason why everyone thinks incel and RP is the same as because really it is. In cells start off thinking they have to change all these things about themselves to be attractive to women when blue pill naive optimist have about the same luck doing nothing. This is where the hate comes in from people who are just getting by from people who are busting their ass.

The blue pill guys are getting dates just because they don't sound like incels in the DM's.

big_lenad · 2023-02-18T13:23:07+00:00

A friend of mine who has slept with lots and lots of women (had double digit amount of gfs at one point) said he’s not starved for sex anymore. He’s ok with doing favors for and just hanging out with women without expecting anything in return. He tells me that if he had a gf and all they did was talk he’d be chilled about it because he’s had enough sex.

StupidWhiteBoi · 2023-02-18T13:13:20+00:00

Muh hypocrisy police have been awfully quiet:

These young freshmen girls going for upperclaasmen in highschool are doing what young women naturally want to do, be with upperclassmen that have status, muscle, height, cars, jobs, etc. These freshmen girls don't have any of that, which blues don't seem categorize, as hypocrisy, interesting.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T13:04:30+00:00

Numbers Game

This tells that they should be having 1 or 2 other women available while currently going on a date with a women

Because there's obviously a high possibility of the date going bad or the women getting what she wanted his Time,attention,free meal/drink etc or he didn't even sleep with her by the end of the date

At maximum 1 or 2 women

Joelypoely88 · 2023-02-18T12:13:30+00:00

Interesting. So if anyone has noticed the bot on this sub which replies 'Lol, comment straight out of r/....', I think the keywords which trigger it are 'friendzone' or 'girl/woman + friend' in the same comment.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T12:07:04+00:00

Don't feed her until you fucked her

This tells guys that they must do any dinner dates until they have had sex with the girl

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T11:50:28+00:00

The hive-mind is part of the "girl-code"

And the girl-code is nothing but a group of woman coming together and decieving men at this point

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-18T10:52:44+00:00

man im so fucking big.

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-18T10:45:44+00:00

Ok guys: hold everything!

He actually warmed my spot in the bed. He got my spot warm, and then when I crawled in, he wiggled closer to me.

No casual guy can do that. This is why we do partnerships. This is why we only let the best in our beds. I do love him. I guess he still really loves me too...

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-18T10:31:35+00:00

Q4a: is it really slutshaming if you finally break down and call a rudez unprincipled person a name? Not because of their genitaks or promiscuity, but because they did something objectively morally wrong in their efforts for a nut/validation?

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-18T10:20:20+00:00

Update: my husband said he loves me and touched my butt. I do feel better. It may not be much, but I just love him. We will get through this, we always have.

Ylduts · 2023-02-18T10:14:47+00:00

Patrice O’Neal asked it best. If you were in an accident and your vagina had to be removed how would you keep your current partner?

Novadina · 2023-02-18T09:10:57+00:00

every NORMAL person participates in fattening up themselves, their friends their children and their family members despite the fact that they are contributing to the devaluation of one another because eating junk food is fun

Apparently I’m a total weirdo for not fattening myself and my family up. The anti-health sentiment that seems to be a thing these days is so weird.

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T08:45:05+00:00

Another thing l have noticed between men and women, is that men show their romantic interest in women by being confrontational aka approaching

While women tend to lead by body signals like playing with their hair while speaking to a guy or other stuff and hoping the guy will figure it out

Ylduts · 2023-02-18T07:59:28+00:00

As a society I believe that everyone should be given an equal opportunity, however we currently implement a system that qualifications don’t matter after a certain point, quotas matter more. This is inherently racist/sexist and I don’t think this is the best way to achieve equality.

Ylduts · 2023-02-18T06:40:14+00:00

The pendulum has swung so far in recent times, I’m actually considering having a daughter so I can recoup some of my money.🤷‍♂️

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T06:39:50+00:00

I think there's universal traits in guys when coming to dating and women

Every guy has had that moment where if they didn't approach the girl they liked for a long time then their mind would keep on nagging them

Every guy has been a simp at one point in their lives

Every guy has just wanted to be good with women

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-17T22:28:57+00:00

the real fourth

Gospel-RP · 2023-02-18T06:12:17+00:00

Interesting thing l have noticed between the two genders is that when a men gets a girlfriend, he will not introduce her to his group of friends

But when a woman gets a boyfriend she will be quick and excited to introduce him to her social circle of friends

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-18T06:07:28+00:00

Y'all betas are complaining about women wearing workout clothes to work out, meanwhile Chad at work is getting a talking to for wearing gray sweatpants to a wet dish pit.

I told him the first day that he was out of code. That was when he KEPT wearing them. Please kill me. At least he got a talking to now.

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