Daily Community Chat Megathread

sine120 · 2023-12-03T05:53:24+00:00

CMV: "Santa, baby" is the gold diggers national anthem.

derektheaccountant · 2023-12-03T05:10:01+00:00

It's interesting to me that when we talk about physical safety in dating/when going about your day, we ONLY consider women, and no one even considers the idea that men can also fear for themselves while meeting new people on dates or when in public in night or in dangerous areas.

As if women can't be violent and stronger than an individual man, or have a weapon that overcomes the strength disadvantage, or that a man couldn't be mugged in a bad area, or harassed.

These fears seemed to be talked about as uniquely female, when this is not true in any way. It makes you realize that people just don't give a shit about men, and especially their physical safety.

derektheaccountant · 2023-12-03T04:24:11+00:00

awesome ghosted again after talking to this girl for a couple weeks

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-12-03T04:08:26+00:00

what's a celebrity that's universally considered attractive that you aren't attracted to in the slightest?

first one that comes to mind is that girl who played wednesday addams

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-03T03:42:21+00:00

Oh hey my fiance won one of the raffle prizes for 100 dollars worth of groceries. So you know, a modest trip to the grocery store now.

scwizard · 2023-12-03T03:39:29+00:00

Do trans guys ever fuck themselves with their packer?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-03T03:29:04+00:00

Name or show a picture of a woman you think most guys would find hot. Like one that has the broadest appeal to most guys.

3PointTakedown · 2023-12-03T03:25:50+00:00

It finally fucking happened I matched with a MILF

🥵 🥵

She's coming over Friday and she's so fucking fine oh my god

keebydee · 2023-12-03T03:24:42+00:00

Well, it's almost time for bed. I know what I'm putting on for myself to go to sleep to. 😏😏

https://youtu.be/VILIHZbEabY?si=7swpb-r9PcAZEa4Y

keebydee · 2023-12-03T03:22:49+00:00

It's been a slow day..😪

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-03T02:25:07+00:00

one time I saw a comment on nofap that said after cutting out porn their libido dropped drastically and even though that might just be cope, I do wonder how many "high-libido" men are actually just average libido but the constant exposure to horny content makes them become "high-libido" just by proxy

would men be just as horny if they didn't have titties and sex constantly shoved in their face by media? I dunno

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-03T01:34:32+00:00

I'm at my fiances work Christmas party and they served prime rib with only plastic utensils to cut it with lol

its-probly-over · 2023-12-03T01:24:55+00:00

My bro is a simp. Literally been listening to him talking to his girl on a phone call for the last 20 mins and all he’s been saying is ‘you are so perfect omg’ ‘why are you so beautiful’ ‘your face is just perfect’. Etc

Man this isn’t even remotely romantic it’s just cringe at this point someone make this stop lol. bro is certified cringe.

monster_lily · 2023-12-03T01:20:00+00:00

I want lip filler

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-03T01:18:38+00:00

More women would support patriarchy if men used it to support and protect women instead of abuse and demean. Looks at countries like Afghanistan and tell me that women should support this.

saraimarsena · 2023-12-03T00:41:00+00:00

i’m going clubbing for girls night tn

saulbasedman · 2023-12-03T00:32:12+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cv0VkTXLXJs/?igshid=NTYzOWQzNmJjMA==

I find this hot as fuck but how do women like that even exist? Like how could an ass that thick have possibly survived during the Hunter-Gatherer times, or during the medieval times where people barely ate anything? Truly pondering life questions at 1:32 am

saulbasedman · 2023-12-03T00:17:58+00:00

Having a high sex drive while not being an attractive man is truly a curse. I wish God balanced us so that less attractive men were proportionally less horny.

Even if that was the case however, it would simply mean that most ugly men would die off anyways with the few ugly men who have high libidos remaining and passing on their genes.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-03T00:16:00+00:00

Ever meet someone who likes to trauma dump but like its entertaining/they play it off like it's not really that upsetting so then you hang out with them and then they drop a bomb on you? Like a "holy shit I can't handle this" type of thing? Bc that happens to me fairly often. Like damn dude that sounds horrifying

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-12-03T00:02:46+00:00

Festive season sex hits differently. Happy Festive Season Y’all!

keebydee · 2023-12-02T23:14:20+00:00

For every one therapist that does in-person, 40 others do online only and the one in-person therapist is far away. Like a 30+ minute drive away. Online just feels so watered down, I can't do it. I need that privacy and connection of actually being in person. I have no clue why online is the norm. Glad to see that the therapy industry is just as crappy since I was a kid. I doubt they would've been able to understand my traumas anyways.

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-02T22:58:24+00:00

Does anyone know some YouTube channel or a website for thorough sex education? My high school and parents didn't really help there.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-02T22:52:11+00:00

I always thought she was mid, average

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/1894sle/dude_just_found_out_what_makeup_is/

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T22:38:42+00:00

Grrr can they unpin that survery thread

saraimarsena · 2023-12-02T22:38:28+00:00

i wonder if the daily will get less activity now that it’s slightly less easy to find

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T22:36:17+00:00

Guys so today was pretty fun we didnt go to the parade but we did go to like an arcade + lazer tag place w my friends and bf and there was like a machine where i hit the jackpot and got 1,000 tickets so with that i got like slime which i gave away, a bunch of candy and then vampire teeth and a stress toy which i also gave away 😇

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-02T22:15:44+00:00

I just visited 4chan and saw videos of women giving birth. She strained and a weird liquid spewed out. I was like 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 wow that looks awful. Reminded me of health class where they showed a woman giving birth.

That shit ain't no miracle it looks nasty af. I've decided if I have kids I'm not letting my man see me like that. How could he possibly find me attractive anymore when I'm squirting amniotic fluid and shitting myself? So he's banned from accompanying me.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T21:26:51+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/rhk1TFTYKU

Ain’t no way this is real. I would assume most women would have enough self respect to leave a relationship if her bf farted in her face 🤣🤣🤣🤣

DarayRaven · 2023-12-02T21:19:26+00:00

Guys need to stop giving their height stats everytime they've a problem, because really nobody cares

Everytime l watch this call-in shows, the guy can't get to the point without mentioning his 6'2 or 5'11 or whatever

Seriously you guys aren't nba players

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-12-02T21:19:18+00:00

Why is it normal for women to stop having sex with their husband? What if men just stopped talking to their wives?

After hearing about sexless marriages, I could never get married. I thought the whole point of marriage was to have a loyal sex partner.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-12-02T21:07:24+00:00

What is it with some women wanting to be pursued. You say no, I say aaite cool and head off....only for you to diss me about being too cowardly to pursue or whatever. I always take a no as a NO and respect that. What gives ? 🤷

meteorness123 · 2023-12-02T20:51:42+00:00

Andrew Tate needs to get over his daddy issues

DarayRaven · 2023-12-02T20:48:00+00:00

The term "incel" is used as a bullying word nowadays, since people need a public enemy nr1 just the PUAs

No man is a incel because it is not impossible to get laid, if you wanna get laid, you'll find many ways around the hypergamous filter

meteorness123 · 2023-12-02T20:32:27+00:00

Everybody who has a supportive family and who doesn't have insane parents is to be envied.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-02T20:19:11+00:00

I don't understand the women who say their bf isn't originally their type or they weren't physically attracted at the start but they like him anyway.

I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone who's not my physical type or that I wasn't physically attracted to them on first meeting. I would feel like I settled and be a little resentful against her. And I would feel bad for her if I did settle like that because I would be a lot more attracted to other women, so she wouldn't be getting the part of me or the treatment by me that comes out when I'm very attracted to a woman.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-02T20:13:13+00:00

All your relationship problems, your views on the opposite sex, stem from your early childhood and especially your relationship with your mother or father as an infant. All the talk about hypergamy, feminism, partriarchy is a massive coping and pain-prevention mechanism to protect you from you real problem.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-02T19:41:32+00:00

There's a time and place for sluts. I don't want to marry or breed with them but there's a time and place for them. They are very fun.

What I'm saying is, I'm back.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-12-02T18:52:40+00:00

Has anyone figured out what the end game scam is of matching with women on bumble, they eager to get to talking on whatsapp, sending suggestive photos, but then disappearing out of thin air? It's now happened 3 times within a month. I don't get the angle.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-12-02T18:52:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/188zkmo/my_27f_sister_25f_bf_29m_and_parents_49f_and_52m/

Thoughts on this? I support abortion as a right largely for situations like SA, instances where the couple wont be able to provide a quality life for their child, or severe birth defects.

This girl more or less unilaterally behind his back decided to terminate what would've been her and her boyfriend's child, with both he and her sister and her brother in law offering to raise the child. That's gotta be brutal for the boyfriend, excited about the prospect of being a father and then he gets zero say in the matter whatsoever.

I think it was an incredibly selfish decision and don't blame her bf for breaking up with her or her family for not talking to her anymore. Her body her choice, yeah yeah whatever. Her choice, and their choice not to be apart of her life anymore.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-02T18:46:34+00:00

Q4F: how do you judge if a man is saying the truth? Is there a specific tone and cadence of speech associated with honesty, or a look in the face, or anything else?

baiser_vole · 2023-12-02T18:45:03+00:00

Fresh mozzarella is life. It makes me so happy.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-02T18:33:35+00:00

r/chadposting

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T18:33:27+00:00

Q4All: I couldn’t imagine having a porn addiction if I had a girlfriend/maiden in my life. It makes me think there’s something else at play. Like there are really only four scenarios imo.

I’m curious which scenario do you all think would be the most likely reason for a man to have a porn addiction while in a relationship?

Scenario 1: Dude is just lost in the sauce at porn. For whatever reason he has a favorite pornstar or favorite video that he has to watch/yerk it to. It’s not about addiction, it’s a lifestyle to him.

Scenario 2: He does not find his girlfriend/maiden attractive. This makes the most sense to me. He might only be in the relationship because having a maiden is better then no maiden and only has sex with her when he is really down bad. Since he is not attracted to his gf, the only way he can get off is to watch porn.

Scenario 3: Might secretly like men or discovering bisexuality. This would also make sense to me, as maybe having sex with his maiden is nice but he still has that other side of his sexuality unfulfilled. So he watches hella gay porn.

Scenario 4: Obsessed with hentai. This one also makes a lot of sense because while real maidens are very lovely, one might also be able to say that anime maidens rival if not surpass the irl ones. So while he does love his gf, he also loves anime women.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-12-02T18:32:17+00:00

Look better.
Talk better.
Fuck better.

There you go the three pillars of getting laid more. Every man must know his limits and whether his goals are worth trying for.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-02T18:00:51+00:00

This is probably the first Chris Williamson podcast episodes that isn't terrible. https://youtu.be/XieCU9nzrl8?si=cmREJnyEnZahyxmH

DarayRaven · 2023-12-02T17:56:07+00:00

When women here list the traits of a HVW, they are always wrong and inaccurate

This is a HVW:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CuKd6rVpB4M/

Man she's so bad 😫😫😫

Legitimate_Author289 · 2023-12-02T17:54:57+00:00

Looks maxing inspo for you guys: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0NzUWwL6fM/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T17:41:21+00:00

Nah we bout to have a face reveal on the DT real soon, I’ve been wanting to do a room reveal but at the same time it is Reddit and I’d hate to start the trend only for a user to post a pic of their room and in the corner all you see is their pee bottles 🤣🤣🤣

physious · 2023-12-02T17:26:30+00:00

You have to date somebody of the opposite sex in this sub of your choice. You can't force them to like you or do anything they don't want to do. You have to try your best to make the relationship work.

If they genuinely really like you after 1 month, you get a morbillion dollars.

How fucked (or not fucked at all 😔) are you?

Edit: If you currently have a SO, they die when a nearby pie factory explodes. They become a force ghost and tell you to date other people.

Edit 2: no you can't kill yourself sorry ladies

DarayRaven · 2023-12-02T17:19:38+00:00

I just wish most guys knew that women don't love you but instead love how you make them feel

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T17:15:55+00:00

https://x.com/contextdogs/status/1685330817633918977?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

Me and who❤️

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-12-02T17:13:49+00:00

So, Christmas is approaching fast. People with young children (are there any?), do your kids still believe in Santa?

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T17:13:27+00:00

Q4All: What would you rate her?

https://www.reddit.com/r/Doppleganger/s/9PrTX6KnKF

She would be a 3-4 for me. It’s clear she’s been blessed by the elder gods with her boobs but her face is weird looking.

Total_Yankee_Death · 2023-12-02T17:11:57+00:00

Why is it that when men make household decisions it's labelled as an exercise of power, but when women make household decisions it's labelled as a burden?

saulbasedman · 2023-12-02T17:05:13+00:00

Who in god's name gets a child and thinks: I want my kid to spend his entire youth playing games all day behind a screen instead of socializing and actually living his life like I did when I was younger. I'll get angry at him if he gets low grades in school and for the rest I don't care what he does.

My parents must've read a how to fuck up your child speedrun book or some shit. I no joke would've done better if they told me to do drink alcohol and do drugs from a young age.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-02T17:03:21+00:00

I have to side with the feminists here. Why be with a woman you even hate carpooling with?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/188m97b/i_am_convinced_most_husbands_hate_their_wives/

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T16:49:08+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvs8Kdn/

What I want to say here when guys wont stop complaining about no gf

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-12-02T16:45:37+00:00

Guys only claim young women have a dating on easy mode because they'd be hoeing it up and gold digging if they were young women.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-02T16:38:57+00:00

i like browsing through r/sadposting and seeing all these dudes posting sui/depression posts over having no gf. like I can't imagine female affection being this important that it makes them lose their minds

ratboi34 · 2023-12-02T16:34:29+00:00

Rate this guy. How much does the guitar playing, singing and sad guy aesthetic change his allure?

https://youtu.be/xXwrCDeoR5c?feature=shared

AspiringMogger · 2023-12-02T11:33:19+00:00

Having watched in real time r/tinder get blackpilled has filled me with immense joy. It used to be 90/10 non blackpilled thoughts. Now it’s 60/40.

happy_discus · 2023-12-02T10:33:29+00:00

Blue pillers be like:
If OLD doesn't work for you try talking to women IRL. (Where standards are the same and looks still trump everything.)

keebydee · 2023-12-02T08:08:51+00:00

I hate that the daily thread has been taking longer to restart. It's 3:00am where I am when it used to be like in the afternoon.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-02T12:37:42+00:00

If someone tells you they put their mother in a very expensive high standard nursing home

Would you think "ugh who do they think are flexing how rich she is"

Or "aww how sweet they care a lot about their mom"

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-02T10:36:51+00:00

How many physical fights have you been in? What do you think about people who have been in many fights?

its-probly-over · 2023-12-02T08:07:32+00:00

shout out to anyone that was conceived in the 90's and born in the naughties.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-02T09:56:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/VaHCe3sqzT once again I am begging people to wash their asses 🙏

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-02T11:52:54+00:00

My socialization efforts continue. I smoked a doob with newly arrived young hippie danish chad this evening. That guy is going to have a great 3 week vacation, lol.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-02T12:18:52+00:00

There's nothing wrong with not approaching women as a man.

I approached like 10-15 girls tonight. Brutal that not a single one hooked. All of them were uninterested and I was just begging them to talk to me and keep trying to say things to get them to become even a little interested back. If I stopped efforting, they would just stop talking to me, ignore me and text someone on their phone or talk to their friend. Most women just want to talk to their friends and don't want to get approached other than getting the quick validation of being wanted by men. Had some women who tried to get me to buy them drinks but I'm cheap AF and curved them.

People think it's some gotcha that a man isn't approaching women. No, there's little difference. You're barely the wiser after approaching women. You'll think the same and come to the same conclusions before and after.

saulbasedman · 2023-12-02T16:17:43+00:00

Imagine being attractive and knowing that you are attractive. That's why confidence is a meme. Attractive people will be more confident because people treat them well, leading to more confidence. Ugly people are less confident because people treat them worse, leading to less confidence.

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:51:55+00:00

It's hard for a woman to believe there's a malr loneliness epidemic if all the guys she's dating are multi dating.

devilsttower · 2023-12-02T09:24:00+00:00

Today I went over to see that lonely man who lives down the road from me. We held hands near the end of our time together. He didn’t want to let my hand go when it was time for me to leave. He’s too old for me. I’m 21 and he’s in his mid-thirties. But I really like him. He wants to talk to me every day. I think he loves me.

Gladboys · 2023-12-02T13:21:23+00:00

my student just started his SAT, going to perform my good luck rituals.

where do you guys think i should take him to celebrate afterwards, korean bbq, steakhouse, or omakase hmmmmm

DancesWithMyr · 2023-12-02T13:21:39+00:00

"There's no such thing as 80/20" https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/e58oA1OjeW

saulbasedman · 2023-12-02T13:40:30+00:00

Damn the small general store had some absolute cuties of my age working there. Too bad my chin is too small

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-02T14:06:16+00:00

I'm apart of a self improvement forum for men. After a 2 solid years of work, one of the guys went from dateless, to a now basically constant stream of casual sex.

The advice he followed?

The same advice that the women & successful men have been giving here all along.

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T14:24:08+00:00

Need

https://preview.redd.it/28jfumvh5w3c1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=94daa3161a9a7329ffc77bcd233058a7eedc6966

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T14:41:29+00:00

Does Lilith get all of her post/comments from ChatGPT?

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T15:06:03+00:00

Guys we aint going to the parade anymore 😢

0DarkFlirty · 2023-12-02T15:09:18+00:00

Got a venmo request from a girl I havent seen in almost 4 years. Forgot to block her there too. But let's have some fun first 😈

FuuraKafu · 2023-12-02T15:46:06+00:00

So almost every woman prefers their partner to be at least taller than them. For some women it's not an automatic deal breaker if the guy is shorter, but the preference is still almost always there to a degree. From what I have seen it's often said that it's this instinctive thing, and it makes women feel cute and feminine and protected.

Men don't usually prefer women to be taller than them - thank god, heterosexuality would be in some serious trouble otherwise. But why? What is men's instinctive stuff instead, and how do women see it?

I like to put it as men adore, women admire. Women's instinctive wants are closer to a feeling of being impressed, men's is closer to a feeling of endearment. Yes, there is overlap, it1s generalisation, yada yada... but on some level it's pretty damn predictably true, and I think this tallness preference is a good direct example of that.

Okay, so from here, I think it makes sense that men are easier too in general, and that's not just about the "wanting to hump unga bunga" caveman brain shit, but it even applies to the more wholesome, actually caring side of men. Think about finding an animal or a child or any cute being to be cute, how much does that take? It's a pretty easy feeling.

Women clearly, surely don't entirely hate this aspect of male sexuality, as evidenced by this symbolical preference for tallness, they kind of want it, even. They just prefer it to only exist when they are fine-tuned for it, when other conditions are met, when there is a connection on other levels too (the regular old normal human being level or whatever).

Okay, so from here, maybe women can put men's complaining about hypergamy into a bit of perspective. It's the "instinctive stuff" that we usually don't show in everyday life cause it's ANNOYING. That does make sense to women too, right? It's relatable, right? Do you not wish that it only ever existed when it wasn't annoying?

Hypergamy is kind of like infantilization. It's the equivalent of you seeing a lame dude talking about how he wants to be a protector, and you finding that cringe. It is what it is, but also, both genders should try to be forgiving of it, cause I don't think these instincts and desires are really fundamentally evil, they can be beautiful. So then it's more sad when someone is weirdly hung up on them in an unhealthy manner. Which happens, but all of this is a difficult and subjective balancing act, it's not that surprising that people sometimes struggle with it. So be a bit forgiving of it when you can.

/rant

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-12-02T16:07:53+00:00

One thing men and women have a common ground here is how delusional they are about the quality of the dating pool in their 30s. It's a cope by both sexes.

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:18:13+00:00

Boyfriend is an alcoholic struggling with some serious mental health issues/suicidal thoughts. Last night he had been drinking and driving. This morning he left (we live together) saying he was just going to get food and be right back. But it’s been several hours and I have not been able to reach him. I am really starting to worry. Any ideas on what I should do?

Hey it could be worse. He could be too boring. If he was too boring you'd have to break up with him.

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:29:03+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/189hn4i/feeling_attracted_is_not_an_obligation_to_act_on/

This queen calling out other women for staying with hot abusive guys "just to see where this goes."

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:56:27+00:00

Even if you and a manhad an entire night of sex and it was amazing and assume that he would want more of that, just like you do. Yeah, he does, but with a different woman. Like there was one time where we started around 9:00 and didn't stop till the sun comes up. I asked him in our Tinder conversation if you would like to do it again and he responded Yes. I asked when and he never answered me again. Like what about an entire night makes you not want that again

Ouch...

scwizard · 2023-12-03T08:19:16+00:00

More Chad stuff. Living with a woman for 5 years, having her raise the child your have with another woman, refusing to call her your girlfriend, and sleeping with other women the whole time.

I have raised a child and have fallen in love with my role even not being the biological mother of that child. His mother left when he was 6 months old. I and his father have now been “complicated” for almost 8 years now. He always says how great I am with his son and how I am his son’s mother. We have lived together for 5 years now but he has never made it official with me. Claiming he isn’t were he wants to be in life so he isn’t ready to commit.

And I'm sure you know what comes next...

I am 8 weeks pregnant right now.

when I found out I was pregnant and told him, his reaction was not what I wanted. He has always been against abortion but now wants me to have one. I agreed to it because I never want to bring a child into this world if it means they won’t have two loving parents. I don’t want to bring a child into a broken home. And I don’t want to be a single mother. I know I could make it work but I don’t want that for me or my child’s life.

The part that is hard for me is that I love him and I wanted this so bad and was actually so excited when I found out. I had that ripped from me and I feel like the chance to bring a child into this world is also being ripped from me. I feel like I have no choice. And I can’t bring myself to take that first pill.

That sounds like hell, having to raise Chad's child from another woman, but he won't let you have a child of your own with him.

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Total_Yankee_Death · 2023-12-02T08:05:47+00:00

Why do women have such big foreheads and small jaws, major ick tbh.

dbz__f · 2023-12-02T08:11:02+00:00

My gf just gets random guys she's never met or heard of adding her on instagram every day, like several a day. Women is this the normal experience for you?

its-probly-over · 2023-12-02T08:45:27+00:00

Social media + being mischievous is not a good mix. I had to delete the facebook app cus i got my self into too much trouble lol, reddit is okay cus im kind of anonymous but ive slipped up before

FuuraKafu · 2023-12-02T11:21:25+00:00

With what percentage of people in your life did you talk about whether female and male sexuality are different? Do you know what most people you personally know thinks of that?

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-02T13:38:17+00:00

Why do people get hurt and offended so much by something generalizing (men/females are x) that doesn't apply to them. It's irrational and I myself am guilty of it but can't get rid of it

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-02T14:30:44+00:00

Random observation: I find white nail polish to be quite sexy.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-02T14:32:37+00:00

"women rate differently in person than they do on apps"

How is this a consolation prize? It means the woman would only be into you in certain circumstances whereas you would be into her in all circumstances. It means her attraction to you is only circumstantial where as your attraction to her is real.

I think it is a good idea to break up with any girl who likes you (after you smash) because she doesn't really like you the way you like her and that is unfair to you. Stay toxic.

its-probly-over · 2023-12-02T14:34:32+00:00

Whats your guys favourite alcohol to drink? Me and a few friends drinking some henny and caramel au rn

saulbasedman · 2023-12-02T14:44:57+00:00

I went to another general store in my small town and saw an even cuter girl. Very good face with eyeshadow, black pantyhose and white skirt. Absolutely beautiful.

People post some mid Margot Robbie and be like "How DARE you find her mid?" while I can go to a small store in a small town and see a girl working the cash register that blows her out of the water.

Dusttyy · 2023-12-02T14:58:17+00:00

Randomly missing my ex this morning. She did some crazy and unforgivable shit, but the sex was amazing. She would initiate in crazy places that made it exciting. We got it on in the car, my office, in the woods while hiking, movie theater, and even her parents house while we were visiting for dinner. It's been multiple years since we broke up, I wonder if she still thinks about it too.

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T15:07:16+00:00

Guys anyone else scared of cellulite 😢

relish5k · 2023-12-02T15:10:14+00:00

Hey fellas, which of the following describes your area of concern:

the courts discriminate against men with regards to custody
fathers having joint or partial custody of their children is one of the factors that makes dating difficult for men
not concerned with either of the above

1 and 2 could both hypothetically be true, but you can only pick 1 to be your area of concern when it comes to the issues facing men

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T15:11:08+00:00

Anybody else love tangerines i could inhale them

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-02T15:19:08+00:00

Vaginas kind of freak me out ngl, they look really bizzare and make me feel a little woozy. Last time I said this most of the users here (men) said I must be gay but that’s simply not true. I’ve had “the sex” with my highschool gf/maiden and found it to be a very enjoyable and pleasant act of love.

I find maidens legs, feet (with anklet and nail polish), tummies, boobas, booties, hips, and their smol hands to be very attractive features so I know I’m def attracted to them it’s just that one little meat pocket that freaks me out.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-12-02T15:55:35+00:00

The dating arena is just one big episodes of Black Mirror. I'm tired of it. I'm weary.

ratboi34 · 2023-12-02T16:15:03+00:00

When a female friend repeatedly makes jokes about us dating or even marrying, tells me on multiple occasions that she had dreamed of me and whenever I ask what it was about, she responds with "I don't know". Then regularly wants to cook for me and suggests doing cute things like picknicking together. Tells me her mom sees me as the ideal son in law and then jokingly wants to make a pact with me that we will start dating if we are still single in 2-3 years, does that necessarily mean anything lol? Oh yeah, and she always gives like little hints for me to like hug her and shit.

monster_lily · 2023-12-02T16:19:16+00:00

Guys i have 1k karma

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-02T16:23:47+00:00

“A country that demands morality in its foreign policy can achieve neither perfection nor security" - Henry Kissinger

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-02T16:26:31+00:00

This could be me -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1892keu/my_boyfriend_called_another_guy_a_beta/

Ghutom · 2023-12-02T20:46:22+00:00

Book and research published on race and dating in the USA: https://mitpressbookstore.mit.edu/book/9780520293458 (also available on Amazon). All of the results published were based on a large pool of online daters who weren't aware that their dating choices were being recorded for research purposes. In economic terms we would refer to these as their revealed preferences instead of stated preferences (considering that the unknowing participants were unaware of the research being conducted and they have no fear of reprisal for being 'racist'). According to the study it seems like Asians and Africans have the lowest response rate even (I assume dark skinned south Asians will have even fewer dating prospects than their lighter East-Asian counterparts, the same phenomenon is probably true for light skinned black men with more gracile facial features compared to their dark skinned broad nosed counterparts).

Hypothesis: It seems like the best thing these ethnic men could do is pick partners which could correct or at least dilute their phenotype. That would probably give their kids the best outcomes not just in terms of their dating prospects, but in terms of their social life and economic prospects as well. Although the men dating out should still be respectful and avoid denigrating their women (but I haven't this take place from either men or women dating out IRL).

According to research on multiracial adults in 2015 in the US the overwhelming majority said it was an advantage: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2015/06/11/chapter-4-the-multiracial-experience/. So it seems like my hypothesis was correct, dating out is probably going to give their kids the best sociological and financial outcomes overall.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-02T21:52:41+00:00

This is a bit silly but every time I see someone with boobs or body similar to mine, I smile because it feels validating. Doesn’t happen very often, unfortunately.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-02T23:20:50+00:00

Been invited to this party next weekend, l'm not interested other than adding more bodies to my n-count

That's the only thing l look forward at that party

AFuzzyMuffin · 2023-12-03T02:59:52+00:00

Online is superior and allows therapist to keep costs low. Would you have payed more if the therapist came to your house personally?

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:01:34+00:00

I'm a attractive woman, who, apparently is more humble than she should be, according to some people. I work in a simple job, at the post office, and am fine with that. However, something that repeatedly happens is the following: I meet a man (in my private life), get asked what I do for a living. After a while of knowing that man, the man tells me about how I'm wasting my life working in a underpaid job, if I could "easily" make much, much more and have a "better" life, by using my looks. I even got offered to be "introduced" into sex work/porn businesses, by men of whom I wouldn't suspect that they have something to do with it.

Ok...

my ex boyfriend was only attracted to women with big breasts; my breast are exactly the opposite, they're small and pointy (which I personally find beautiful, cute and am happy with them cause they totally suit me). The situation was actually so bad that, not only he wouldn't have sex with me more than 5 times in total the entire year we were dating, he would tell me to change my clothes inside the bathroom, or while he is looking away.

So this attractive women will only date guys who don't find her attractive. Weird. I guess she gets the ick when guys tell her how beautiful she is.

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:36:11+00:00

Ten years ago I got out of my last long term relationship and I started a dating journal. I was 26 at the time and have since kept track of every date I've been on. Today I went back and read through most of it and found it fascinating. I'm sure some of the changes were from my personality and preferences evolving over the years as I got older, but some are definitely major cultural changes.

Anecdotal trends I noticed: Openly dating is much more open. It's common for men to openly talk about the other women they are seeing now. This NEVER happened ten years ago, it seems like it really changed after COVID.

What the fuck Chad is just casually talking about other girls he's dating these days, and women don't care at all?

scwizard · 2023-12-03T07:44:50+00:00

It just sounds like women are taking on more unnecessary risks for sex and disrespect? And paying for the privilege? Super weird.

Yeah it does tbh...

Split half the date, get ghosted by an ungroomed man who doesn’t work out, after he finishes inside you because he hasn’t worn a condom in years. I'll Pass.

Like I don't really know who's not passing.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-03T08:40:49+00:00

It’s Christmas season in Thailand and my partner wants to accept an invitation for Xmas dinner at our landlord’s palatial house on the outskirts of town. I’d rather stick a fork in my eyeball…negotiations are ongoing

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-12-04T07:24:33+00:00

I’m back, bitches.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-02T14:36:11+00:00

Something people and women should learn

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